FabSwingers.com forum: Social chats

By *ax_uk_2009 OP Man
over a year ago

Wilmslow

I would really like to meet people just to chat over a coffee, but it seems like it just isn’t a thing on Fab. Am I wrong?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

it happens

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By *lice MaliceWoman
over a year ago

The Facility

It's definitely a thing for some people.

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By *ax_uk_2009 OP Man
over a year ago

Wilmslow

Any suggestions as to what I am doing wrong?

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

Oh it’s definitely a thing. More common than what you think

Love a good social

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

not knowing what your chats like its impossible to say if or anything your doing wrong

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Write it in your bio that you’d be up for a social

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

They might think you're pretending you just want a social to get something more from them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In a public place it would be less pressure

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most of my meets have been a social first - coffee or a walk. I usually get chatting to people through the forums, then on to messages. I prefer to feel like I kind of know someone before meeting as I feel safer that way.

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

It’s totally a thing. I’ve met loads of fab folk for coffee

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By *ax_uk_2009 OP Man
over a year ago

Wilmslow

Available for one more?

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By *ax_uk_2009 OP Man
over a year ago

Wilmslow

Thanks for the sage advice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love socials, too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can't beat a good social and definitely adds to the build up if there is that often elusive spark

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By *rad670Man
over a year ago

South Lakes

I thought it was normal if locations allow realistically, you can chat away on here but I do like a relaxed non presumptuous social to properly break the ice, unfortunately it needs grown up and genuine people to organise one and I'm finding the majority are not but the few are worth meeting on the rare occasions it happens.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its a thing, lots of people enjoy just a cuppa socials

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By *oozleMan
over a year ago

high wycombe

Yep, nothing better than meeting up for a coffee and socialising, especially now as it’s opening up more

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By *ristol HellfireMan
over a year ago

Bristol

"I would really like to meet people just to chat over a coffee, but it seems like it just isn’t a thing on Fab. Am I wrong?"

It's a prerequisite for anyone wishing to join the Hellfire group.

I've no intention of inviting anyone to one of our parties if they can't be ars*d to find time in their diary to meet for a coffee (other beverages may be available).

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By *ister-mischiefMan
over a year ago

Trafford

"I would really like to meet people just to chat over a coffee, but it seems like it just isn’t a thing on Fab. Am I wrong?"

My Mrs likes to do that too, if asked by a lady id also oblige, for us its about making friends too if those friends have benefits one day, thats a bonus

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I would really like to meet people just to chat over a coffee, but it seems like it just isn’t a thing on Fab. Am I wrong?"

I love this, Fab is just as much about the social side for me

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By *WNMan
over a year ago

Usually Dundee and around

It's when you meet "just for a cuppa" and these lovely horny ladies are pawing at you and wanting more...

I always say never on a first meet...

But I also say, never say never! so go figure!

Always happy for a cuppa and some fun chat.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

We do this a fair bit when possible.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

No, I don't think you're wrong for wanting to do it at all - meeting people in a relaxed, no pressure environment from Fab can be lovely, even if it is just in a friendly capacity. I think women are slightly wary but maybe if you emphasize the friendship side and just being that it might change?

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