FabSwingers.com forum: People viewing your profile

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Do others get annoyed by people looking at your profile that you are obviously not what they are looking for because of gender age ethnicity etc

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over a year ago

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By *oozleMan
over a year ago

high wycombe

Not really, people are free to take a look, most access it via forum posts I guess.

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By *n4MotionMan
over a year ago

Essex

No harm in people looking

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do others get annoyed by people looking at your profile that you are obviously not what they are looking for because of gender age ethnicity etc "

They can't see without looking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I rarely look at who has looked at me.

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By *xford_geekCouple
over a year ago

Cotswolds

No, I far prefer it. What is worse is when people message having not read what or who you are after (typically with the title "fancy a fuck I'm close")

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford

There’s no way to find out if you’re a match without looking at your profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope, anyone is free to look, fab,msg, wink..my choice to reply or not

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

Nope. Anyone can look

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

just hide your profileif you dont want people to look i do from time to time....just saying

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

I don't really even look at who's viewed me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do others get annoyed by people looking at your profile that you are obviously not what they are looking for because of gender age ethnicity etc "

No, they may not know whether you are what they seek until they've looked.

Plus, they can look just out of curiosity through forum posts.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah, boils my piss

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

No why would I

They are only looking

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

"Yeah, boils my piss

Liar

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Not really but we do wonder why sometimes

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By *jl1972Man
over a year ago

Bournemouth

It does make me wonder why so many "straight" guys look at my profile but doesn't actually bother me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yeah, boils my piss

Liar "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't really even look at who's viewed me"

Phew

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I rarely look at who has looked at me."

Lol must be thousands

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

"Yeah, boils my piss

Liar

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not really if you see someone out and about you like the look of you have a sneaky peek

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yeah, boils my piss

Liar

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, dont care really. Hide your profile if you don’t want people to look at it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yeah, boils my piss

Liar

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

"Yeah, boils my piss

Liar

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By *JcouplemidlandsCouple
over a year ago

Peak District

Not at all, people won't know they aren't what we are looking for until they look at the profile and read it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I rarely look at who has looked at me."

Nobody can because its unavailable lol

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

"Yeah, boils my piss

Liar

Are you always watching me and him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don’t get enough to feel bothered about it, you make profiles to be viewed anyways don’t ya

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yeah, boils my piss

Liar

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would rather they look and read before sending a message.

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

"Yeah, boils my piss

Liar

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It does make me wonder why so many "straight" guys look at my profile but doesn't actually bother me."

Probably to see what the competition is mate. I try not to look at guys profiles on here anymore as everyone seems to have a huge dick so it's depressing. Haha.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not at all. Look away that’s what it is there for

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do others get annoyed by people looking at your profile that you are obviously not what they are looking for because of gender age ethnicity etc "

No. What annoys me is that because I’m not a site supporter, I can’t always see who’s viewed me. If people view me, I’d like them to say hi or something

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

I message saying Hi x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I message saying Hi x"

I know you do sweetie xxx

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

"I message saying Hi x

I know you do sweetie xxx"

Yeah Keep it on forum

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By *ont you just loveCouple
over a year ago

Banbury

"No, I far prefer it. What is worse is when people message having not read what or who you are after (typically with the title "fancy a fuck I'm close")"

That's what annoys us, shows they can't read properly ...

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By *tephanjMan
over a year ago

Kettering

I have no problem with people looking at my profile, just wish they read it. I keep getting messages from men when it clearly states I'm straight

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I message saying Hi x

I know you do sweetie xxx

Yeah Keep it on forum "

xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And a lot of people obviously don't know how to use stealth mode OP. If I like a woman's profile I'll check all her veris to see what sort of guys she's been meeting. If they're all gym types/hung/young etc then I assume I might not be what she's looking for and saves me having to send message/her having to delete it. I would hazard a guess that most guys aren't looking at your profile to get themselves off.

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

"I message saying Hi x

I know you do sweetie xxx

Yeah Keep it on forum

xxx"

Xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Profiles are there to be looked at. How else will anyone know if they are interested in you. Messages are what counts.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just want a filter that if a cock is your profile pic you can't view me.

My who's viewed me section looks like a shopping site for dicks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not really no. Most only see my profile when I post a pic/ video or comment on the forums, so they don’t realise I’m not what they’re looking for or vice versa.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No it doesn’t bother me

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By *eilaandRickCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

No, not bothered

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

It's only a look

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By *JcouplemidlandsCouple
over a year ago

Peak District

"No, not bothered "

Good job, as we have just had a look

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

How can they tell they aren't what you're looking for without looking???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How can they tell they aren't what you're looking for without looking???"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, they need to look at your profile to see if you match their preferences

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By *batMan
over a year ago

Alicante, Spain. (Sometimes in Wales)

"It does make me wonder why so many "straight" guys look at my profile but doesn't actually bother me."

Looking for some inspiration from your profile text?

Want to copy some of your pics?

Read something you wrote in a post and want to know more about the author?

They are "Fab" straight?

Could be loads of reasons I suppose.

Gbat

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By *erfectman122Man
over a year ago

from somewhere nice

Not at all there free to take a look and decide

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How can they tell they aren't what you're looking for without looking???

Still waiting for the OP to come back an explain this?

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

Profiles are there to be looked at - unless they’re hidden of course

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

"Do others get annoyed by people looking at your profile that you are obviously not what they are looking for because of gender age ethnicity etc "

No. More power to them as I do the same.

I look at profiles that I know don’t fit what I am looking for just to check out their photos.

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By *mily36CWoman
over a year ago

Beds (or anywhere beginning with B..!?)

If people repeatedly look it's one way to know if there's some interest...maybe?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ok ok with it, I do it to lol

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By *aseMan
over a year ago

Gourock

Naw

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ok ok with it, I do it to lol "

I can tell when you've been on mine by the tongue drool you've left when you've slurped the screen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Feel free that’s why I post my pics

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

"Do others get annoyed by people looking at your profile that you are obviously not what they are looking for because of gender age ethnicity etc "

I rarely bother to check who has looked at me.

Without looking at a profile, you don't know if they they might be of interest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yeah, boils my piss

Liar

Are you always watching me and him

Girl, calm your titties

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By *rNaughtyNickMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

Go ahead and have perv

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By *unkym34Man
over a year ago

London

Nope have a look that’s what it’s there for. I don’t get annoyed with people looking at my shirt but thinking it’s not for them.

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

No it doesn't bother me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope, if you don’t look you don’t know

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

Why would it ?

There’s certain people I’d rather not look at me, especially those with status comments that are insulting of others or the site. But it’s the nature of the site to look and hopefully engage with strangers you’d not normally meet.

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By *heGateKeeperMan
over a year ago

Stratford

No far from it. I’m often more intrigued as to what brought them.

I also realise that because of stealth mode, I only know of about 10% of people who do look so I don’t overthink it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do others get annoyed by people looking at your profile that you are obviously not what they are looking for because of gender age ethnicity etc

No. What annoys me is that because I’m not a site supporter, I can’t always see who’s viewed me. If people view me, I’d like them to say hi or something"

I have a secret little work around that means you can see who is checking you out but keep it to yourself. PM me and I'll tell you what to do and it will only cost you £5 for 65 days of access.

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

No I don’t look

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not really what I find strange is the amount of times said people look aty profile but not looking for single guys or straight once yes twice but more weird.

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By *asycouple1971Couple
over a year ago

midlands

Nope.

We have serial viewers looking at our profile.

Most people that view our profile are not who we are looking for

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

"Would rather they look and read before sending a message. "

This

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

"Would rather they look and read before sending a message.

This

This seconded!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

love people looking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it bothers you , strangers looking at you on a site that purports to facilitate sex / encounters with strangers then you need another pastime

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By *mily36CWoman
over a year ago

Beds (or anywhere beginning with B..!?)

"Would rather they look and read before sending a message.

This

This seconded!

Unanimous... motion passed!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Happy for people to look, I turn ninja mode off sometimes because I want people to know I looked

You can’t tell my gender by my username so no wonder folk look.

Love it when a potential match has looked, sometimes I’m even brace enough to message. Could do with a reply next

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By *eorgesdad69Man
over a year ago

nottingham

I look because my current lover said he was straight! He fucked me again today and has done for last 7 months! I would not have found him if I hadn’t looked

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By *JB1954Man
over a year ago

Reading

Today at present 54 views. I would from that number assume at least 90% are males. This due to messages from them today. Yet on profile . I state not bi or bisexual. So these are chancers or do not read. All messages from males about meeting are blocked and messages deleted. Yes annoying . Could block all males . Sometimes asked on forums if can be private message, so leave open.

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By *rad670Man
over a year ago

South Lakes

I like that people view my profile, it's a sign that something is initially grabbing their attention and I have been messaged by people who are not apparently looking for someone like me so let them look and make their minds up if the like you.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

Profile views are meaningless. I visit people profile for many different reason including when i can't make out what their profile pic is of.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not at all..it's a compliment that someting about the profile caught their attention.

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By *alhamboyMan
over a year ago

West Sussex

"Do others get annoyed by people looking at your profile that you are obviously not what they are looking for because of gender age ethnicity etc "

It's not obvious to me why people move on after looking at my profile, since there's no feedback of any kind. It doesn't matter to me because those who do take the time to contact me are the ones I am looking for. Extremely rare for me but extremely good outcome.

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

Not really, it's weird when they continue to drop by without messaging though as they must like what they see

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No one looks so nothing to get annoyed by

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By *hillinsMan
over a year ago

Essex

Doesn’t bother me who looks at my profile, just glad that someone has really. Would be even better if they some left a message.

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

It doesn't bother me at all because strangely the last 10 or 12 people to view my profile have absolutely nothing in common.

Only a couple of them are interested in meeting men. I don't fit any of their age ranges and I'm certainly not local as they request so either their search options do not match their profiles or they just clicked on a forum comment.

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By *arkus1812Man
over a year ago

Lifes departure lounge NN9 Northamptonshire East not West MidlandsMidlands

"Do others get annoyed by people looking at your profile that you are obviously not what they are looking for because of gender age ethnicity etc

No. What annoys me is that because I’m not a site supporter, I can’t always see who’s viewed me. If people view me, I’d like them to say hi or something"

For the princely sum of 10p per day you could become a site supporter.

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By *rhugesMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

I get loads of looks especially if I write a story. I had over 40 in a day at one point. But sadly I had no mails from it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I get loads of looks especially if I write a story. I had over 40 in a day at one point. But sadly I had no mails from it

Over 40

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No let them have a naughty perv lol

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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago

somewhere, someplace

"I get loads of looks especially if I write a story. I had over 40 in a day at one point. But sadly I had no mails from it

Over 40

I any have looked at yours over 40 times a day..... You'll never know though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I get loads of looks especially if I write a story. I had over 40 in a day at one point. But sadly I had no mails from it

Over 40

I any have looked at yours over 40 times a day..... You'll never know though

Likewise

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By *eester GreyMan
over a year ago

Welwyn

Happy for anyone to look and even get in touch. Chatting costs nothing and occasionally leads to socials and meets. Something I personally have missed during covid. But I'm a very social person. Each to their own

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why would it be annoying? If it's on the net someone's gonna look at it.

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

Nope. Why would anyone be annoyed?

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By *hesblokeMan
over a year ago

Derbyshire village

Nah doesn't bother us one bit

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By *estcountryDadBodMan
over a year ago

Exeter

No one looks at mine so I’m just thankful for whoever does

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

No quite often you see a nice profile and can have a good perv.

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

Flagrante

Seems a really minor thing to be annoyed about.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No not at all. My profile is there to be looked at. Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No... How else will they know you aren't what they are after?!

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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago

Doire Theas

Look away

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By *oobyHotwifeWoman
over a year ago

Thurrock

No because how would they know they don't meet your criteria without checking out your profile

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By *iss.ddWoman
over a year ago

Leeds + Newcastle

"Do others get annoyed by people looking at your profile that you are obviously not what they are looking for because of gender age ethnicity etc "

They don't know whether you match or not until they view your profile so there's not much to get annoyed over?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not at all, it’s nice people are interested in me

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By *ubal1Man
over a year ago

Newry Down

No.

As a pathological narcissist of unspecified type (grandiose or vulnerable) I need all the narcissistic supply I can muster, to obviate my potential for spiralling into a fit of narcissistic rage.

Thankfully, it's a free country; within reason people are free to do whatever they wish!

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By *urplechesterCouple
over a year ago

chester

It doesn’t bother me at all, Miss pc

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