FabSwingers.com forum: Is it a little hypocritical...

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

...for women to identify a certain body type they'll get with when they themselves don't match it? For instance...

"Must be tall and muscular only"

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If you don't like curves then I'm not for you.

Seems very double standards to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Damn right!!

I want a man with a cock but I don't have one myself. Wtf?!

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By *andsome HandMan
over a year ago

roundabout

*hands the OP a hard hat (not helmet and walks away*

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Damn right!!

I want a man with a cock but I don't have one myself. Wtf?!

That would be an appendage not a body type

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

"Damn right!!

I want a man with a cock but I don't have one myself. Wtf?!

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

Not really ...just saying what she wants ...saves having to say no so much

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

Nope.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"*hands the OP a hard hat (not helmet and walks away* "

I was born in the storm, I do not fear the storm.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kinda. But hot is hot regardless and I think women can get away with more curvy shapes as it is what is seen sexy?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Damn right!!

I want a man with a cock but I don't have one myself. Wtf?!

Shocking!

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Nope.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, we can ask for what we like to be fair

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, I don't think so.

People like what they like. If people are honest (and preferably polite) about it, I don't see a problem.

Are we supposed to shag people we aren't attracted to, just to keep things 'fair'? Isn't that a bit creepy?

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By *andsome HandMan
over a year ago

roundabout

"Kinda. But hot is hot regardless and I think women can get away with more curvy shapes as it is what is seen sexy? "

That's hot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not really or we'd all only be able to be attracted to people with the same body type as ourselves surely?

What about putting it the other way, slim woman looking for a chunkier guy or "dad bod" etc

What about guys who look for a certain body type but don't match it themselves? Are they included in this?

So many questions!

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By *andsome HandMan
over a year ago

roundabout

"*hands the OP a hard hat (not helmet and walks away*

I was born in the storm, I do not fear the storm."

It's all cool and the gang then

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

No its just their preference.

In much the same way the people they are attracted to may not find them attractive.

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

So I should just clone myself and add a cock?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Kinda. But hot is hot regardless and I think women can get away with more curvy shapes as it is what is seen sexy?

That's hot"

- paris Hilton

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

*Reaches for the popcorn*

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By *andsome HandMan
over a year ago

roundabout

"So I should just clone myself and add a cock?

Why would you ruin such a great idea with a cock

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Damn right!!

I want a man with a cock but I don't have one myself. Wtf?!

That would be an appendage not a body type

Good point well made!

Imagine 2 footballs trying to shag each other... bounce bounce not much contact.

Imagine 1 deflated football wrapped around a pumped up football... much more fun innit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No, we can ask for what we like to be fair

This, and for men too. Nothing hypocritical about honesty, OP.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not at all OP. I had a female friend who was very slim and fancied the arse of her friend's brother, who was pretty ripped. She tried to "put the moves on him", but he showed no interest. She later discovered from her friend that the guy preferred much fuller figured ladies. Moral of the story: don't assume that one particular body type wants exactly the same in a sexual partner. We're all different.

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

"So I should just clone myself and add a cock?

Nah ..I'll bring the cock

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

Is it hypocritical if a gym fit guy only wants chubby women?

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"...for women to identify a certain body type they'll get with when they themselves don't match it? For instance...

"Must be tall and muscular only"

Bio reads

If you don't like curves then I'm not for you.

Seems very double standards to me."

Tough. Finish your sour grapes and keep looking. Have a nice day.

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

Not at all, we're all attracted to what we're attracted to...doesn't mean we're going to get it, as there has to be mutual attraction, but I personally think it's better for people to state clearly what they're looking for (as well as having clear and honest pictures) so you can see from their profile if you're compatible or not.

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

"So I should just clone myself and add a cock?

Why would you ruin such a great idea with a cock

Haha I could then go fuck myself then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Damn right!!

I want a man with a cock but I don't have one myself. Wtf?!

That would be an appendage not a body type

Good point well made!

Imagine 2 footballs trying to shag each other... bounce bounce not much contact.

Imagine 1 deflated football wrapped around a pumped up football... much more fun innit.

It's exactly this in my mind and opinion, two chunkies don't make for great sex..... they bring the lean, I bring the bouncy bits and it's much more fun all round ha ha

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By *andsome HandMan
over a year ago

roundabout

"So I should just clone myself and add a cock?

Why would you ruin such a great idea with a cock

Haha I could then go fuck myself then

There's that I guess

Also leave the clone at home and come visit Ireland

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, that isn't double standards. That's just called preferences.

That's the same as someone who is 5ft wanting someone who is 6ft.

This subject makes no sense

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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago

Doire Theas

"*hands the OP a hard hat (not helmet and walks away* "

No helmet protection needed

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

"So I should just clone myself and add a cock?

Why would you ruin such a great idea with a cock

Haha I could then go fuck myself then

There's that I guess

Also leave the clone at home and come visit Ireland

Now there's a plan, the clone could go to work and I can do whatever I wanted

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By *hetalkingstoveMan
over a year ago

London

No, it's not double standards.

Because there is no objective set of standards that means a larger woman is on a different, lower level to a muscular man.

People's tastes vary much more than "slim/muscular is best".

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By *andsome HandMan
over a year ago

roundabout

"*hands the OP a hard hat (not helmet and walks away*

No helmet protection needed

Ssssh, it's not a PC term

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Talk about shapeism......

All the fat people must date fat people.

All the skinnies must date skinnies.

Segregation at it's best

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By *andsome HandMan
over a year ago

roundabout

"So I should just clone myself and add a cock?

Why would you ruin such a great idea with a cock

Haha I could then go fuck myself then

There's that I guess

Also leave the clone at home and come visit Ireland

Now there's a plan, the clone could go to work and I can do whatever I wanted

Indubitably, see you soon

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What about all the skinny bean pole men who only want BBW?

P.S. I like a bit of pork on a man myself...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've seen plenty of male profiles that say things like "I'm not an Adonis, if that's what you want then move on", as well as "extremely fit/take care of myself and expect the same".

Remember you're only looking at women's profiles. Look at both sides before you make a judgement on what is abnormal on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Are women asking for what they want again? How dare they? They'll be wanting the vote next.

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

"So I should just clone myself and add a cock?

Is it just me who is finding this kinda hot?

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By *nfin8yWoman
over a year ago

Newcastle-under-Lyme

It’s not hypocritical, it’s merely stating a preference as we are all able to do.

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

"So I should just clone myself and add a cock?

You called??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Note how this is targeted at curvy women looking for muscular men.

Title should just read "chagrined man finds a new way to make a dig at fuller figured ladies he feels rejected by"

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

"Note how this is targeted at curvy women looking for muscular men.

Title should just read "chagrined man finds a new way to make a dig at fuller figured ladies he feels rejected by"

Totally agree as it always seems to be.

Hot as fuck avatar btw love it

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

WOMEN!! Know your place!!!

Anyone fancy a chunky bunk up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So I should just clone myself and add a cock?

Oh god! Mind...Gutter!

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

"So I should just clone myself and add a cock?

You called??

You've turned to the ginger side ?

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

"So I should just clone myself and add a cock?

Oh god! Mind...Gutter!

You'd be on the top of my list

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

Sooooooo. The fact that I'm 'large' means that I should only ask to meet 'large' ladies???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Note how this is targeted at curvy women looking for muscular men.

Title should just read "chagrined man finds a new way to make a dig at fuller figured ladies he feels rejected by"

Yep! Any wobbly bits, curves or anything extra at all and we aren't allowed a preference

Think I'll change my looking for to just ladies with boobs and bums

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By *agertha73Couple
over a year ago

Cardiff

"So I should just clone myself and add a cock?

Have you cloned yourself recently? One or two misplaced letter(s) could bring disaster. It's just too risky. Never again.

Him x

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

"Sooooooo. The fact that I'm 'large' means that I should only ask to meet 'large' ladies???

Yes it’s the simplest plan to live by innit

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Loving the replies but not once did I criticise a particular person or say "stick to your own", twisting what I wrote to match that is wrong, it was simply a question around if people thought others were being hypocritical. I myself am a large man and am attracted to women of all shapes and sizes.

Without discussion and debate we don't grow as a society.

Much love to you all.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

"No, it's not double standards.

Because there is no objective set of standards that means a larger woman is on a different, lower level to a muscular man.

People's tastes vary much more than "slim/muscular is best"."

This is perfectly put. I was trying to work out a way of explaining what felt a bit... off about the OP but that's it exactly. Almost as bad as leagues.

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So I should just clone myself and add a cock?

Oh god! Mind...Gutter!

You'd be on the top of my list

That is one damn sexy sandwich!

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

"Sooooooo. The fact that I'm 'large' means that I should only ask to meet 'large' ladies???

Yes it’s the simplest plan to live by innit

OK. Large ladies please report to my inbox.

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

"So I should just clone myself and add a cock?

Have you cloned yourself recently? One or two misplaced letter(s) could bring disaster. It's just too risky. Never again.

Him x"

That's true that is that's how I came about, a cloning disaster, my real name is Dolly

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

"So I should just clone myself and add a cock?

Oh god! Mind...Gutter!

You'd be on the top of my list

That is one damn sexy sandwich!

Ooft

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Loving the replies but not once did I criticise a particular person or say "stick to your own", twisting what I wrote to match that is wrong, it was simply a question around if people thought others were being hypocritical. I myself am a large man and am attracted to women of all shapes and sizes.

Without discussion and debate we don't grow as a society.

Much love to you all."

Ranting is good foreplay.

What does your profile name mean?

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

Without discussion and debate we don't grow as a society.

Much love to you all."

So do you feel like you're being hypocritical wanting ladies smaller than you (as you're attracted to women of all shapes and sizes you must do)?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No! We fancy who we fancy!

Some muscular men prefer curvy and state it in their profile, is that also wrong?

Is there something wrong with curves?

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By *agertha73Couple
over a year ago

Cardiff

"So I should just clone myself and add a cock?

Have you cloned yourself recently? One or two misplaced letter(s) could bring disaster. It's just too risky. Never again.

Him x

That's true that is that's how I came about, a cloning disaster, my real name is Dolly

Wow, there are loads of ewe then, how do we know which one is the real you!? X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's called personal preference.

You don't have to message or reply to anyone you don't want to.

You might not like their bio, their pictures, their body shape.

But everyone has different tastes and what works for one, does not necessarily work for others.

Or are you saying that only skinny should be attracted to skinny, curvy to curvy etc?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Note how this is targeted at curvy women looking for muscular men.

Title should just read "chagrined man finds a new way to make a dig at fuller figured ladies he feels rejected by"

Totally agree as it always seems to be.

Hot as fuck avatar btw love it "

Oh why thank you, glad someone likes it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Damn right!!

I want a man with a cock but I don't have one myself. Wtf?!

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Without discussion and debate we don't grow as a society.

Much love to you all."

Oh C'mon. You clearly said, 'ITS DOUBLE STANDARDS TO ME' .......... it's there in black and white.

No one minds what you say but trying to wheedle out , back down and blame others isn't a good look.

You said it. End of.

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

"So I should just clone myself and add a cock?

Have you cloned yourself recently? One or two misplaced letter(s) could bring disaster. It's just too risky. Never again.

Him x

That's true that is that's how I came about, a cloning disaster, my real name is Dolly

Wow, there are loads of ewe then, how do we know which one is the real you!? X"

I bleat instead of scream when I cum

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What is considered large here?

I personally would never make a statement like that in my profile but we all like different things so surely people can say what they want? Personally I wouldn't want someone too skinny as I would feel like I would kill them. I'm 5ft 6, size 14/16 hourglassy.

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

If a tall, muscular man wants to get his mitts on my fat body then who am I to judge him for his lack of intelligence?

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over a year ago

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

What about men with beards who don't like mine?

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By *andsome HandMan
over a year ago

roundabout

"So I should just clone myself and add a cock?

Have you cloned yourself recently? One or two misplaced letter(s) could bring disaster. It's just too risky. Never again.

Him x

That's true that is that's how I came about, a cloning disaster, my real name is Dolly

Wow, there are loads of ewe then, how do we know which one is the real you!? X

I bleat instead of scream when I cum

An ex once bleated as I got inside her

put me off my stroke

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was asking a friend today about this!

I was explaining that I liked toned men against my soft body, and he was saying he preferred curvy women.

I think you were saying its hypocritical to want what you don't have? Probably not gonna win you any fans here!

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By *RSTCouple
over a year ago

S. Northants

"...for women to identify a certain body type they'll get with when they themselves don't match it? For instance...

"Must be tall and muscular only"

Bio reads

If you don't like curves then I'm not for you.

Seems very double standards to me."

Just because someone doesn't fit a particular visual profile, doesn't mean they can't be attracted to that. And also vice versa, it's all down to personal preference. Something we are all entitled to our own unique version.

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

I hope that doesn't mean Star Wars fans can't meet Trekkies.

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By *oudLoutishLoverWoman
over a year ago

Colchester

I like men who are covered in thick body hair.

I had no idea how out of order this was, seeing as I lack a furry pelt of my own.

Thank you for showing me the error of my ways.

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By *oan of DArcCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

"...for women to identify a certain body type they'll get with when they themselves don't match it? For instance...

"Must be tall and muscular only"

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If you don't like curves then I'm not for you.

Seems very double standards to me."

It's not a double standard at all, and obviously those tall, muscular men out there aren't obligated to contact them if they don't want to!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not at all people can fancy the type of person that they prefer. Life would be dull if we all onky fancied certain types deemed ok because of our shape.

I think it limits your options though on meeting other genuinely nice people. But if they are only looking for sexual partners, then it’ll be down to what turns them on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like men with beards. I however do not have a beard. What a double standard!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not at all it’s everyone preference on what they looking

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By *agertha73Couple
over a year ago

Cardiff

"So I should just clone myself and add a cock?

Have you cloned yourself recently? One or two misplaced letter(s) could bring disaster. It's just too risky. Never again.

Him x

That's true that is that's how I came about, a cloning disaster, my real name is Dolly

Wow, there are loads of ewe then, how do we know which one is the real you!? X

I bleat instead of scream when I cum

Fortunate to be left the ability to cum. Preferable to developing an appetite for grass and roaming the mountains! X

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

"What about men with beards who don't like mine?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Whyyyy does this thread keep coming up???? Just let people fuck who they want to fuck. Who cares!

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By *inkyeroticaCouple
over a year ago

Ampthill

Yard you suggesting that people of certain body types should only be intimate with those of a similar type? Also, by implication, your saying they don’t deserve to be with a body type you feel is above them?

You’ve a lot to learn about attraction!

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By *lirty-CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Bexley

"...for women to identify a certain body type they'll get with when they themselves don't match it? For instance...

"Must be tall and muscular only"

Bio reads

If you don't like curves then I'm not for you.

Seems very double standards to me."

No. They have a choice just like you do. If their 'demands' are totally unrealistic (or worse) they probbably won't get a lot of interest but not all of us want lots of interest. Some of us want something quite specific and aren't forcing anyone to have to comply.

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

Ask for what you prefer, it’s your experience after all

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

"So I should just clone myself and add a cock?

Have you cloned yourself recently? One or two misplaced letter(s) could bring disaster. It's just too risky. Never again.

Him x

That's true that is that's how I came about, a cloning disaster, my real name is Dolly

Wow, there are loads of ewe then, how do we know which one is the real you!? X

I bleat instead of scream when I cum

Fortunate to be left the ability to cum. Preferable to developing an appetite for grass and roaming the mountains! X"

See I'm often found roaming mountains it's one of my favourite things. I've not started eating grass yet though

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By *agertha73Couple
over a year ago

Cardiff

"So I should just clone myself and add a cock?

Have you cloned yourself recently? One or two misplaced letter(s) could bring disaster. It's just too risky. Never again.

Him x

That's true that is that's how I came about, a cloning disaster, my real name is Dolly

Wow, there are loads of ewe then, how do we know which one is the real you!? X

I bleat instead of scream when I cum

Fortunate to be left the ability to cum. Preferable to developing an appetite for grass and roaming the mountains! X

See I'm often found roaming mountains it's one of my favourite things. I've not started eating grass yet though

Will look out for you next time we're at altitude. Do you cum while roaming? The bleating, while looking disinterested at the food on the floor will give it away I guess

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Why is it double standards?

I'm a large woman and my other half is 6ft3 and average body type.

Sometimes opposites attract.

We are all here for our own pleasure, so makes sense to state what we like.

Some men like slimmer women, some like bigger ones and can make their choice. As can women on here too op, if you don't like a body type, simply move on to the next profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"...for women to identify a certain body type they'll get with when they themselves don't match it? For instance...

"Must be tall and muscular only"

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If you don't like curves then I'm not for you.

Seems very double standards to me."

For me, I'm looking for people that I cannot find in everyday life. I am a large woman and have played with much bigger then myself as well as much smaller but it is hard to find very skinny men, let alone ones that would be into me. I also look for very pale men and have got abuse about "being racist" when in everyday life I meet men of all ages, shapes and ethnicity’s.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would it be double standards if I only went for BBW?

I suspect some have a "rating system" for body types and one can't fuck upwards only across and downwards.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Opposites attract...

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

"...for women to identify a certain body type they'll get with when they themselves don't match it? For instance...

"Must be tall and muscular only"

Bio reads

If you don't like curves then I'm not for you.

Seems very double standards to me."

Why is it hypocritical? They're not saying that they are wrong for mot liking curves, just making the reader know they have tjrm to avoid disappointment.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lmfao.

You are aware, op, that some men love curvy women. What their own body looks like is irrelevant to their taste in partner.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I give him credit I had money on him deleting his account

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I give him credit I had money on him deleting his account

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There’s time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I give him credit I had money on him deleting his account

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There’s time

Lol good to see you

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

"Damn right!!

I want a man with a cock but I don't have one myself. Wtf?!

That would be an appendage not a body type

Good point well made!

Imagine 2 footballs trying to shag each other... bounce bounce not much contact.

Imagine 1 deflated football wrapped around a pumped up football... much more fun innit.

It's exactly this in my mind and opinion, two chunkies don't make for great sex..... they bring the lean, I bring the bouncy bits and it's much more fun all round ha ha

I've had amazing sex with other chunkies

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By *iaisonseekerMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

I recall meeting a woman from Fab who was of the larger persuasion and she explained that her preference for a slimmer man was a function of her enthusiasm for giving head.

Essentially, she found that a large gut on a man spoiled the experience for her.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

"Note how this is targeted at curvy women looking for muscular men.

Title should just read "chagrined man finds a new way to make a dig at fuller figured ladies he feels rejected by"

It's not a new approach.... Happens almost daily

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Without discussion and debate we don't grow as a society.

Much love to you all.

Ranting is good foreplay.

What does your profile name mean? "

My initials

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Without discussion and debate we don't grow as a society.

Much love to you all.

Oh C'mon. You clearly said, 'ITS DOUBLE STANDARDS TO ME' .......... it's there in black and white.

No one minds what you say but trying to wheedle out , back down and blame others isn't a good look.

You said it. End of. "

I asked a question and got answers that's all Granny

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North

"No, we can ask for what we like to be fair

Exactly this!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" I myself am a large man and am attracted to women of all shapes and sizes.

Do you think you're a hyprocrite?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Interesting but keeping a low profile just in case and being politically correct

Do you think the bigger lass wears A

G Rope

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"...for women to identify a certain body type they'll get with when they themselves don't match it? For instance...

"Must be tall and muscular only"

Bio reads

If you don't like curves then I'm not for you.

Seems very double standards to me."

In other words, women know your limits!

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By *ister-mischiefMan
over a year ago

Trafford

Be rather boring if we all liked the same thing now wouldn't it. Its not Hypocritical in the slightest, we all have preferences. At Least the bio tells you what they are looking for....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"...for women to identify a certain body type they'll get with when they themselves don't match it? For instance...

"Must be tall and muscular only"

Bio reads

If you don't like curves then I'm not for you.

Seems very double standards to me.

In other words, women know your limits! "

We do.

Hard and fast please

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

Jeez so if we are in the top league we can only move across but never down?

If we get relegated from this league we can never move up again - just across?

What if one of us fancy a different body shape in a woman to the other?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Each to their own I say

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

"Interesting but keeping a low profile just in case and being politically correct

Do you think the bigger lass wears A

G Rope "

Do you think some guys can be assholes?

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By *ersey GirlCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

Omg absolutely shut up. I'm 9 stone wet but prefer plump or chubby/fat females. So have I to only meet slim to average. Away you go

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

1. Who decides what constitutes top league?

2. Who abides by what somebody else decides to be top league?

3. Why should I NOT be cuddly and womanly and still fancy a man who is tall,short, slim, stocky, overweight.....

Who actually says?

Who actually thinks I should or should not?

I kind of think I do!

With love to all forumites who are not quite perfect by somebody else's definition.

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

"Interesting but keeping a low profile just in case and being politically correct

Do you think the bigger lass wears A

G Rope "

No. Us fat birds wear upside down marquees with holes cut in to fit our gargantuan arses and thunder thighs through.

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

Preferences... It's allowed you know. We like what we like...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"...for women to identify a certain body type they'll get with when they themselves don't match it? For instance...

"Must be tall and muscular only"

Bio reads

If you don't like curves then I'm not for you.

Seems very double standards to me."

I’m fucking baffled how you come to this conclusion and what realm of reality is this double standards ?!

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By *anshee99Woman
over a year ago

all over

Eh???

So you can only fancy what you have yourself?

This is an odd perspective....

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

"...for women to identify a certain body type they'll get with when they themselves don't match it? For instance...

"Must be tall and muscular only"

Bio reads

If you don't like curves then I'm not for you.

Seems very double standards to me.

I’m fucking baffled how you come to this conclusion and what realm of reality is this double standards ?!"

Because if you're fat, you can't have a fit person

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By *arkhorse12345Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Couldn't agree more

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