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"Seems like I'd be better off going to the local massage parlour and having the pick of them " If you think that's anything like a swinging club and you are purely going to empty your balls instead of have a night out then yes, you would be better suited to a massage parlour  | |||
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"Seems like I'd be better off going to the local massage parlour and having the pick of them If you think that's anything like a swinging club and you are purely going to empty your balls instead of have a night out then yes, you would be better suited to a massage parlour "It's my vibe from reading veris and stuff. I don't want just sex. | |||
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"Seems like I'd be better off going to the local massage parlour and having the pick of them If you think that's anything like a swinging club and you are purely going to empty your balls instead of have a night out then yes, you would be better suited to a massage parlour
It's my vibe from reading veris and stuff. I don't want just sex. "A swinging club is often more about the social aspect and if you play that's a bonus. If you go purely to get laid that's not really swinging..... | |||
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"Seems like I'd be better off going to the local massage parlour and having the pick of them If you think that's anything like a swinging club and you are purely going to empty your balls instead of have a night out then yes, you would be better suited to a massage parlour "We agree totally. The complete wrong attitude for a swingers club. | |||
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"Seems like I'd be better off going to the local massage parlour and having the pick of them If you think that's anything like a swinging club and you are purely going to empty your balls instead of have a night out then yes, you would be better suited to a massage parlour
It's my vibe from reading veris and stuff. I don't want just sex.
A swinging club is often more about the social aspect and if you play that's a bonus. If you go purely to get laid that's not really swinging..... "Feels like pressure | |||
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"Seems like I'd be better off going to the local massage parlour and having the pick of them If you think that's anything like a swinging club and you are purely going to empty your balls instead of have a night out then yes, you would be better suited to a massage parlour
It's my vibe from reading veris and stuff. I don't want just sex. "If you don't just want sex then a massage parlour, where you get pretty much *just* that, seems like a terrible choice. The price to enter is whatever your chosen club decides it is. An approach or attitude that involves phrases like 'having the pick of them' will probably not do your chances of success at a club much good though. Even if meant in jest, bear in mind that on a screen it doesn't read like that, and just comes across as disrespectful to women. | |||
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"? " As others have said - it varies massively. Guys do seem to pay more than anyone else to get into a club. Whilst I don’t necessarily agree with the price disparity - the prices clubs currently charge, they still have no problem attracting enough single males. From my experience it’s the females they sometimes struggle to attract - despite charging us far less. | |||
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"Seems like I'd be better off going to the local massage parlour and having the pick of them If you think that's anything like a swinging club and you are purely going to empty your balls instead of have a night out then yes, you would be better suited to a massage parlour
It's my vibe from reading veris and stuff. I don't want just sex.
A swinging club is often more about the social aspect and if you play that's a bonus. If you go purely to get laid that's not really swinging.....
Feels like pressure "Pressure not to play? 
Clubs can feel like a challenge if you go with expectations, which your massage parlour comment suggests you have.
As others have said, it's a social event with the potential for more. It can be tough for single men who treat it like they are entitled to something because of paying an entrance fee. The ones that are inebriated aren't tolerated. The ones that touch without permission aren't tolerated. The ones that follow you around are annoying.
But, I like clubs for the chance to meet single men, have a chat, have sex and leave it at that. I know others do too. Like this site, it's about choice and no means no.
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"Seems like I'd be better off going to the local massage parlour and having the pick of them " do you really get the pick of them in a massage parlour? Some how I just assumed it would be whatever lady isn't busy at the time, rather than I'll have that one there. You would probably find a massage parlour much easier for you love, less pressure and everything, go with that. | |||
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"Seems like I'd be better off going to the local massage parlour and having the pick of them If you think that's anything like a swinging club and you are purely going to empty your balls instead of have a night out then yes, you would be better suited to a massage parlour
We agree totally.
The complete wrong attitude for a swingers club."
Agreed guys with this type of attitude are a million miles away from a swingers mindset and definitely not the type who would do well in a club.
Probably best to dust off your wallet and go to a professional service where the ability to interact, be social, respectful, charming and interesting as a person are not important.
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"Seems like I'd be better off going to the local massage parlour and having the pick of them " TBH I think this is a common attitude of many single guys who attend clubs. They’ve paid their fee, so expect it’s guaranteed sex in return. There’s a huge sense of entitlement we find with big majority, as though we as a couple don’t have a choice | |||
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"Am I out of touch here? Membership fee + £20-£70 to sit in a room of people and have a drink? It's no wonder places like Fab are flooded with single guys " Yet many men are happy to pay it. Probably because it's easier to get a fuck in person than on here, I don't know. | |||
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"Seems like I'd be better off going to the local massage parlour and having the pick of them TBH I think this is a common attitude of many single guys who attend clubs. They’ve paid their fee, so expect it’s guaranteed sex in return. There’s a huge sense of entitlement we find with big majority, as though we as a couple don’t have a choice " I find membership fees and entrance fees restrictive I find socialising with strangers difficult I'm lucky, I dig guys too Going to a gay / bi sauna is a much better option £14-£16 entrance, no membership forms to fill in or fee to pay, no questions asked, no socialising, pretty much guaranteed play That's not entitlement, it is purely what works for my pocket and my head As for the entitlement though, I'm not saying it's right (far from it), but I can see the association I don't even think it's all about the money (though that doesn't help), I think it's also how swingers are perceived / portrayed in popular culture | |||
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"Seems like I'd be better off going to the local massage parlour and having the pick of them " Just try the Private Club in Birmingham, it should have everything you need. | |||
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"Am I out of touch here? Membership fee + £20-£70 to sit in a room of people and have a drink? It's no wonder places like Fab are flooded with single guys " Not all clubs have membership fees and if its bring your own booze it can work out cheaper than a pub for a night of socialising with like minded people  | |||
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"Membership fees plus entry. Check your local places. It should be equal cost for us all " If it was equal cost for all you’d have 99% men and 1% women. Single Women are charged the least because they’re as rare on the club scene as they are on fab. Added to that - a disproportionately high number of single females on fab/the club scene are single parents with school age children - many of us working part time to fit work/raising kids alone etc in. Many of us swing because we don’t have the time or the inclination for a relationship. What we also don’t have is the disposable income of ‘most’ men and couples. Therefore if we were charged the same we simply couldn’t go - and clubs would be even more of a cock fest than people claim they are now! | |||
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"Seems like I'd be better off going to the local massage parlour and having the pick of them If you think that's anything like a swinging club and you are purely going to empty your balls instead of have a night out then yes, you would be better suited to a massage parlour "Oh ain't that the truth Hanks
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"Seems like I'd be better off going to the local massage parlour and having the pick of them If you think that's anything like a swinging club and you are purely going to empty your balls instead of have a night out then yes, you would be better suited to a massage parlour
Oh ain't that the truth Hanks
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"They need to chill out more than that. People are to serious on here. " Xx | |||
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"? " On the home page of fab there's a link to club review look in there find a club that sounds fab to You there will be another link taking you to the club's website there you will find everything you need to know.
Remember you may pay £40 to 60 pounds and You Are Not guarantee to have sex. | |||
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"? On the home page of fab there's a link to club review look in there find a club that sounds fab to You there will be another link taking you to the club's website there you will find everything you need to know.
Remember you may pay £40 to 60 pounds and You Are Not guarantee to have sex."guaranteed yea  | |||
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"Seems like I'd be better off going to the local massage parlour and having the pick of them If you think that's anything like a swinging club and you are purely going to empty your balls instead of have a night out then yes, you would be better suited to a massage parlour
Oh ain't that the truth Hanks
Lighten up a bit "You asked a question and didn't like the answer is more the mark..... | |||
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"It's like a Freemason Society. I would feel weird approaching them. " It's fine, there's a secret handshake, once you've passed your initiation..... | |||
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"Seems like I'd be better off going to the local massage parlour and having the pick of them If you think that's anything like a swinging club and you are purely going to empty your balls instead of have a night out then yes, you would be better suited to a massage parlour
Oh ain't that the truth Hanks
Lighten up a bit
You asked a question and didn't like the answer is more the mark..... "I like very nice | |||
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"It's like a Freemason Society. I would feel weird approaching them. It's fine, there's a secret handshake, once you've passed your initiation..... "Hmm I was thinking more of a peculiar finger | |||
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