FabSwingers.com forum: How Do You Determine Healthy / Unhealthy Sex?

By *ocoa89 OP Man
over a year ago

Camberwell

Question, been having this convo back and forth with a couple friends.

For those of us, deep in the world of various forms of sex, including the more taboo stuff.

When do you know you are having healthy sex and when it is unhealthy?

By that I mean, sex that is generally not good for you. Either mentally, physically, risk etc.

Do you have red or amber flags which let you know, you may be letting your desires or other things take you too far?

By *JB1954Man
over a year ago

Reading

To be honest , what is real sex. ? So many versions and variations ? How to determine ?

By *ocoa89 OP Man
over a year ago

Camberwell

"To be honest , what is real sex. ? So many versions and variations ? How to determine ? "

I hear you, I'm not presuming there's a right or wrong answer.

I'm more curious to hear how people manage this idea for their own lives etc. How do you do it? If it is a line of thinking when you're going about your adventures etc.

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Question, been having this convo back and forth with a couple friends.

For those of us, deep in the world of various forms of sex, including the more taboo stuff.

When do you know you are having healthy sex and when it is unhealthy?

By that I mean, sex that is generally not good for you. Either mentally, physically, risk etc.

Do you have red or amber flags which let you know, you may be letting your desires or other things take you too far?"

If someone fucks me up the arse then sticks it in my mouth, I know that is unhealthy xx

By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

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I think that's a very grey area, lots of people do what is fun but not good for them, I would hope the majority of them would have a responsible sexual partner, but essentially if they are chasing a 'thrill' not much is going to stop them as risk endorphins are powerful