FabSwingers.com forum: How long after a first meet?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Do you ask for a second one?

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

I have no shame. If it's that good I'll ask while I'm still having aftershock orgasms.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Straight away. I love it when people know what they want and aren’t afraid to ask!

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

"I have no shame. If it's that good I'll ask while I'm still having aftershock orgasms."

only you

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

"I have no shame. If it's that good I'll ask while I'm still having aftershock orgasms.

only you

I usually wait until I've got a coffee before I send out the random porn though. How about you sweetie?

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

While he's balls deep inside me, got to beat the postnut clarity.

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

I ask mid orgasm so there's only one answer

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

"I have no shame. If it's that good I'll ask while I'm still having aftershock orgasms.

only you

I usually wait until I've got a coffee before I send out the random porn though. How about you sweetie?

Oh ffs still

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

"I ask mid orgasm so there's only one answer

Holy fuck yes?!

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By *nvincible ButterflyWoman
over a year ago

LEEDS

Depends. If it was a good meet then I ask while still with them. If it's a crap meet then I don't even talk to them again.

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By *izzy.miss.lizzyCouple
over a year ago

Pembrokeshire

"I have no shame. If it's that good I'll ask while I'm still having aftershock orgasms."

same! lol

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By *assing Fancies xCouple
over a year ago

Sherwood Forest

We try to arrange a 2nd meet whilst on the first if its going well

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

Depends if she brought me foodie treats or not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes straight away….. lol i can’t help saying things as they are

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

After during the first meet

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

"I ask mid orgasm so there's only one answer

Holy fuck yes?!

Exactly

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

"Depends if she brought me foodie treats or not. "

I'll bake

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

C used to think the restraints were a kinky fetish…but she’d never get out of them until she agreed on another meet with me

Then she said she’d only agree if I used the restraints…

I knew she was a keeper then

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

"Depends if she brought me foodie treats or not.

I'll bake

I’ll ensure I have my dunking treats ready for you too

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

"Depends if she brought me foodie treats or not.

I'll bake

I’ll ensure I have my dunking treats ready for you too

Where's the drool emoji when you need it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get her right to the edge of a mind blowing orgasm then slow right down or stop and then ask ….

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

Soon as if she's a goodun

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By *urora1912Woman
over a year ago

Norfolk East anglia

During the meet if its going well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I ask mid orgasm so there's only one answer

Clever

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll let you know when/if it happens

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends. My first meet would be a social, so I usually like to go away and see how I feel afterwards. If I like the guy and if I wake up the next morning wishing I was having sex with him, then I know he's worthy of a second meet - this time a horizontal one

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Depends if first meet is social or sexual.but straight after if all has gone well each one is a different experience,so if the experience sexually left a desire for further exploration would a person need to do the needful thing.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Affirm your feelings straight away. I'm not talking 'I love you' here, just for clarity

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

"I ask mid orgasm so there's only one answer

Clever

I have my moments

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just at the point you’re blowing your beans inside her shout out ‘How are you for next weekend ?’

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do you ask for a second one?

If a first meet has gone well for both then usually a second meet flows easily and it's more a dialogue rather than having to ask to meet again. For me anyway.

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

"C used to think the restraints were a kinky fetish…but she’d never get out of them until she agreed on another meet with me

Then she said she’d only agree if I used the restraints…

I knew she was a keeper then

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By *ister-mischiefMan
over a year ago

Trafford

"Do you ask for a second one?

If its all gone well, I'd say I'd like to meet again, but would ultimately leave it up to the lady to choose the next meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Need to think about it, no rush is there

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

Don’t think I’ve ever asked, it just happens if both want it too

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

I don’t think I’ve ever asked, I usually waited for the guys to ask just incase they thought I was one of those overly keen stalker types

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

I've had a man say he's definitely seeing me again as he's banging away from behind.

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By *onb21Woman
over a year ago

Cardiff

I think at the end of the meet if you are confident the answer will be positive.

If unsure, probably best not to put them on the spot face to face or ?they may just lie and that's not going to make anyone feel good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely while you’re still embraced and enjoying the pause between round two xx

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By *rMojoRisinMan
over a year ago

Sheffield

When you know, you know.

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

"When you know, you know. "

This is true, you just know when it’s been so good you really have to do it again at some point..or even a week later

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wait and see if they'd like to see me again or say something to that effect. I may drop it in a conversation somewhere that I'd like to see them again but never expect them to.

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

I think you know if there’s likely to be a repeat

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By *uietly_KinkyMan
over a year ago

High Wycombe

Got to get that first meet first.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"While he's balls deep inside me, got to beat the postnut clarity."

True

The postnut clarify can be a bitch for some guys … let me write that trick down

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Update: looks like I'm being ghosted lol onto the next one!

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

We had our 2nd arranged while still on the 1st

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Update: looks like I'm being ghosted lol onto the next one!

Oh no, whyyy?

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By *heNYCSausageMan
over a year ago

Everton

"I have no shame. If it's that good I'll ask while I'm still having aftershock orgasms."

I’m still waiting for you to ask me!!!

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

"Update: looks like I'm being ghosted lol onto the next one!

Their loss. Would you like a biscuit?

Keep smiling

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Update: looks like I'm being ghosted lol onto the next one!

Their loss. Would you like a biscuit?

Keep smiling "

Is it really their loss if they've already had me? Or is it my loss for being stupid?

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

"Update: looks like I'm being ghosted lol onto the next one!

Their loss. Would you like a biscuit?

Keep smiling

Is it really their loss if they've already had me? Or is it my loss for being stupid? "

Yes it is their loss. One thing you can't do is think you've been stupid because you haven't. Onwards & upwards

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Update: looks like I'm being ghosted lol onto the next one!

Their loss. Would you like a biscuit?

Keep smiling

Is it really their loss if they've already had me? Or is it my loss for being stupid? "

It must have been fun for you to want to meet again so you're not stupid at all. X

No loss, a good shag to remember.

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