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By *adyBugs OP   Woman
over a year ago

cognito

…hello fabbers! I recently had a social with someone and all things went really well and we were on tracks to take it further until…they blocked my number with no explanation or behaviour that it would even happen. I’m really confused at the sudden turn around but my question is, should I now block them on here? They haven’t blocked me here. Or do I leave them as they are? What would you do? How would you handle it?

Your thoughts are appreciated x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would probably block on hear

Odd one for shour but would say they blowing they chance

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By *adyBugs OP   Woman
over a year ago

cognito


"I would probably block on hear

Odd one for shour but would say they blowing they chance "

Yeah I don’t think I’d be able to give them another chance. Thank you sweet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"…hello fabbers! I recently had a social with someone and all things went really well and we were on tracks to take it further until…they blocked my number with no explanation or behaviour that it would even happen. I’m really confused at the sudden turn around but my question is, should I now block them on here? They haven’t blocked me here. Or do I leave them as they are? What would you do? How would you handle it?

Your thoughts are appreciated x"

Personally, I would block them. I know it's a bit shit when you think something went well but then the person turns around and does this. Scum move on their part and lack of communication skills, like if you aren't feeling it just say it, rather than ghost/block.

Plenty of fish in the sea.

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By *airymagicWoman
over a year ago

goblin city


"I would probably block on hear

Odd one for shour but would say they blowing they chance

Yeah I don’t think I’d be able to give them another chance. Thank you sweet "

Absolutely block here and put it behind you, it's quite a knock that behaviour xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Block and forget

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would probably block on hear

Odd one for shour but would say they blowing they chance

Yeah I don’t think I’d be able to give them another chance. Thank you sweet "

Your welcome

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

Move on

Dont waste your precious time x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would block them here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep, if they’ve blocked you, you should have no qualms about returning the favour.

Plenty more folks out there, leave that one behind.

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By *adyBugs OP   Woman
over a year ago

cognito

Thank you all! And it’s nice that some think I received shitty behaviour. It shows there are still some good people here xx

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT


"Thank you all! And it’s nice that some think I received shitty behaviour. It shows there are still some good people here xx"

Xxxx

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"Thank you all! And it’s nice that some think I received shitty behaviour. It shows there are still some good people here xx"

Bad For Good - Jim Steinman

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jujSbje7pZA

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People come and people go

Some chat and it looks good then they disappear.

Just life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Block and move on. They've obviously either got cold feet or changed their mind. You deserve better than someone who can do that to you.

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By *olmateMan
over a year ago

west mids

I think it is so rude and childish behaviour.

If I were you I won't even bother blocking them. As they won't even exist to block.

Just discard them from your mind as if they never existed and meet someone who makes you feel special and happy.

Xxx

Sol


"…hello fabbers! I recently had a social with someone and all things went really well and we were on tracks to take it further until…they blocked my number with no explanation or behaviour that it would even happen. I’m really confused at the sudden turn around but my question is, should I now block them on here? They haven’t blocked me here. Or do I leave them as they are? What would you do? How would you handle it?

Your thoughts are appreciated x"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Block

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Defo block!

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By *angzMan
over a year ago

Manchester, London & sometimes Newcastle

Since they haven't blocked you on here, could they have blocked your number by mistake?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"…hello fabbers! I recently had a social with someone and all things went really well and we were on tracks to take it further until…they blocked my number with no explanation or behaviour that it would even happen. I’m really confused at the sudden turn around but my question is, should I now block them on here? They haven’t blocked me here. Or do I leave them as they are? What would you do? How would you handle it?

Your thoughts are appreciated x"

Just forget about them, find someone else and show them what their missing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Guessing there other half wasn’t impressed about them getting messages

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By *arakiss12TV/TS
over a year ago

Bedford

Could be an accidental block, new phone trying to get the jist of, sort of thing.

I did it once, couldn't figure out why they weren't replying to my messages, I'd put the number on a screening list by accident, new phone syndrome.

Message them on here and take it from there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s their loss OP, onwards and upwards

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd ask the Q before blocking xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think I'd likely message them here asking if things were ok and why the number block.

It seems bizarre they'd block your number with no apparent reason, yet but here.

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

Tough one, it's nice to have closure, but some are unwilling to divulge the truth, you could go round and round in circles,

stuck in benefit of the doubt and all that, I'd trust your gut and respond accordingly

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By *rhugesMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

I've had that quite a few times mainly with couples.

There are some very rude people on here

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By *rMojoRisinMan
over a year ago

Sheffield

You’re better off out of it, block, then shout “next!”

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's the nature of the fab beast. You need to be tough to take the very brutal knocks that folk can dish out on here. Don't bother blocking, just move on and forget.

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By *adyBugs OP   Woman
over a year ago

cognito


"Could be an accidental block, new phone trying to get the jist of, sort of thing.

I did it once, couldn't figure out why they weren't replying to my messages, I'd put the number on a screening list by accident, new phone syndrome.

Message them on here and take it from there.

"

That’s true. Sounds like something I would do too lol

Thanks x

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By *adyBugs OP   Woman
over a year ago

cognito


"Tough one, it's nice to have closure, but some are unwilling to divulge the truth, you could go round and round in circles,

stuck in benefit of the doubt and all that, I'd trust your gut and respond accordingly "

Yes this is true! I could just make myself crazy going in circles.

Appreciate your help x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Problems like this arise when miscommunication happens.

My advice to to just out them outright. If you aren’t blocked on here then message them and ask if they are still interested and why they blocked your number.

Be very clear on what you are asking. Set your bs radar to full though

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By *adyBugs OP   Woman
over a year ago

cognito


"It's the nature of the fab beast. You need to be tough to take the very brutal knocks that folk can dish out on here. Don't bother blocking, just move on and forget. "

Yeah I’ve been here a few years and have experienced worse things. I guess I just got caught off guard as I’ve not met new people for a while and thought there was nice chemistry. Ah well!

Thank you! x

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By *adyBugs OP   Woman
over a year ago

cognito


"Problems like this arise when miscommunication happens.

My advice to to just out them outright. If you aren’t blocked on here then message them and ask if they are still interested and why they blocked your number.

Be very clear on what you are asking. Set your bs radar to full though "

This is great advice! I shall do this later. Thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Block and move on -

Blocking saves on the admin of dealing with them in future - when they forget and message as if they dont know you !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes we don't always click...maybe you weren't for them....still a dick move so block them and put it down as an experience x

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

I'd personally just not do anything, if it was an error blocking, they could still message here if they wanted contact.

If they don't, you have an answer of sorts.

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By *batMan
over a year ago

Alicante, Spain. (Sometimes in Wales)


" Scum move on their part and lack of communication skills, like if you aren't feeling it just say it, rather than ghost/block. "

I was talking to a couple about a potential meet, but thought their answers were vague and they were reluctant to share a proper picture. I told them this and they got really arsey with me and actually said I should have just blocked them rather than try and explain.

So it seems like when you say "no thanks" you can't win!

Gbat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would block them. The question you have to ask yourself is, does this person deserve to see your profile after treating you in that way?

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

Block and move on... there's plenty more choices

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