FabSwingers.com forum: What's wrong with me to be neglected?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Been here for a while now, spending time and sending ladies who I find attractive and looking for someone my age, sending face pics too

I have been told that I have good stamina, fit, good looking and very clean, I am professional and smart

I do respect people who I text but still getting ignored or i am not their type.

Is it normal or its something wrong with me?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Give it time you’ve only been here 4 weeks. Look for social gatherings etc first.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's normal. There are a couple of threads a day from people saying the same thing. Day in, day out.

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By *iBBWLondonWoman
over a year ago

London

You can’t be doing that badly; you’ve got kitty in your friends list…

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I mean there’s a guy at least every day posting your same concern x

Patience is key x

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"You can’t be doing that badly; you’ve got kitty in your friends list…

Can people see who you’re friends with?!

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

"You can’t be doing that badly; you’ve got kitty in your friends list…

Can people see who you’re friends with?!

Not in the mobile version but on a pc if they haven't picked the hide option

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks x

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"You can’t be doing that badly; you’ve got kitty in your friends list…

Can people see who you’re friends with?!

Not in the mobile version but on a pc if they haven't picked the hide option"

where’s the hide option?

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

"You can’t be doing that badly; you’ve got kitty in your friends list…

Can people see who you’re friends with?!

Not in the mobile version but on a pc if they haven't picked the hide option

where’s the hide option?"

Account and then privacy settings

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By *ookie46Woman
over a year ago

Deepest darkest Peru

"You can’t be doing that badly; you’ve got kitty in your friends list…

Can people see who you’re friends with?!

Not in the mobile version but on a pc if they haven't picked the hide option

where’s the hide option?"

Privacy settings twinny

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Got you as long as it's not cause of me

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By *zlakMan
over a year ago

Norwich

"You can’t be doing that badly; you’ve got kitty in your friends list…

Can people see who you’re friends with?!

Not in the mobile version but on a pc if they haven't picked the hide option

where’s the hide option?

Its in the privicy settings scroll down to show friends

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Some people you can't not send an add request and she is amazing

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By *tue555Man
over a year ago

Passed Beyond Reach

Don't have boobs? Someone had to say it .

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

Ah ok thanks people! All good xx

Sorry op. Back to you

. Give it time you’ve not been on long. You look good to me from what I can see.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Been here for a while now, spending time and sending ladies who I find attractive and looking for someone my age, sending face pics too

I have been told that I have good stamina, fit, good looking and very clean, I am professional and smart

I do respect people who I text but still getting ignored or i am not their type.

Is it normal or its something wrong with me? "

Completely and utterly normal for Fab. I don’t know what the ratio of men:women is here, but it’s probably about 100:1, if not greater.

You just have to stick with it and play the game.

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By *aughtynottsCouple
over a year ago

Outside Nottingham

I’d work on your bio and change your wording a bit a little more effort into it and a few more pictures that give more of an idea of what you look like x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thank you everyone x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I’d work on your bio and change your wording a bit a little more effort into it and a few more pictures that give more of an idea of what you look like x "

Can you tell me more about it please?

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By *-4pleasureCouple
over a year ago

Belfast

"Been here for a while now, spending time and sending ladies who I find attractive and looking for someone my age, sending face pics too

I have been told that I have good stamina, fit, good looking and very clean, I am professional and smart

I do respect people who I text but still getting ignored or i am not their type.

Is it normal or its something wrong with me? "

“Neglected” means “not receiving proper attention”. It use in this context smacks of entitlement and victimisation. Why do you feel you deserve people’s attention?

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By *iBBWLondonWoman
over a year ago

London

"I’d work on your bio and change your wording a bit a little more effort into it and a few more pictures that give more of an idea of what you look like x "

Yes OP, exactly this ^^

And have patience

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Been here for a while now, spending time and sending ladies who I find attractive and looking for someone my age, sending face pics too

I have been told that I have good stamina, fit, good looking and very clean, I am professional and smart

I do respect people who I text but still getting ignored or i am not their type.

Is it normal or its something wrong with me?

“Neglected” means “not receiving proper attention”. It use in this context smacks of entitlement and victimisation. Why do you feel you deserve people’s attention? "

Thats not what I meant and I am not entitled or a victim

I was only seeking advice but thanks for making it clear. Have a good day

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By *ecretpassion100Couple
over a year ago

Walsall

Apparently you are not looking to meet couples so straight away you lost my wife as were stag vixen if you don't know what it is look up stag vixen couple ..might help a little

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By *iBBWLondonWoman
over a year ago

London

"Ah ok thanks people! All good xx

Sorry op. Back to you

. Give it time you’ve not been on long. You look good to me from what I can see. "

Sorry to tread on the toes of your post, OP, but I have a ‘Hello, hope you’re doing ok” from your very first Fab meet, Nora xx

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By *igmaMan
over a year ago

Yorkshire

I’d probably consult a professional sexologist.

Maybe they can help you out ?!?

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By *oxy lady40Woman
over a year ago

bridgwater

Your pictures are good , maybe work on your bio

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most guys whom I strike up a conversation with or even (gasp) message first are on the forums. And a few guys have told me that's how they're getting chats and meets. It's the secret sauce!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Apparently you are not looking to meet couples so straight away you lost my wife as were stag vixen if you don't know what it is look up stag vixen couple ..might help a little "

I just noticed it

And i know what is stag vixen, been with a wife many times before

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By *bsinthe_boyMan
over a year ago

Luton

Four weeks is nothing here. There are ten or more men for every woman so you need to stand out, sell yourself.

You're of to a better start than many as your photos are way better than average. More profile text and get yourself known in the forums. Consider a social event. As people get to know you, so you will find it easier to get chatting and meet.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

What's a fuckbody? Like a blow up doll? Just lay there like a sack of spuds and get what you're given?

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"Ah ok thanks people! All good xx

Sorry op. Back to you

. Give it time you’ve not been on long. You look good to me from what I can see.

Sorry to tread on the toes of your post, OP, but I have a ‘Hello, hope you’re doing ok” from your very first Fab meet, Nora xx

Bloody hope not. It was a disaster and I nearly decked him

. Can’t think who! I’ve messaged you x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What's a fuckbody? Like a blow up doll? Just lay there like a sack of spuds and get what you're given?"

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By *ickyRoosterMan
over a year ago

Uppendown

Hi Sexologist,

For what it's worth from an old bi guy like wot I am

I would support what the other posters have advised. Patience. Don't let frustration come out in your posts/messages and go to socials and clubs. I was treading water for a long while until I took a deep breath, dug out a pair of big boy pants, put them on and went to a club. It's great meeting other Fabbers face to face and having a drink and a natter. It puts a rwal, human perspective on the profile pics and texts.

And, if you don't mind me saying in a non bi or pervy way.....ahem....you have a great body and you are young. You'll be fine. Good luck.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

Your profile pic is cool. Almost Atlas like. Although I imagine having to do a split legged handstand and have you dip it in to fornicate

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

Are you pretty?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What's a fuckbody? Like a blow up doll? Just lay there like a sack of spuds and get what you're given?"

I recon it's like one of those CPR dolls

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By *ecretpassion100Couple
over a year ago

Walsall

"What's a fuckbody? Like a blow up doll? Just lay there like a sack of spuds and get what you're given?"
only you peachy ha ha x

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By *opinovMan
over a year ago

Point Nemo, Cumbria

Have you considered using the word 'whom' in correct place of 'who'..?

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