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Dont be submissive.....

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By *ubmissiveman2u OP   Man
over a year ago

Cheshire

Being asked to change my way of thinking, stop being submissive and I will date you. Anybody else had this happen, people wanting to change your lifetime personality?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love being a sub and couldn’t imagine changing. Love serving and being punished by real men

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, people have asked me to stop being a knobhead, no way I say, I’m not changing for anyone

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By *ubmissiveman2u OP   Man
over a year ago

Cheshire

We should start a submissive loud and proud forum. Thanks for your replies, am not alone after all...

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln

Sounds like it's time to move on from that person then...

LvM

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You cannot change that aspect of your personality. At least you cannot and remain happy in yourself.

I did a lot of therapy to remove what I felt were negative aspects from my personality.

In the end I ended up embracing my "control issues" and my overthinking. I'm happy when I'm in control. My wife is also happy when I'm in control. So what's the harm.

Above all else OP you have to be genuine to yourself. Otherwise you are playing pretend and that's too much work

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By *immyinreadingMan
over a year ago

henley on thames


"Being asked to change my way of thinking, stop being submissive and I will date you. Anybody else had this happen, people wanting to change your lifetime personality? "

I remember seeing the title of a play once, “I love you, you’re perfect, now change”

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm weirdly wonderful, enjoy the ride or get off the bus. I'm not going to make myself unhappy to try and fit in with others. It's taken a lifetime to become this bitter and twisted, I'm not about to become sweetness and light now.

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By *ubmissiveman2u OP   Man
over a year ago

Cheshire


"I'm weirdly wonderful, enjoy the ride or get off the bus. I'm not going to make myself unhappy to try and fit in with others. It's taken a lifetime to become this bitter and twisted, I'm not about to become sweetness and light now. "

XXX

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend


"Being asked to change my way of thinking, stop being submissive and I will date you. Anybody else had this happen, people wanting to change your lifetime personality? "
just say all right then... whatever you say

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just tell them of course your change and you will do absolutely anything they ask you to do . Ha ha ha

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