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By *ausage1970 OP   Man
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

So yesterday I had a few friends over and we had a lovely afternoon. After a few drinks we all thought it would be great to use the hot tub. So here's the issue. I have rules and 1) people before using it have a shower 2) sex is banned in the hot tub. Now that created a debate as one friends said that I was being stupid as the clourine levels would deal with that! Personally I like my hot tub to stay in perfect condition so I take care with it to enjoy it. Am I being stupid and unreasonable?

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

Your house, your rules.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your tub your rules. When we had one we just went with the flow and if stuff happened it happened. Just made sure we treated the water after.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm with you OP. It's a pain in the arse having to treat or usually change the water because others are just don't right lazy.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Personally I would only use someone else's hot tub if those rules were in place.

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By *immyinreadingMan
over a year ago

henley on thames


"I'm with you OP. It's a pain in the arse having to treat or usually change the water because others are just don't right lazy."

Completely agree. And I also ban people from drinking in mine ... broken glass would be a right pain in the arse to have to deal with. Hot tubs are fantastic but they’re not toys.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So yesterday I had a few friends over and we had a lovely afternoon. After a few drinks we all thought it would be great to use the hot tub. So here's the issue. I have rules and 1) people before using it have a shower 2) sex is banned in the hot tub. Now that created a debate as one friends said that I was being stupid as the clourine levels would deal with that! Personally I like my hot tub to stay in perfect condition so I take care with it to enjoy it. Am I being stupid and unreasonable? "

Same, but we only have sex in it before we change the water once drained of water then I give it a deep clean.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not unreasonable at all, it takes so much effort to keep tub water correctly balanced , something that I think is lost on a lot of people. Your tub, your rules

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By *inAndTonic21Couple
over a year ago

Merseyside

Same in our there are safety rules and sex in it can be messy so needs to be before a clean

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So yesterday I had a few friends over and we had a lovely afternoon. After a few drinks we all thought it would be great to use the hot tub. So here's the issue. I have rules and 1) people before using it have a shower 2) sex is banned in the hot tub. Now that created a debate as one friends said that I was being stupid as the clourine levels would deal with that! Personally I like my hot tub to stay in perfect condition so I take care with it to enjoy it. Am I being stupid and unreasonable? "

We are hot tub owners and we appreciate how Deodorant, perfume, moisturiser, after shave, fake tan etc does mess up the water. The chlorine will only do so much!

As for sex, it's your tub, your rules! We have played in the tub but (Sorry if tmi) only if bodily fluids are swallowed

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By *lirty-CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Bexley


"So yesterday I had a few friends over and we had a lovely afternoon. After a few drinks we all thought it would be great to use the hot tub. So here's the issue. I have rules and 1) people before using it have a shower 2) sex is banned in the hot tub. Now that created a debate as one friends said that I was being stupid as the clourine levels would deal with that! Personally I like my hot tub to stay in perfect condition so I take care with it to enjoy it. Am I being stupid and unreasonable? "

No. You're deadright. Your tub, your rules. We'd do exactly the same. If your mate wants to have sex in a hot tub let him/her provide it.

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By *aucy tiggerWoman
over a year ago

Back where I belong

As others have said your hot tub your rules.

I don't want to have to spend time cleaning up other's mess.

I'm happy for other's to join me in mine providing they abide by my rules x

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By *herry OnatopWoman
over a year ago

Just over there


"As others have said your hot tub your rules.

I don't want to have to get Cherry Onatop spending time cleaning up other's mess.

I'm happy for other's to join me in mine providing they abide by my rules x"

Fixed that for you...

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

How does the chlorine deal with the spunk bobbing around on the surface exactly??

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By *uliette500Woman
over a year ago

Hull

I've never actually been in a hot tub as I've seen and read what some people get up to in them. The very thought of sitting in water like that makes me nauseous.

If everyone had rules like yours I'd probably consider getting in.

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By *utterypopcornCouple
over a year ago

oxford

Have fun!!! empty it and clean and refill life’s to short to worry……. a fun memory will last forever

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By *arry monk40Man
over a year ago

Telford

Totally agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have fun!!! empty it and clean and refill life’s to short to worry……. a fun memory will last forever "

Life is also too short for the hour to empty it, hour to climb in the thing and clean it as well as washing your filters. Then the 4 hours to refill it plus the 24 hours to get back to temperature. Then the time to balance the chemicals again!

You're tub is out of action for a while when it's water change time!!

A pre-shower isn't unreasonable.

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By *ob rodMan
over a year ago

lancaster

Showering gets rid of deodorant body oil and dirt

As for sex chlorine or not cum floating on the top is never ideal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We too are hot tub owners, they cost many thousands of pounds and daily attention to maintain hygienic water conditions.

Your guests should respect that, otherwise don't invite them. The tub is often a pre cursor to full on fun in the bedroom, sex in water isn't all it's cracked up to be actually! It's great for a bit of foreplay but not the main event.

Talc, deodorant, body oil all messes up the water. If the respondent above thinks that a tonne and a half of water heats itself up free of charge, I suggest they don't have a tub! Plenty of memories without messing up our expensive tub!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t think people realise the work involved in the maintenance of a hot tub until you own one so I totally agree with you OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The first holiday break I went on with my husband (then boyfriend) was to a log cabin retreat in the new forest. There was a shared hot hub for all the guests to book and use. We booked late and got the last slot at about 10:30, I think there was an much cum in it as water! Lol xx

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By *aucy tiggerWoman
over a year ago

Back where I belong


"As others have said your hot tub your rules.

I don't want to have to get Cherry Onatop spending time cleaning up other's mess.

I'm happy for other's to join me in mine providing they abide by my rules x

Fixed that for you... "

And I'm very grateful.

PS Cherry comes highly recommended as a hot tub cleaner. She is diligent and thorough and will even do it naked. Anybody interested in booking her should contact either her or me for a quote

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North


"I don’t think people realise the work involved in the maintenance of a hot tub until you own one so I totally agree with you OP"

This^

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By *looneytoonMan
over a year ago

sheffield

I'm interested, what payment would you take.

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By *osweet69Couple
over a year ago

portsmouth

Your hot tub and your rules OP but we would never ask people to jump in to water that others guests have played in. Fresh water and filters every time we have new guests.

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By *herry OnatopWoman
over a year ago

Just over there


"I'm interested, what payment would you take. "

Cold hard cash from you Clooney

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By *utterypopcornCouple
over a year ago

oxford


"We too are hot tub owners, they cost many thousands of pounds and daily attention to maintain hygienic water conditions.

Your guests should respect that, otherwise don't invite them. The tub is often a pre cursor to full on fun in the bedroom, sex in water isn't all it's cracked up to be actually! It's great for a bit of foreplay but not the main event.

Talc, deodorant, body oil all messes up the water. If the respondent above thinks that a tonne and a half of water heats itself up free of charge, I suggest they don't have a tub! Plenty of memories without messing up our expensive tub!"
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Do have one but put enjoying life above money

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By *looneytoonMan
over a year ago

sheffield


"I'm interested, what payment would you take.

Cold hard cash from you Clooney "

I'm a tight ass hard northern, we didn't do cash, would you except pigeons and black pudding as payment

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By *agpie and RavenMan
over a year ago

Leicester

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By *agpie and RavenMan
over a year ago

Leicester

OP, I think your friend was being very disrespectful challenging your rules for the use of your hot tub. Reminds of the days before the wearing of seat belts were mandatory. I told anyone who got in my car to put their seat belt on. Anyone who objected was told to get out.

Frank

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By *ausage1970 OP   Man
over a year ago

Shrewsbury


"I've never actually been in a hot tub as I've seen and read what some people get up to in them. The very thought of sitting in water like that makes me nauseous.

If everyone had rules like yours I'd probably consider getting in. "

I was expecting to get roasted on this post as I felt a little guilty being so strict. I like the hot tub after a long hard day and the thought of having to spend hours cleaning up after others defeats the object of having a relaxing soak

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By *onb21Woman
over a year ago

Cardiff

Why would anyone question those rules? Ew

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

I’d expect nothing less - if it was mine or I was a guest ….

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By *eisurepleasureMan
over a year ago

belfast

I was in one one night and the hostess had too much to drink

She vomited into the bubbles we all were covered

So disgusting

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By *ick and JoMan
over a year ago

worcester

We have a tub. We try and stick to the rules of no sex only foreplay but on occasions we do go a bit far and need to drain the next day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone showers before using mine, sex has happened in the past many times but now my niece and nephew use it afew times a week when they come over so sex wouldnt happen now.

Your tub ur rules.

I always think those tubs are sex clubs... not a chance id get in one of those cess pits

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