FabSwingers.com forum: What's wrong??

By *elonsplums OP Couple
over a year ago

Salisbury

Does anyone else personally feel like they are doing something wrong on here??

I think we post sexy pics and statuses - we also message others but never seem to attract anyone (except men pretending they are part of a MF couple)

What are we doing wrong? - can anyone help please xxxx

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

It isn't easy for anyone on here we don't think. Finding compatible people takes a lot of time and effort.

Clubs and social events are sometimes an easier way of meeting people we find.

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

Block men if you don't want them contacting. Haven't bothered looking at your profile - maybe post a meet or mail cpls/women you like?

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By *oveAndBangCouple
over a year ago

where the mood takes us

You're not doing anything wrong. Try visit a club and You'll see how it is in real, not online

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By *aunchy RaccoonsCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

We also get a lot of guys posing as couples, what's more frustrating is talking to a couple for them to suddenly drop the bombshell that only the male half plays.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Does anyone else personally feel like they are doing something wrong on here??

I think we post sexy pics and statuses - we also message others but never seem to attract anyone (except men pretending they are part of a MF couple)

What are we doing wrong? - can anyone help please xxxx"

Welcome to fab! We got blocked earlier just from sending our face pictures to a couple we was chatting to! I just said to the hubby I would love a site of genuine swingers not a site where anyone can just join

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

From experience and people I've met or spoken to you're very lucky to find "that something or someone you had in mind" on here.

It's not for the faint hearted only some will be successful but from what I can see you don't seem like you should have any problems so I'm not sure...

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By *elonsplums OP Couple
over a year ago

Salisbury

Seems weird people want to meet in person before having fun to see if they want each other

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Clubs are easier to meet people OP, it is a mine field on here sometimes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Although your pics are very sexy, I think to attract the type you want, you maybe need to leave a little more wrapped up to stimulate their mind and imagination. That might get the flirty chat going a bit more. Maybe leave the full frontals in the friends only box. Just a suggestion that might be worth a try. Some people like the reward for their effort of a flirty chat. And maybe save the kik names only for those worthy. Hope you find what you're looking for x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Although your pics are very sexy, I think to attract the type you want, you maybe need to leave a little more wrapped up to stimulate their mind and imagination. That might get the flirty chat going a bit more. Maybe leave the full frontals in the friends only box. Just a suggestion that might be worth a try. Some people like the reward for their effort of a flirty chat. And maybe save the kik names only for those worthy. Hope you find what you're looking for x

very negative profile

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

"Does anyone else personally feel like they are doing something wrong on here??

I think we post sexy pics and statuses - we also message others but never seem to attract anyone (except men pretending they are part of a MF couple)

What are we doing wrong? - can anyone help please xxxx

Why aren't they genuine if they don't like the look of you and use a site tool to prevent any further communication from people they don't want to fuck?

What is a genuine swinger?

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By *asycouple1971Couple
over a year ago

midlands

Site is full of fakes,idiots and timewasters.

Hard work trying to get a ff meet that we have more or less given up.

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By *arry247Couple
over a year ago

Wakefield

"Does anyone else personally feel like they are doing something wrong on here??

I think we post sexy pics and statuses - we also message others but never seem to attract anyone (except men pretending they are part of a MF couple)

What are we doing wrong? - can anyone help please xxxx"

From looking at your profile we would say you seem like hard work.

You want to chat online before a meet, which is fine but our impression is the chats will be never ending and the meets some way off in the distance.

We are not saying that's what would happen but it is the impression we get.

Having said that we do not have much spare time to sit and chat online so we prefer to use fab to arrange meets and have fun

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

Definitely go to fab organised socials and events at clubs, it's a brill experience and you can make loads of friends (potential play partners) face to face, much easier than the online dance for many

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Your most recent pic is just two tubs of icecream with neither of you in the pic at all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Does anyone else personally feel like they are doing something wrong on here??

I think we post sexy pics and statuses - we also message others but never seem to attract anyone (except men pretending they are part of a MF couple)

What are we doing wrong? - can anyone help please xxxx"

You’re not doing anything wrong in particular it’s just Fab world exactly the same happens to us ,we think there is a winning formula for some people though on here

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

"Your most recent pic is just two tubs of icecream with neither of you in the pic at all. "
didn't think that was allowed? I've had a pic rejected (after being uploaded for some time) because I'm not in it (even though my hand was

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Seems weird people want to meet in person before having fun to see if they want each other "

Why is that weird? Makes sense to me. I never meet to play unless there has been a social prior

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Your profile gives the impression that you aren't very approachable. You use the word fun a few times but there is no sense of fun or humour in your pics or your bio so that may be offputting to many.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As it says you have messaged me... Possibly not reading profiles before messaging?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Seems weird people want to meet in person before having fun to see if they want each other

Why is that weird? Makes sense to me. I never meet to play unless there has been a social prior"

Same here.

Although some socials have and will lead directly to the bedroom.

If everyone gets along and the attraction is there.

With regards to what you’re doing wrong, probably nothing, we’d advise you to attend a group social together and meet lots of real people that way.

Good luck.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

What are we doing wrong? - can anyone help please xxxx"

Have you thought about rewriting your profile to explain more about the sort of people you are looking for and what you would like to do if you met them ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Your most recent pic is just two tubs of icecream with neither of you in the pic at all. "

that made me lol way more than it should have

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By *elonsplums OP Couple
over a year ago

Salisbury

That's seriously what happens to us ALL the time lol

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By *elonsplums OP Couple
over a year ago

Salisbury

V strange - u can send the dirtiest pics but can not post innocent ones

My ice cream pic were rejected lol

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By *elonsplums OP Couple
over a year ago

Salisbury

Thanks babe

But the pics we post are innocent we leave the naughtiness for friends lol

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By *elonsplums OP Couple
over a year ago

Salisbury

Us or him????

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By *elonsplums OP Couple
over a year ago

Salisbury

They say they are a couple however the female is never awake or there

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By *elonsplums OP Couple
over a year ago

Salisbury

We r here if u wanna chat and play xxx

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By *elonsplums OP Couple
over a year ago

Salisbury

We aren't hard work but we work hard xxxx

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By *elonsplums OP Couple
over a year ago

Salisbury

Thank u sweet cheeks will look now xxx

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By *elonsplums OP Couple
over a year ago

Salisbury

It's been rejected lol

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By *elonsplums OP Couple
over a year ago

Salisbury

What's 'fun and approachable' ???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have lost faith on this site. Alot of fakes! Especially men pretending to be a MF couple. Its really sad.

You will have more luck on Tinder and thats sad

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

As the lady in this couple the negativity and volume of cock on the profile wouldn't inspire me.

We're a laid back couple and want to meet with people that we can have fun with.

I also really like to see photos of couples together. It shows that they are a couple.

You need patience in spades, a sense of humour and a thick skin, if you're using Fab as your sole means of meeting. We find clubs are a much better option.

Nita

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

"Thank u sweet cheeks will look now xxx"

If you use reply and quote we know who you're responding to

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

"V strange - u can send the dirtiest pics but can not post innocent ones

My ice cream pic were rejected lol"

You have to be in them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just checked out your profile and I can’t see anything wrong with it at all

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

"It's been rejected lol"

Pictures have to include "you" in them, you're not allowed to post pictures of "things" or cartoons/memes etc.. it's one of the sites rules.

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By *elonsplums OP Couple
over a year ago

Salisbury

We have x

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By *elonsplums OP Couple
over a year ago

Salisbury

Please can you recommend any xx

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

"Please can you recommend any xx"

Clubs?

We have been to loads and enjoyed the vast majority. They're all different and we don't really know what's in your area or what would suit you.

Have a look at the reviews and websites and choose one that you like the sound/look of.

Let them know it's your first visit and you should get a tour and etiquette advice.

Enjoy

Nita

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By *elonsplums OP Couple
over a year ago

Salisbury

Thank you babe xxxx

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