A question of etiquette: Face pictures with first messages

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By *stbury Davenport OP Man
over a year ago

Nottingham

You want to message someone, and they specify they should include a face picture with your first message. Nice and simple: Attach the requested picture, or leave them alone.

However, what if you’re messaging them off the back of a game or other forum topic, like the current ‘Hotlist Confessions’? Should we include the requested face picture in that instance too?

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

Steer clear of them. It just screams of being needy to me.

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By *vriderMan
over a year ago

Chester

I normally put "forum post" in the title.

Guess that kind of makes you immune from the standard before you message requests?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't know why folks overcomplicate the sending of face pics

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

I'd say it is your call entirely. Might help you in a hotlist situation. In things like secret service and ask a private question I wouldn't bother though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on your motive for messaging really. If you don't ultimately want to shag them, you don't need to try to impress with a photo do you?

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By *stbury Davenport OP Man
over a year ago

Nottingham

"I normally put "forum post" in the title.

Guess that kind of makes you immune from the standard before you message requests? "

If you message them directly from the thread by clicking the ‘Reply privately’ link in one of their posts, it auto-fills the message title field with the thread title.

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