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"We have a girlfriend that stays in our bed, when we go out " On a night out that is lol | |||
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"Yes and the only guests that stay are the special kind " On way x | |||
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"We have a girlfriend that stays in our bed, when we go out On a night out that is lol" She keeps it warm for your return | |||
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"Nope, my bed is for us and us only " how many is us, and room for one more ? | |||
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"No no no..... I'd rather pay for a hotel for them " Absolutely... my bed is my sacred space. It is more than a bed! | |||
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"To be honest, if I ever had a long term partner again, I’d really struggle to have him sleeping in my bed. Good job I’m single " Very much on your page there | |||
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"Yes and the only guests that stay are the special kind On way x" Your welcome anytime sis xxx | |||
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"Do you let guests sleep in your bed, if you don’t have a spare room. Parents, siblings, friends…." It depends on who it is. If its my parents or bon kinky friends then sure. If its kinky folk, they sleep in the dog cage, or chained up next to our bed! | |||
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"Thank you for all the replies (totally didn’t forget I’d posted this ) I don’t mean to share with me, I mean my mum and step dad to have my bed, with me on the sofa. " Oh. Nah. I don't like my family that much. They can stay elsewhere. | |||
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"Thank you for all the replies (totally didn’t forget I’d posted this ) I don’t mean to share with me, I mean my mum and step dad to have my bed, with me on the sofa. " are they .... Still intimate? | |||
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"Thank you for all the replies (totally didn’t forget I’d posted this ) I don’t mean to share with me, I mean my mum and step dad to have my bed, with me on the sofa. are they .... Still intimate?" Probably, eww | |||
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"Thank you for all the replies (totally didn’t forget I’d posted this ) I don’t mean to share with me, I mean my mum and step dad to have my bed, with me on the sofa. " I knew what you meant My bed and food on my plate are things I just don't share Hotel is a happy compromise | |||
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"Thank you for all the replies (totally didn’t forget I’d posted this ) I don’t mean to share with me, I mean my mum and step dad to have my bed, with me on the sofa. I knew what you meant My bed and food on my plate are things I just don't share Hotel is a happy compromise " Well, me too, but the problem is, I don’t have the funds to pay for a hotel for them, so I feel guilty. | |||
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"No, but I insist their dogs sleep on it. " Even my dog isn’t allowed on my bed | |||
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"Thank you for all the replies (totally didn’t forget I’d posted this ) I don’t mean to share with me, I mean my mum and step dad to have my bed, with me on the sofa. I knew what you meant My bed and food on my plate are things I just don't share Hotel is a happy compromise Well, me too, but the problem is, I don’t have the funds to pay for a hotel for them, so I feel guilty." Ahh if that happened then me and children would be in my bed and they would be in seperate single beds | |||
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"No, but I insist their dogs sleep on it. Even my dog isn’t allowed on my bed " our dog pretty much kicks us off ours ! | |||
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"Thank you for all the replies (totally didn’t forget I’d posted this ) I don’t mean to share with me, I mean my mum and step dad to have my bed, with me on the sofa. I knew what you meant My bed and food on my plate are things I just don't share Hotel is a happy compromise Well, me too, but the problem is, I don’t have the funds to pay for a hotel for them, so I feel guilty." do they ? I'd not visit and expect a bed to be provided if it meant the person was on the sofa (tho I'm not quite in back pain land yet). Are they thinking you should be giving up your matteress for them ? | |||
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"Thank you for all the replies (totally didn’t forget I’d posted this ) I don’t mean to share with me, I mean my mum and step dad to have my bed, with me on the sofa. I knew what you meant My bed and food on my plate are things I just don't share Hotel is a happy compromise Well, me too, but the problem is, I don’t have the funds to pay for a hotel for them, so I feel guilty.do they ? I'd not visit and expect a bed to be provided if it meant the person was on the sofa (tho I'm not quite in back pain land yet). Are they thinking you should be giving up your matteress for them ?" Yes, and I’ve finally saved up to replace the mattress that I shared with my toxic ex, and it’s all lovely and mine. | |||
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"Thank you for all the replies (totally didn’t forget I’d posted this ) I don’t mean to share with me, I mean my mum and step dad to have my bed, with me on the sofa. I knew what you meant My bed and food on my plate are things I just don't share Hotel is a happy compromise Well, me too, but the problem is, I don’t have the funds to pay for a hotel for them, so I feel guilty.do they ? I'd not visit and expect a bed to be provided if it meant the person was on the sofa (tho I'm not quite in back pain land yet). Are they thinking you should be giving up your matteress for them ? Yes, and I’ve finally saved up to replace the mattress that I shared with my toxic ex, and it’s all lovely and mine. " without knowing all the deets... That feels an unreasonable IMO. Especially if it leaves you on the sofa. I'm guessing splitting a b&b bill is also out the question. TL;Dr you are not the asshole. | |||
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"Thank you for all the replies (totally didn’t forget I’d posted this ) I don’t mean to share with me, I mean my mum and step dad to have my bed, with me on the sofa. I knew what you meant My bed and food on my plate are things I just don't share Hotel is a happy compromise Well, me too, but the problem is, I don’t have the funds to pay for a hotel for them, so I feel guilty.do they ? I'd not visit and expect a bed to be provided if it meant the person was on the sofa (tho I'm not quite in back pain land yet). Are they thinking you should be giving up your matteress for them ? Yes, and I’ve finally saved up to replace the mattress that I shared with my toxic ex, and it’s all lovely and mine. without knowing all the deets... That feels an unreasonable IMO. Especially if it leaves you on the sofa. I'm guessing splitting a b&b bill is also out the question. TL;Dr you are not the asshole. " Thank you | |||
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"We tend to give over night guests the choice of our room or the yurt. Not that the yurt has been out of the barn for a few years, hopefully it’s not been eaten by mice." You should have been renting it out for a million pounds a night in the Great British Staycation goldrush. | |||
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"It’s not for selfish reasons really, because I’ve given up my bed for them loads of times, it’s just, my new mattress, it probably doesn’t even make sense, but I had to save really hard to get a new one, that didn’t feel polluted by exes energy " A new mattress is a precious thing, I dont think I would let anyone on it either; family or not | |||
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"It depends. I had a friend who had split from her boyfriend.. She was so sad and I felt like making her sleep on the sofa would be even sadder. I bunked in with my daughter. Otherwise, my sofa is super comfy, wide when you take the back cushions off. It's long and in the morning, the light is lovely through the curtains. I love making lovely nests for my guests. With close friends I snug in with them in my bed. If you stay over at mine. I promise you'll be super cosy. " Cosy you say | |||
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"It’s not for selfish reasons really, because I’ve given up my bed for them loads of times, it’s just, my new mattress, it probably doesn’t even make sense, but I had to save really hard to get a new one, that didn’t feel polluted by exes energy " makes sense. It's part of healing. Can you tell them this... I'd hope they'd understand if they know about the ex... And maybe find a one off solution. It may be different next time ... But ATM it's like virgin (hehe) snow... And you only want your footprints in it. Or sign them up for gab put a meet up, and find them a willing bed ! | |||
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"It depends. I had a friend who had split from her boyfriend.. She was so sad and I felt like making her sleep on the sofa would be even sadder. I bunked in with my daughter. Otherwise, my sofa is super comfy, wide when you take the back cushions off. It's long and in the morning, the light is lovely through the curtains. I love making lovely nests for my guests. With close friends I snug in with them in my bed. If you stay over at mine. I promise you'll be super cosy. Cosy you say " Cosy.. At the very least | |||
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"To be honest, if I ever had a long term partner again, I’d really struggle to have him sleeping in my bed. Good job I’m single " This is one of the main reasons I'm staying single | |||
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"We tend to give over night guests the choice of our room or the yurt. Not that the yurt has been out of the barn for a few years, hopefully it’s not been eaten by mice. You should have been renting it out for a million pounds a night in the Great British Staycation goldrush. " We did consider it but we remembered that as a general rule of thumb we don’t like people. | |||
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"To he honest I'd feel like a bitch making someone I care about sleep on a sofa or elsewhere if the other half of the bed is free. Same if we're staying away together and sharing a room. Male or female, make no difference xx" What guests would you be likely to have that aren't friends or family? | |||
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"Do you let guests sleep in your bed, if you don’t have a spare room. Parents, siblings, friends…." Parents, siblings, friend - all in the spare room. Only angels (fallen or not) get to sleep in my bed | |||
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"Family yes. Ive never been lucky enough to receive a guest at mine, if they didnt mind the window side of the bed they are welcome to share " I love the window side personally. | |||
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"We have a girlfriend that stays in our bed, when we go out On a night out that is lol" nice tats by the way xxx | |||
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"We have a girlfriend that stays in our bed, when we go out On a night out that is lol" Figured that's what you meant but glad you clarified. I was beginning to think you had a human bed warmer. | |||
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"It depends. I had a friend who had split from her boyfriend.. She was so sad and I felt like making her sleep on the sofa would be even sadder. I bunked in with my daughter. Otherwise, my sofa is super comfy, wide when you take the back cushions off. It's long and in the morning, the light is lovely through the curtains. I love making lovely nests for my guests. With close friends I snug in with them in my bed. If you stay over at mine. I promise you'll be super cosy. " U sound like an amazing friend u just made me emosh reading that especially the snug in with them part Everyone needs a friend like U! | |||
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"Do you let guests sleep in your bed" If sex is going to be involved...hell yes! As a straight man I love the plural notation used in the question (FFM, MFM, MFF, MFFFFFFFFFF+ etc.) "Parents" I'd need a shovel and besides, they probably wouldn't smell too great. "siblings" They can sleep in the garden or they can piss off home! "friends" ROFL. OK, there are a few that could have the settee for a night or two, but...what was the question again? | |||
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"We have a girlfriend that stays in our bed, when we go out On a night out that is lol She keeps it warm for your return " Lol no... He keeps it warm for when she and I return from the pub lol | |||
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