FabSwingers.com forum: Sending your man out to play.

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I'm guessing the correct term is hot husband. But how popular is this?

I love the idea of sending my guy out, or watching him with another woman.

But if I posted on our couples profile anything of the sort I think most would assume it's the guy writing it. So how easy is it for a hot husband scenerio to actually happen?

Even if I used my profile, again someone could think it's the guy couldn't they? And it wouldn't get the right audience anyway.

How do people do this, can you share your experiences?

PS I'm not well so if anyone wants him just message

(though I'd be losing my carer

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By *om and JennieCouple
over a year ago

Chams or Socials

I approached this with T as he has a higher sex drive than I do. He wasn’t keen which surprised me.

J x

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By *om and JennieCouple
over a year ago

Chams or Socials

"I approached this with T as he has a higher sex drive than I do. He wasn’t keen which surprised me.

J x"

You could arrange a video call, via cam room etc..?

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

Posting this thread is a good way of drawing attention to it.

OP, you could do a status to highlight it or include that in your couple's profile - I'm guessing both profiles reference it? So women will come back to it.

I'd hazard a guess the best way to do it would be to approach from your couple's profile. Explain it's a dynamic you're interested in. Or your partner could include it in his bio - I've seen a few hothusbands explain it on theirs.

Hothusbanding can be very well... hot so I hope you work it out soon!

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By *uddly GoblinMan
over a year ago

Manchester

Tried this scenario from my couples profile as it was something we wanted to try and never had any luck as mostly people just assumed I was cheating or whatever then my other half convinced me to set up a singles profile which links back to the couples one and vice versa and for some strange reason it has had a lot more interest

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Tried this scenario from my couples profile as it was something we wanted to try and never had any luck as mostly people just assumed I was cheating or whatever then my other half convinced me to set up a singles profile which links back to the couples one and vice versa and for some strange reason it has had a lot more interest"

That's interesting and confirms my thoughts too.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Posting this thread is a good way of drawing attention to it.

OP, you could do a status to highlight it or include that in your couple's profile - I'm guessing both profiles reference it? So women will come back to it.

Hothusbanding can be very well... hot so I hope you work it out soon!"

Thank you. Think we need to change our bios.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People do assume but there’s always a check way

That I do always say

As long as I meet both hafes first and then after

Then all good or one can watch

Ie meet have a little chat with both then one gose shopping or something as the other attendants to me then meet back up with other hafe after words

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

In my hothusband and his hotwife couple account they list their single accounts from which they play separately, the couple account is for different play

Basically when I'm looking for a new hothusband I just follow his veris to find out if he is a genuine hothusband and that I am happy for their reasons of playing 'hot'

I'm not there to be someone's fuck toy I want more from a meet and some couples boundaries can be not what I am happy with and vice versa

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By *omer47Man
over a year ago

leigh

I would love to send my wife out to meet other guys or even have guys come round for fun, I've even tried hinting about having a 3rd person in our relationship to spice things up abit but it fell on death ears. I've tried a few times but she is just not interested. I've even read the book on how to get your wife to cuckold you, but again she's not interested. I've left the book laying around hoping she will find it, and she did,,and she just said what is this?,I tried to explain but I'm getting nowhere. We even watched fifty shades hoping she would have a different insight and she liked the films but again nothing. I'm now out of ideas. I don't think its ever going to happen so I've come to the conclusion, give up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My husband has met without me before! I love it!

He’s now free to meet whoever he wants alone xx

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By *rs mischiefWoman
over a year ago

Manchester

I think we are classed as a "hot couple" me the wife him the husband both allowed to meet separately and also together..which is hard with young kids! So ladies pop on over to his profile mister-mischief

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Jack my other half meets alone

We have separate profiles and reference them on both

I've happily spoken to couples!/ladies to confirm I'm OK with it all, so it can work.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"In my hothusband and his hotwife couple account they list their single accounts from which they play separately, the couple account is for different play

Basically when I'm looking for a new hothusband I just follow his veris to find out if he is a genuine hothusband and that I am happy for their reasons of playing 'hot'

I'm not there to be someone's fuck toy I want more from a meet and some couples boundaries can be not what I am happy with and vice versa"

I guess that works well if there veris to follow.

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

"I'm guessing the correct term is hot husband. But how popular is this?

I love the idea of sending my guy out, or watching him with another woman.

But if I posted on our couples profile anything of the sort I think most would assume it's the guy writing it. So how easy is it for a hot husband scenerio to actually happen?

Even if I used my profile, again someone could think it's the guy couldn't they? And it wouldn't get the right audience anyway.

How do people do this, can you share your experiences?

PS I'm not well so if anyone wants him just message

(though I'd be losing my carer

) "

I'll step up and look after you while he's gone

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

"I approached this with T as he has a higher sex drive than I do. He wasn’t keen which surprised me.

J x"

Exactly the same here.

I have no problem with Cal meeting alone, but he has no interest in doing so.

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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago

somewhere, someplace

As someone who would be the meetee so to speak of a hot husband I'd do all that's been said, check veris, speak with partner to make sure it was genuine, I wouldn't just assume cheat x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think we are classed as a "hot couple" me the wife him the husband both allowed to meet separately and also together..which is hard with young kids! So ladies pop on over to his profile mister-mischief

x"
I like that. Hot couple.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I approached this with T as he has a higher sex drive than I do. He wasn’t keen which surprised me.

J x

Exactly the same here.

I have no problem with Cal meeting alone, but he has no interest in doing so. "

When we play or go to a social I become a "hot husband". Her natural inclination is to help me find my pleasure in these situations. It's wonderful.

When I have played alone it's not as fun tho. So I can understand your partners reluctance.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'm guessing the correct term is hot husband. But how popular is this?

I love the idea of sending my guy out, or watching him with another woman.

But if I posted on our couples profile anything of the sort I think most would assume it's the guy writing it. So how easy is it for a hot husband scenerio to actually happen?

Even if I used my profile, again someone could think it's the guy couldn't they? And it wouldn't get the right audience anyway.

How do people do this, can you share your experiences?

PS I'm not well so if anyone wants him just message

(though I'd be losing my carer

)

I'll step up and look after you while he's gone

OK deal... I'll ring you if he goes out.

Though maybe I should be your carer too

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

"I'm guessing the correct term is hot husband. But how popular is this?

I love the idea of sending my guy out, or watching him with another woman.

But if I posted on our couples profile anything of the sort I think most would assume it's the guy writing it. So how easy is it for a hot husband scenerio to actually happen?

Even if I used my profile, again someone could think it's the guy couldn't they? And it wouldn't get the right audience anyway.

How do people do this, can you share your experiences?

PS I'm not well so if anyone wants him just message

(though I'd be losing my carer

)

I'll step up and look after you while he's gone

OK deal... I'll ring you if he goes out.

Though maybe I should be your carer too"

We can look after each other

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

"I approached this with T as he has a higher sex drive than I do. He wasn’t keen which surprised me.

J x

Exactly the same here.

I have no problem with Cal meeting alone, but he has no interest in doing so.

When we play or go to a social I become a "hot husband". Her natural inclination is to help me find my pleasure in these situations. It's wonderful.

When I have played alone it's not as fun tho. So I can understand your partners reluctance. "

Oh, I understand but want him to have the option.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I approached this with T as he has a higher sex drive than I do. He wasn’t keen which surprised me.

J x

Exactly the same here.

I have no problem with Cal meeting alone, but he has no interest in doing so.

When we play or go to a social I become a "hot husband". Her natural inclination is to help me find my pleasure in these situations. It's wonderful.

When I have played alone it's not as fun tho. So I can understand your partners reluctance.

Oh, I understand but want him to have the option. "

I think that's great.

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