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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So many women blocked me? Most of which I haven't even messaged

Is it something I said in the forums or what

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Who knows?!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Fack knows

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

East Sussex

Women block so that they can't be messaged usually

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By *yron69Man
over a year ago

Fareham

You need Blockbusters!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Women block so that they can't be messaged usually"

Then that's it we will never see each other again. So quick to judge.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Could be to do with comment or forums posts

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

East Sussex


"Women block so that they can't be messaged usually

Then that's it we will never see each other again. So quick to judge. "

Is that a problem?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Women block so that they can't be messaged usually

Then that's it we will never see each other again. So quick to judge.

Is that a problem?"

It's not a good thing is it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe your cock isn't big enough ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Could be to do with comment or forums posts "

Probably. If I was myself and I had a laugh on here I would probably get blocked by many more, because women are so quick to judge online. It's no skin off their nose because they have men coming at them from all directions.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Maybe your cock isn't big enough ?

"

Maybe.. Not that anyone's seen it mind

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

East Sussex


"Women block so that they can't be messaged usually

Then that's it we will never see each other again. So quick to judge.

Is that a problem?

It's not a good thing is it "

Being blocked means that you won't waste time or energy on profiles that don't want to interact with you. I think it's not something to bother about

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"Could be to do with comment or forums posts

Probably. If I was myself and I had a laugh on here I would probably get blocked by many more, because women are so quick to judge online. It's no skin off their nose because they have men coming at them from all directions. "

You know, and I really mean this nicely, by making a sweeping statement about "women so quick to judge" you are not really helping your case. It is comments like that that might put people off?

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

East Sussex


"Could be to do with comment or forums posts

Probably. If I was myself and I had a laugh on here I would probably get blocked by many more, because women are so quick to judge online. It's no skin off their nose because they have men coming at them from all directions. "

But you're judging women...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe your cock isn't big enough ?

Maybe.. Not that anyone's seen it mind "

that small?

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

I’d say the Susan Boyle thread didn’t do you many favours.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"Could be to do with comment or forums posts

Probably. If I was myself and I had a laugh on here I would probably get blocked by many more, because women are so quick to judge online. It's no skin off their nose because they have men coming at them from all directions. "

That reads like your judgement about why women block.

Saying being yourself and having a joke would lead to more blocks is a great way to get some preemptive blocks assigned to yourself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Women block so that they can't be messaged usually

Then that's it we will never see each other again. So quick to judge.

Is that a problem?

It's not a good thing is it

Being blocked means that you won't waste time or energy on profiles that don't want to interact with you. I think it's not something to bother about

"

Maybe if some women took the time to know someone, they would want to interact with them

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Could be to do with comment or forums posts

Probably. If I was myself and I had a laugh on here I would probably get blocked by many more, because women are so quick to judge online. It's no skin off their nose because they have men coming at them from all directions.

But you're judging women..."

It's my opinion of some women online

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

East Sussex


"Women block so that they can't be messaged usually

Then that's it we will never see each other again. So quick to judge.

Is that a problem?

It's not a good thing is it

Being blocked means that you won't waste time or energy on profiles that don't want to interact with you. I think it's not something to bother about

Maybe if some women took the time to know someone, they would want to interact with them "

Women have a choice who they interact with. Nobody on fab or in life is entitled to interaction with anyone. Nobody owes anyone a chance.

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"I’d say the Susan Boyle thread didn’t do you many favours. "
I could not remember the thread but yes, I think that may not have helped.

But people do give second chances - and people are posting on this thread, so onwards and upwards!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Maybe your cock isn't big enough ?

Maybe.. Not that anyone's seen it mind that small? "

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"Women block so that they can't be messaged usually

Then that's it we will never see each other again. So quick to judge.

Is that a problem?

It's not a good thing is it

Being blocked means that you won't waste time or energy on profiles that don't want to interact with you. I think it's not something to bother about

Maybe if some women took the time to know someone, they would want to interact with them "

Maybe if men took the time to treat us like people capable of making our own decisions we'd want to interact with them.

Do you see how your statements work?

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

East Sussex


"Could be to do with comment or forums posts

Probably. If I was myself and I had a laugh on here I would probably get blocked by many more, because women are so quick to judge online. It's no skin off their nose because they have men coming at them from all directions.

But you're judging women...

It's my opinion of some women online "

Ah so women judge but you have an opinion.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I’d say the Susan Boyle thread didn’t do you many favours. "

That was a silly thread, I was bored it was said very much tounge in cheek

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it's forumites, then possibly??

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By *tue555Man
over a year ago

Passed Beyond Reach


"So many women blocked me? Most of which I haven't even messaged

Is it something I said in the forums or what "

Personally I take women blocking me as a compliment. You'd be amazed how many compliments I get from women

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Could be to do with comment or forums posts

Probably. If I was myself and I had a laugh on here I would probably get blocked by many more, because women are so quick to judge online. It's no skin off their nose because they have men coming at them from all directions.

But you're judging women...

It's my opinion of some women online "

probs best to have said some then!

And it's coming ON them

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

East Sussex


"So many women blocked me? Most of which I haven't even messaged

Is it something I said in the forums or what

Personally I take women blocking me as a compliment. You'd be amazed how many compliments I get from women "

Positive thinking at its finest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So many women blocked me? Most of which I haven't even messaged

Is it something I said in the forums or what

Personally I take women blocking me as a compliment. You'd be amazed how many compliments I get from women

Positive thinking at its finest "

given how many blokes complain of messages getting no replies, preemptive blocking is a favour ...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Women block so that they can't be messaged usually

Then that's it we will never see each other again. So quick to judge.

Is that a problem?

It's not a good thing is it

Being blocked means that you won't waste time or energy on profiles that don't want to interact with you. I think it's not something to bother about

Maybe if some women took the time to know someone, they would want to interact with them

Maybe if men took the time to treat us like people capable of making our own decisions we'd want to interact with them.

Do you see how your statements work?"

Ugh

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I’d say the Susan Boyle thread didn’t do you many favours.

That was a silly thread, I was bored it was said very much tounge in cheek "

And why was that thread closed down?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Could be to do with comment or forums posts

Probably. If I was myself and I had a laugh on here I would probably get blocked by many more, because women are so quick to judge online. It's no skin off their nose because they have men coming at them from all directions. "

It’s comments like that dose not help your case at all

When we haven’t interacted with a person all we can go on is they comments

Project how you want people to see you

If your comments are judgemental sexist or nasty so one sex or another or both that’s all people will see off you

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By *inkyInkedBiWoman
over a year ago

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"Could be to do with comment or forums posts

Probably. If I was myself and I had a laugh on here I would probably get blocked by many more, because women are so quick to judge online. It's no skin off their nose because they have men coming at them from all directions.

It’s comments like that dose not help your case at all

When we haven’t interacted with a person all we can go on is they comments

Project how you want people to see you

If your comments are judgemental sexist or nasty so one sex or another or both that’s all people will see off you "

Spot on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some of us know instinctively what we don't want. I don't see the problem.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Could be to do with comment or forums posts

Probably. If I was myself and I had a laugh on here I would probably get blocked by many more, because women are so quick to judge online. It's no skin off their nose because they have men coming at them from all directions.

It’s comments like that dose not help your case at all

When we haven’t interacted with a person all we can go on is they comments

Project how you want people to see you

If your comments are judgemental sexist or nasty so one sex or another or both that’s all people will see off you

Spot on "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I see this as resulted in more people blocking me

Omg am I really that bad

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I see this as resulted in more people blocking me

Omg am I really that bad "

do you keep tabs ?

(I suspect you are enjoying this !)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is there a way to see who blocked you? As far as I know there's only one that blocked me. But I'm not a serial message sender so I probably wouldn't notice if someone else had.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Is there a way to see who blocked you? As far as I know there's only one that blocked me. But I'm not a serial message sender so I probably wouldn't notice if someone else had. "

Just click on their profile, if it says blocked profile you are blocked

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Some people do this so their able to create their own part of the site which fits around them,

Don't take it personally op new people join all the time leaving the opportunity open

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I largely block people because the way they interact on the forums means that I never want them to be able to contact me privately.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I largely block people because the way they interact on the forums means that I never want them to be able to contact me privately."

Same

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By *asycouple1971Couple
over a year ago

midlands

Does it matter?

We couldnt care who blocks us. Life is too short x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So many women blocked me? Most of which I haven't even messaged

Is it something I said in the forums or what "

More than likely. Having green arrowed you, your ‘anyone notice’ thread probably didn’t help, didn’t exactly put you in a good light, that’s putting it mildly.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"I see this as resulted in more people blocking me

Omg am I really that bad do you keep tabs ?

(I suspect you are enjoying this !)

"

The Welsh Wonko

People block and you'll never know why. Don't sweat it, OP.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So many women blocked me? Most of which I haven't even messaged

Is it something I said in the forums or what

More than likely. Having green arrowed you, your ‘anyone notice’ thread probably didn’t help, didn’t exactly put you in a good light, that’s putting it mildly."

That’s the one

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"I’d say the Susan Boyle thread didn’t do you many favours.

That was a silly thread, I was bored it was said very much tounge in cheek "

Maybe it was the thread asking where you can buy pig piss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I see comments by someone that I think are rude or offensive, or don't fit in with my values, I just block them as then I don't have to remember who I don't want to interact with. Saves them or me wasting any time.

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By *onb21Woman
over a year ago

Cardiff

Could it be your profile? Most people like to see and read a bit more to get a picture of someone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It was your thread about 'gym rats' looking like Susan Boyle that made me block you. Unnecessary and unkind so I know you're not my type.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t block very often, for people on the forum, it’s usually because of something they’ve posted which is racist/sexist/misogynistic or just plain gross/creepy.

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

Purely tactical... nothing personal

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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago

Doire Theas

Maybe it’s the messages you send

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I’d say the Susan Boyle thread didn’t do you many favours.

That was a silly thread, I was bored it was said very much tounge in cheek

Maybe it was the thread asking where you can buy pig piss"

Why we all put it in our cars these days

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’d say the Susan Boyle thread didn’t do you many favours.

That was a silly thread, I was bored it was said very much tounge in cheek

Maybe it was the thread asking where you can buy pig piss

Why we all put it in our cars these days "

AdBlue

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Could it be your profile? Most people like to see and read a bit more to get a picture of someone. "

Could be. I guess it's a combination of things and this thread.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t think the gym rats comment helped you.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It was your thread about 'gym rats' looking like Susan Boyle that made me block you. Unnecessary and unkind so I know you're not my type. "

No I didn't say gym rats looked like Susan Boyle

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I’d say the Susan Boyle thread didn’t do you many favours.

That was a silly thread, I was bored it was said very much tounge in cheek

Maybe it was the thread asking where you can buy pig piss

Why we all put it in our cars these days

AdBlue "

That's the stuff my light came on and I was stressed out didn't know what else to call it

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By *astlincscoupleCouple
over a year ago

Tinsel Town


"I’d say the Susan Boyle thread didn’t do you many favours.

That was a silly thread, I was bored it was said very much tounge in cheek

Maybe it was the thread asking where you can buy pig piss

Why we all put it in our cars these days "

Only diesels after a certain date so not every car

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

Block them back o/p and move on.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Block them back o/p and move on."

Can they still view my profile if they have blocked me?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Block them back o/p and move on.

Can they still view my profile if they have blocked me?"

No

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

[Removed by poster at 04/09/21 12:01:32]

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London


"They prefer men who drink whiskey?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It was your thread about 'gym rats' looking like Susan Boyle that made me block you. Unnecessary and unkind so I know you're not my type.

No I didn't say gym rats looked like Susan Boyle "

You did, you said “How many gym rats are fucking Susan Boyle lookalikes on here?”

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It was your thread about 'gym rats' looking like Susan Boyle that made me block you. Unnecessary and unkind so I know you're not my type.

No I didn't say gym rats looked like Susan Boyle

You did, you said “How many gym rats are fucking Susan Boyle lookalikes on here?”

"

This definitely switched us off at the time of reading

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It was your thread about 'gym rats' looking like Susan Boyle that made me block you. Unnecessary and unkind so I know you're not my type.

No I didn't say gym rats looked like Susan Boyle

You did, you said “How many gym rats are fucking Susan Boyle lookalikes on here?”

"

Yeah that sounds more like the thread

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It was your thread about 'gym rats' looking like Susan Boyle that made me block you. Unnecessary and unkind so I know you're not my type.

No I didn't say gym rats looked like Susan Boyle

You did, you said “How many gym rats are fucking Susan Boyle lookalikes on here?”

Yeah that sounds more like the thread "

I was d*unk when I wrote that and it was meant to be a bit of fun but I got carried away drinking and I didn't have much time to comment in it before it was closed down.

I apologise to all the Susan Boyle lovers

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

OP I like you xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Well atleast someone does lol

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT


"Well atleast someone does lol "

Xxx

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT


"Well atleast someone does lol "

But behave your self xx

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