FabSwingers.com forum: Where to start?

By *dalisque OP Woman
over a year ago

land of make believe

A male friend and I are wanting to go to a club and as newbies are wondering if we can just go and experience it without necessarily joining in (the first time anyway).

Does anyone have any recommendations for certain nights at certain clubs that will facilitate this.

We are in the North East but will travel.

Thank you xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Morning OP. Plenty of people go to clubs for the social side only. Perhaps try the Clubs section for ones near you ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

At any club there should be no pressure to join in OP. Look for one that has a good social area too and this will show they are serious about this aspect

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

Yes ... everyone had to go to a club for the first time...and there's no pressure to play... your bodies. Your rules

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By *dalisque OP Woman
over a year ago

land of make believe

Thank you,I will look for that.I hadn't realised there was a club section.xx

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

Heard very good things about Club F in the north east if that's any help OP

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By *dalisque OP Woman
over a year ago

land of make believe

"Heard very good things about Club F in the north east if that's any help OP"

I have not heard of that,will look it up ,thank you xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A male friend and I are wanting to go to a club and as newbies are wondering if we can just go and experience it without necessarily joining in (the first time anyway).

Does anyone have any recommendations for certain nights at certain clubs that will facilitate this.

We are in the North East but will travel.

Thank you xx"

Absolutely you can. Some clubs hold nights especially for people new to the scene. Have a look and see what is on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes op you can there should never be any pressure to play

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By *nly4funMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

One word of advice. Keep your eyes out in case there’s any single men hanging around in a creepy way. The old lags call them “The Wanking Dead”.

Most clubs won’t tolerate bad behaviour from them but it’s worth asking when you get in how they deal with any issues just to be sure you’re going be comfortable should you decide to play alone.

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

OP clubs are a great no pressure way to get into swinging.

I have attended several with my husband and as a rule found them friendly and welcoming.

I can definitely recommend ClubF, though it's a while since we went.

I would suggest that you go on a night that doesn't allow single guys, or a newbie night to start.

The other recommendation is to arrive in good time, and make sure that you let them know you're new. You should get a tour and etiquette advice, along with information on what to do in the unlikely event that you have a problem.

Mostly, just enjoy the atmosphere and only do what you are comfortable with.

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By *dalisque OP Woman
over a year ago

land of make believe

"One word of advice. Keep your eyes out in case there’s any single men hanging around in a creepy way. The old lags call them “The Wanking Dead”.

Thank you,I'm thinking playing alone will probably what we do the first time.

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By *dalisque OP Woman
over a year ago

land of make believe

"OP clubs are a great no pressure way to get into swinging.

I have attended several with my husband and as a rule found them friendly and welcoming.

I can definitely recommend ClubF, though it's a while since we went.

I would suggest that you go on a night that doesn't allow single guys, or a newbie night to start.

Mostly, just enjoy the atmosphere and only do what you are comfortable with. "

Thank you that is great advice.

Is there a dress code usually? X

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By *dalisque OP Woman
over a year ago

land of make believe

"Yes op you can there should never be any pressure to play "

Thank you lovely x

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

"OP clubs are a great no pressure way to get into swinging.

I have attended several with my husband and as a rule found them friendly and welcoming.

I can definitely recommend ClubF, though it's a while since we went.

I would suggest that you go on a night that doesn't allow single guys, or a newbie night to start.

Mostly, just enjoy the atmosphere and only do what you are comfortable with.

Thank you that is great advice.

Is there a dress code usually? X"

Dress codes vary. Some are dress down (lingerie or towel) others are sexy/smart and some don't particularly have one. There's a couple in naturists spas, where nude is the dress code.

I can't remember off the top of my head what ClubF is. Though I was wearing lingerie when I went.

The website will tell you.

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