FabSwingers.com forum: On the theme of hotlists...

By *issAphrodite OP Woman
over a year ago

Norwich

This is a kind of continuation from the other hotlist thread.

How many people have you met who started out on your hotlist? How did you make the transition from perving to meeting? Do you even want to meet those on your hotlist or do you prefer to admire from afar?

Really just wondering of it's more of a shopping basket where you add things to buy later or a wish list that you'd like to have buy probably won't - if you won't, why not?

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

They're just people I am stalking for future interest.

PS I have not read the other thread....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My hotlist is usually the starting point for people I meet. It’s a short; curated list, and I take the time to try to get to know the people on it.

It helps me filter the general perving/lusting! From the people that I may actually want to meet sometime!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My hotlist is usually the starting point for people I meet. It’s a short; curated list, and I take the time to try to get to know the people on it.

It helps me filter the general perving/lusting! From the people that I may actually want to meet sometime!"

And. It’s open for additions at the moment!

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

"My hotlist is usually the starting point for people I meet. It’s a short; curated list, and I take the time to try to get to know the people on it.

It helps me filter the general perving/lusting! From the people that I may actually want to meet sometime!"

In fairness.. this sums it up nicely.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Over my 10 years on and off hear lost count

My hot list is a bit off a mix

Off people that I want to meet and people that I wouldn’t as I am not what they looking for

But they pic has cought my eye

So I just watch from a far hopeing they prefinces change

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By *issAphrodite OP Woman
over a year ago

Norwich

"My hotlist is usually the starting point for people I meet. It’s a short; curated list, and I take the time to try to get to know the people on it.

It helps me filter the general perving/lusting! From the people that I may actually want to meet sometime!"

Probably about the same for me really. Although some I will never meet for various reasons and others I would if they were interested in me but I'm not brave enough to find out if they are or not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I’m on it. Just ask.

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By *urora1912Woman
over a year ago

Norfolk East anglia

Usually it's from playing games on the forum and then I've added guys to my hot list.

Then in the game of telling the person they are on your list I've told a few and then things progressed into pm and then on tk meeting

Only met 3 who I had on my hotlist.

I would meet the others who are on there are some point if the time comes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know there's no chance of meeting some of people on my hotlist but they're still on there because they have great profiles and make updates that I can admire

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

I've never met anyone on my hotlist but then again I've only met 2 on my friends list.

Those on the current hotlist are people I've chatted to through the forums but not on a regular enough basis to progress to the friends list.

Others on the hotlist are not there to be perved on at all. The opposite in fact. They are there so I can observe questionable behaviour and the drama they try to involve me in.

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By *uietly_KinkyMan
over a year ago

High Wycombe

Zero.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I couldn't say to be fair. I've had people on my hotlist who then graduated to my friends list, some I've met, some I'd like to. My hotlist goes through phases of perving material, profiles I want to keep an eye and everything in between. Then occasionally I get bored, delete all of its and start again.

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

I have just tied up my Hotlist, OP, thanks for a good and timely reminder. A few have come off and a couple have gone on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve met one person off my hotlist, but for now, it’s for people who have pictures I like, male and female

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By *issAphrodite OP Woman
over a year ago

Norwich

"I couldn't say to be fair. I've had people on my hotlist who then graduated to my friends list, some I've met, some I'd like to. My hotlist goes through phases of perving material, profiles I want to keep an eye and everything in between. Then occasionally I get bored, delete all of its and start again. "

Yes, I've a few on mine who are purely there to keep an eye on, as though I'm the actual Fab Police or something

Trying to think if anyone I've met from here was ever on my hotlist...Indint think they were. I think they all took me by surprise with a message from the blue, so perhaps O was originally on theirs - I don't know. I sometimes get Fabs from people on my hotlist, so perhaps there's some mutual perving going on

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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago

somewhere, someplace

I've met a few people from my hotlist, some I haven't and possibly won't as I just admire from afar,some I'd like to and it may be a possibility, but I'll happily just take things as they come, others are on there as I like what they post.

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

Mine is exactly as you said but with party social hosts instead of potential meets, I like to keep up with their updates but don't want to transition them into my friends list

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By *om and JennieCouple
over a year ago

Chams or Socials

Ours is mainly for profiles with pics that catch our eye.

In my single days it was full of people I wanted to meet & I met quite a few - mainly socially. T started off there…

J x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve met a a couple on mine but the rest are people I want to meet one day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unfortunately I haven’t had any interest from my hotlist so I’m stalking them instead

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By *eavertrackerMan
over a year ago

yeovil

My hotlist is too hot for me

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

It’s a mixture of people I’ve met socially and more, along with some I chat to and may see socially one day. Plus some profiles that I like their photos and might draw one day, if they allow.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never used it

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By *eavertrackerMan
over a year ago

yeovil

"It’s a mixture of people I’ve met socially and more, along with some I chat to and may see socially one day. Plus some profiles that I like their photos and might draw one day, if they allow. "

Wow, I would absolutely love to be drawn xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Blimey mine is just an absolute fantasy list, it's only a small list but snowballs chance in hell I will ever even have a conversation with any of them.

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

I've met the ones on mine and they have now moved to friends.

Think I need more victims

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm doing something wrong. I seem to only attract gay men

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By *issAphrodite OP Woman
over a year ago

Norwich

"Blimey mine is just an absolute fantasy list, it's only a small list but snowballs chance in hell I will ever even have a conversation with any of them."

How do you know you wouldn't have a conversation with them?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Blimey mine is just an absolute fantasy list, it's only a small list but snowballs chance in hell I will ever even have a conversation with any of them.

How do you know you wouldn't have a conversation with them?"

Im just hyper realistic. I did send one a friend request after she told me I was on her hotlist too. She ignored it. It is what it is.

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By *issAphrodite OP Woman
over a year ago

Norwich

"Blimey mine is just an absolute fantasy list, it's only a small list but snowballs chance in hell I will ever even have a conversation with any of them.

How do you know you wouldn't have a conversation with them?

Im just hyper realistic. I did send one a friend request after she told me I was on her hotlist too. She ignored it. It is what it is.

Being onna hotlist isn't an invitation to be "friends" though. I'd want to chat with someone before that, but that's just me.

I wonder how many pairs here are on each other's hotlists and both think the other wouldn't want to speak to them, let alone meet

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

Our hotlist is people we like the look of who we haven’t contacted yet.

Time is our biggest constraint and so if we are already chatting to a number of others then we won’t have time to chat or arrange a meet with new people.

So they remain there for future and to perve on their new pics

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

One person from my hotlist moved to my friends list and we met.

My friends list is more about people I've met. My hotlist is a mixture of social accounts so I can see updates and people I enjoy perving at but where we aren't a good fit so I don't message them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

one women on my hotlist.

shes often at or close to the top of the most fabbed pics list.

we met for dinner the other night.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Blimey mine is just an absolute fantasy list, it's only a small list but snowballs chance in hell I will ever even have a conversation with any of them.

How do you know you wouldn't have a conversation with them?

Im just hyper realistic. I did send one a friend request after she told me I was on her hotlist too. She ignored it. It is what it is.

Being onna hotlist isn't an invitation to be "friends" though. I'd want to chat with someone before that, but that's just me.

I wonder how many pairs here are on each other's hotlists and both think the other wouldn't want to speak to them, let alone meet

Maybe I misunderstand the friends thing. I literally just wanted to chat as a friendly person her nothing more.

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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago

somewhere, someplace

"Blimey mine is just an absolute fantasy list, it's only a small list but snowballs chance in hell I will ever even have a conversation with any of them.

How do you know you wouldn't have a conversation with them?

Im just hyper realistic. I did send one a friend request after she told me I was on her hotlist too. She ignored it. It is what it is.

Being onna hotlist isn't an invitation to be "friends" though. I'd want to chat with someone before that, but that's just me.

I wonder how many pairs here are on each other's hotlists and both think the other wouldn't want to speak to them, let alone meet

I often do wonder that too

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By *iBBWLondonWoman
over a year ago

London

"Blimey mine is just an absolute fantasy list, it's only a small list but snowballs chance in hell I will ever even have a conversation with any of them.

How do you know you wouldn't have a conversation with them?

Im just hyper realistic. I did send one a friend request after she told me I was on her hotlist too. She ignored it. It is what it is.

Stupid woman!

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By *iBBWLondonWoman
over a year ago

London

"Blimey mine is just an absolute fantasy list, it's only a small list but snowballs chance in hell I will ever even have a conversation with any of them.

How do you know you wouldn't have a conversation with them?

Im just hyper realistic. I did send one a friend request after she told me I was on her hotlist too. She ignored it. It is what it is.

Stupid woman!"

Is it just me, or did anyone else hear Renè from ‘Allo ‘Allo saying that in their heads?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Blimey mine is just an absolute fantasy list, it's only a small list but snowballs chance in hell I will ever even have a conversation with any of them.

How do you know you wouldn't have a conversation with them?

Im just hyper realistic. I did send one a friend request after she told me I was on her hotlist too. She ignored it. It is what it is.

Stupid woman!"

lol..thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I use it more to track the profiles who set up socials.

Got a few other odds and sods. Mainly people I think it would be cool to get beer with than either a crush or wanna fuck aganda.

Buy I'm not really here for getting jiggy with it, so not really a surprise I've not used it like many here ...

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By *uietly_KinkyMan
over a year ago

High Wycombe

"Blimey mine is just an absolute fantasy list, it's only a small list but snowballs chance in hell I will ever even have a conversation with any of them.

How do you know you wouldn't have a conversation with them?

Im just hyper realistic. I did send one a friend request after she told me I was on her hotlist too. She ignored it. It is what it is.

Being onna hotlist isn't an invitation to be "friends" though. I'd want to chat with someone before that, but that's just me.

I wonder how many pairs here are on each other's hotlists and both think the other wouldn't want to speak to them, let alone meet

I often do wonder that too

It's a sad thing when people are crippled by lack of confidence.

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