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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Kinda put off by the regular women on here who show weekly photos of them getting fucked.

Is that how women feel when men post the same ?

Lol !

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford

Amazingly, women being judged harshly for enjoying sex is not a new thing.

Nor is it a good thing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some do some don’t

But it’s personal preference everyone is different

It’s the person profile they intitled to post what they want

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I guess they are looking for men that do like women that post play pics regularly...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Let's embrace the love ! Let's embrace equality and open mindedness.

Let's all have fun and respect each others souls x

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

Apparently, women love to see “men hanging out the back of other women”

Pictures of this work every time to “woo” women. Lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Kinda put off by the regular women on here who show weekly photos of them getting fucked.

Is that how women feel when men post the same ?

Lol ! "

Do you watch porn though? Likely you do and that's ok but real life women having sex isn't ok? I personally don't want to see the sex pics and I won't be sharing any - but coming to a swing site and shaming people isn't on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I quite like to see a woman regularly fucked silly myself. Preferably by lots of different people, often at the same time. But there we go, no accounting for taste is there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You know its a sex site right?? And that's what we do... Fuck each others brains out and show off our trophies as glorious memories.. Good times!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Each to their own… we all have preferences, if you don’t want to see block… it’s quite easy to do xx

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

East Sussex

I'm not keen on single profiles with action shots on them whatever gender.

That's just me, other people might feel differently.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Keep it classy ladies. Piss flaps keep them in,anal beads no .

Class, seductivness, sexness and teasing. I mean why show the piss flaps from day 1 !?!?

Keep it classy ladies

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm not keen on single profiles with action shots on them whatever gender.

That's just me, other people might feel differently."

Here here x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You know its a sex site right?? And that's what we do... Fuck each others brains out and show off our trophies as glorious memories.. Good times! "

Yip I mean my knickers literally live at my ankles ha ha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You know its a sex site right?? And that's what we do... Fuck each others brains out and show off our trophies as glorious memories.. Good times!

Yip I mean my knickers literally live at my ankles ha ha "

Mine too, but that's a different issue

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West


"You know its a sex site right?? And that's what we do... Fuck each others brains out and show off our trophies as glorious memories.. Good times!

Yip I mean my knickers literally live at my ankles ha ha

Mine too, but that's a different issue"

New elastic, Madam?

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By *revaunanceCouple
over a year ago

Exeter


"Kinda put off by the regular women on here who show weekly photos of them getting fucked.

Is that how women feel when men post the same ?

Lol ! "

Why not just block and move on?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You know its a sex site right?? And that's what we do... Fuck each others brains out and show off our trophies as glorious memories.. Good times!

Yip I mean my knickers literally live at my ankles ha ha

Mine too, but that's a different issue"

Ha ha lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Amazingly, women being judged harshly for enjoying sex is not a new thing.

Nor is it a good thing "

But men are deemed the scum 9f the earth

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Keep it classy ladies. Piss flaps keep them in,anal beads no .

Class, seductivness, sexness and teasing. I mean why show the piss flaps from day 1 !?!?

Keep it classy ladies"

Piss flaps

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By *iss LovelyWoman
over a year ago

Here and There

What kind of women were you hoping to meet here on Fabswingers OP? If regular casual sex and graphic pics aren’t your thing then are you sure you’re in the right place?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You know its a sex site right?? And that's what we do... Fuck each others brains out and show off our trophies as glorious memories.. Good times!

Yip I mean my knickers literally live at my ankles ha ha

Mine too, but that's a different issue

New elastic, Madam? "

More of an approval issue

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What kind of women were you hoping to meet here on Fabswingers OP? If regular casual sex and graphic pics aren’t your thing then are you sure you’re in the right place?"

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By *uddy laneMan
over a year ago

dudley


"Kinda put off by the regular women on here who show weekly photos of them getting fucked.

Is that how women feel when men post the same ?

Lol ! "

You can always admit defeat and use the block feature.

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By *iss LovelyWoman
over a year ago

Here and There

[Removed by poster at 02/09/21 23:54:46]

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Amazingly, women being judged harshly for enjoying sex is not a new thing.

Nor is it a good thing

But men are deemed the scum 9f the earth "

Are they really?

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By *layful HarlequinMan
over a year ago

iver heath

Erm say what now

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"What kind of women were you hoping to meet here on Fabswingers OP? If regular casual sex and graphic pics aren’t your thing then are you sure you’re in the right place?"

Probably not tbh and your right.

8 can look at porn for stuff like this but I'd rather see "that"at a later date

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

But men are daily !!!! That is my issue!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Keep it classy ladies. Piss flaps keep them in,anal beads no .

Class, seductivness, sexness and teasing. I mean why show the piss flaps from day 1 !?!?

Keep it classy ladies"

So classy calling them piss flaps

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Keep it classy ladies. Piss flaps keep them in,anal beads no .

Class, seductivness, sexness and teasing. I mean why show the piss flaps from day 1 !?!?

Keep it classy ladies"

There are some completely charming guys on here. You wouldn't think so sometimes

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Because I feel that women are afforded so much more than men .

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Im a gentlemen and woukd rather keep it that way ! You can see my "piss flaps " on days 5 hahah

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Keep it classy ladies. Piss flaps keep them in,anal beads no .

Class, seductivness, sexness and teasing. I mean why show the piss flaps from day 1 !?!?

Keep it classy ladies

There are some completely charming guys on here. You wouldn't think so sometimes"

Makes me want to exercise my piss flaps. Such classy terminology.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im a gentlemen and woukd rather keep it that way ! You can see my "piss flaps " on days 5 hahah "

Gentlemen don't start threads just to shame women

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By *iss LovelyWoman
over a year ago

Here and There


"What kind of women were you hoping to meet here on Fabswingers OP? If regular casual sex and graphic pics aren’t your thing then are you sure you’re in the right place?

Probably not tbh and your right.

8 can look at porn for stuff like this but I'd rather see "that"at a later date "

I think you’ll find many sex positive women here on Fab that are living their best lives. There tends to be a very relaxed attitude to sex and often women like to post pictures that make them feel sexy. If you don’t like that kind of thing the onus is on you to avoid it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I dont shame women... I love women.

Women who shame men for doing exactly what they do are shameful and that is increasing

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By *iss LovelyWoman
over a year ago

Here and There


"Im a gentlemen and woukd rather keep it that way ! You can see my "piss flaps " on days 5 hahah "

I’d have to disagree. Your posts on this thread have been anything but gentlemanly.

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By *inkylipsWoman
over a year ago

Debauchery


"Keep it classy ladies. Piss flaps keep them in,anal beads no .

Class, seductivness, sexness and teasing. I mean why show the piss flaps from day 1 !?!?

Keep it classy ladies"

Piss flaps…. Really? that saying puts me off more than seeing people enjoy themselves.

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By *iss LovelyWoman
over a year ago

Here and There


"I dont shame women... I love women.

Women who shame men for doing exactly what they do are shameful and that is increasing "

You have tried to shame women who have regular sex and post pics of their genitals.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All I'm saying is that it's up to personal preference and taste some do some don't but it's not cool to judge anyone based on being on a, site such as this

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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago

Doire Theas

I don’t do that who does

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don’t do that who does "

A lot of women ! Exactly!

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

I've never posted a picture of my vulva, but dammit I'm going to go anatomical in a minute

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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago

Doire Theas


"I've never posted a picture of my vulva, but dammit I'm going to go anatomical in a minute "

A vulva pic who does that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is a confussing thread... people meet and sometimes they fuck lol.

Then they like to share with the group

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I dont shame women... I love women.

Women who shame men for doing exactly what they do are shameful and that is increasing "

So you want to control what women are allowed to post on this site (keep it classy, ladies!) and you're calling women out for being hypocrites. I see women object to unsolicited pics and the abusive and graphic messages they receive from men. I don't see women shaming men for posting sexual content on the site.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West


"I've never posted a picture of my vulva, but dammit I'm going to go anatomical in a minute

A vulva pic who does that "

Vulva owners

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By *layful HarlequinMan
over a year ago

iver heath

Heating up nicely sorry had to pop out and use the old piss stick

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

My point is that men get shamed and dissed everyday on here for wanting to meet women.

A woman posts a vulva pic and men are interested they get shot down for being a perve , a pest, ... whats ever... it has to work both ways... for me .... keep it classy

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By *ookie46Woman
over a year ago

Deepest darkest Peru


"I've never posted a picture of my vulva, but dammit I'm going to go anatomical in a minute

A vulva pic who does that

Vulva owners "

I’m tired I read that as Volvo owners

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" My point is that men get shamed and dissed everyday on here for wanting to meet women.

A woman posts a vulva pic and men are interested they get shot down for being a perve , a pest, ... whats ever... it has to work both ways... for me .... keep it classy "

You're not even engaging in a debate just throwing out more wild statements

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I dont shame women... I love women.

Women who shame men for doing exactly what they do are shameful and that is increasing

So you want to control what women are allowed to post on this site (keep it classy, ladies!) and

you're calling women out for being hypocrites. I see women object to unsolicited pics and the abusive and graphic messages they receive from men. I don't see women shaming men for posting sexual content on the site. "

That's very true tbh and you raise yiur point well +

Sorry if I have annoyed anyone. Jusy thought I wanted to provoke this issue. Much love to everyone x

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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago

Doire Theas


"I've never posted a picture of my vulva, but dammit I'm going to go anatomical in a minute

A vulva pic who does that

Vulva owners

I’m tired I read that as Volvo owners "

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West


"I've never posted a picture of my vulva, but dammit I'm going to go anatomical in a minute

A vulva pic who does that

Vulva owners

I’m tired I read that as Volvo owners "

Volvo owners are the worst for taking lewd images of lady gardens and clitorii and other such things. It's the Swedish-ness oozing out, like gentleman's relish blobbing out of..... the place it is splodged

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By *layful HarlequinMan
over a year ago

iver heath


"I've never posted a picture of my vulva, but dammit I'm going to go anatomical in a minute

A vulva pic who does that

Vulva owners

I’m tired I read that as Volvo owners "

Me too Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" My point is that men get shamed and dissed everyday on here for wanting to meet women.

A woman posts a vulva pic and men are interested they get shot down for being a perve , a pest, ... whats ever... it has to work both ways... for me .... keep it classy "

I think your wrong, if a woman posts pics in here she knows what she is attracting and if she doesn’t like the attraction she uses the block button…. It’s simple

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By *uke OzadeMan
over a year ago

Ho Chi Minge City


"I've never posted a picture of my vulva, but dammit I'm going to go anatomical in a minute

A vulva pic who does that

Vulva owners

I’m tired I read that as Volvo owners

Volvo owners are the worst for taking lewd images of lady gardens and clitorii and other such things. It's the Swedish-ness oozing out, like gentleman's relish blobbing out of..... the place it is splodged "

Exactly! And then they stereotype us as square glasses turtleneck wearing perverts yet I’ll have you know that’s a high end fashion statement and it’s classy too. Classy perves photographing classy vulvas

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By *nked rascalMan
over a year ago

Burton on Trent


"You know its a sex site right?? And that's what we do... Fuck each others brains out and show off our trophies as glorious memories.. Good times! "

THIS

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I went to the pub the other day and was horrified to see people drinking alcohol. Then I popped to the cinema and the whole place was full of people sitting around watching films. Finally I went to the aquarium, fish bloody fish everywhere. I wasn't expecting any of this crap!!! Whatever next, people having sex on Fabswingers?!!!

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West


"I went to the pub the other day and was horrified to see people drinking alcohol. Then I popped to the cinema and the whole place was full of people sitting around watching films. Finally I went to the aquarium, fish bloody fish everywhere. I wasn't expecting any of this crap!!! Whatever next, people having sex on Fabswingers?!!!"

I was expecting videos of people having a really good time on the swings. Absolutely traumatised! So much so, that we've never found our way back out of here

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By *tue555Man
over a year ago

Passed Beyond Reach

OP as far as I read was simple giving a viewpoint on the disparity of attitudes towards men posting "action" shots and women.

Don't believe the intention was to shame anyone, but that is how people saw it or should I say wanted to see it, went into defensive mode and others jumped on the band wagon in true forum style. Took offence when non intended

Maybe the point could have been put accross differently but it was simply, as I said, was simply to highlight the disparity. OP is entitled to his opinion just as any else is, agree or disagree but the shaming word used as the shutdown.

The gratuitous unsolicited cock pics and messages women get from guys is unacceptable but is a different issue.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I went to the pub the other day and was horrified to see people drinking alcohol. Then I popped to the cinema and the whole place was full of people sitting around watching films. Finally I went to the aquarium, fish bloody fish everywhere. I wasn't expecting any of this crap!!! Whatever next, people having sex on Fabswingers?!!!

I was expecting videos of people having a really good time on the swings. Absolutely traumatised! So much so, that we've never found our way back out of here "

Its all swings and roundabouts on here. Definitely a downwards slide.

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

The majority of the threads on the forums are lighthearted bits of fun. There are man bashing threads but these are often about specific behaviour that ‘some’ men get up to, not all.

These threads are easily ignored if they’ll upset you (why would they ? if you don’t actually do what women are complaining about anyway).

The women on here can do what every they like, it’s empowering for both sexes not just women.

I’m also free to express myself, it’s the best thing about the site, as Mel Gibson shouts out in the terrible film …. Freedom !!!!

Anyway what’s the question again

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West


"The majority of the threads on the forums are lighthearted bits of fun. There are man bashing threads but these are often about specific behaviour that ‘some’ men get up to, not all.

These threads are easily ignored if they’ll upset you (why would they ? if you don’t actually do what women are complaining about anyway).

The women on here can do what every they like, it’s empowering for both sexes not just women.

I’m also free to express myself, it’s the best thing about the site, as Mel Gibson shouts out in the terrible film …. Freedom !!!!

Anyway what’s the question again "

Flaps - classy or pissy? I think....

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By *uke OzadeMan
over a year ago

Ho Chi Minge City


"The majority of the threads on the forums are lighthearted bits of fun. There are man bashing threads but these are often about specific behaviour that ‘some’ men get up to, not all.

These threads are easily ignored if they’ll upset you (why would they ? if you don’t actually do what women are complaining about anyway).

The women on here can do what every they like, it’s empowering for both sexes not just women.

I’m also free to express myself, it’s the best thing about the site, as Mel Gibson shouts out in the terrible film …. Freedom !!!!

Anyway what’s the question again

Flaps - classy or pissy? I think.... "

Flappy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I Iike to see regular sex pictures of women enjoying themselves, the more of a whore the better lol. I get more turned on though if I see a picture of someone who I've had my eye on for awhile with none sexual pics and then one day she posts a pic of a big cock in her mouth and I'm like you are at it too!

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By *layful HarlequinMan
over a year ago

iver heath

Just thought about this shut down the forum fast otherwise what am I going to perv on

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire


"The majority of the threads on the forums are lighthearted bits of fun. There are man bashing threads but these are often about specific behaviour that ‘some’ men get up to, not all.

These threads are easily ignored if they’ll upset you (why would they ? if you don’t actually do what women are complaining about anyway).

The women on here can do what every they like, it’s empowering for both sexes not just women.

I’m also free to express myself, it’s the best thing about the site, as Mel Gibson shouts out in the terrible film …. Freedom !!!!

Anyway what’s the question again

Flaps - classy or pissy? I think.... "

Definitely flappy

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

It's taken me 3 years (jeez, I've been here way too long) to find the confidence to post a couple of more exhibitionist type pictures, and I'm glad I did. Because quite frankly I think my eyes look awful nice, and decidedly innocent despite the peen in my mouth.

And the amount of crap I've taken from posting the pics is ridiculous.

99% of the 7 billion pictures on my profile are pretty innocent for half naked/totally naked/suggestive photos and the second I pop something up that's not so much I get crap for it.

If you don't like the photos, OP, you don't have to look. And you don't have to attempt to meet the people that post them. There are plenty of other people on fab.

Happy fabbing.

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By *ablo minibar123Woman
over a year ago

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I'd love to see more pics on here of men getting fucked. I'm polishing up my 12 inch strap on vigorously at just the thought of it.

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By *layful HarlequinMan
over a year ago

iver heath


"I'd love to see more pics on here of men getting fucked. I'm polishing up my 12 inch strap on vigorously at just the thought of it."

Backs up out the room slowly 12 inch och

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Women will attack each other over pics or because they have met someone.

How it is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

See it as a filter and just avoid the people with pictures you don't like

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can’t say this bothers me ! Am not here to judge people just have a little fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Keep it classy ladies. Piss flaps keep them in,anal beads no .

Class, seductivness, sexness and teasing. I mean why show the piss flaps from day 1 !?!?

Keep it classy ladies"

That's so judgey! Who are you to decide what makes a woman classy?

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By *teve48ukMan
over a year ago

Ware

That’s very amusing!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Each to their own. If you don’t like it, block and move on.

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

Keep it naughty ladies...I love it

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By *annaBeStrongMan
over a year ago

wokingham

Is it shaming if you ask an opinion

I’m not exactly keen on pictures of wide open and often leaking vaginas

Is it shaming to express that?

I don’t agree with OPs opinion, but I don’t think he’s shaming anyone either. We all have our preferences, that’s his.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"I'm not keen on single profiles with action shots on them whatever gender.

That's just me, other people might feel differently."

But couples is OK?

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"Is it shaming if you ask an opinion

I’m not exactly keen on pictures of wide open and often leaking vaginas

Is it shaming to express that?

I don’t agree with OPs opinion, but I don’t think he’s shaming anyone either. We all have our preferences, that’s his. "

I think his 'keep it classy' comments might trip over into the shaming category though.

Having opinions is fine it's just a shame most don't have the tact to be able to air them without them dripping in judgment.

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By *annaBeStrongMan
over a year ago

wokingham


"Is it shaming if you ask an opinion

I’m not exactly keen on pictures of wide open and often leaking vaginas

Is it shaming to express that?

I don’t agree with OPs opinion, but I don’t think he’s shaming anyone either. We all have our preferences, that’s his.

I think his 'keep it classy' comments might trip over into the shaming category though.

Having opinions is fine it's just a shame most don't have the tact to be able to air them without them dripping in judgment. "

Isn’t it his opinion on what he finds classy though? Who decides what’s classy and what’s not except the person themselves? By saying that is shaming, aren’t you also indirectly shaming people by making a statement about what is and isn’t classy?

If he finds it classy, that’s his opinion, he’s not specifically shamed anyone, or said anything negative about what he thinks might not be classsy.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


" My point is that men get shamed and dissed everyday on here for wanting to meet women.

A woman posts a vulva pic and men are interested they get shot down for being a perve , a pest, ... whats ever... it has to work both ways... for me .... keep it classy "

They don't get shamed and dissed for wanting to meet women. Some of them get shamed and dissed for being dicks about it.

For sending opening messages like 'I'd fucking ruin you' or getting shitty when you dare to say no thank you (even worse when a fat Uggo like me has the audacity to say it).

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

Dont look OP

No need to be derogatory

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"Is it shaming if you ask an opinion

I’m not exactly keen on pictures of wide open and often leaking vaginas

Is it shaming to express that?

I don’t agree with OPs opinion, but I don’t think he’s shaming anyone either. We all have our preferences, that’s his.

I think his 'keep it classy' comments might trip over into the shaming category though.

Having opinions is fine it's just a shame most don't have the tact to be able to air them without them dripping in judgment.

Isn’t it his opinion on what he finds classy though? Who decides what’s classy and what’s not except the person themselves? By saying that is shaming, aren’t you also indirectly shaming people by making a statement about what is and isn’t classy?

If he finds it classy, that’s his opinion, he’s not specifically shamed anyone, or said anything negative about what he thinks might not be classsy."

I think you're choosing the wrong Hill to die on here and shoe Horning arguments.

I'm off to get ready for work lol.

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By *annaBeStrongMan
over a year ago

wokingham


"Is it shaming if you ask an opinion

I’m not exactly keen on pictures of wide open and often leaking vaginas

Is it shaming to express that?

I don’t agree with OPs opinion, but I don’t think he’s shaming anyone either. We all have our preferences, that’s his.

I think his 'keep it classy' comments might trip over into the shaming category though.

Having opinions is fine it's just a shame most don't have the tact to be able to air them without them dripping in judgment.

Isn’t it his opinion on what he finds classy though? Who decides what’s classy and what’s not except the person themselves? By saying that is shaming, aren’t you also indirectly shaming people by making a statement about what is and isn’t classy?

If he finds it classy, that’s his opinion, he’s not specifically shamed anyone, or said anything negative about what he thinks might not be classsy.

I think you're choosing the wrong Hill to die on here and shoe Horning arguments.

I'm off to get ready for work lol. "

I dunno what shoe horning an opinion is but I feel like you ducked out because there’s more truth in what I said then just mindlessly calling someone you don’t agree with “shaming”

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Keep it classy ladies. Piss flaps keep them in,anal beads no .

Class, seductivness, sexness and teasing. I mean why show the piss flaps from day 1 !?!?

Keep it classy ladies"

definitely keep is classy. however disagree on the anal bead pics. they’re hot

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By *rs mischiefWoman
over a year ago

Manchester


"Kinda put off by the regular women on here who show weekly photos of them getting fucked.

Is that how women feel when men post the same ?

Lol ! "

Each to their own, I like to leave things to the imagination..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Kinda put off by the regular women on here who show weekly photos of them getting fucked.

Is that how women feel when men post the same ?

Lol ! "

Back to the OP. No. I don't feel the same.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Keep it classy ladies. Piss flaps keep them in,anal beads no .

Class, seductivness, sexness and teasing. I mean why show the piss flaps from day 1 !?!?

Keep it classy ladies

That's so judgey! Who are you to decide what makes a woman classy?"

Very true! I think it's up to the individual to decide if they're classy or not, and a lot is about how you interact with others, not the photos you post.

I've stopped posting certain pictures because people were focusing too much on them when I have my face on my profile. There are also some things I might like to keep to myself, but I enjoy the content when others post it.

It's good to see people on here having fun. It's something I need to aspire to and have more of!

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"Is it shaming if you ask an opinion

I’m not exactly keen on pictures of wide open and often leaking vaginas

Is it shaming to express that?

I don’t agree with OPs opinion, but I don’t think he’s shaming anyone either. We all have our preferences, that’s his.

I think his 'keep it classy' comments might trip over into the shaming category though.

Having opinions is fine it's just a shame most don't have the tact to be able to air them without them dripping in judgment.

Isn’t it his opinion on what he finds classy though? Who decides what’s classy and what’s not except the person themselves? By saying that is shaming, aren’t you also indirectly shaming people by making a statement about what is and isn’t classy?

If he finds it classy, that’s his opinion, he’s not specifically shamed anyone, or said anything negative about what he thinks might not be classsy.

I think you're choosing the wrong Hill to die on here and shoe Horning arguments.

I'm off to get ready for work lol.

I dunno what shoe horning an opinion is but I feel like you ducked out because there’s more truth in what I said then just mindlessly calling someone you don’t agree with “shaming”"

Make up half on....

How is me saying him suggesting someone isn't classy because they have explicit pics on their profile me shaming anyone? I haven't made any comment on what I think is or isn't classy.

I don't give a flying fig what pics people put on their profile. 15 dick pics or 15 torso pics, whatever works for them.

After reading through the whole thread I can see that he is trying to say that women moan a lot about the content of men's profiles or approaches or types of pics and I guess they do. Perhaps it was a clumsy attempt at satire maybe?

I don't duck things, I simply have decided where to channel my energies better and not get in to trivial disagreements as much in here. Its rather liberating.

Enjoy your day.

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

I don't understand this thread at all .. it's a sex site FFS...what pictures should we post?

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By *iss LovelyWoman
over a year ago

Here and There


"I Iike to see regular sex pictures of women enjoying themselves, the more of a whore the better lol. I get more turned on though if I see a picture of someone who I've had my eye on for awhile with none sexual pics and then one day she posts a pic of a big cock in her mouth and I'm like you are at it too! "

Whore? A woman having sex is a whore?

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln


"I don't understand this thread at all .. it's a sex site FFS...what pictures should we post? "

Facebook-esque selfies obviously

LvM

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By *iss LovelyWoman
over a year ago

Here and There

OP is it just the pictures of the women having regular sex you don’t like, or that they’re doing it?

If someone on your hotlist was having sex with multiple partners each week but not posting pictures of it would that be ok?

Is the behaviour a turn of to you? Or just the pictures of it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it shaming if you ask an opinion

I’m not exactly keen on pictures of wide open and often leaking vaginas

Is it shaming to express that?

I don’t agree with OPs opinion, but I don’t think he’s shaming anyone either. We all have our preferences, that’s his.

I think his 'keep it classy' comments might trip over into the shaming category though.

Having opinions is fine it's just a shame most don't have the tact to be able to air them without them dripping in judgment.

Isn’t it his opinion on what he finds classy though? Who decides what’s classy and what’s not except the person themselves? By saying that is shaming, aren’t you also indirectly shaming people by making a statement about what is and isn’t classy?

If he finds it classy, that’s his opinion, he’s not specifically shamed anyone, or said anything negative about what he thinks might not be classsy.

I think you're choosing the wrong Hill to die on here and shoe Horning arguments.

I'm off to get ready for work lol.

I dunno what shoe horning an opinion is but I feel like you ducked out because there’s more truth in what I said then just mindlessly calling someone you don’t agree with “shaming”"

I was the one who said he was shaming at the start of the thread. I stand by that. Nor did I think I did it mindlessly? He is welcome to have his opinion just as we all do - however his language in posts was judgemental and then he also called women hypocritical when men posting sex pictures is not what we have an issue with nor criticise.

Women are so often shamed for their sexuality, for even enjoying sex, that whilst I don't post graphic photos, I think it's empowering that women do. And it's very easy to filter the site to see the kind of content you prefer isn't it?

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By *uciyassMan
over a year ago

sheffield

Dam I’ve run out of popcorn. Anyone got any cake

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I dont shame women... I love women.

Women who shame men for doing exactly what they do are shameful and that is increasing

So you want to control what women are allowed to post on this site (keep it classy, ladies!) and

you're calling women out for being hypocrites. I see women object to unsolicited pics and the abusive and graphic messages they receive from men. I don't see women shaming men for posting sexual content on the site.

That's very true tbh and you raise yiur point well +

Sorry if I have annoyed anyone. Jusy thought I wanted to provoke this issue. Much love to everyone x "

Thank you

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By *ancer36Woman
over a year ago

Stirling

Right now at this very moment there are over 26,000 online - everyone has a right to post as they wish, bypass what doesn’t appeal to you but don’t shame it on the way xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thought this was one place you could be yourself. If those pics offend uou don't look or move on. Criticising others because they don't have the same views , colour, race, morals etc as you is crass and out dated. Live and let live

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Right now at this very moment there are over 26,000 online - everyone has a right to post as they wish, bypass what doesn’t appeal to you but don’t shame it on the way xxx"

Well said and agrees with my post xx

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By *ersey GirlCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

people moaning about or slagging off what pictures people put up is boring as fuck,

we all have our own profiles to do as we want and usually to please ourselves

if you dont like it just move on

s

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"people moaning about or slagging off what pictures people put up is boring as fuck,

we all have our own profiles to do as we want and usually to please ourselves

if you dont like it just move on

s

"

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By *edbath 5Man
over a year ago

london

Good luck to the girls for having fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"people moaning about or slagging off what pictures people put up is boring as fuck,

we all have our own profiles to do as we want and usually to please ourselves

if you dont like it just move on

Agreed , i dread to think what he makes of your pictures !!!! Whichb I love by the way lol

s

"

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By *tue555Man
over a year ago

Passed Beyond Reach


"I don't understand this thread at all .. it's a sex site FFS...what pictures should we post? "

As I said said ^^^^^ the original post I read was about disparity. How many threads and posts from women use the same term "put them off" to describe seeing all these cock pic/action shots on male profiles.

No one bats an eyelid, but as soon as a guy says it about pics on a woman profile, expresses an opinion "he's shaming". Then the thread becomes a thread trying belittle 'shutdown' the poster for an opinion they didn't like.

Bring in a group of unrelated analogies back up their faux abhorrence.

Of course women can post whatever pictures they like its their choice, but a guy is not allowed to have the opinion on those pictures that doesn't fawn over them.

If the OP had been female this thread would have gone in a completely different direction- simples.

OP finds those pictures a put-off, so do I and sure there are others that do but that is not shaming it is simply and opinion.

Shaming is what many of the posts are trying to do to the OP for having an opinion they didn't like

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By *uitednbooted2Man
over a year ago

Berkshire


"Right now at this very moment there are over 26,000 online - everyone has a right to post as they wish, bypass what doesn’t appeal to you but don’t shame it on the way xxx"

Exactly! People can post what they want. Some will love , some will hate! I love marmite btw

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By *iss LovelyWoman
over a year ago

Here and There


"I don't understand this thread at all .. it's a sex site FFS...what pictures should we post?

As I said said ^^^^^ the original post I read was about disparity. How many threads and posts from women use the same term "put them off" to describe seeing all these cock pic/action shots on male profiles.

No one bats an eyelid, but as soon as a guy says it about pics on a woman profile, expresses an opinion "he's shaming". Then the thread becomes a thread trying belittle 'shutdown' the poster for an opinion they didn't like.

Bring in a group of unrelated analogies back up their faux abhorrence.

Of course women can post whatever pictures they like its their choice, but a guy is not allowed to have the opinion on those pictures that doesn't fawn over them.

If the OP had been female this thread would have gone in a completely different direction- simples.

OP finds those pictures a put-off, so do I and sure there are others that do but that is not shaming it is simply and opinion.

Shaming is what many of the posts are trying to do to the OP for having an opinion they didn't like

"

As has been said above it was OP’s unpleasant, judgemental choice of language in the first and then subsequent posts that had prompted the comments about shaming. Maybe it was unintentional, but that’s certainly how it came across to many.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't understand this thread at all .. it's a sex site FFS...what pictures should we post?

As I said said ^^^^^ the original post I read was about disparity. How many threads and posts from women use the same term "put them off" to describe seeing all these cock pic/action shots on male profiles.

No one bats an eyelid, but as soon as a guy says it about pics on a woman profile, expresses an opinion "he's shaming". Then the thread becomes a thread trying belittle 'shutdown' the poster for an opinion they didn't like.

Bring in a group of unrelated analogies back up their faux abhorrence.

Of course women can post whatever pictures they like its their choice, but a guy is not allowed to have the opinion on those pictures that doesn't fawn over them.

If the OP had been female this thread would have gone in a completely different direction- simples.

OP finds those pictures a put-off, so do I and sure there are others that do but that is not shaming it is simply and opinion.

Shaming is what many of the posts are trying to do to the OP for having an opinion they didn't like

As has been said above it was OP’s unpleasant, judgemental choice of language in the first and then subsequent posts that had prompted the comments about shaming. Maybe it was unintentional, but that’s certainly how it came across to many.

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By *annaBeStrongMan
over a year ago

wokingham


"I don't understand this thread at all .. it's a sex site FFS...what pictures should we post?

As I said said ^^^^^ the original post I read was about disparity. How many threads and posts from women use the same term "put them off" to describe seeing all these cock pic/action shots on male profiles.

No one bats an eyelid, but as soon as a guy says it about pics on a woman profile, expresses an opinion "he's shaming". Then the thread becomes a thread trying belittle 'shutdown' the poster for an opinion they didn't like.

Bring in a group of unrelated analogies back up their faux abhorrence.

Of course women can post whatever pictures they like its their choice, but a guy is not allowed to have the opinion on those pictures that doesn't fawn over them.

If the OP had been female this thread would have gone in a completely different direction- simples.

OP finds those pictures a put-off, so do I and sure there are others that do but that is not shaming it is simply and opinion.

Shaming is what many of the posts are trying to do to the OP for having an opinion they didn't like

"

Basically this

Women on this site are happy to make threads bashing men in every way

A guy make some saying je doesn’t like the sexual pics and people call it shaming

It’s a rough double standard

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By *annaBeStrongMan
over a year ago

wokingham


"I don't understand this thread at all .. it's a sex site FFS...what pictures should we post?

As I said said ^^^^^ the original post I read was about disparity. How many threads and posts from women use the same term "put them off" to describe seeing all these cock pic/action shots on male profiles.

No one bats an eyelid, but as soon as a guy says it about pics on a woman profile, expresses an opinion "he's shaming". Then the thread becomes a thread trying belittle 'shutdown' the poster for an opinion they didn't like.

Bring in a group of unrelated analogies back up their faux abhorrence.

Of course women can post whatever pictures they like its their choice, but a guy is not allowed to have the opinion on those pictures that doesn't fawn over them.

If the OP had been female this thread would have gone in a completely different direction- simples.

OP finds those pictures a put-off, so do I and sure there are others that do but that is not shaming it is simply and opinion.

Shaming is what many of the posts are trying to do to the OP for having an opinion they didn't like

As has been said above it was OP’s unpleasant, judgemental choice of language in the first and then subsequent posts that had prompted the comments about shaming. Maybe it was unintentional, but that’s certainly how it came across to many.

"

People called shaming before he even responded to anyone.

I can kinda agree that some of his responses were a little off, but people were already crying “stop shaming us” before any of that. He just expression an opinion/preference

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I mean we are on fab, a sex site… so if some want to portray themselves as more forward or a bit of

A slut… Why not?

I definitely portray a certain way on here but in the real world I’m definitely a classy chic (with a wild side)

Only a handful of friends know about my sexscapades and what I get up to on fab…

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

If the pics are consistent with the rest of the profile it doesn't bother me what others post.

If the bio comes with a list of what they don't want to see in a man's profile but their pics don't reflect that sentiment then I know they are members of the do as I say, not as I do brigade so I move on.

Consistency in pics, bio, veries and forum posts is the first thing I look for before deciding if I will chat to someone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't understand this thread at all .. it's a sex site FFS...what pictures should we post?

As I said said ^^^^^ the original post I read was about disparity. How many threads and posts from women use the same term "put them off" to describe seeing all these cock pic/action shots on male profiles.

No one bats an eyelid, but as soon as a guy says it about pics on a woman profile, expresses an opinion "he's shaming". Then the thread becomes a thread trying belittle 'shutdown' the poster for an opinion they didn't like.

Bring in a group of unrelated analogies back up their faux abhorrence.

Of course women can post whatever pictures they like its their choice, but a guy is not allowed to have the opinion on those pictures that doesn't fawn over them.

If the OP had been female this thread would have gone in a completely different direction- simples.

OP finds those pictures a put-off, so do I and sure there are others that do but that is not shaming it is simply and opinion.

Shaming is what many of the posts are trying to do to the OP for having an opinion they didn't like

As has been said above it was OP’s unpleasant, judgemental choice of language in the first and then subsequent posts that had prompted the comments about shaming. Maybe it was unintentional, but that’s certainly how it came across to many.

People called shaming before he even responded to anyone.

I can kinda agree that some of his responses were a little off, but people were already crying “stop shaming us” before any of that. He just expression an opinion/preference "

That's fair. And it's made me reflect if I would do the same if a woman posted. I was too quick to jump in - my bad.

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By *iss LovelyWoman
over a year ago

Here and There


"I don't understand this thread at all .. it's a sex site FFS...what pictures should we post?

As I said said ^^^^^ the original post I read was about disparity. How many threads and posts from women use the same term "put them off" to describe seeing all these cock pic/action shots on male profiles.

No one bats an eyelid, but as soon as a guy says it about pics on a woman profile, expresses an opinion "he's shaming". Then the thread becomes a thread trying belittle 'shutdown' the poster for an opinion they didn't like.

Bring in a group of unrelated analogies back up their faux abhorrence.

Of course women can post whatever pictures they like its their choice, but a guy is not allowed to have the opinion on those pictures that doesn't fawn over them.

If the OP had been female this thread would have gone in a completely different direction- simples.

OP finds those pictures a put-off, so do I and sure there are others that do but that is not shaming it is simply and opinion.

Shaming is what many of the posts are trying to do to the OP for having an opinion they didn't like

As has been said above it was OP’s unpleasant, judgemental choice of language in the first and then subsequent posts that had prompted the comments about shaming. Maybe it was unintentional, but that’s certainly how it came across to many.

People called shaming before he even responded to anyone.

I can kinda agree that some of his responses were a little off, but people were already crying “stop shaming us” before any of that. He just expression an opinion/preference "

I think the first post came across as shaming too tbh. It’s the insinuation that there’s something wrong with a women having multiple sexual partners and sharing pics of it.

As with anything there are different view points, of course. Everything anyone says is their opinion, it doesn’t mean it’s not something else as well. I could say ‘I think that pictures of fat people having sex is really off putting, does anyone else agree?’ It might be my opinion but it’s also implying that fat people should keep pictures of them having sex to themselves so as not to repulse others. It’s also encouraging other people to also make comments about said fat peoples pictures. So it’s an opinion, but also more.

We’re all entitled to our opinions, but if it how you share them is important.

*disclaimer - I’m a fat person who often shares pictures of myself having sex. That’s not really my opinion

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don't understand this thread at all .. it's a sex site FFS...what pictures should we post?

As I said said ^^^^^ the original post I read was about disparity. How many threads and posts from women use the same term "put them off" to describe seeing all these cock pic/action shots on male profiles.

No one bats an eyelid, but as soon as a guy says it about pics on a woman profile, expresses an opinion "he's shaming". Then the thread becomes a thread trying belittle 'shutdown' the poster for an opinion they didn't like.

Bring in a group of unrelated analogies back up their faux abhorrence.

Of course women can post whatever pictures they like its their choice, but a guy is not allowed to have the opinion on those pictures that doesn't fawn over them.

If the OP had been female this thread would have gone in a completely different direction- simples.

OP finds those pictures a put-off, so do I and sure there are others that do but that is not shaming it is simply and opinion.

Shaming is what many of the posts are trying to do to the OP for having an opinion they didn't like

"

Here Here!

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By * and R cple4Couple
over a year ago

swansea


"I don't understand this thread at all .. it's a sex site FFS...what pictures should we post?

As I said said ^^^^^ the original post I read was about disparity. How many threads and posts from women use the same term "put them off" to describe seeing all these cock pic/action shots on male profiles.

No one bats an eyelid, but as soon as a guy says it about pics on a woman profile, expresses an opinion "he's shaming". Then the thread becomes a thread trying belittle 'shutdown' the poster for an opinion they didn't like.

Bring in a group of unrelated analogies back up their faux abhorrence.

Of course women can post whatever pictures they like its their choice, but a guy is not allowed to have the opinion on those pictures that doesn't fawn over them.

If the OP had been female this thread would have gone in a completely different direction- simples.

OP finds those pictures a put-off, so do I and sure there are others that do but that is not shaming it is simply and opinion.

Shaming is what many of the posts are trying to do to the OP for having an opinion they didn't like

Basically this

Women on this site are happy to make threads bashing men in every way

A guy make some saying je doesn’t like the sexual pics and people call it shaming

It’s a rough double standard "

there’s been numerous threads about single men that have pics of numerous women on their profile and the assumption that they don’t have permission and how it’s a turn off .That’s their opinion and everyone is entitled to one including the op .

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land


"Keep it classy ladies. Piss flaps keep them in,anal beads no .

Class, seductivness, sexness and teasing. I mean why show the piss flaps from day 1 !?!?

Keep it classy ladies"

Why use such vulgar terminology should we call your penis a piss stick?

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By *andsome HandMan
over a year ago

roundabout


"I mean we are on fab, a sex site… so if some want to portray themselves as more forward or a bit of

A slut… Why not?

I definitely portray a certain way on here but in the real world I’m definitely a classy chic (with a wild side)

Only a handful of friends know about my sexscapades and what I get up to on fab… "

That tart

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't understand this thread at all .. it's a sex site FFS...what pictures should we post?

As I said said ^^^^^ the original post I read was about disparity. How many threads and posts from women use the same term "put them off" to describe seeing all these cock pic/action shots on male profiles.

No one bats an eyelid, but as soon as a guy says it about pics on a woman profile, expresses an opinion "he's shaming". Then the thread becomes a thread trying belittle 'shutdown' the poster for an opinion they didn't like.

Bring in a group of unrelated analogies back up their faux abhorrence.

Of course women can post whatever pictures they like its their choice, but a guy is not allowed to have the opinion on those pictures that doesn't fawn over them.

If the OP had been female this thread would have gone in a completely different direction- simples.

OP finds those pictures a put-off, so do I and sure there are others that do but that is not shaming it is simply and opinion.

Shaming is what many of the posts are trying to do to the OP for having an opinion they didn't like

"

And yet you've tried to shame me on here. I would have made the same comment to whatever gender the op was. Its not me making this a male vs female thing. I was just pointing out the bloody obvious. A sex site will contain images of sex and the people on it may well enjoy it often.

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By *tue555Man
over a year ago

Passed Beyond Reach

[Removed by poster at 03/09/21 09:38:40]

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By *tue555Man
over a year ago

Passed Beyond Reach


"As has been said above it was OP’s unpleasant, judgemental choice of language in the first and then subsequent posts that had prompted the comments about shaming. Maybe it was unintentional, but that’s certainly how it came across to many.

"

Isn't that it in nutshell just another opinion - does that have more merit than the OPS? Aren't these opinions just as unpleasant and judgemental as they are claiming the OPs are? What makes these opinions more valid than the Ops? How does it go something like "Do not judge thee, lest be judged yourselves".

Has just been said people had already called the post shaming even before the OP had responded - people read into posts what they want based on their own viewpoint and they feel their viewpoint has more merit or simply just gives themselves an opportunity to elevate themselves above the OP in the eyes of others.

The words he used in the first post are the same as those used in many instances by women to describe male profiles. How is this judgemental and them not?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I mean we are on fab, a sex site… so if some want to portray themselves as more forward or a bit of

A slut… Why not?

I definitely portray a certain way on here but in the real world I’m definitely a classy chic (with a wild side)

Only a handful of friends know about my sexscapades and what I get up to on fab…

That tart"

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By *iss LovelyWoman
over a year ago

Here and There


"As has been said above it was OP’s unpleasant, judgemental choice of language in the first and then subsequent posts that had prompted the comments about shaming. Maybe it was unintentional, but that’s certainly how it came across to many.

Isn't that it in nutshell just another opinion - does that have more merit than the OPS? Aren't these opinions just as unpleasant and judgemental as they are claiming the OPs are? What makes these opinions more valid than the Ops? How does it go something like "Do not judge thee, lest be judged yourselves".

Has just been said people had already called the post shaming even before the OP had responded - people read into posts what they want based on their own viewpoint and they feel their viewpoint has more merit or simply just gives themselves an opportunity to elevate themselves above the OP in the eyes of others.

The words he used in the first post are the same as those used in many instances by women to describe male profiles. How is this judgemental and them not?

"

I commented on this above

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By *tue555Man
over a year ago

Passed Beyond Reach


"I don't understand this thread at all .. it's a sex site FFS...what pictures should we post?

As I said said ^^^^^ the original post I read was about disparity. How many threads and posts from women use the same term "put them off" to describe seeing all these cock pic/action shots on male profiles.

No one bats an eyelid, but as soon as a guy says it about pics on a woman profile, expresses an opinion "he's shaming". Then the thread becomes a thread trying belittle 'shutdown' the poster for an opinion they didn't like.

Bring in a group of unrelated analogies back up their faux abhorrence.

Of course women can post whatever pictures they like its their choice, but a guy is not allowed to have the opinion on those pictures that doesn't fawn over them.

If the OP had been female this thread would have gone in a completely different direction- simples.

OP finds those pictures a put-off, so do I and sure there are others that do but that is not shaming it is simply and opinion.

Shaming is what many of the posts are trying to do to the OP for having an opinion they didn't like

And yet you've tried to shame me on here. I would have made the same comment to whatever gender the op was. Its not me making this a male vs female thing. I was just pointing out the bloody obvious. A sex site will contain images of sex and the people on it may well enjoy it often. "

Yet isn’t this exactly what you trying to do to me "shame me" even when this post is not about you or related to you? You have made it personal so to try and "shame me" for having an opinion you didn't like which is exactly what this post was about!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Keep it classy ladies. Piss flaps keep them in,anal beads no .

Class, seductivness, sexness and teasing. I mean why show the piss flaps from day 1 !?!?

Keep it classy ladies"

The love the ironic and self depresiating posts we find on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think Dolly Parton summed up this thinking quite well...

"Now a man will take a good girl

And he'll ruin her reputation

But when he wants to marry

Well, that's a different situation

He'll just walk off and leave her

To do the best she can

While he looks for an angel

To wear his wedding band"

Lines from 'Just because I'm a woman'

Written in 1968 it shows that this thinking isn't a new thing

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By *aughtycouple1008Couple
over a year ago

west london

It's a sex site.......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have an announcement…

My inbox welcomes piss flaps.

Thank you please

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon


"I have an announcement…

My inbox welcomes piss flaps.

Thank you please"

Well Samuel.... as you asked so nicely.....

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth


"Keep it classy ladies. Piss flaps keep them in,anal beads no .

Class, seductivness, sexness and teasing. I mean why show the piss flaps from day 1 !?!?

Keep it classy ladies"

Who are you to tell other people what to do with their bodies and profiles?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have an announcement…

My inbox welcomes piss flaps.

Thank you please

Well Samuel.... as you asked so nicely....."

Mmmmm, piss flaps!

I love how they glisten

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Keep it classy ladies. Piss flaps keep them in,anal beads no .

Class, seductivness, sexness and teasing. I mean why show the piss flaps from day 1 !?!?

Keep it classy ladies"

I had pics on my profile of a male sub two months ago, who was fisting me whilst I knelt on his legs... I noticed you winked me then - I'll have a look and see if you had fabbed one of those pics back then hahaha

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon


"I have an announcement…

My inbox welcomes piss flaps.

Thank you please

Well Samuel.... as you asked so nicely.....

Mmmmm, piss flaps!

I love how they glisten "

It's the WD40 I use to keep them shiny....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Each to their own. If you don’t like it, block and move on. "

Exactly who are you op to say how others have their profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have an announcement…

My inbox welcomes piss flaps.

Thank you please

Well Samuel.... as you asked so nicely.....

Mmmmm, piss flaps!

I love how they glisten

It's the WD40 I use to keep them shiny.... "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Amazingly, women being judged harshly for enjoying sex is not a new thing.

Nor is it a good thing

But men are deemed the scum 9f the earth "

Not really

Some just compare to having less hassle, with rubber boy dildo at home

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By *tue555Man
over a year ago

Passed Beyond Reach

This thread like so many in these forums, has been twisted ! So it not about women's rights to post what they like on their profiles as that was never in-question.

But it is entirely about denying the the, right to have an opinion on it

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

Anyone can post what they like. I tend to move on or block if I don’t like it. Quite simple really.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only a mod can deny the right lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What he just said

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By *lexMegasMan
over a year ago

WREXHAM

OP logic - Some women may have judged men unfairly. To counter they I'm going to judge women unfairly.

Honestly pal, you're barely a few steps away from incel logic! Further more you come across as a horrid misogynist!

Ladies, not that you need permission, carry on sharing sexy pics!

Blokes, you carry on sharing sexy pics too.

And if you each trigger a simple minded fool along the way, all the better!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This thread like so many in these forums, has been twisted ! So it not about women's rights to post what they like on their profiles as that was never in-question.

But it is entirely about denying the the, right to have an opinion on it

"

Ahem. This is what the OP wrote ""Keep it classy ladies. Piss flaps keep them in,anal beads no .Class, seductivness, sexness and teasing. I mean why show the piss flaps from day 1 !?!?". His preference does not mean telling women what they can/can't post on their profiles. Same goes for men.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This thread like so many in these forums, has been twisted ! So it not about women's rights to post what they like on their profiles as that was never in-question.

But it is entirely about denying the the, right to have an opinion on it

Ahem. This is what the OP wrote ""Keep it classy ladies. Piss flaps keep them in,anal beads no .Class, seductivness, sexness and teasing. I mean why show the piss flaps from day 1 !?!?". His preference does not mean telling women what they can/can't post on their profiles. Same goes for men.

"

Thanks for fabbing me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This thread like so many in these forums, has been twisted ! So it not about women's rights to post what they like on their profiles as that was never in-question.

But it is entirely about denying the the, right to have an opinion on it

Ahem. This is what the OP wrote ""Keep it classy ladies. Piss flaps keep them in,anal beads no .Class, seductivness, sexness and teasing. I mean why show the piss flaps from day 1 !?!?". His preference does not mean telling women what they can/can't post on their profiles. Same goes for men.

Thanks for fabbing me "

Lol did you follow me from that thread? Happy to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Kinda put off by the regular women on here who show weekly photos of them getting fucked.

Is that how women feel when men post the same ?

Lol ! "

Yes, women don’t like a bloke hanging out the back of another woman, but it’s fine when they do it, them’s the rules.

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford


"Keep it classy ladies. Piss flaps keep them in,anal beads no .

Class, seductivness, sexness and teasing. I mean why show the piss flaps from day 1 !?!?

Keep it classy ladies"

If I want my piss flaps out they coming out! Pmsl x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I dont shame women... I love women.

Women who shame men for doing exactly what they do are shameful and that is increasing "

The shame has turned full circle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Keep it classy ladies. Piss flaps keep them in,anal beads no .

Class, seductivness, sexness and teasing. I mean why show the piss flaps from day 1 !?!?

Keep it classy ladies"

I don’t think a bloke that uses the phrase ‘piss flaps’ should be telling anyone on how to keep things classy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I dont shame women... I love women.

Women who shame men for doing exactly what they do are shameful and that is increasing

The shame has turned full circle"

That reminds me of the time I laughed so much at a friend who came back from the men’s room in our local with a very obvious piss patch on the front of his shorts that I pissed myself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Keep it classy ladies. Piss flaps keep them in,anal beads no .

Class, seductivness, sexness and teasing. I mean why show the piss flaps from day 1 !?!?

Keep it classy ladies

I don’t think a bloke that uses the phrase ‘piss flaps’ should be telling anyone on how to keep things classy. "

Lol so true

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I dont shame women... I love women.

Women who shame men for doing exactly what they do are shameful and that is increasing

The shame has turned full circle

That reminds me of the time I laughed so much at a friend who came back from the men’s room in our local with a very obvious piss patch on the front of his shorts that I pissed myself."

:D in your finest beige slacks too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t see a problem in the original post, I have come across many women profiles that have specified that men who have pics/videos of them fucking shouldn’t message them. That’s their preference and you can’t blame them for that, he feels the same way and I guess he just wanted to find others who do to. Think it has nothing to do with shaming

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By *iss LovelyWoman
over a year ago

Here and There


"I don’t see a problem in the original post, I have come across many women profiles that have specified that men who have pics/videos of them fucking shouldn’t message them. That’s their preference and you can’t blame them for that, he feels the same way and I guess he just wanted to find others who do to. Think it has nothing to do with shaming "

I think there’s a subtle difference. A profile saying that men with action shots shouldn’t message them is different to suggesting that women shouldn’t post the pics in the first place.

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