FabSwingers.com forum: No blocking until......

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

If you receive a message from the forums....shouldn't the sender not be able to block until recipient has replied or blocked sender? Or some period of time has passed?

Just starting a conversation x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No.

The system works fine.

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

No. It makes no difference where the message has come from, the right and ability to block should be the same.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"No.

The system works fine."

So I message you and be horrible but I cant block until you reply or block? That way people getting horrible messages get at least 1 message to reply back?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If someone wants to rant but have no accountability for their actions.

Let them, small wins for the small minded

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I was looking at some old messages I had from things I posted in the forums, all the nasty ones I couldn't reply because they had sent message then blocked!!!! I want my right to reply......I dont really, im just starting a thread x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not getting blocked generally seems to have a simple golden rule that works really really well, based around respect and behaviour.

Can't remember the exact wording, but I think it goes something like

'Don't behave like arsehole an and then you won't blocked get.'

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

Just laugh at their petty little shit lives and move on lol

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

Also, delete those messages. Why have you kept messages from people being horrible to you?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Not getting blocked generally seems to have a simple golden rule that works really really well, based around respect and behaviour.

Can't remember the exact wording, but I think it goes something like

'Don't behave like arsehole an and then you won't blocked get.' "

See thats not what the thread is about.....its about people sending abuse then quickly blocking so you can't reply

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

Yes that's very annoying! Not just from the forums but messages In general when u can have your say back! But only infuriating for a minute or 2 x

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By *ore4fundevonCouple
over a year ago

West Devon

"Just laugh at their petty little shit lives and move on lol "

This

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

If someone sends us a nasty message then instantly blocks us, we just look at it as entertainment. They are obviously childish and not the type of people we would want to communicate with anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No.

The system works fine.

So I message you and be horrible but I cant block until you reply or block? That way people getting horrible messages get at least 1 message to reply back?"

Or be a bigger person, block and move on without getting down to their level of being horrible back.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

Why would you keep those?? Unless they make you laugh, delete them.

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

"Not getting blocked generally seems to have a simple golden rule that works really really well, based around respect and behaviour.

Can't remember the exact wording, but I think it goes something like

'Don't behave like arsehole an and then you won't blocked get.' "

U dont have to behave like an arsehole to get blocked by some here! X

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Why would you keep those?? Unless they make you laugh, delete them. "

Abit lol especially with my countdown x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" I was looking at some old messages I had from things I posted in the forums, all the nasty ones I couldn't reply because they had sent message then blocked!!!! I want my right to reply......I dont really, im just starting a thread x"

Going off topic but I’m interested what was the stuff you said in the threads ?

Anyway yeah that has happened to me on a good few occasions!!

The sender isn’t looking for a reply and when it happened to me it was probably justified in fairness !

Still funny

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Going off topic but I’m interested what was the stuff you said in the threads ?

Anyway yeah that has happened to me on a good few occasions!!

The sender isn’t looking for a reply and when it happened to me it was probably justified in fairness !

Still funny

God...could be anything with me lol,its slightly annoying when they have misunderstood the post and before I can correct them...im blocked....not bothered much,just like to start threads x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The best function would be to have all messages deleted when blocking / blocked.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Going off topic but I’m interested what was the stuff you said in the threads ?

Anyway yeah that has happened to me on a good few occasions!!

The sender isn’t looking for a reply and when it happened to me it was probably justified in fairness !

Still funny

God...could be anything with me lol,its slightly annoying when they have misunderstood the post and before I can correct them...im blocked....not bothered much,just like to start threads x"
haha mate I’ve been on some of your threads !

Yeah I’ve had the same situations come up but usually with complete dip shits looking for someone to bite on there complete bullshit !!!

And I was only to happy to help !!

It Only leads to me getting banned !

Look if someone is hitting you up in PM for what your opinions are on a thread that’s fake to me so I wouldn’t worry mate

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

"No.

The system works fine.

So I message you and be horrible but I cant block until you reply or block? That way people getting horrible messages get at least 1 message to reply back?"

Just giving energy to toxic people by replying

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not getting blocked generally seems to have a simple golden rule that works really really well, based around respect and behaviour.

Can't remember the exact wording, but I think it goes something like

'Don't behave like arsehole an and then you won't blocked get.' "

This, on the flipside if you send abuse expect to get blocked

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By *onb21Woman
over a year ago

Cardiff

It's the virtual slamming the door behind them, isn't it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not getting blocked generally seems to have a simple golden rule that works really really well, based around respect and behaviour.

Can't remember the exact wording, but I think it goes something like

'Don't behave like arsehole an and then you won't blocked get.'

This, on the flipside if you send abuse expect to get blocked"

Never been rude to a women on here or in a PM ever !

And done getting worked up on here over nonsense!

No matter if I’m justified It’s just not a good look

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just see it as the rubbish taking itself out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not getting blocked generally seems to have a simple golden rule that works really really well, based around respect and behaviour.

Can't remember the exact wording, but I think it goes something like

'Don't behave like arsehole an and then you won't blocked get.'

This, on the flipside if you send abuse expect to get blocked

Never been rude to a women on here or in a PM ever !

And done getting worked up on here over nonsense!

No matter if I’m justified It’s just not a good look

Oh no, I didn't mean you at all! sorry if it come across that way!

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

If I've deleted a message without replying and the guy kicks off they tend to send their "You're such an entitled fat cunt" message and immediately block before I can respond. If I didn't respond to the original message it's highly unlikely I'll respond to abuse, but I guess the logic of that escapes them.

I view it as the rubbish taking itself out, but I make sure I've also blocked (just in case they change their mind).

I don't need to reply, I'm happy for the block to be immediate!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not getting blocked generally seems to have a simple golden rule that works really really well, based around respect and behaviour.

Can't remember the exact wording, but I think it goes something like

'Don't behave like arsehole an and then you won't blocked get.'

This, on the flipside if you send abuse expect to get blocked

Never been rude to a women on here or in a PM ever !

And done getting worked up on here over nonsense!

No matter if I’m justified It’s just not a good look

Oh no, I didn't mean you at all! sorry if it come across that way!"

Oops

Ok I take back that abusive PM messages I just sent you

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

I've been posting in the forums for over 2 years now and I'm still waiting on my first abusive message.

I've had a few comments aimed directly at me publicly in threads I've started or on others but I've never had anyone disagree with me in direct messages.

Therefore I can't speak from experience but as others have said I would delete those messages and move on.

I've seen too many people obsessing over what others are doing on here and dissecting and analysing every forum comment they believe is about them even when it is obviously not.

Random messages from random people on the internet should not be ruining your experience.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've been posting in the forums for over 2 years now and I'm still waiting on my first abusive message.

I've had a few comments aimed directly at me publicly in threads I've started or on others but I've never had anyone disagree with me in direct messages.

Therefore I can't speak from experience but as others have said I would delete those messages and move on.

I've seen too many people obsessing over what others are doing on here and dissecting and analysing every forum comment they believe is about them even when it is obviously not.

Random messages from random people on the internet should not be ruining your experience. "

Sent.

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By *lirty-CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Bexley

"Not getting blocked generally seems to have a simple golden rule that works really really well, based around respect and behaviour.

Can't remember the exact wording, but I think it goes something like

'Don't behave like arsehole an and then you won't blocked get.'

See thats not what the thread is about.....its about people sending abuse then quickly blocking so you can't reply"

But why would they read your reply even if they didn't block you? It's all in your head at that point.

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

If someone were nasty or horrible I wouldn't want to engage with them on any level.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not getting blocked generally seems to have a simple golden rule that works really really well, based around respect and behaviour.

Can't remember the exact wording, but I think it goes something like

'Don't behave like arsehole an and then you won't blocked get.'

This, on the flipside if you send abuse expect to get blocked

Never been rude to a women on here or in a PM ever !

And done getting worked up on here over nonsense!

No matter if I’m justified It’s just not a good look

Oh no, I didn't mean you at all! sorry if it come across that way!

Oops

Ok I take back that abusive PM messages I just sent you

It's ok, I like your tatts so you can send all the abuse you like

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not getting blocked generally seems to have a simple golden rule that works really really well, based around respect and behaviour.

Can't remember the exact wording, but I think it goes something like

'Don't behave like arsehole an and then you won't blocked get.'

This, on the flipside if you send abuse expect to get blocked

Never been rude to a women on here or in a PM ever !

And done getting worked up on here over nonsense!

No matter if I’m justified It’s just not a good look

Oh no, I didn't mean you at all! sorry if it come across that way!

Oops

Ok I take back that abusive PM messages I just sent you

It's ok, I like your tatts so you can send all the abuse you like

Your just been nice now !

I went low it wasn’t called for my bad

To be clear !!!

Clouds aren’t just for kids and dinosaurs probably did exist I was just been your typical asshole !

I would of PM you but I see you already blocked me !

Before I got to reply I might add

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t understand any of this thread.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

"I don’t understand any of this thread."

Should People who send shitty messages be stopped from blocking you before the recipient gets their right to reply out of the way?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don’t understand any of this thread.

Should People who send shitty messages be stopped from blocking you before the recipient gets their right to reply out of the way? "

Think my cloud & dinosaur message maybe threw him for a loop !

But you summed it up perfect

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I don’t understand any of this thread.

Should People who send shitty messages be stopped from blocking you before the recipient gets their right to reply out of the way? "

Why couldn't you say that at the beginning? Lol x

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By *rMojoRisinMan
over a year ago

Sheffield

… til Brooklyn

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"… til Brooklyn"

Just got it lol

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

"I don’t understand any of this thread.

Should People who send shitty messages be stopped from blocking you before the recipient gets their right to reply out of the way?

Why couldn't you say that at the beginning? Lol x"

Soz.... Was busy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Also, delete those messages. Why have you kept messages from people being horrible to you? "

this!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to have two profiles on fab. (Good for catching dem catfish)

If someone did the old "troll and stroll" I would message them on my secret profile then block them. 100% childish but sooooooooo satisfying ;-p

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I receive abuse on a daily basis, usually because I won’t meet a blank profile with no pictures at 3am in the morning just so I can “suck him off”

at first I will admit I used to get pissed off by it and I would react, then after time It just started going over my head, so if they want to send me abuse then instantly block me, then that’s actually handy, saves me having to click the block button haha x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you receive a message from the forums....shouldn't the sender not be able to block until recipient has replied or blocked sender? Or some period of time has passed?

Just starting a conversation x"

I actually agree with you on this. I have had nasty messages myself for simply expressing an opinion on the virus forum. I think maybe the reply by PM link should be removed too, to stop this kind of behaviour. It is a way people use to get around forum bans sometimes too, I think...

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

No I don't really see the point if I get abuse which I rarely do I just block anyhow. Why would I let some random person piss me off so much that I need to reply to their abuse anyhow ? I'm a grown adult not a drama filled teenager . I just block back delete the message and forget about them.

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By *hancer666Man
over a year ago

Redbourn

I never block, I just don't read it and/or respond. Now that..... makes them incensed. People just need to grow some thick skin,just don't read it and put it on a forum, as perpetrators of said not very nice message will be wetting their knickers over it

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

Pmsl! Just had a block! And he got last word in dam it!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Pmsl! Just had a block! And he got last word in dam it!

Frustrating isn't it? Lol

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

Really not bothered. I wouldn’t reply anyway so wouldn’t know if I was blocked or not. Never had a nasty message for forum people though.

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

If I had received an unpleasant message...I'd like the right to reply before said blocking.

In fact to send such a message and then immediately block without a right to reply I think is bad form.

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

"Pmsl! Just had a block! And he got last word in dam it!

Frustrating isn't it? Lol "

Yes and of all things it was about doctors receptionists!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Pmsl! Just had a block! And he got last word in dam it!

Frustrating isn't it? Lol

Yes and of all things it was about doctors receptionists!

Its not even about abuse its about having a comeback

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