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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Received a message just then along the lines of ‘meet tonight’. I politely declined as I have other plans and got a reply back patronisingly lecturing me about how I should only be online when I’m up to meet.

Im not the one who messaged and nothing online says I’m meeting tonight plus how else can you check messages if you’re not logged in?

Just fuck off mate ok!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wooooorrrrrrdddd

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Wooooorrrrrrdddd"

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By *melia DominaTV/TS
over a year ago

Edinburgh (She/Her)


"Received a message just then along the lines of ‘meet tonight’. I politely declined as I have other plans and got a reply back patronisingly lecturing me about how I should only be online when I’m up to meet.

Im not the one who messaged and nothing online says I’m meeting tonight plus how else can you check messages if you’re not logged in?

Just fuck off mate ok!"

Block. Delete. Next

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I try to reserve the block for the real cases. This drip was just an irritant

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By *onb21Woman
over a year ago

Cardiff

Sounds like they got online status mixed up with a meet post.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Sounds like they got online status mixed up with a meet post."

Anyone can make a mistake but it was the lecture afterwards that got me cross

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By *onb21Woman
over a year ago

Cardiff


"Sounds like they got online status mixed up with a meet post.

Anyone can make a mistake but it was the lecture afterwards that got me cross"

Sorry, my sarcasm didn't come across! To be clear, they are in the wrong.

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

You can do what you want xxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Sounds like they got online status mixed up with a meet post.

Anyone can make a mistake but it was the lecture afterwards that got me cross

Sorry, my sarcasm didn't come across! To be clear, they are in the wrong."

Oops x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You can do what you want xxx"

They were told that in no uncertain terms in my reply. Politely though of course

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

Was he a x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Was he a x"

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT


"You can do what you want xxx

They were told that in no uncertain terms in my reply. Politely though of course "

Good

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT


"Was he a x

"

Xxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Was he a x"

If I knew what that meant I could answer x

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT


"Was he a x

If I knew what that meant I could answer x"

Look at it

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

A turtle

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I still don’t get it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lots of people on here OP unfortunately who have skewed or unreasonable expectations of the people they message. Just because their fictitious rules seem reasonable in their heads, doesn't make it so.

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By *iss KissWoman
over a year ago

near Coventry

Some people aren't right.

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

It can often take me awhile to answer a message as I’m sometimes just not in the mood to get into long conversations online. I’m very rarely going to meet anyone that day, so may only answer 12-24 hours later or immediately if I’m interested in that person or the message is a turn on.

This often means I get those …’hey have you seen my message?’ normally after an hour or two. I wish the site had a way to hide you being online without having to hide your profile. Just something that say ‘Don’t show being online’ similar to hiding yourself viewing a profile in stealth mode.

It may be a meeting site but I’m not always in a mood to meet anyone or chat and would like to view the forums in stealth but leave open my profile.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

He’s now decided to message again and gave another go about me being online but not meeting. Apparently “you wouldn’t stand at a bus stop if you weren’t waiting for a bus”.

Definitely blocked now

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet


"He’s now decided to message again and gave another go about me being online but not meeting. Apparently “you wouldn’t stand at a bus stop if you weren’t waiting for a bus”.

Definitely blocked now"

Some idiots around

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Was he a x"

When the hell did we get a turtle

(sorry OP )

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tell them what do you think I just sit at home in my poncho and sombrero waiting for the next FAF message to pop through my inbox, no, ain’t gonna happen buddy etc etc, takes me over 8 minutes to get fresh for the weekend, so I can’t meet at the drop of a hat.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"He’s now decided to message again and gave another go about me being online but not meeting. Apparently “you wouldn’t stand at a bus stop if you weren’t waiting for a bus”.

Definitely blocked now"

God I'm always on line

It sounds like a lucky escape!

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By *ooBulMan
over a year ago

Missin’ Yo’ Kissin’

Op, don't read - just delete next time & block so you don't get extra hassle.

If they persist say in forums - ingore, don't react. Eventually they will get the message & piss off!

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By *ooBulMan
over a year ago

Missin’ Yo’ Kissin’

....Oh, & don't forget to write a note just in case they change username!!!

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By *rhugesMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

I've had that a few times , saying are you free now at about 9pm.

I generally need a couple of days notice to get shaved and cleaned up ,may be a haircut.

I get so few offers so when something like that come through it's really frustrating

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