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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ladies and couples it’s all about me this thread I know dangerous but if I sent a polite message that showed I had read your profile and it wasn’t sleazy how many would respond

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By *ersey GirlCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

we would reply "youre only looking to meet women so not for us"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"we would reply "youre only looking to meet women so not for us"

s"

Oh dear I probably should have noticed that I have changed it lol

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

I'd only respond if you said you were in my area and FAF.

As I believe I have proven many times. Yet still, no fuck for me. Have you been lying to me Paul? Were you in fact not in my area any of those times?

(Please note, this is not actually a serious answer. The serious answer is I'd respond)

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By *etwifeandhim69Couple
over a year ago

Darlington

We would be asking how the hell you got past our message filter.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'd only respond if you said you were in my area and FAF.

As I believe I have proven many times. Yet still, no fuck for me. Have you been lying to me Paul? Were you in fact not in my area any of those times?

(Please note, this is not actually a serious answer. The serious answer is I'd respond)"

Haha paul tells no lies

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

Flagrante

We try to answer all messages but obviously wouldn't go anywhere as our profiles are a total mismatch.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

All other things being equal we would probably respond but that's not guaranteed. Sometimes I genuinely miss a message

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

If I were hunting then sure

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon


"I'd only respond if you said you were in my area and FAF.

As I believe I have proven many times. Yet still, no fuck for me. Have you been lying to me Paul? Were you in fact not in my area any of those times?

(Please note, this is not actually a serious answer. The serious answer is I'd respond)

Haha paul tells no lies "

I am a comedy genius this morning.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do always try and answer even if a thanks but no thanks - it only once you keep messaging after that - I just block if you dont understand no thanks

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

Without it being forum based? No.. not actively looking and wouldn’t consider someone that far away that I hadn’t met already.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"All other things being equal we would probably respond but that's not guaranteed. Sometimes I genuinely miss a message"

When I was getting started here you were both always very polite and helpful. Nice to see you both again now I'm back

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By *EAT..85Woman
over a year ago

Nottingham

If there was wit or clever cheekiness, possibly. It would completely depend on my mood at the time also though.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We try to answer all messages but obviously wouldn't go anywhere as our profiles are a total mismatch. "

Completely understandable

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If there was wit or clever cheekiness, possibly. It would completely depend on my mood at the time also though. "

I will wait until you’re in a flirty mood then

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Visiting Blackpool

We wouldn't respond, sorry. Nice tat though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn’t

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By *ickyquimCouple
over a year ago

north west


"Ladies and couples it’s all about me this thread I know dangerous but if I sent a polite message that showed I had read your profile and it wasn’t sleazy how many would respond "

If it was last weekend then you might have had a response as I turned the male filter off to see what it’s like for ladies on here. But then again I had so many messages you might have been missed. I turned the filter back on as it was nuts! Hats off to all you luscious ladies out there looking for men. I didn’t realise how crazy it is for you on here.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"All other things being equal we would probably respond but that's not guaranteed. Sometimes I genuinely miss a message

When I was getting started here you were both always very polite and helpful. Nice to see you both again now I'm back "

Crumbs that was 7 years ago it seems. Nice to see you back

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By *izzy.miss.lizzyCouple
over a year ago

Pembrokeshire


"Ladies and couples it’s all about me this thread I know dangerous but if I sent a polite message that showed I had read your profile and it wasn’t sleazy how many would respond "

doubt you would pm little old me,

but out of politeness, I would reply if you did.

Was how I was raised, rude not to.

But not looking for males so any invitation would receive a very polite "thanks but no thanks" from me.

Unless you are fetching a dark haired or red head bbw to watch me play with, of course...! x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On the whole I reply to most people that have read my profile and message me if it sounds like a match.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for the honesty guys

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

Ty but no ty as you don't live in Reading. But then you wouldn't have messaged me had you read my profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thanks for the message next time I am down in London maybe we should “ hook up ” for the night x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, absolutely not

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

Ours would be "thanks for the message but we only meet couples, good luck in your search "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d say thank you for reading my profile, you’re through to the next round, pack your bags Paul you’re going to Barbados for boot camp.

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

We do try to reply to all messages, it's not that much of a task for us as we don't receive too many messages.

We do understand why single ladies don't reply to every message as they often receive hundreds.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"No, absolutely not "
now that’s cheeky

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I’d say thank you for reading my profile, you’re through to the next round, pack your bags Paul you’re going to Barbados for boot camp. "

Yes what essentials shall I bring

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's easy. If you'd read my profile you wouldn't be messaging

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By *onb21Woman
over a year ago

Cardiff

'I'm not interested, sorry.'

But you already knew that because it says in my profile I'm looking for someone who lives locally.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yes if your profile says local only and I’m not I wouldn’t message

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