FabSwingers.com forum: Sexuality by definition

By *atyriasis1984 OP Man
over a year ago

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It seems so damn urgent for society, like if I don't pick a category today, gay or straight, right now, right this second, I guess I'm either straight by default or something is wrong with me because I can't decide?

Is it possible that the black and white definition of sexuality, can actually be smashed open to display a variety of different colours meaning that for many people, it's virtually impossible to tick one box for sexuality and therefore your sexuality is controlled and evolved by factors such as life situation, mental health, mood, weather, connection with a person etc.

I wonder, when will it be acceptable or 'normal' to fancy your best friend of the same sex, based on your connection, but have no sexual desire for anyone else of the same sex? This isn't happening to me but has given me food for thought!

Can a person have same sex interaction but not actually be defined as gay or bisexual?

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are always exceptions to each dynamic. It’s just another fucking label be you! X