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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Is it wrong if I don’t want another cock near my missus? Sounds selfish and protective but it’s something that’s always bothered me. I’ve waited years for my redhead with big tits and what’s mine I wanna keep mine, she’s said she has no interest in males and just wants to experience females and stretch her bi side out abit but surely being a straightish female she’d want to try a different cock? Or is it just me being insecure and stupid? Haha constructive criticism welcome go abit easier on me with being a sorta newbie to the swinging side haha. Adam x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

She may already have

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By *oozleMan
over a year ago

high wycombe

I think that’s something between yourself and your missus, what’s wrong or right is your own preference

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can't help the way you feel, communication is key

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Why don't you believe what your wife is telling you?

If you've agreed between you that you only meet women I isn't selfish

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"She may already have "
. We’re honest with each other tbh mate, she’d tell me!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Why don't you believe what your wife is telling you?

If you've agreed between you that you only meet women I isn't selfish"
. I do believe her as such, to be honest I think it’s mainly down to self confidence and past experiences.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"She may already have . We’re honest with each other tbh mate, she’d tell me! "

Are you honest enough to Tel her you've asked this question here

How would she feel to know you're doubting her

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You can't help the way you feel, communication is key"
Totally agree!

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By *ooo wet tight hornyWoman
over a year ago

lancashire


"Is it wrong if I don’t want another cock near my missus? Sounds selfish and protective but it’s something that’s always bothered me. I’ve waited years for my redhead with big tits and what’s mine I wanna keep mine, she’s said she has no interest in males and just wants to experience females and stretch her bi side out abit but surely being a straightish female she’d want to try a different cock? Or is it just me being insecure and stupid? Haha constructive criticism welcome go abit easier on me with being a sorta newbie to the swinging side haha. Adam x"

Just happy to share her with another women? what happens if all of a sudden she wants to be shared with another guy? are you participating with other women too? Just keep talking about what's wanted or want to try...honesty at all times...and it's not wrong that you don't want to share her at all with another guy.

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By *r.SJMan
over a year ago

Wellingborough

Nothing wrong with how you feel, make sure you talk to her though and be open... sounds like you could be worrying for no reason and if so just enjoy your good lady and the happiness you've got together

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"She may already have . We’re honest with each other tbh mate, she’d tell me!

Are you honest enough to Tel her you've asked this question here

How would she feel to know you're doubting her "

Yes We both have access to this account, I’ll gladly show her, I personally don’t think she’d be that bothered as it’s more my personal feelings. We’ve talked and I’ve expressed these feelings, just thought I’d ask for opinions to see if I’m being abit of a twat haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"She may already have . We’re honest with each other tbh mate, she’d tell me!

Are you honest enough to Tel her you've asked this question here

How would she feel to know you're doubting her

Yes We both have access to this account, I’ll gladly show her, I personally don’t think she’d be that bothered as it’s more my personal feelings. We’ve talked and I’ve expressed these feelings, just thought I’d ask for opinions to see if I’m being abit of a twat haha"

Should have spoken to her first is my feeling

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

You better discuss this with her

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Why don't you believe what your wife is telling you?

If you've agreed between you that you only meet women I isn't selfish. I do believe her as such, to be honest I think it’s mainly down to self confidence and past experiences. "

I see. Can you see how she might feel reading this though?

Basically you're saying my wife has said she only wants to meet women but I don't think that's possible so I'm asking you lot.

I can see that you're probably after reassurance but you've had it from your wife. Don't doubt her.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would imagine it is something you'll need to revisit from time to time

My DD surprised me by saying he would only soft swap, not full swap. Listen to what she says... Check in, keep conversing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve met a couple but she will not let him near another woman for some reason

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By *isspurplechesterWoman
over a year ago

Chester

Maybe your cock is enough and all she needs? And she’s just interested in the bi side? I have one cock and only seek females, but like others have said, communication is very important! I would personally say, trust what your partner is saying and do not over think it!! Acknowledge and be proud in the fact that you are all the male element she needs!

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

It's not wrong if it's what you've both agreed on.

Many couples here are only after meeting another woman.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Are you both happy with the situation? If you are then it's not selfish, it is your relationship and your rules. But if she did want to explore other men and you were holding her back whilst having your fun with other women then I could understand why there might be a problem. But if that's not how it is then enjoy what you're doing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it wrong if I don’t want another cock near my missus? Sounds selfish and protective but it’s something that’s always bothered me. I’ve waited years for my redhead with big tits and what’s mine I wanna keep mine, she’s said she has no interest in males and just wants to experience females and stretch her bi side out abit but surely being a straightish female she’d want to try a different cock? Or is it just me being insecure and stupid? Haha constructive criticism welcome go abit easier on me with being a sorta newbie to the swinging side haha. Adam x"

I don't think being straight she would want to try another cock. From my view (Mrs) I want to explore my bi side, another male join us isn't something I'm comfortable with, another couple maybe, but I'm more interested in exploring my bi side.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s not silly it’s what you want as a couple! Some couples want lots of guys to join them some just want ladies! Just enjoy what you do it’s about having great sex at the end of the day

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