FabSwingers.com forum: If we took away your job and all your material possessions

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

just how interesting are you?

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Very because I don't work and I still hold all the books I've read and the experience I've had in my head.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not, I'm boring, nothing to see here

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'm not, I'm boring, nothing to see here

That's not true!

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By *icolerobbieCouple
over a year ago

walsall

I’m boring with the job & all my possessions!

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By *il sub princessWoman
over a year ago

West Midlands

As interesting as you see me as on here

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By *lenderfoxMan
over a year ago

Leeds

I'd be pretty much the same, i'm not materialistic and my job isn't my life

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

My work and material possessions don't really feature here(apart from a digital device for access).

I'd be as interesting as I am on here. It's your individual judgement whether that is interesting or not.

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

All I have is me anyway

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

Id be boooooooooooored not boring

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Zero

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester

Possessions and material things don't make us who we are.

We all start out with nothing and leave with nothing.

They are nice to have and make life more comfortable but have no bearing on who we are.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am who I am take it or leave it simple

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would be the same. I don’t really have anything. I suppose if you took my phone there would be no pictures

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not at all! With or without

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

Does someone job & possessions make them interesting, I’d say not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Id be able to entertain for days with my fucked up life story

… seriously tho

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Does someone job & possessions make them interesting, I’d say not. "

Depends what job, I’d say my job was pretty interesting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Take the possessions, I like my job though believe it or not.

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

Imagine

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By *ausage1970Man
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

Oh well maybe less attractive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When the tenancy on my flat ended in 1998 I walked away from everything. I closed my business, got rid of all my stuff, left my partner and too to the road with a few changes of clothes. It was a very liberating experience.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well quite frankly, I hate my job right now but other than my mortgage i own everything else outright. That doesn't make me the person i am though!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You mean walking around naked talking to one another?

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

I've got the ability to lick for hours up my sleeve so I think that'd me sorted for interest.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

Very

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By *uddy laneMan
over a year ago

dudley

Interesting enough for people to stop in their tracks and say look at the dude with a forlorn vacant look on his mush.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

None of them define me. I'd miss my clothes and books tho.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm boring with them so I don't hold out any hope

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm skint as fook and own nothing exciting, my job is boring and certainly doesn't make me interesting, if anything it stifles individuality/creativity. So nothing would change, I'd be as dull as ever!

Thank god I have big boobs

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

I walked away from everything I owned. It's a liberating thing to do.

I've always done lots of things - I'm an explorer of life and I know how to have fun. What else is there?!

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Depends on how you define interesting. I have plenty I can talk about.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Materialistic things don't make people interesting there life experiences do and even people who have literally nothing can be the most interesting people to talk to.

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

"Does someone job & possessions make them interesting, I’d say not.

Depends what job, I’d say my job was pretty interesting

Does it make you interesting as a result though, something people would wish to know and constantly find out more ?

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By *yrdsisWoman
over a year ago

Gleam Street

"Depends on how you define interesting. I have plenty I can talk about."

Snap...

25 years in customer service, 4 of those in palliative care (early on)

I reckon I have some interesting conversations ahead if required.

If not... tough if you think I'm boring... I don't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I've just walked out of my job, and I'm not interested in material possessions , so you tell me ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Does someone job & possessions make them interesting, I’d say not.

Depends what job, I’d say my job was pretty interesting

Does it make you interesting as a result though, something people would wish to know and constantly find out more ? "

Depends who I’m talking to obviously, Pretty sure, I’ve got quite a lot of insight and things to share and disclaim, wondering if it’d end up in a gagging order

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Imagine

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Interesting responses.

Most people talk about theirs jobs, their cars, home improvements etc quite a lot. It makes conversation easy quite often.

But take them away.

You always have... Your life experiences, your views, opinions, beliefs, tastes plus a while lot more.

Your creativity, your drive.

Can you think of more?

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By *andare63Man
over a year ago

oldham

"just how interesting are you?

PW "

Such a good question. As someone has already stated, we enter this life with nothing and we leave with nothing. However between those two points we amass a wealth of life experiences. The inanimate objects we collect along the way are just bolt - ons. If someone was more interested in the bolt-ons than my life experiences then I wouldn't be interested in them

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

Immensely boring

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

My jobs just a means to living, and I have very little stuff. I sat on the beach yesterday drew a picture and wrote a poem though !

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

"Immensely boring

I'll add, I have few material possessions but my work does consume me, somewhat. So, I'm sticking with immensely boring!

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

"Does someone job & possessions make them interesting, I’d say not.

Depends what job, I’d say my job was pretty interesting

Does it make you interesting as a result though, something people would wish to know and constantly find out more ?

Depends who I’m talking to obviously, Pretty sure, I’ve got quite a lot of insight and things to share and disclaim, wondering if it’d end up in a gagging order

You might want to check your contract

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well on here, I would be the same since both those things aren't relevant to my Fab life!

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By *ittleAcornMan
over a year ago

visiting the beach

My job is fairly interesting if you're a techie geek...

...I therefore rarely talk about it!

Not many of my possessions are particularly interesting, maybe the art and my scooters, so they are not great sources of conversation either.

I know a little about lots of things, so I'm potentially interesting. But it's one of those things that's difficult to judge in oneself isn't it.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"Immensely boring

You shut your mouth

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

"Immensely boring

You shut your mouth

Make me

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

Think I might be more interested... than interesting if that makes sense?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well I've just walked out of my job, and I'm not interested in material possessions , so you tell me ?

You’re just as interesting with or without material.

Although the without material part holds my attention better

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pretty much how I lived after leaving Navy and again 6 years later when lost everything to a house fire.

I've lived a fun short life so can always spin a story and being Irish just adds to the charm.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The same I would say, my job doesn't define me, and I am not very materialistic at all.

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By *EAT..85Woman
over a year ago

Nottingham

I have lots of interests outside of work and my possessions definately don't define me so I'm going to say still fairly interesting

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By *andsome HandMan
over a year ago

roundabout

"Id be able to entertain for days with my fucked up life story

… seriously tho

That's hot

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By *andsome HandMan
over a year ago

roundabout

I'd still be as interesting as I am now. Not sure if that's a positive or a negative.

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

Interesting people ask questions... of other people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Neither my job nor my material possessions define me.. my personality would be the same without either of them.

My job suits my personality but it’s far too dull to talk about..

I’d still be the outgoing, gobby, risk taker without either of them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bold of you to assume I'm an interesting person with my job and material possessions

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By *ig1gaz1Man
over a year ago

bradford

It wouldnt bother me already been there, As ive had to start again twice.

The material things I would build up from other things.

That also includes work tools some items would be built from some bought tools.

No change for me.

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

I’d still be the ‘no shit Sherlock’ person

Possessions and material items don’t make a person who they are, they are just baubles that enhance life, not make it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My possessions and a job I have are not what make me interesting. I'd be fine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm boring as fuck and I have a job and possessions

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you strip away my worldly possessions and my job, there's still a fair amount left - I think! I have passion, and ambition for positive change and to make a difference. Boundless enthusiasm and curiousity too, as well as hopefully the odd good anecdote. I still also have my friendships, especially those close to me, as well as my experiences and memories. I'm also richer in time. There's probably a lot more if I pondered it further.

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By *urplechesterCouple
over a year ago

chester

Then I’d just be a beer guzzling lady! Pretty happy with that to be fair

Miss Pc

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By *opinovMan
over a year ago

Point Nemo, Cumbria

Very...

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

my job doesn't define me it pays bills.

Much more to both of us than meets the eye!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Much more interesting. I'll be doing more fun stuff with no work to worry about.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Without my job I'd have more time to do the things that help make me interesting

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By *iger4uWoman
over a year ago

In my happy place

"Well quite frankly, I hate my job right now but other than my mortgage i own everything else outright. That doesn't make me the person i am though!"

Same for me.

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By *ickyquimCouple
over a year ago

north west

"just how interesting are you?

PW "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well I've just walked out of my job, and I'm not interested in material possessions , so you tell me ?

You’re just as interesting with or without material.

Although the without material part holds my attention better

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

Take my kettle and tea bags and things would get very interesting.

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

I have nothing of value so not much change. Though if someone took my dogs I’d be lost

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

On Holibobs

I would be as interesting as I want to be

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By *ister-mischiefMan
over a year ago

Trafford

"Take my kettle and tea bags and things would get very interesting. "

I'm with you there!!

I'd happily spend a few years in a woodcabin,with no phone, no Internet etc. . but not me kettle!!

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By *lan157Man
over a year ago

a village near Haywards Heath in East Sussex

If you took away my job and my material possessions I would still have my friends and family and they would not walk away through lack of interest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have nothing of value so not much change. Though if someone took my dogs I’d be lost

I would become a raging psychopath if someone took my dogs !

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

"I have nothing of value so not much change. Though if someone took my dogs I’d be lost

I would become a raging psychopath if someone took my dogs ! "

Snap.. they’re my favourite company!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have nothing of value so not much change. Though if someone took my dogs I’d be lost

I would become a raging psychopath if someone took my dogs !

Snap.. they’re my favourite company!! "

Likewise, Gully is family… he might think he’s a cat and chase a squirrel up a tree and get stuck (true story) but he’s my dumb dog

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By *arakiss12TV/TS
over a year ago

Bedford

I would devise ways to rob banks..

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By *TastePurpleWoman
over a year ago

Norwich

My job.. eh, just to survive/earn money atm, I wouldn't particularly care.

My possessions? I'd be pretty bored as I'm a crafter, I love making things. I guess I'd hiss at you, run off to the woods and start making a spear with some flint... Goblin life!

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By *ettaManMan
over a year ago

Based in Kerry, work in Cork.

I'd say very interesting.

I'm sure a lot of people would be very interested in the story of the man who had his job and all his possessions stolen from him by a couple of swingers, from a swingers website, as part of some sick Hunger gamesesque quest for entertainment.

A lot of people would be interested. Especially the police!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My job and possessions in no way define me. What I do outside work defines who I am and how I live my life and treat others. I have very few possessions either.

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By *iss MaverickWoman
over a year ago

Cardiff

Read "The Invitation" by Oriah Mountain Dreamer

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By *andsome HandMan
over a year ago

roundabout

"I have nothing of value so not much change. Though if someone took my dogs I’d be lost

I would become a raging psychopath if someone took my dogs !

Snap.. they’re my favourite company!!

Likewise, Gully is family… he might think he’s a cat and chase a squirrel up a tree and get stuck (true story) but he’s my dumb dog

I was going to write in my original post "just to be clear my dog is not a possession and anyone who tries to take him will lose body parts" but I thought it was a tad aggressive

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

I think I'm good fun to be with.

I love to chat and watch the world go by as well put it to right.

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

I have some happy memories and the night sky to look at.

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By *edsLatinoMan
over a year ago

Bedford

I go bouldering, gym, exhibitions, I make music when I can. I'm not that boring I swear

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By *r.SJMan
over a year ago

Wellingborough

I've lost everything three times and grown to realise possessions, like people, come and go but with the interesting tapestry of life that has been... once started, I don't think anyone would be bored.

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By *omer47Man
over a year ago

leigh

I'd have FUCK ALL.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hubby would certainly become very interesting indeed. He doesn't like commies one bit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As interesting as I was before as my job definitely doesn’t make me more interesting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No one would be interested in me because of my job and I have no worldly possessions that make me more interesting

Now an I interesting

only one way to find out.

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

I’m trying it now…

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By *hat Guy with the RopesMan
over a year ago

Kingston upon Hull

Fascinating! My life has been a whirlygig of strange and wonderful adventures!

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