FabSwingers.com forum: Grabbing the attention….

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So folks….

What grabs your attention?

The risqué profile pic? The status? The bio?

What is it that tells you about someone? Do you read their bio over? Do you take in their pics and decide what type they are from there?

Is it a word or a photo that puts a cheeky inquisitive smile on your face?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's often the combination, a bio and/or message that expresses we may be similar minded, there picture that catches the eye.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

An interesting forum post that shows the person has a few active brain cells. And then I have a nosy at their bio and sometimes I think, hell yes.

The thing that tells me most about someone is actually meeting with them/having a proper call with them. A profile is carefully curated (or tries to be) to show the person in their best light.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It's often the combination, a bio and/or message that expresses we may be similar minded, there picture that catches the eye.

What jumps out? Key words?

Type of pics used?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I cannot lie it's tits and fannies for me

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"An interesting forum post that shows the person has a few active brain cells. And then I have a nosy at their bio and sometimes I think, hell yes.

The thing that tells me most about someone is actually meeting with them/having a proper call with them. A profile is carefully curated (or tries to be) to show the person in their best light."

Do you dwell over their profile for some time… picking out the parts to focus on?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I cannot lie it's tits and fannies for me

Like the honesty

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

"So folks….

What grabs your attention?

The risqué profile pic? The status? The bio?

What is it that tells you about someone? Do you read their bio over? Do you take in their pics and decide what type they are from there?

Is it a word or a photo that puts a cheeky inquisitive smile on your face?

It's a combination of things.

Far easier to say what puts me off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely the words for me, whether on Forum or profile. Of course the pictures form part of the interest too but they're easier to curate than the words, imo, and physical attraction really only begins for me when we meet in person.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"So folks….

What grabs your attention?

The risqué profile pic? The status? The bio?

What is it that tells you about someone? Do you read their bio over? Do you take in their pics and decide what type they are from there?

Is it a word or a photo that puts a cheeky inquisitive smile on your face?

It's a combination of things.

Far easier to say what puts me off

Do tell….

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All of it for me

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"All of it for me

So what type grab your attention then? Is it a specific word? Is it a certain style they portray? Is it how they show themselves through their photos in a particular type?

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

It’s the words and how they conduct themselves. A view of the profile can be enough to switch off any thought of chatting let alone meeting.

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

I tend to be drawn by tone, by that I mean choice of language, and content first. Only then will I look further. If there is a hint of arrogance, demands (not to be confused with expressing preferences), cockiness, these things will all put me off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I cannot lie it's tits and fannies for me

Like the honesty

Second that

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It’s the words and how they conduct themselves. A view of the profile can be enough to switch off any thought of chatting let alone meeting. "

The good & bad is wanted here… so what is it about a profile that switches you off?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I cannot lie it's tits and fannies for me

Like the honesty

Second that

lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Username/photo.. Then the profile language

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I tend to be drawn by tone, by that I mean choice of language, and content first. Only then will I look further. If there is a hint of arrogance, demands (not to be confused with expressing preferences), cockiness, these things will all put me off. "

Ooo key signs… what comes across as cocky rather than confident? What is a good trait agaisnt a bad 1?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I cannot lie it's tits and fannies for me

Like the honesty

Second that

The tits & fannies or the honesty comment ha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I cannot lie it's tits and fannies for me

Like the honesty

Second that

The tits & fannies or the honesty comment ha "

The honest comment ahaha

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

Their reply to the carefully constructed status I put up, I prefer to hunt in fab off the forums

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Username/photo.. Then the profile language"

What’s a good username ? And what’s a good photo?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Their reply to the carefully constructed status I put up, I prefer to hunt in fab off the forums"

I like that ‘hunt’

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

"So folks….

What grabs your attention?

The risqué profile pic? The status? The bio?

What is it that tells you about someone? Do you read their bio over? Do you take in their pics and decide what type they are from there?

Is it a word or a photo that puts a cheeky inquisitive smile on your face?

It's a combination of things.

Far easier to say what puts me off

Do tell….

Absolutely not

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"So folks….

What grabs your attention?

The risqué profile pic? The status? The bio?

What is it that tells you about someone? Do you read their bio over? Do you take in their pics and decide what type they are from there?

Is it a word or a photo that puts a cheeky inquisitive smile on your face?

It's a combination of things.

Far easier to say what puts me off

Do tell….

Absolutely not

Why not…. Share the secret ha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The profile says a lot and is a reflection of their personality most of the time. This is the first thing that attracts my attention, then I would look at the pictures etc. Also, the first message speaks volumes on how future conversations will go

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"The profile says a lot and is a reflection of their personality most of the time. This is the first thing that attracts my attention, then I would look at the pictures etc. Also, the first message speaks volumes on how future conversations will go

What makes a good conversation for you? What he can offer? What he has done? What he wants to do? Are these good?

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By *idsCouple1Couple
over a year ago

Tamworth

Mainly the way their message is composed and the language used! Literally the lack of dick pic attached to said message makes me happy haha..

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Mainly the way their message is composed and the language used! Literally the lack of dick pic attached to said message makes me happy haha.."

Well I am

Glad that I tick at least the ‘no dick pic’ attached to profile/message

rule

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

It has to be consistency. Age first to see if I will even read their profile. If they fall outside my age filters I don't look at pics or read the bio. Then location to see if it's worthwhile chatting followed by a combination of attractive pics, an enticing bio and their overall attitude in forum posts.

Any inconsistencies in the above and it's a red flag to be avoided.

A bio that says they are discreet and reserved attached to a gallery of gynaecological pics with lots of others in them is a big no.

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

Their profile bio to see if we have anything in common.

Their photos can show if they share interests.

The ability to hold a conversation.

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By *adyBugsWoman
over a year ago

cognito

A picture of a nice butt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I cannot lie it's tits and fannies for me

What every man really wanted to say

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By *mily36CWoman
over a year ago

Beds (or anywhere beginning with B..!?)

"I cannot lie it's tits and fannies for me

What every man really wanted to say

What we all knew

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A cute face pic, a good few photos and a good write up…

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm drawn in by a nice smile and big arms but it's kind of interesting comments on forum threads that wins me over.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm drawn in by a nice smile and big arms but it's kind of interesting comments on forum threads that wins me over. "

Kind or interesting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A cute face pic, a good few photos and a good write up…"

And asking me questions on favourite dinosaurs

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"A picture of a nice butt

Hmmm so what warrants a nice butt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The offer of cake gets me everytime

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By *ate_BMan
over a year ago

London

I’m a sucker for curves so its usually the body type pics and the bio.

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

We look at pics first to see what they show - all cock pics or group shots or guys hanging out of women, then we wouldn’t be interested.

A decent bio is important too and that’s when you can get a good assessment of compatibility.

Basic bio - we probably aren’t going to respond to.

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

I look for bio, the length (of the profile!!) and whether it makes sense to me. Too short is not good, epic length is ok if filled with good = interesting content.

Does the user sound authentic or just repeating what he thinks women want to hear?

Rants in status updates are an instant turn off.

Pictures: A cock shot (no more than one if you must but not essential) but I do not want to meet a cock so a body or part body shot would be great.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"The offer of cake gets me everytime "

What type of cake?

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

"An interesting forum post that shows the person has a few active brain cells. And then I have a nosy at their bio and sometimes I think, hell yes.

The thing that tells me most about someone is actually meeting with them/having a proper call with them. A profile is carefully curated (or tries to be) to show the person in their best light."

In the lounge ..an amusing post..nice boobs or bum always been a bonus

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I look for bio, the length (of the profile!!) and whether it makes sense to me. Too short is not good, epic length is ok if filled with good = interesting content.

Does the user sound authentic or just repeating what he thinks women want to hear?

Rants in status updates are an instant turn off.

Pictures: A cock shot (no more than one if you must but not essential) but I do not want to meet a cock so a body or part body shot would be great. "

I might go check my bio out for length

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"An interesting forum post that shows the person has a few active brain cells. And then I have a nosy at their bio and sometimes I think, hell yes.

The thing that tells me most about someone is actually meeting with them/having a proper call with them. A profile is carefully curated (or tries to be) to show the person in their best light.

In the lounge ..an amusing post..nice boobs or bum always been a bonus

Which is priority? Boob or bum?

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

"I look for bio, the length (of the profile!!) and whether it makes sense to me. Too short is not good, epic length is ok if filled with good = interesting content.

Does the user sound authentic or just repeating what he thinks women want to hear?

Rants in status updates are an instant turn off.

Pictures: A cock shot (no more than one if you must but not essential) but I do not want to meet a cock so a body or part body shot would be great.

I might go check my bio out for length

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You actually have some nice pictures - I just had a look. And not a cock in site, just some nice shots.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I notice how they are within the forum's.

Do they have a fun and friendly nature and are they able to play well with others.

Then I'll look through their profile and I'll know if we can connect on a another level.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I look for bio, the length (of the profile!!) and whether it makes sense to me. Too short is not good, epic length is ok if filled with good = interesting content.

Does the user sound authentic or just repeating what he thinks women want to hear?

Rants in status updates are an instant turn off.

Pictures: A cock shot (no more than one if you must but not essential) but I do not want to meet a cock so a body or part body shot would be great.

I might go check my bio out for length

You actually have some nice pictures - I just had a look. And not a cock in site, just some nice shots.

Cock is saved for the moment of request

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good grammar

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The offer of cake gets me everytime

What type of cake? "

Homemade vanilla sponge, don’t even worry about the icing just hand me the slab

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

"An interesting forum post that shows the person has a few active brain cells. And then I have a nosy at their bio and sometimes I think, hell yes.

The thing that tells me most about someone is actually meeting with them/having a proper call with them. A profile is carefully curated (or tries to be) to show the person in their best light.

Do you dwell over their profile for some time… picking out the parts to focus on? "

No, I can't say I do. I do a veri trail because sheer nosiness is something I'm afflicted with but I'm not particularly interested in photos (bar lingerie that I'd like to own). I like profiles that aren't too try hard (to be funny or whatever) but it's subjective.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I look at everything. Pics, bio, veris. If I start chatting I'll want a phonecall or few. Most don't get that far.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bio for sure ! Some couples are so serious that at least we know we are not their cup of tea and not to message them. Couples having fun without showing every always get our interest to know more about them too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

An amazing sense of humour and pictures both grab me at first and then everything else follows.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I look at everything. Pics, bio, veris. If I start chatting I'll want a phonecall or few. Most don't get that far. "

Ooo I wonder how far I’d get

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Bio for sure ! Some couples are so serious that at least we know we are not their cup of tea and not to message them. Couples having fun without showing every always get our interest to know more about them too. "

Lucky couples is all I’ll say

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

Decent pics, followed by some relatively intelligent and possibly tongue in cheek bio text.

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

Tits

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

Honestly, it completely depends on how I'm feeling at the time.

Could be a comment or several in the forum, could be their profile. Often it'll be a really good picture or pictures.

Sometimes it's a message. And sometimes it's actually a really bad message.

I'd say more often than not it's a comment on a forum thread that makes me sit up and notice.

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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago

somewhere, someplace

Pics obviously draw me in, something different, thought put into then,then the profile, if they post on forums I'll gauge a sense of their personality etc

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By *ister-mischiefMan
over a year ago

Trafford

Bio first and foremost if there not what I am looking for or I am not what they are looking for then why take it further?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lucky couples is all I’ll say

Lol cheeky

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I cannot lie it's tits and fannies for me

What every man really wanted to say

I can handle the flack bro

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Lucky couples is all I’ll say

Lol cheeky

Cheeky is best

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By *inkyInkedBiWoman
over a year ago

Pics and how they are on the forum, their bio.

A nice bum too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pics n personality

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Pics and how they are on the forum, their bio.

A nice bum too

What should a bio say?

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By *adyBugsWoman
over a year ago

cognito

"A picture of a nice butt

Hmmm so what warrants a nice butt

Yours looks nice

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By *adyBugsWoman
over a year ago

cognito

"The offer of cake gets me everytime

What type of cake? "

Do you even need to ask that?? Surely type isn’t important

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"A picture of a nice butt

Hmmm so what warrants a nice butt

Yours looks nice

Only nice

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"The offer of cake gets me everytime

What type of cake?

Do you even need to ask that?? Surely type isn’t important

Haha some cakes are first choice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm drawn in by a nice smile and big arms but it's kind of interesting comments on forum threads that wins me over.

Kind or interesting"

Did I tell you, I do a lot of work for some very interesting charities.

#hitmeup

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm drawn in by a nice smile and big arms but it's kind of interesting comments on forum threads that wins me over.

Kind or interesting

Did I tell you, I do a lot of work for some very interesting charities.

#hitmeup

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So folks….

What grabs your attention?

The risqué profile pic? The status? The bio?

What is it that tells you about someone? Do you read their bio over? Do you take in their pics and decide what type they are from there?

Is it a word or a photo that puts a cheeky inquisitive smile on your face?

It's a combination of things.

Far easier to say what puts me off

Totally agree with this

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"So folks….

What grabs your attention?

The risqué profile pic? The status? The bio?

What is it that tells you about someone? Do you read their bio over? Do you take in their pics and decide what type they are from there?

Is it a word or a photo that puts a cheeky inquisitive smile on your face?

It's a combination of things.

Far easier to say what puts me off

Totally agree with this"

Name that list

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