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By *rivervader OP   Man
over a year ago

bolton

Should I renew my subscription or am I wasting my time and yours?

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By *offiaCoolWoman
over a year ago

Kidsgrove

Only you can make that decision.

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

Just renewed mine as would have run out today! I find it well worth £30 for 10 months just for the pics/vids I can upload x

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By *razytimesinloveCouple
over a year ago

SW Scotland


"Should I renew my subscription or am I wasting my time and yours?"

We haven’t renewed ours in six months and haven’t noticed any difference in arranging meets/chatting to others.

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By *obyn GravesTV/TS
over a year ago

1127 walnut avenue

It's worth renewing..oh the fun you can have zooming in on people's photos.. seeing what clutter they have in the background..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only you know if you use the additional features the subscription gets you. If you don't then don't bother. It's not a miracle fanny magnet.

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By *rivervader OP   Man
over a year ago

bolton

Don’t even get messages replied so don’t think I will bother

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By *offiaCoolWoman
over a year ago

Kidsgrove


"Don’t even get messages replied so don’t think I will bother"

Do you think your profile reflects you positively to attract messages ?

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By *stbury DavenportMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

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By *stbury DavenportMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

I renewed twice, then decided not to the third time. I wasn't getting out what I was putting in, and I thought my limited resources were better employed elsewhere.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When mine runs out im probably gonna delete as well...nothing to do with meets im just finding fab a bit boring at the moment and I got other stuff irl that needs more attention

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By *offiaCoolWoman
over a year ago

Kidsgrove


"When mine runs out im probably gonna delete as well...nothing to do with meets im just finding fab a bit boring at the moment and I got other stuff irl that needs more attention "

Just hide your profile for a while, don't lose your lovely verification by deleting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When mine runs out im probably gonna delete as well...nothing to do with meets im just finding fab a bit boring at the moment and I got other stuff irl that needs more attention

Just hide your profile for a while, don't lose your lovely verification by deleting."

Sage advice.

I’ve been on and off Fab for a long time and I always say i’m never coming back and delete-but then I do return.It’s hard enough for single guys as it is, without losing verifications and having to start all over again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it's not working for you, maybe you should change your approach. That said, the grind for the single guy is real so it'll be a battle for you either way, but, that can make it more fun lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Should I renew my subscription or am I wasting my time and yours?"

Why do men need other people to make decisions for them ? Sure, that £5 is a big commitment, but if I know one thing about women is they love a man who’s extremely Frugal, it’s such a turn on for them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it’s worth it do what’s best

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Should I renew my subscription or am I wasting my time and yours?"

To be fair that’s a question only you can answer.

Should you????

Are you????

We do because it’s just one of the tools we use but that’s us.

Best of luck op

Tony

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

If you want.

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

I'm totally going to buck the trend because I think that you really want someone to say yes, don't you OP.

So yes. Absolutely renew. Renew for the year (I think you can do that). Renew and then use your supporter status to the max. Add your maximum photos and videos every day, watch every video. Look at all the pages of hotpics. Use the site supporter only chat room.

Um.... ooh. Check out who has looked at you. Know how far away people are and whether you've interacted before.

Ok. I can't remember anything else.

Or, you do what feels best for you and remember that no expectations are the way forward.

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By *rivervader OP   Man
over a year ago

bolton


"I'm totally going to buck the trend because I think that you really want someone to say yes, don't you OP.

So yes. Absolutely renew. Renew for the year (I think you can do that). Renew and then use your supporter status to the max. Add your maximum photos and videos every day, watch every video. Look at all the pages of hotpics. Use the site supporter only chat room.

Um.... ooh. Check out who has looked at you. Know how far away people are and whether you've interacted before.

Ok. I can't remember anything else.

Or, you do what feels best for you and remember that no expectations are the way forward."

To be honest I was hoping to get a message at saying do you fancy meeting but alas not to be lol

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon


"I'm totally going to buck the trend because I think that you really want someone to say yes, don't you OP.

So yes. Absolutely renew. Renew for the year (I think you can do that). Renew and then use your supporter status to the max. Add your maximum photos and videos every day, watch every video. Look at all the pages of hotpics. Use the site supporter only chat room.

Um.... ooh. Check out who has looked at you. Know how far away people are and whether you've interacted before.

Ok. I can't remember anything else.

Or, you do what feels best for you and remember that no expectations are the way forward.

To be honest I was hoping to get a message at saying do you fancy meeting but alas not to be lol"

Ah. My bad

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

..

Yeah, go on, treat yourself

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle


"Should I renew my subscription or am I wasting my time and yours?"

OP you aren’t wasting our time, it’s your profile so use it how you like, the decision is all yours

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle


"Yeah, go on, treat yourself "

I actually renewed mine after about 5 years of not having it, some of the videos are worth the £5 a month just to see them

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By *arkus1812Man
over a year ago

Finedon ,

You pay for the services such as gas, electricity, water, internet,telephone,council tax, et al.

So why not pay FAB for providing a service giving you the opportunity to meet like minded people, whether or not you grasp that opportunity is down to you. The cost is 10 pence a day, worth every penny of that just for the forums,

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

No

Yes

No

Next

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My last time before deleting too..back to the real world I think.

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire


"Should I renew my subscription or am I wasting my time and yours?"

The only time you’re wasting is your time. Often it’s not the site that’s the issue, but that person’s efforts on the site.

A previous comment has mentioned your profile, maybe look at that first.

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By *rivervader OP   Man
over a year ago

bolton


"Should I renew my subscription or am I wasting my time and yours?

The only time you’re wasting is your time. Often it’s not the site that’s the issue, but that person’s efforts on the site.

A previous comment has mentioned your profile, maybe look at that first. "

Have renewed and yes Gona look at revamping the profile any suggestions

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North


"I'm totally going to buck the trend because I think that you really want someone to say yes, don't you OP.

So yes. Absolutely renew. Renew for the year (I think you can do that). Renew and then use your supporter status to the max. Add your maximum photos and videos every day, watch every video. Look at all the pages of hotpics. Use the site supporter only chat room.

Um.... ooh. Check out who has looked at you. Know how far away people are and whether you've interacted before.

Ok. I can't remember anything else.

Or, you do what feels best for you and remember that no expectations are the way forward.

To be honest I was hoping to get a message at saying do you fancy meeting but alas not to be lol"

Your married so not for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Should I renew my subscription or am I wasting my time and yours?

The only time you’re wasting is your time. Often it’s not the site that’s the issue, but that person’s efforts on the site.

A previous comment has mentioned your profile, maybe look at that first.

Have renewed and yes Gona look at revamping the profile any suggestions "

I would delete everything and start from scratch....take your time and think.....write what you would like to read....take good pictures...

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By *melia DominaTV/TS
over a year ago

Edinburgh (She/Her)

There are plenty of individuals who are meeting and socialising regularly.

The smart individual would look at their profile, their approach and even ask for their advice.

Insider knowledge is gold...

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire


"Should I renew my subscription or am I wasting my time and yours?

The only time you’re wasting is your time. Often it’s not the site that’s the issue, but that person’s efforts on the site.

A previous comment has mentioned your profile, maybe look at that first.

Have renewed and yes Gona look at revamping the profile any suggestions "

We gave you suggestions on your previous post asking for suggestions

A more detailed bio saying what you are after and what you can offer and more intriguing pics.

The fact you are married will count against you though but some won’t see it as a problem.

I would also use the forums and get your personality across. I seen one post where you were negative - no one will contact you if you are negative towards yourself. If you can’t sell yourself, no one else can do it for you…

Good luck

K

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By *rivervader OP   Man
over a year ago

bolton


"Should I renew my subscription or am I wasting my time and yours?

The only time you’re wasting is your time. Often it’s not the site that’s the issue, but that person’s efforts on the site.

A previous comment has mentioned your profile, maybe look at that first.

Have renewed and yes Gona look at revamping the profile any suggestions

We gave you suggestions on your previous post asking for suggestions

A more detailed bio saying what you are after and what you can offer and more intriguing pics.

The fact you are married will count against you though but some won’t see it as a problem.

I would also use the forums and get your personality across. I seen one post where you were negative - no one will contact you if you are negative towards yourself. If you can’t sell yourself, no one else can do it for you…

Good luck

K"

To be honest I find it hard to sell myself as I’m always being put down so low self asteam and lack of intermasy don’t help but thanx again

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire


"Should I renew my subscription or am I wasting my time and yours?

The only time you’re wasting is your time. Often it’s not the site that’s the issue, but that person’s efforts on the site.

A previous comment has mentioned your profile, maybe look at that first.

Have renewed and yes Gona look at revamping the profile any suggestions

We gave you suggestions on your previous post asking for suggestions

A more detailed bio saying what you are after and what you can offer and more intriguing pics.

The fact you are married will count against you though but some won’t see it as a problem.

I would also use the forums and get your personality across. I seen one post where you were negative - no one will contact you if you are negative towards yourself. If you can’t sell yourself, no one else can do it for you…

Good luck

K

To be honest I find it hard to sell myself as I’m always being put down so low self asteam and lack of intermasy don’t help but thanx again"

Before you put yourself down, think is it necessary to carry on the cycle? If you put yourself down then you make it easier for people to do to you.

It’s a hard thing but if you are in a negative mood then saying nothing will help you rather than being negative. That comment stays in the forums and so people are constantly reminded.

Be kind to yourself

K

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle


"Should I renew my subscription or am I wasting my time and yours?"

The answer to this, only you would know.are you getting what you require from the subscription,I can't understand how it's wasting anyone else's time because it's your account you are here I take it for you, to find compatibility on the site.the benefits of a subscription is only for the users,who is able to benefit the extra features within the site.

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