FabSwingers.com forum: Verifications

By *orthern Stars OP Couple
over a year ago

Durham

Do you show them? Do you not?

We can't decide whether to or not.

Just wondering what other people views are and the reasons as to why they do or don't show them.

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By *leanandkeenMan
over a year ago

jarrow

I show it helps to show that your genuine and can give people a better idea what they are like especially if they have been verified off someone they know.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do you show them? Do you not?

We can't decide whether to or not.

Just wondering what other people views are and the reasons as to why they do or don't show them."

To be honest I share some as I like to read someones I am interested in messaging to see if we would click

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't show mine anymore. Had some grief from someone about meeting someone on my old profile. Nobody's business who I have met.

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

I show some. I don't show others.

There's a variety of reasons for those I don't show, not least there are a couple of people who appear to have had a very different experience when I met them to actual reality.

And quite frankly, I've met enough good people for socials that it should be obvious I'm real by now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I keep them private, to ensure privacy and confidentiality of those I've been with. If a connection is made and someone asks, I'll make them available for them to read.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

I have a fair few. I show a handful - no obvious ones that someone has penetrated me with fingers or penis. I like the ones displayed, they remind me of happy times and come from some of my favourite people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We show ours, we'd rather people know what they're getting themselves into than wonder what we're hiding.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

I show the more interesting ones.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

Oh and some I won't show because people are... well, people.

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By *rMrsBrightsideCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle

We show a few, more the social ones though.

I have had someone message me about a meet I had because of a verification I showed once and although they were polite to me I didn’t like being pulled into any drama so it does make me think twice now about showing them.

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By *orthern Stars OP Couple
over a year ago

Durham

"We show a few, more the social ones though.

Kx"

Oh crikey, we would hate the drama too, thankfully we haven't experienced any of that.

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By *adyBugsWoman
over a year ago

cognito

"Do you show them? Do you not?

We can't decide whether to or not.

Just wondering what other people views are and the reasons as to why they do or don't show them."

Sometimes I do, sometimes I don’t. Some are from socials & some are from fun meets. Depends on my profile text & who or what I’m looking for.

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By *adyBugsWoman
over a year ago

cognito

"I show some. I don't show others.

There's a variety of reasons for those I don't show, not least there are a couple of people who appear to have had a very different experience when I met them to actual reality.

And quite frankly, I've met enough good people for socials that it should be obvious I'm real by now."

I haven’t met you…are you sure you are real

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I show some and keep changing which ones are on show.

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By *ookie46Woman
over a year ago

Deepest darkest Peru

I show my latest ones and also my summary

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would be nice if I had some verifications to make a choice about!

However, in a previous Fab life, I used to just show the green tick then share verifications temporarily if someone I was interested in meeting asked to see them.

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By *arkus1812Man
over a year ago

Finedon ,

I do not give them nor do I wish to recieve them.

I have seen ladies on her who have as many as six or seven webcam verifications within 4 hours of joining, it just makes a mockery of the whole system.

As a point of interest I never give feedback for products or services I have received on line, I do however financially reward tradesmen and restaurant staff, et al, when I have been given good service.

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

I only show social ones, anything else is between the other person & I, no one else’s business. Makes for an easier fab life too

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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago

somewhere, someplace

Some I show, some I dont, the ones I show are the ones I'm ok with, the ones I dont are not the most tasteful so I prefer to leave them hidden.

Most of mine are cam and social ones anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Seemed to do better when I didn't display them. Had some strange reactions now I've got mine displayed.

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By *orthern Stars OP Couple
over a year ago

Durham

"Would be nice if I had some verifications to make a choice about!

However, in a previous Fab life, I used to just show the green tick then share verifications temporarily if someone I was interested in meeting asked to see them. "

Quite liking this idea

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By *orthern Stars OP Couple
over a year ago

Durham

"Seemed to do better when I didn't display them. Had some strange reactions now I've got mine displayed."

That made me go and look

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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago

somewhere, someplace

"I do not give them nor do I wish to recieve them.

I have seen ladies on her who have as many as six or seven webcam verifications within 4 hours of joining, it just makes a mockery of the whole system.

How is it a mockery? Webcam veris can literally just be you sat there going hi it's me, chat for a while and boom get verified

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

"I show some. I don't show others.

There's a variety of reasons for those I don't show, not least there are a couple of people who appear to have had a very different experience when I met them to actual reality.

And quite frankly, I've met enough good people for socials that it should be obvious I'm real by now.

I haven’t met you…are you sure you are real

I think so...... we should sort that out

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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago

somewhere, someplace

"I do not give them nor do I wish to recieve them.

I have seen ladies on her who have as many as six or seven webcam verifications within 4 hours of joining, it just makes a mockery of the whole system.

How is it a mockery? Webcam veris can literally just be you sat there going hi it's me, chat for a while and boom get verified

To add veris are to prove you're real, not a bonkadvisor

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By *viatrixWoman
over a year ago

Redhill

I’m only showing the most recent ones... and I had something where some women were going through my veris and contacting the guys for meets. I didn’t like that, lol. Let them do their own legwork!

so I keep my aces close to my chest...

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

I show a couple from organised social events, who I meet in private is no-one else's business and there are too many on here who like to stir the pot x

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

"I do not give them nor do I wish to recieve them.

I have seen ladies on her who have as many as six or seven webcam verifications within 4 hours of joining, it just makes a mockery of the whole system.

Verifications aren't a feedback system. They are quite literally a verification of being the person that you say you are. Just because some people have decided that they'll use them like the Amazon or TripAdvisor review system doesn't mean that's how it should be.

So having 6 or 7 webcam verifications within 4 hours of joining just means those women went in the chat room and talked to people, thus verifying they exist.

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By *lenderfoxMan
over a year ago

Leeds

I show a select few, just so people can see I'm genuine and can get a flavour of my personality

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont show them, im not a fan of them.

Ive never looked at a veri and thought 'ohhh god yeh i want to meet her/them'

However i have looked at vari's and been put off meeting from them.

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By *adyBugsWoman
over a year ago

cognito

"Seemed to do better when I didn't display them. Had some strange reactions now I've got mine displayed."

Really? But yours seem quite complementary. Why would anyone react to something someone else left you?

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By *adyBugsWoman
over a year ago

cognito

"I do not give them nor do I wish to recieve them.

I have seen ladies on her who have as many as six or seven webcam verifications within 4 hours of joining, it just makes a mockery of the whole system.

How is it a mockery? Webcam veris can literally just be you sat there going hi it's me, chat for a while and boom get verified

To add veris are to prove you're real, not a bonkadvisor "

Is there a job as bonkadvisor? I’d like to apply

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to, but someone made a comment about how many we had. It put them off meeting us, so I’ve hidden them x

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By *ev_1Couple
over a year ago

Bickliegh

We show them some peeps don't like it that we have to many but we feel all verifs are good to show even if they are just socials x

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

I show most just because I can. Several are just downright ridiculous and I hope they do put off those with no sense of humour.

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

I just show everything! Literally!

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

We really only generally show social ones and party ones. The non displayed veri’s are a great reminder for us but there’s no need to show anyone else those.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't show mine anymore. Had some grief from someone about meeting someone on my old profile. Nobody's business who I have met."

Same thing happened to me so they're just for me now.

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By *tue555Man
over a year ago

Passed Beyond Reach

"Do you show them? Do you not?

We can't decide whether to or not.

Just wondering what other people views are and the reasons as to why they do or don't show them."

We have never shown our verifications either on singles or couples profile. We meet people because of who they are and not their verifications. Guessing it is different for us because we been on the scene for a while and a conversation normally tells us what we need to know.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I only show the ones that say I’m a shit shag.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I do not give them nor do I wish to recieve them.

I have seen ladies on her who have as many as six or seven webcam verifications within 4 hours of joining, it just makes a mockery of the whole system.

How is it a mockery? Webcam veris can literally just be you sat there going hi it's me, chat for a while and boom get verified

To add veris are to prove you're real, not a bonkadvisor

Is there a job as bonkadvisor? I’d like to apply

Theres an oral presentation to do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tend to avoid even getting sexual veris so the vast majority of mine are from fab socials.

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

I show mine, but they're all socials. I don't need a veri for a meet, that's private.

They let people know I'm real and approachable.

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By *heSofaDestroyersCouple
over a year ago

HereAndThere

We show the ones that show our personalities best

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have mine showing because I like to open about things. I wouldn't expect drama from anyone over them but I know it can happen on here.

I would hide graphic ones though if ever written.

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

I no longer show mine after I was made aware that someone was tracking who I was meeting and creating a fuss about it. Now I don’t show any of them at all. It saves those with green eyed monster tendencies getting their knickers in a twist!

I have some great memories reading back on them though

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By *orthern Stars OP Couple
over a year ago

Durham

"I show most just because I can. Several are just downright ridiculous and I hope they do put off those with no sense of humour.

I enjoyed reading them

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

We show our more recent ones, some have been lost because the profile has been deleted or we have blocked them for some reason. We also have quite a few repeat meets so often only show the most recent one. Some we don't show because we are no longer in contact with the profile which left it.

Oh we also have one verification which is so over the top we were not sure it was about us.

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By *B..Woman
over a year ago

Wiltshire

Same as many of the reasons above, some people are just too interested in whom I meet

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

I show some recent ones, but I have had messages about people I've met in the past. It's a weird site for that sort of crap.

I tend to leave veris only when someone verifies me, just in case they feel a bit less open about them than I am!

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

"I show most just because I can. Several are just downright ridiculous and I hope they do put off those with no sense of humour.

I enjoyed reading them"

Ha ha thanks

they’re sadly true too…

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just post my social ones

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I should have veris but re-joining again at the start of the pandemic, it seemed unfair to ask people

Now, honestly, I don't have the headspace (nor time) to be meeting, so again, they're just not a priority

You guys know I'm good and there's a few that would vouch for me if needed and, right now, that's all that matters

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By *cloversCouple
over a year ago

Hull

We just show our summary - that's enough hopefully for people to know we are real human beings!

We stopped showing the veris after being cyber stalked by someone & another of our lovely single men being asked why we had met him but not them (they were a couple who also felt they had exclusive rights to him)

We can't be doing with the drama Llamas!!

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By *orthern Stars OP Couple
over a year ago

Durham

"I should have veris but re-joining again at the start of the pandemic, it seemed unfair to ask people

Now, honestly, I don't have the headspace (nor time) to be meeting, so again, they're just not a priority

You guys know I'm good and there's a few that would vouch for me if needed and, right now, that's all that matters

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not sure I would really. People can jump to assumptions on here

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By *EAT..85Woman
over a year ago

Nottingham

I've only ever met 2 people

Uhhm, but seriously on my last profile I only showed a few funny or caring ones. It's clear I'm real after a point.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Quite a few people I’ve met have now left fab so sadly there verification text went with them…

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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago

somewhere, someplace

"I dont show them, im not a fan of them.

Ive never looked at a veri and thought 'ohhh god yeh i want to meet her/them'

However i have looked at vari's and been put off meeting from them.

That last part for me as well actually, knowing when to steer clear for one and a few other reasons

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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago

somewhere, someplace

"Quite a few people I’ve met have now left fab so sadly there verification text went with them… "

Snap.... I dont miss the veri text though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The ones I've got and display are the only ones I'll ever have. Even if I meet anyone else, I don't want or need a Veri. They cause more drama than they are worth.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Quite a few people I’ve met have now left fab so sadly there verification text went with them…

Snap.... I dont miss the veri text though

Oh I do I had some really lovely ones that were nice to read back but

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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago

somewhere, someplace

"Quite a few people I’ve met have now left fab so sadly there verification text went with them…

Snap.... I dont miss the veri text though

Oh I do I had some really lovely ones that were nice to read back but

Yeah mine were way over the top graphic never displayed so don't miss at all

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By *orthern Stars OP Couple
over a year ago

Durham

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By *orthern Stars OP Couple
over a year ago

Durham

Thank you for all the contributions, interesting to read. We have hidden some veris.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Quite a few people I’ve met have now left fab so sadly there verification text went with them…

Snap.... I dont miss the veri text though

Oh I do I had some really lovely ones that were nice to read back but

Yeah mine were way over the top graphic never displayed so don't miss at all

Sozzzz

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By *urplechesterCouple
over a year ago

chester

We never have ours shown on our profile, and haven’t even considered it tbh! No one we’ve been messaging has asked to see them either! Miss pc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I show 'em all...verifications I mean.

The way I see it if I've met you I'm not ashamed to show it.

My life, my choice.

The main reason though is so others know what I'm about and get an idea of the real people I meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We do and we look for them on other profiles. Helps some of the fake ones out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I read them if people display them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m glad this post has been put up - I thought I was the only one that pondered over veris and if to show them … I actually have this on the bottom of our profile -

*I have a love/hate relationship with veris … torn between showing them as it gives others a different perspective of us … and preferring to keep them private

We do have some on show - I like the ones that do give a different perspective of us … or say something lovely about us as a couple rather than what we’re good at lol - I’m not a fan of those graphic ones

Interesting comments on here xx

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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago

somewhere, someplace

"Quite a few people I’ve met have now left fab so sadly there verification text went with them…

Snap.... I dont miss the veri text though

Oh I do I had some really lovely ones that were nice to read back but

Yeah mine were way over the top graphic never displayed so don't miss at all

Sozzzz

Stealthy, invisible, filth bag

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Seemed to do better when I didn't display them. Had some strange reactions now I've got mine displayed.

Really? But yours seem quite complementary. Why would anyone react to something someone else left you? "

I have absolutely no idea. They're not overly vulgar etc. Just had one or two fairly hostile reactions to a first message and when I asked why the veris were to blame.

Strange folk!

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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago

Shangri-la

I used to show them on my previous profile but it resulted in a bit of uninvited drama and actually made me leave the site for a while. When I rejoined I chose to keep verifications off my profile.

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Holibobs

I show all of my social veris and none of my sexual veris, its my business who I am meeting for sex

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By *ittycenMan
over a year ago

south west

I just wish that those who have verified me hadn’t left the site, as I think having received verifications but not displaying any could be viewed with suspicion…

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By *orksRockerMan
over a year ago

Bradford

"I show all of my social veris and none of my sexual veris, its my business who I am meeting for sex"

Exactly this and for some time now, don't show social ones.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thank you for all the contributions, interesting to read. We have hidden some veris."

Try hiding the veri summary... or showing all of your veris. Different things attract different people.

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

I show some from socials but no sexy stuff on there

they are far more trouble than they’re worth. If you want to keep things private the only way to do that is to not tell anyone

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish

"I show some. I don't show others.

There's a variety of reasons for those I don't show, not least there are a couple of people who appear to have had a very different experience when I met them to actual reality.

And quite frankly, I've met enough good people for socials that it should be obvious I'm real by now."

Again I show some (most) but not others.

Some I don’t show because they’re a little explicit for my liking (I’m happy for people to know we had great sex but I’m not into pornographic detail).

Some I don’t show due to fab politics/unpleasantness. Pre-lockdown I had what I termed a ‘Peachy hate group’ who messaged every young hot guy (oddly they had no issue with me meeting ‘un-ripped’ guys close to my own age) I met to tell them that I slept with anyone and everyone - had every STD known to man - and that meeting/showing a verification from me would guarantee that no ‘decent’ woman would ever meet them. Hence they hid my verification no matter how amazing a meet we’d had, and we never met again ofc.

I’m sincerely hoping that these ‘ladies’ all found new hobbies over lockdown!

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By *erfectman122Man
over a year ago

from somewhere nice

I show some times and other times hidden

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I show some. I don't show others.

There's a variety of reasons for those I don't show, not least there are a couple of people who appear to have had a very different experience when I met them to actual reality.

And quite frankly, I've met enough good people for socials that it should be obvious I'm real by now.

Again I show some (most) but not others.

Some I don’t show because they’re a little explicit for my liking (I’m happy for people to know we had great sex but I’m not into pornographic detail).

I’m sincerely hoping that these ‘ladies’ all found new hobbies over lockdown! "

That's horrible but also snacks of jealousy. I really don't understand some people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Usually mine are hidden. I have one on show just now because it was so lovely and he's a very old friend.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Quite a few people I’ve met have now left fab so sadly there verification text went with them…

Snap.... I dont miss the veri text though

Oh I do I had some really lovely ones that were nice to read back but

Yeah mine were way over the top graphic never displayed so don't miss at all

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

I took all verifications down 18 months ago because of a stalker issue and couldn't display them again until site restrictions were lifted.

A couple of weeks ago I was contacted by a woman who claimed to have found my profile through a verification I had given to someone she knew through her local updates.

After just a few messages she started to push for a meet in spite of what it says in my profile.

When I refused she contacted another of my verifications and told her to back off.

When I challenged her on this she said she was doing me a favour and then launched into bodyshaming in her final message before she was blocked and also in her status.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They’re hidden due to the sheer number of green eyed monsters on a swinging site. You couldn’t script it.

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish

"I show some. I don't show others.

There's a variety of reasons for those I don't show, not least there are a couple of people who appear to have had a very different experience when I met them to actual reality.

And quite frankly, I've met enough good people for socials that it should be obvious I'm real by now.

Again I show some (most) but not others.

Some I don’t show because they’re a little explicit for my liking (I’m happy for people to know we had great sex but I’m not into pornographic detail).

I’m sincerely hoping that these ‘ladies’ all found new hobbies over lockdown!

That's horrible but also snacks of jealousy. I really don't understand some people. "

It had me in tears on occasion - but wouldn’t now. Hopefully they’ve all taken early retirement.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I show some. I don't show others.

There's a variety of reasons for those I don't show, not least there are a couple of people who appear to have had a very different experience when I met them to actual reality.

And quite frankly, I've met enough good people for socials that it should be obvious I'm real by now.

Again I show some (most) but not others.

Some I don’t show because they’re a little explicit for my liking (I’m happy for people to know we had great sex but I’m not into pornographic detail).

I’m sincerely hoping that these ‘ladies’ all found new hobbies over lockdown!

That's horrible but also snacks of jealousy. I really don't understand some people.

It had me in tears on occasion - but wouldn’t now. Hopefully they’ve all taken early retirement.

I’m so sorry, lovely.

That really shouldn’t happen

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over a year ago

"I show some. I don't show others.

There's a variety of reasons for those I don't show, not least there are a couple of people who appear to have had a very different experience when I met them to actual reality.

And quite frankly, I've met enough good people for socials that it should be obvious I'm real by now.

Again I show some (most) but not others.

Some I don’t show because they’re a little explicit for my liking (I’m happy for people to know we had great sex but I’m not into pornographic detail).

I’m sincerely hoping that these ‘ladies’ all found new hobbies over lockdown!

That's horrible but also snacks of jealousy. I really don't understand some people.

It had me in tears on occasion - but wouldn’t now. Hopefully they’ve all taken early retirement.

I’m so sorry, lovely.

That really shouldn’t happen

Blimey

… I’m amazed other ladies would actually do that?! Jealousy is one thing - to feel it and grumble about it - but actually sending messages like that?!? I hope who they sent to realised the kind of person who’d do that would not be someone they’d like to meet

I’m glad it doesn’t bother you any more P xx

… and there was me thinking I just don’t like the graphic veris - hadn’t even thought of other crap that could happen because of them

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish

"I show some. I don't show others.

There's a variety of reasons for those I don't show, not least there are a couple of people who appear to have had a very different experience when I met them to actual reality.

And quite frankly, I've met enough good people for socials that it should be obvious I'm real by now.

Again I show some (most) but not others.

Some I don’t show because they’re a little explicit for my liking (I’m happy for people to know we had great sex but I’m not into pornographic detail).

I’m sincerely hoping that these ‘ladies’ all found new hobbies over lockdown!

That's horrible but also snacks of jealousy. I really don't understand some people.

It had me in tears on occasion - but wouldn’t now. Hopefully they’ve all taken early retirement.

I’m so sorry, lovely.

That really shouldn’t happen

Blimey

I’m glad it doesn’t bother you any more P xx

… and there was me thinking I just don’t like the graphic veris - hadn’t even thought of other crap that could happen because of them

It’s a funny old world isn’t it?

Having said that - it can also be difficult when someone you really like and had an amazing time with then displays an equally ‘amazing’ veri from someone else soon afterwards. It can bring out a whole world of emotions. On no other platform would people be expected to display all aspects of their sex life in intimate detail. I think this can often be the crux of the problem tbh. Not so much for couples as you already have your ‘someone special’.

But for singles it can take a while to get your head around the idea - and I think it can be problematic.

I know I could never have handled that side of fab had I joined at a much younger age.

Hence whilst I could never excuse all the jealousy and unpleasantness that happens on fab - to some extent I can understand it.

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By *isAdventure69Woman
over a year ago

Hampshire

I show the recent ones sometimes and not at other times… I know I’m not helping,

I guess it depends if I’m actively “looking”.

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

We show ours, mainly social however there is a consistent pattern to them which captures a hint of who we are.

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By *orthern Stars OP Couple
over a year ago

Durham

"I show some. I don't show others.

There's a variety of reasons for those I don't show, not least there are a couple of people who appear to have had a very different experience when I met them to actual reality.

And quite frankly, I've met enough good people for socials that it should be obvious I'm real by now.

Again I show some (most) but not others.

Some I don’t show because they’re a little explicit for my liking (I’m happy for people to know we had great sex but I’m not into pornographic detail).

I’m sincerely hoping that these ‘ladies’ all found new hobbies over lockdown! "

That's absolutely horrendous. We really struggle to comprehend how some people's minds work. It's really quite sad that people can stoop so low. Hope you still manage to have plenty of fun on this site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do you show them? Do you not?

We can't decide whether to or not.

Just wondering what other people views are and the reasons as to why they do or don't show them."

Do men ever actually read the profile???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

the one I've hidden, seem to attract the wrong kind when its shown to the public....

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