FabSwingers.com forum: Connect 4 fab style

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

There are a lot of profiles on fab stating they are looking for a connection before meeting.

For me there are 4 levels of connection.

1. You find someone attractive

2. You find than you can converse with them as a friend first and foremost

3. You have intellectual equivalence

4. Your values and life goals are aligned.

Do you have to connect all 4 before meeting? Or is 1 or 2 enough?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There are a lot of profiles on fab stating they are looking for a connection before meeting.

For me there are 4 levels of connection.

1. You find someone attractive

2. You find than you can converse with them as a friend first and foremost

3. You have intellectual equivalence

4. Your values and life goals are aligned.

Do you have to connect all 4 before meeting? Or is 1 or 2 enough? "

1 or 2 is enough for a fab meet really. Heck 1 is usually enough for a fab meet at least for me if I’m in the “looking for sex” mode

But if I want to date someone and that someone Is gonna turn into a potential partner then all 4 kinda need to align x

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By *andsome HandMan
over a year ago

roundabout

This is not what I expected at all

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

One and two definitely. 3 and 4 to a certain extent I suppose but not essential.

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston

It was always all 4 for me. Number 1 wasn’t anything to do with physical attraction it was about the person being attractive. Meeting a knob wasn’t for me as it was never just about sex. I wanted relationships just not exclusive ones. I gained far more from them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I thought you were on about the game

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

1 and 2.

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

Definitely has to get to two to get the conversation rolling, 3 and 4 follow sometimes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I'm planning sex with someone then life goals aren't high on my list of needs

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

1 to 3 is enough

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

More about a spark and feeling comfortable with someone, for me

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"If I'm planning sex with someone then life goals aren't high on my list of needs "

So 1/2 or 1/3?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If I'm planning sex with someone then life goals aren't high on my list of needs

So 1/2 or 1/3?"

1 and 2 for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Physical and mental attraction roll into one when I meet someone so 1 and 2 hard to separate.

Not sure what intellectual equivalence means ? I like a lively mind but that comes in so many forms.

Values and goals seems like more of a long term relationship factor. Generally on Fab if they don't drop litter or have plans to invade Poland then we're good.

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By *anae21Woman
over a year ago

Nearer than you think

1&2 are prerequisite even for a coffee, never mind sex.

3 is highly desirable.

4 would be the cherry on the cake.

I made the mistake of marrying someone on the basis of 1&2 only. Won't be doing that again!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Physical and mental attraction roll into one when I meet someone so 1 and 2 hard to separate.

Not sure what intellectual equivalence means ? I like a lively mind but that comes in so many forms.

Values and goals seems like more of a long term relationship factor. Generally on Fab if they don't drop litter or have plans to invade Poland then we're good.

What is mental attraction for you?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"1&2 are prerequisite even for a coffee, never mind sex.

3 is highly desirable.

4 would be the cherry on the cake.

I made the mistake of marrying someone on the basis of 1&2 only. Won't be doing that again!!

I do agree with you on points 1-4.

Even with a social it is always my intention that at the very least we part as friends.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"More about a spark and feeling comfortable with someone, for me"

So 1and 2?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There are a lot of profiles on fab stating they are looking for a connection before meeting.

For me there are 4 levels of connection.

1. You find someone attractive

2. You find than you can converse with them as a friend first and foremost

3. You have intellectual equivalence

4. Your values and life goals are aligned.

Do you have to connect all 4 before meeting? Or is 1 or 2 enough? "

Just call me pretty and I’m pretty much sold really

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Physical and mental attraction roll into one when I meet someone so 1 and 2 hard to separate.

Not sure what intellectual equivalence means ? I like a lively mind but that comes in so many forms.

Values and goals seems like more of a long term relationship factor. Generally on Fab if they don't drop litter or have plans to invade Poland then we're good.

What is mental attraction for you?"

Easier to recognise than describe ! But I'd say someone where the conversation flows with little effort from the start, and is wide ranging from the serious to the silly.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"There are a lot of profiles on fab stating they are looking for a connection before meeting.

For me there are 4 levels of connection.

1. You find someone attractive

2. You find than you can converse with them as a friend first and foremost

3. You have intellectual equivalence

4. Your values and life goals are aligned.

Do you have to connect all 4 before meeting? Or is 1 or 2 enough?

Just call me pretty and I’m pretty much sold really "

You are pretty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There are a lot of profiles on fab stating they are looking for a connection before meeting.

For me there are 4 levels of connection.

1. You find someone attractive

2. You find than you can converse with them as a friend first and foremost

3. You have intellectual equivalence

4. Your values and life goals are aligned.

Do you have to connect all 4 before meeting? Or is 1 or 2 enough?

Just call me pretty and I’m pretty much sold really

You are pretty

And all yours?

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

1 and 2 for me x

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By *andsome HandMan
over a year ago

roundabout

"There are a lot of profiles on fab stating they are looking for a connection before meeting.

For me there are 4 levels of connection.

1. You find someone attractive

2. You find than you can converse with them as a friend first and foremost

3. You have intellectual equivalence

4. Your values and life goals are aligned.

Do you have to connect all 4 before meeting? Or is 1 or 2 enough?

Just call me pretty and I’m pretty much sold really

You are pretty

Damn, beat me to it

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

up a bit, right a bit...that's the spot

In the past just 1 has sufficed on occasion, but mainly 1 & 2. 3 happens every so often, and I've found that that leads to us being friends. 4 has only happened once in all my years here.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"There are a lot of profiles on fab stating they are looking for a connection before meeting.

For me there are 4 levels of connection.

1. You find someone attractive

2. You find than you can converse with them as a friend first and foremost

3. You have intellectual equivalence

4. Your values and life goals are aligned.

Do you have to connect all 4 before meeting? Or is 1 or 2 enough?

Just call me pretty and I’m pretty much sold really

You are pretty

And all yours?

Only if you ask nicely

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"There are a lot of profiles on fab stating they are looking for a connection before meeting.

For me there are 4 levels of connection.

1. You find someone attractive

2. You find than you can converse with them as a friend first and foremost

3. You have intellectual equivalence

4. Your values and life goals are aligned.

Do you have to connect all 4 before meeting? Or is 1 or 2 enough?

Just call me pretty and I’m pretty much sold really

You are pretty

Damn, beat me to it

The beard strikes again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There are a lot of profiles on fab stating they are looking for a connection before meeting.

For me there are 4 levels of connection.

1. You find someone attractive

2. You find than you can converse with them as a friend first and foremost

3. You have intellectual equivalence

4. Your values and life goals are aligned.

Do you have to connect all 4 before meeting? Or is 1 or 2 enough?

Just call me pretty and I’m pretty much sold really

You are pretty

Damn, beat me to it

Better be quicker next time!

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By *andsome HandMan
over a year ago

roundabout

"There are a lot of profiles on fab stating they are looking for a connection before meeting.

For me there are 4 levels of connection.

1. You find someone attractive

2. You find than you can converse with them as a friend first and foremost

3. You have intellectual equivalence

4. Your values and life goals are aligned.

Do you have to connect all 4 before meeting? Or is 1 or 2 enough?

Just call me pretty and I’m pretty much sold really

You are pretty

Damn, beat me to it

The beard strikes again

A bird in the hand is worth two in the beard dear boy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There are a lot of profiles on fab stating they are looking for a connection before meeting.

For me there are 4 levels of connection.

1. You find someone attractive

2. You find than you can converse with them as a friend first and foremost

3. You have intellectual equivalence

4. Your values and life goals are aligned.

Do you have to connect all 4 before meeting? Or is 1 or 2 enough?

Just call me pretty and I’m pretty much sold really

You are pretty

Damn, beat me to it

Better be quicker next time!

Hey gorgeous fancy that coffee x

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By *andsome HandMan
over a year ago

roundabout

"There are a lot of profiles on fab stating they are looking for a connection before meeting.

For me there are 4 levels of connection.

1. You find someone attractive

2. You find than you can converse with them as a friend first and foremost

3. You have intellectual equivalence

4. Your values and life goals are aligned.

Do you have to connect all 4 before meeting? Or is 1 or 2 enough?

Just call me pretty and I’m pretty much sold really

You are pretty

Damn, beat me to it

Better be quicker next time!

I like to take my time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

1&2 for me, but I’m not looking for a relationship, for that I need to Chuck in 3&4 for the full house.

For now, being able to talk to a lady, I find attractive inside and out would be just fine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There are a lot of profiles on fab stating they are looking for a connection before meeting.

For me there are 4 levels of connection.

1. You find someone attractive

2. You find than you can converse with them as a friend first and foremost

3. You have intellectual equivalence

4. Your values and life goals are aligned.

Do you have to connect all 4 before meeting? Or is 1 or 2 enough?

Just call me pretty and I’m pretty much sold really

You are pretty

Damn, beat me to it

Better be quicker next time!

Hey gorgeous fancy that coffee x

Where you taking me?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There are a lot of profiles on fab stating they are looking for a connection before meeting.

For me there are 4 levels of connection.

1. You find someone attractive

2. You find than you can converse with them as a friend first and foremost

3. You have intellectual equivalence

4. Your values and life goals are aligned.

Do you have to connect all 4 before meeting? Or is 1 or 2 enough?

Just call me pretty and I’m pretty much sold really

You are pretty

Damn, beat me to it

Better be quicker next time!

I like to take my time

I have the patience of a child

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There are a lot of profiles on fab stating they are looking for a connection before meeting.

For me there are 4 levels of connection.

1. You find someone attractive

2. You find than you can converse with them as a friend first and foremost

3. You have intellectual equivalence

4. Your values and life goals are aligned.

Do you have to connect all 4 before meeting? Or is 1 or 2 enough?

Just call me pretty and I’m pretty much sold really

You are pretty

Damn, beat me to it

Better be quicker next time!

Hey gorgeous fancy that coffee x

Where you taking me?

Italy?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There are a lot of profiles on fab stating they are looking for a connection before meeting.

For me there are 4 levels of connection.

1. You find someone attractive

2. You find than you can converse with them as a friend first and foremost

3. You have intellectual equivalence

4. Your values and life goals are aligned.

Do you have to connect all 4 before meeting? Or is 1 or 2 enough?

Just call me pretty and I’m pretty much sold really

You are pretty

Damn, beat me to it

Better be quicker next time!

Hey gorgeous fancy that coffee x

Where you taking me?

Italy?

Been there. Done that. How about the south of France?

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By *andsome HandMan
over a year ago

roundabout

"There are a lot of profiles on fab stating they are looking for a connection before meeting.

For me there are 4 levels of connection.

1. You find someone attractive

2. You find than you can converse with them as a friend first and foremost

3. You have intellectual equivalence

4. Your values and life goals are aligned.

Do you have to connect all 4 before meeting? Or is 1 or 2 enough?

Just call me pretty and I’m pretty much sold really

You are pretty

Damn, beat me to it

Better be quicker next time!

I like to take my time

I have the patience of a child

Shame, it's a virtue after all

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By *urplechesterCouple
over a year ago

chester

I’d be stuffed with number 3, but thankfully mr pc can tick that box if needed haha! I think connection, being on a similar wave length is important! Miss pc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There are a lot of profiles on fab stating they are looking for a connection before meeting.

For me there are 4 levels of connection.

1. You find someone attractive

2. You find than you can converse with them as a friend first and foremost

3. You have intellectual equivalence

4. Your values and life goals are aligned.

Do you have to connect all 4 before meeting? Or is 1 or 2 enough?

Just call me pretty and I’m pretty much sold really

You are pretty

Damn, beat me to it

Better be quicker next time!

Hey gorgeous fancy that coffee x

Where you taking me?

Italy?

Been there. Done that. How about the south of France?"

Perfect

I’ll pack my shorts

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

1,2 and 3 are essential… 4 seems to be the fab unicorn.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I’d be stuffed with number 3, but thankfully mr pc can tick that box if needed haha! I think connection, being on a similar wave length is important! Miss pc

Can you explain a little more about a similar wavelength?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There are a lot of profiles on fab stating they are looking for a connection before meeting.

For me there are 4 levels of connection.

1. You find someone attractive

2. You find than you can converse with them as a friend first and foremost

3. You have intellectual equivalence

4. Your values and life goals are aligned.

Do you have to connect all 4 before meeting? Or is 1 or 2 enough?

Just call me pretty and I’m pretty much sold really

You are pretty

Damn, beat me to it

Better be quicker next time!

I like to take my time

I have the patience of a child

Shame, it's a virtue after all "

Add it to the list of virtues I don’t possess.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"1,2 and 3 are essential… 4 seems to be the fab unicorn. "

Is 4 something you actively seek out?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

1,2 are essential 3 is my preference to and 4 would be me buying a black diamond

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There are a lot of profiles on fab stating they are looking for a connection before meeting.

For me there are 4 levels of connection.

1. You find someone attractive

2. You find than you can converse with them as a friend first and foremost

3. You have intellectual equivalence

4. Your values and life goals are aligned.

Do you have to connect all 4 before meeting? Or is 1 or 2 enough?

Just call me pretty and I’m pretty much sold really

You are pretty

Damn, beat me to it

Better be quicker next time!

Hey gorgeous fancy that coffee x

Where you taking me?

Italy?

Been there. Done that. How about the south of France?

Perfect

I’ll pack my shorts "

Would prefer a nudist beach. But shorts will do -

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By *andsome HandMan
over a year ago

roundabout

"There are a lot of profiles on fab stating they are looking for a connection before meeting.

For me there are 4 levels of connection.

1. You find someone attractive

2. You find than you can converse with them as a friend first and foremost

3. You have intellectual equivalence

4. Your values and life goals are aligned.

Do you have to connect all 4 before meeting? Or is 1 or 2 enough?

Just call me pretty and I’m pretty much sold really

You are pretty

Damn, beat me to it

Better be quicker next time!

I like to take my time

I have the patience of a child

Shame, it's a virtue after all

Add it to the list of virtues I don’t possess. "

Fs it's longer than my arm at this point

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There are a lot of profiles on fab stating they are looking for a connection before meeting.

For me there are 4 levels of connection.

1. You find someone attractive

2. You find than you can converse with them as a friend first and foremost

3. You have intellectual equivalence

4. Your values and life goals are aligned.

Do you have to connect all 4 before meeting? Or is 1 or 2 enough?

Just call me pretty and I’m pretty much sold really

You are pretty

Damn, beat me to it

Better be quicker next time!

Hey gorgeous fancy that coffee x

Where you taking me?

Italy?

Been there. Done that. How about the south of France?

Perfect

I’ll pack my shorts

Would prefer a nudist beach. But shorts will do -"

As long as they serve coffee then I’m happy x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There are a lot of profiles on fab stating they are looking for a connection before meeting.

For me there are 4 levels of connection.

1. You find someone attractive

2. You find than you can converse with them as a friend first and foremost

3. You have intellectual equivalence

4. Your values and life goals are aligned.

Do you have to connect all 4 before meeting? Or is 1 or 2 enough?

Just call me pretty and I’m pretty much sold really

You are pretty

Damn, beat me to it

Better be quicker next time!

I like to take my time

I have the patience of a child

Shame, it's a virtue after all

Add it to the list of virtues I don’t possess.

Fs it's longer than my arm at this point

…you know what they say about short arms

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

Crumpet Castle

"There are a lot of profiles on fab stating they are looking for a connection before meeting.

For me there are 4 levels of connection.

1. You find someone attractive

2. You find than you can converse with them as a friend first and foremost

3. You have intellectual equivalence

4. Your values and life goals are aligned.

Do you have to connect all 4 before meeting? Or is 1 or 2 enough? "

1a) I find them physically attractive

1b) I find them banter attractive.

End of - for a meet.

I have no need to wonder if they would make a deep and meaningful friend and I can't see why their life goals have to match with mine.

Hello, I want to be an Air Force pilot.

Oh sorry darling, I aim to get this door knocker Brasso reflective.

No fuck for us then.

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By *andsome HandMan
over a year ago

roundabout

"There are a lot of profiles on fab stating they are looking for a connection before meeting.

For me there are 4 levels of connection.

1. You find someone attractive

2. You find than you can converse with them as a friend first and foremost

3. You have intellectual equivalence

4. Your values and life goals are aligned.

Do you have to connect all 4 before meeting? Or is 1 or 2 enough?

Just call me pretty and I’m pretty much sold really

You are pretty

Damn, beat me to it

Better be quicker next time!

I like to take my time

I have the patience of a child

Shame, it's a virtue after all

Add it to the list of virtues I don’t possess.

Fs it's longer than my arm at this point

…you know what they say about short arms

Uh huh, they belong on a T-rex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

1 is fine for certain situations, prefer 2.

3 and 4 not necessary for what we're looking for but have made a very good friend or two on here where we've just clicked x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There are a lot of profiles on fab stating they are looking for a connection before meeting.

For me there are 4 levels of connection.

1. You find someone attractive

2. You find than you can converse with them as a friend first and foremost

3. You have intellectual equivalence

4. Your values and life goals are aligned.

Do you have to connect all 4 before meeting? Or is 1 or 2 enough?

Just call me pretty and I’m pretty much sold really

You are pretty

Damn, beat me to it

Better be quicker next time!

I like to take my time

I have the patience of a child

Shame, it's a virtue after all

Add it to the list of virtues I don’t possess.

Fs it's longer than my arm at this point

…you know what they say about short arms

Uh huh, they belong on a T-rex"

My thoughts exactly…

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"There are a lot of profiles on fab stating they are looking for a connection before meeting.

For me there are 4 levels of connection.

1. You find someone attractive

2. You find than you can converse with them as a friend first and foremost

3. You have intellectual equivalence

4. Your values and life goals are aligned.

Do you have to connect all 4 before meeting? Or is 1 or 2 enough?

Just call me pretty and I’m pretty much sold really

You are pretty

Damn, beat me to it

Better be quicker next time!

I like to take my time

I have the patience of a child

Shame, it's a virtue after all

Add it to the list of virtues I don’t possess.

Fs it's longer than my arm at this point

…you know what they say about short arms

Uh huh, they belong on a T-rex"

Big hands for a T-Rex

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By *andsome HandMan
over a year ago

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"There are a lot of profiles on fab stating they are looking for a connection before meeting.

For me there are 4 levels of connection.

1. You find someone attractive

2. You find than you can converse with them as a friend first and foremost

3. You have intellectual equivalence

4. Your values and life goals are aligned.

Do you have to connect all 4 before meeting? Or is 1 or 2 enough?

Just call me pretty and I’m pretty much sold really

You are pretty

Damn, beat me to it

Better be quicker next time!

I like to take my time

I have the patience of a child

Shame, it's a virtue after all

Add it to the list of virtues I don’t possess.

Fs it's longer than my arm at this point

…you know what they say about short arms

Uh huh, they belong on a T-rex

My thoughts exactly…"

Great minds

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By *andsome HandMan
over a year ago

roundabout

"There are a lot of profiles on fab stating they are looking for a connection before meeting.

For me there are 4 levels of connection.

1. You find someone attractive

2. You find than you can converse with them as a friend first and foremost

3. You have intellectual equivalence

4. Your values and life goals are aligned.

Do you have to connect all 4 before meeting? Or is 1 or 2 enough?

Just call me pretty and I’m pretty much sold really

You are pretty

Damn, beat me to it

Better be quicker next time!

I like to take my time

I have the patience of a child

Shame, it's a virtue after all

Add it to the list of virtues I don’t possess.

Fs it's longer than my arm at this point

…you know what they say about short arms

Uh huh, they belong on a T-rex

Big hands for a T-Rex

Have you ever seen a real live Trex's hands?

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

"1,2 and 3 are essential… 4 seems to be the fab unicorn.

Is 4 something you actively seek out? "

I wouldn’t say actively as I rarely meet. Finding the first 3 is hard enough so I’ve kind of resigned myself to that being the more realistic option for now…

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There are a lot of profiles on fab stating they are looking for a connection before meeting.

For me there are 4 levels of connection.

1. You find someone attractive

2. You find than you can converse with them as a friend first and foremost

3. You have intellectual equivalence

4. Your values and life goals are aligned.

Do you have to connect all 4 before meeting? Or is 1 or 2 enough?

Just call me pretty and I’m pretty much sold really

You are pretty

Damn, beat me to it

Better be quicker next time!

I like to take my time

I have the patience of a child

Shame, it's a virtue after all

Add it to the list of virtues I don’t possess.

Fs it's longer than my arm at this point

…you know what they say about short arms

Uh huh, they belong on a T-rex

My thoughts exactly…

Great minds

Have you just reduced yourself to a shallow minded, self conceited and narcissistic 20 year old? Tough days work for a Thursday afternoon

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By *andsome HandMan
over a year ago

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"There are a lot of profiles on fab stating they are looking for a connection before meeting.

For me there are 4 levels of connection.

1. You find someone attractive

2. You find than you can converse with them as a friend first and foremost

3. You have intellectual equivalence

4. Your values and life goals are aligned.

Do you have to connect all 4 before meeting? Or is 1 or 2 enough?

Just call me pretty and I’m pretty much sold really

You are pretty

Damn, beat me to it

Better be quicker next time!

I like to take my time

I have the patience of a child

Shame, it's a virtue after all

Add it to the list of virtues I don’t possess.

Fs it's longer than my arm at this point

…you know what they say about short arms

Uh huh, they belong on a T-rex

My thoughts exactly…

Great minds

Have you just reduced yourself to a shallow minded, self conceited and narcissistic 20 year old? Tough days work for a Thursday afternoon

Au contraire, I'm pulling you up a few levels by the bootstraps but you're right it's tough work

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over a year ago

"1,2 and 3 are essential… 4 seems to be the fab unicorn.

Is 4 something you actively seek out?

I wouldn’t say actively as I rarely meet. Finding the first 3 is hard enough so I’ve kind of resigned myself to that being the more realistic option for now… "

I understand this completely. 3 is becoming a minimum requirement for me. 4 is so deep that it’s one in a million find

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