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I usually just like to say that I’m just a girl (who happens to be transgender) | |||
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"Yeah. 100% an insult. Tranny… Shemale, chick with dick, girl with a cock… they are all very insulting for majority of transgender women…
I usually just like to say that I’m just a girl (who happens to be transgender) " | |||
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"I hear that sis after all there are plenty guys who know us girls can suck n fuck as good as if not better than some women Yeah. 100% an insult. Tranny… Shemale, chick with dick, girl with a cock… they are all very insulting for majority of transgender women…
I usually just like to say that I’m just a girl (who happens to be transgender) "Well, not sure if you are/have/plan to transition but in my books, I’m a woman  | |||
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"Does being called a tranny sound insulting, whether a crossdresser, non comforming, sissy, gender fluid etc." As it’s usually used in a derogatory manner then I’d say it’s insulting. I prefer Tgirl or just simply TV for myself and Transwoman or Transman for anyone going through transition. I enjoy humiliation play with a trusted partner, so derogatory terms can be used in that context, but if someone is using those terms to hurt or insult someone within the trans community, then we shouldn’t really be encouraging people to use such phrases. That’s my opinion on the matter. | |||
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"I'm just Polly. I ignore the detractors because I know that they are just jealous that I'm fabulous and they're crap." Yasss Polly!!!! I love this x  | |||
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"I may use it in conversation with friends and I have called myself it. I think the context is what is the important part tbh. I have gay friends that quite happily refer to each other as faggots for example. But if its then used as an insult from somebody outside of the group that's a bit different x" I still find the word tranny extremely offensive and derogatory no matter who that comes from. I don’t know x | |||
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"Yeah. 100% an insult. Tranny… Shemale, chick with dick, girl with a cock… they are all very insulting for majority of transgender women…
I usually just like to say that I’m just a girl (who happens to be transgender) "Absolutely this | |||
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"I may use it in conversation with friends and I have called myself it. I think the context is what is the important part tbh. I have gay friends that quite happily refer to each other as faggots for example. But if its then used as an insult from somebody outside of the group that's a bit different x I still find the word tranny extremely offensive and derogatory no matter who that comes from. I don’t know x " I just see it a bit like how the N word can be used by poc. And just because I have no real issue with it doesnt mean I would walk up to you and use it if I was speak to you in person though. | |||
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"I may use it in conversation with friends and I have called myself it. I think the context is what is the important part tbh. I have gay friends that quite happily refer to each other as faggots for example. But if its then used as an insult from somebody outside of the group that's a bit different x I still find the word tranny extremely offensive and derogatory no matter who that comes from. I don’t know x I just see it a bit like how the N word can be used by poc. And just because I have no real issue with it doesnt mean I would walk up to you and use it if I was speak to you in person though. " Totally different | |||
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"Yet to see any transgender woman who looks like a woman they all look like what they are which is men in drag" Lol maybe you even encountered some women who are trans and never even realised .. | |||
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"I may use it in conversation with friends and I have called myself it. I think the context is what is the important part tbh. I have gay friends that quite happily refer to each other as faggots for example. But if its then used as an insult from somebody outside of the group that's a bit different x I still find the word tranny extremely offensive and derogatory no matter who that comes from. I don’t know x I just see it a bit like how the N word can be used by poc. And just because I have no real issue with it doesnt mean I would walk up to you and use it if I was speak to you in person though. Totally different " How is it totally different? Two words that have historically used as derogatory terms for a group of people that is then reused or "owned" within said group. | |||
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"I may use it in conversation with friends and I have called myself it. I think the context is what is the important part tbh. I have gay friends that quite happily refer to each other as faggots for example. But if its then used as an insult from somebody outside of the group that's a bit different x I still find the word tranny extremely offensive and derogatory no matter who that comes from. I don’t know x I just see it a bit like how the N word can be used by poc. And just because I have no real issue with it doesnt mean I would walk up to you and use it if I was speak to you in person though. Totally different How is it totally different? Two words that have historically used as derogatory terms for a group of people that is then reused or "owned" within said group. " Yeah that's your opinion | |||
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"I may use it in conversation with friends and I have called myself it. I think the context is what is the important part tbh. I have gay friends that quite happily refer to each other as faggots for example. But if its then used as an insult from somebody outside of the group that's a bit different x I still find the word tranny extremely offensive and derogatory no matter who that comes from. I don’t know x I just see it a bit like how the N word can be used by poc. And just because I have no real issue with it doesnt mean I would walk up to you and use it if I was speak to you in person though. Totally different How is it totally different? Two words that have historically used as derogatory terms for a group of people that is then reused or "owned" within said group. Yeah that's your opinion " Can you elaborate how my opinion is wrong? Or how they are totally different then? | |||
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"Yet to see any transgender woman who looks like a woman they all look like what they are which is men in drag" | |||
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"I don't understand why trans wear so much make up makes them look like Circus clowns" | |||
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"I may use it in conversation with friends and I have called myself it. I think the context is what is the important part tbh. I have gay friends that quite happily refer to each other as faggots for example. But if its then used as an insult from somebody outside of the group that's a bit different x I still find the word tranny extremely offensive and derogatory no matter who that comes from. I don’t know x I just see it a bit like how the N word can be used by poc. And just because I have no real issue with it doesnt mean I would walk up to you and use it if I was speak to you in person though. Totally different How is it totally different? Two words that have historically used as derogatory terms for a group of people that is then reused or "owned" within said group. Yeah that's your opinion Can you elaborate how my opinion is wrong? Or how they are totally different then? " Well both are disgusting words but iv been called tranny from friends as a joke it doesn't bother me | |||
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"I don't understand why trans wear so much make up makes them look like Circus clowns" I love make up | |||
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"I don't understand why trans wear so much make up makes them look like Circus clowns" Oh I’m sorry I didn’t know we had to appeal to you
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"I may use it in conversation with friends and I have called myself it. I think the context is what is the important part tbh. I have gay friends that quite happily refer to each other as faggots for example. But if its then used as an insult from somebody outside of the group that's a bit different x I still find the word tranny extremely offensive and derogatory no matter who that comes from. I don’t know x I just see it a bit like how the N word can be used by poc. And just because I have no real issue with it doesnt mean I would walk up to you and use it if I was speak to you in person though. Totally different How is it totally different? Two words that have historically used as derogatory terms for a group of people that is then reused or "owned" within said group. Yeah that's your opinion Can you elaborate how my opinion is wrong? Or how they are totally different then? Well both are disgusting words but iv been called tranny from friends as a joke it doesn't bother me " So yeah you are kinda agreeing with me. If somone shouted tranny at me in the street I wouldnt be a happy bunny. But if I'm having a laugh or casual conversation with another trans friend I dont have an issue with it at all. That's why i liken it a bit too the N word. As friends may use it as a term of endearment between themselves. Same as the gay guys I worked with calling themselves faggots. Just because they use it doesnt then make it acceptable to be used by a stranger. | |||
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"I may use it in conversation with friends and I have called myself it. I think the context is what is the important part tbh. I have gay friends that quite happily refer to each other as faggots for example. But if its then used as an insult from somebody outside of the group that's a bit different x I still find the word tranny extremely offensive and derogatory no matter who that comes from. I don’t know x I just see it a bit like how the N word can be used by poc. And just because I have no real issue with it doesnt mean I would walk up to you and use it if I was speak to you in person though. Totally different How is it totally different? Two words that have historically used as derogatory terms for a group of people that is then reused or "owned" within said group. Yeah that's your opinion Can you elaborate how my opinion is wrong? Or how they are totally different then? Well both are disgusting words but iv been called tranny from friends as a joke it doesn't bother me So yeah you are kinda agreeing with me. If somone shouted tranny at me in the street I wouldnt be a happy bunny. But if I'm having a laugh or casual conversation with another trans friend I dont have an issue with it at all. That's why i liken it a bit too the N word. As friends may use it as a term of endearment between themselves. Same as the gay guys I worked with calling themselves faggots. Just because they use it doesnt then make it acceptable to be used by a stranger. " Yes I agree | |||
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"Using a slur just shows a level of unawareness and education. If someone uses a slur I’ll try to share why it’s bad if I can engage with someone but more often it’s a walk away from it." I have to admit, I didn't think tranny was anything other than an abbreviation for transexual. I get that it has now been used in a derogatory way that it's become a slur but I don't think it's always that easy for people to keep up with how words change meaning within a certain culture. How much of this is to do with the fetishisation of transexuals in porn? | |||
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"Using a slur just shows a level of unawareness and education. If someone uses a slur I’ll try to share why it’s bad if I can engage with someone but more often it’s a walk away from it. I have to admit, I didn't think tranny was anything other than an abbreviation for transexual. I get that it has now been used in a derogatory way that it's become a slur but I don't think it's always that easy for people to keep up with how words change meaning within a certain culture. How much of this is to do with the fetishisation of transexuals in porn?" Most porn like that would be under Transgender now. Atleast PH and Xhamster that is the umbrella category. What people title uploaded videos is down to them. I would say the term Shemale was probably more prominent than tranny before that | |||
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"Tranny is slang for transvestite and transgender people who are transitioning are not transvestites. Many transvestites don’t like being called tranny either. For the record; we’re not ‘transgenders’ we’re people who happen to be transgender. " I'm a lady | |||
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"Tranny is slang for transvestite and transgender people who are transitioning are not transvestites. Many transvestites don’t like being called tranny either. For the record; we’re not ‘transgenders’ we’re people who happen to be transgender. " A tranny was a kind of van when I was a kid. | |||
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"Tranny is slang for transvestite and transgender people who are transitioning are not transvestites. Many transvestites don’t like being called tranny either. For the record; we’re not ‘transgenders’ we’re people who happen to be transgender. A tranny was a kind of van when I was a kid. " transit van | |||
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"Tranny is slang for transvestite and transgender people who are transitioning are not transvestites. Many transvestites don’t like being called tranny either. For the record; we’re not ‘transgenders’ we’re people who happen to be transgender. A tranny was a kind of van when I was a kid. transit van" Correct. | |||
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"Tranny is slang for transvestite and transgender people who are transitioning are not transvestites. Many transvestites don’t like being called tranny either. For the record; we’re not ‘transgenders’ we’re people who happen to be transgender. A tranny was a kind of van when I was a kid. transit van Correct." xxx | |||
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"A tranny is a small radio from the 1970's, or a type of van. It's not a person." Or a gearbox | |||
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"I don't understand why trans wear so much make up makes them look like Circus clowns" Have you not seen any cis women these days?! Face cake is a thing, regardless | |||
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"Tranny is slang for transvestite and transgender people who are transitioning are not transvestites. Many transvestites don’t like being called tranny either. For the record; we’re not ‘transgenders’ we’re people who happen to be transgender. I'm a lady" Very much so. As am I…. Unless I’m in the bedroom when I’m less of a lady  | |||
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"Tranny is slang for transvestite and transgender people who are transitioning are not transvestites. Many transvestites don’t like being called tranny either. For the record; we’re not ‘transgenders’ we’re people who happen to be transgender. I'm a lady Very much so. As am I…. Unless I’m in the bedroom when I’m less of a lady "Xxx  | |||
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"I don't understand why trans wear so much make up makes them look like Circus clowns Have you not seen any cis women these days?! Face cake is a thing, regardless " Airel u look fantastic lol always wonder why people cover there bodies with tattoos but not like there bodies | |||
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"Tranny is slang for transvestite and transgender people who are transitioning are not transvestites. Many transvestites don’t like being called tranny either. For the record; we’re not ‘transgenders’ we’re people who happen to be transgender. I'm a lady Very much so. As am I…. Unless I’m in the bedroom when I’m less of a lady "Yes, no more trying to pass yourself off as ladies - we all know you're sluts  | |||
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"Tranny is slang for transvestite and transgender people who are transitioning are not transvestites. Many transvestites don’t like being called tranny either. For the record; we’re not ‘transgenders’ we’re people who happen to be transgender. I'm a lady Very much so. As am I…. Unless I’m in the bedroom when I’m less of a lady
Yes, no more trying to pass yourself off as ladies - we all know you're sluts "We ain't | |||
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"Tranny is slang for transvestite and transgender people who are transitioning are not transvestites. Many transvestites don’t like being called tranny either. For the record; we’re not ‘transgenders’ we’re people who happen to be transgender. I'm a lady Very much so. As am I…. Unless I’m in the bedroom when I’m less of a lady
Yes, no more trying to pass yourself off as ladies - we all know you're sluts "Steady on….. let’s not get carried away here  | |||
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"Tranny is slang for transvestite and transgender people who are transitioning are not transvestites. Many transvestites don’t like being called tranny either. For the record; we’re not ‘transgenders’ we’re people who happen to be transgender. I'm a lady Very much so. As am I…. Unless I’m in the bedroom when I’m less of a lady
Yes, no more trying to pass yourself off as ladies - we all know you're sluts
Steady on….. let’s not get carried away here "I meant that in a cheeky way we're all sluts on here. No doubt that's another term that people have different views on. | |||
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"Not nice to use the word slut ....slag is much better" You slaaaaaaag | |||
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"Not nice to use the word slut ....slag is much better" Charmer | |||
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"Not nice to use the word slut ....slag is much better" As I've always said - you can dig a deeper whole with two than you can with just one. | |||
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"Not nice to use the word slut ....slag is much better As I've always said - you can dig a deeper whole with two than you can with just one. "*hole | |||
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"Not nice to use the word slut ....slag is much better You slaaaaaaag " I’d rather not be involved in your banter gentlemen.  | |||
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"I don't understand why trans wear so much make up makes them look like Circus clowns Have you not seen any cis women these days?! Face cake is a thing, regardless " Exactly that | |||
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"I don't understand why trans wear so much make up makes them look like Circus clowns Have you not seen any cis women these days?! Face cake is a thing, regardless Exactly that" If there were ever a situation where you just wanted the icing... | |||
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"I don't understand why trans wear so much make up makes them look like Circus clowns Have you not seen any cis women these days?! Face cake is a thing, regardless Exactly that" And not all of us wear a ‘face’ of makeup. I never wear foundation or powder. | |||
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"I don't understand why trans wear so much make up makes them look like Circus clowns Have you not seen any cis women these days?! Face cake is a thing, regardless Exactly that And not all of us wear a ‘face’ of makeup. I never wear foundation or powder. " No need to brag  | |||
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"I don't understand why trans wear so much make up makes them look like Circus clowns Have you not seen any cis women these days?! Face cake is a thing, regardless Exactly that And not all of us wear a ‘face’ of makeup. I never wear foundation or powder. No need to brag "Lol. It wasn’t meant to be that  | |||
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"I don't understand why trans wear so much make up makes them look like Circus clowns Have you not seen any cis women these days?! Face cake is a thing, regardless Exactly that And not all of us wear a ‘face’ of makeup. I never wear foundation or powder. No need to brag
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"This is something I want to understand better. If it ever happens I would like to say the right things that someone would like to hear and reflects what both of us are trying to project. I have assumed that it would be understandable to address a transgender woman as a female as I would imagine it’s the most respectful way I would be able to give a compliment without going into details and specifics during the heat of the moment " Exactly! A transgender woman is a woman. So woman is sufficient x
There’s no need to always go into details , when there’s no need to go into them xx it’s part of me sure but it isn’t the thing that defines me as a person/woman x | |||
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"I hear that sis after all there are plenty guys who know us girls can suck n fuck as good as if not better than some women Yeah. 100% an insult. Tranny… Shemale, chick with dick, girl with a cock… they are all very insulting for majority of transgender women…
I usually just like to say that I’m just a girl (who happens to be transgender)
Well, not sure if you are/have/plan to transition but in my books, I’m a woman "and the hottest woman on this site by far | |||
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"I hear that sis after all there are plenty guys who know us girls can suck n fuck as good as if not better than some women Yeah. 100% an insult. Tranny… Shemale, chick with dick, girl with a cock… they are all very insulting for majority of transgender women…
I usually just like to say that I’m just a girl (who happens to be transgender)
Well, not sure if you are/have/plan to transition but in my books, I’m a woman and the hottest woman on this site by far "Ahh staaaaaap | |||
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"I hear that sis after all there are plenty guys who know us girls can suck n fuck as good as if not better than some women Yeah. 100% an insult. Tranny… Shemale, chick with dick, girl with a cock… they are all very insulting for majority of transgender women…
I usually just like to say that I’m just a girl (who happens to be transgender)
Well, not sure if you are/have/plan to transition but in my books, I’m a woman and the hottest woman on this site by far
Ahh staaaaaap "true tho! Just saying x | |||
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"I don't understand why trans wear so much make up makes them look like Circus clowns Have you not seen any cis women these days?! Face cake is a thing, regardless Airel u look fantastic lol always wonder why people cover there bodies with tattoos but not like there bodies " What?! Who said I don't like my body?! Weird! | |||
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"Not nice to use the word slut ....slag is much better" listen son. its my job to piss them off here. ok you do it | |||
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"Yet to see any transgender woman who looks like a woman they all look like what they are which is men in drag" What about DJ Steph Hurst she is stunning and a couple on this thread who look amazing | |||
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"Yet to see any transgender woman who looks like a woman they all look like what they are which is men in drag What about DJ Steph Hurst she is stunning and a couple on this thread who look amazing" I could write a list of gorgeous women who are trans and look just like any other gorgeous biological woman. The guy doesn’t know what he is talking about | |||
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"Yet to see any transgender woman who looks like a woman they all look like what they are which is men in drag" Wow! What a nasty bigot u are! | |||
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"Yet to see any transgender woman who looks like a woman they all look like what they are which is men in drag Wow! What a nasty bigot u are!" I ignore these stupid comments because they completely contradict themselves and short circuit their intention: There are countless trans women who look cis. Absolutely loads of them. People assume you have to look like a super model to look cis…. most women don’t look like super models.
If you’re trans and you look cis you don’t tend to go up to idiots like the one who posted that daft ass comment and say “hey mr transphobe, I’m trans”
This is why he hasn’t seen any trans women who look like cis women; because they don’t spend their days outing themselves!!!!
There are loads of trans women, and trans men for that matter, who move among the cis population unnoticed.
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"Yet to see any transgender woman who looks like a woman they all look like what they are which is men in drag Wow! What a nasty bigot u are! I ignore these stupid comments because they completely contradict themselves and short circuit their intention: There are countless trans women who look cis. Absolutely loads of them. People assume you have to look like a super model to look cis…. most women don’t look like super models.
If you’re trans and you look cis you don’t tend to go up to idiots like the one who posted that daft ass comment and say “hey mr transphobe, I’m trans”
This is why he hasn’t seen any trans women who look like cis women; because they don’t spend their days outing themselves!!!!
There are loads of trans women, and trans men for that matter, who move among the cis population unnoticed.
"Well said my love x majority don’t exactly are out with a laser to clock trans women or trans men out | |||
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"I don't understand why trans wear so much make up makes them look like Circus clowns" What a bigoted, nasty comment  | |||
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"Yet to see any transgender woman who looks like a woman they all look like what they are which is men in drag What about DJ Steph Hurst she is stunning and a couple on this thread who look amazing I could write a list of gorgeous women who are trans and look just like any other gorgeous biological woman. The guy doesn’t know what he is talking about " I have to agree with you he really wouldnt know. Heres the lists
https://www.fabswingers.com/forum/swingers/1030196#message_24995222
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