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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Is your fab crush on your hotlist and what's stopping you from dropping them a little message?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He blocked all T girls ahhh life oh life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a meet with my Fab crush. He was even better in the flesh.

Had a few "Boys of summer" on my hotlist but one by one they turned out to be flakes. It's currently blank.

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria

Married my crush no one will come close to her.

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

I have several, some on my friends list, two on my hotlist.

I've messaged.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Shes on all my lists… and she knows this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have several, some on my friends list, two on my hotlist.

I've messaged. "

I've no message????? Lol x

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By *ulkuriMan
over a year ago

London

Messaged and got ignored

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By *iBBWLondonWoman
over a year ago

London

My fab crush left the site a few years ago, so no longer on my hotlist

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By *eardybobMan
over a year ago

the Goldilocks Zone

Alas... she doesn't do beards...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"My fab crush left the site a few years ago, so no longer on my hotlist "

Oh nooo I'm sorry, fingers crossed fate sorts you out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"He blocked all T girls ahhh life oh life "

I don’t remember doing that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On hotlist and messaged but still only a crush

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"He blocked all T girls ahhh life oh life "

Oh noooo. It's okay, he might come around. You never know.

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By *andsome HandMan
over a year ago

roundabout

My hotlist is empty and the Irosh sea is a bit of an obstacle between my crush and I.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"On hotlist and messaged but still only a crush "

I have faith. You'll get there in the end. Just don't be a pest. Ahaha

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral


"I have several, some on my friends list, two on my hotlist.

I've messaged.

I've no message????? Lol x"

You've had more messages than the bloody GPO! x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have several, some on my friends list, two on my hotlist.

I've messaged.

I've no message????? Lol x

You've had more messages than the bloody GPO! x"

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By *iBBWLondonWoman
over a year ago

London


"My fab crush left the site a few years ago, so no longer on my hotlist

Oh nooo I'm sorry, fingers crossed fate sorts you out. "

Thanks, petal x

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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Because they just don't see me in that way in the slightest and why ruin our very platonic friendship?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Too new here to be crushing on anyone, besides don't wanna be catching any pesky feelings lol

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By *l MateMan
over a year ago

Sheffield Centre

I've got more than one. With some it's the distance, but more so that they will say no.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes thay all are some know some don’t know some may never know

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By *rMojoRisinMan
over a year ago

Sheffield

There’s women I’m attracted to and women I like for different reasons, fashion sense, sense of humour, quirkiness.

If it happens it happens, the women I like know it, usually, but they usually aren’t attracted to me.

C’est la guerre.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Because they just don't see me in that way in the slightest and why ruin our very platonic friendship? "

Have you tried? You won't know until you try. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"On hotlist and messaged but still only a crush

I have faith. You'll get there in the end. Just don't be a pest. Ahaha"

Thanks for the vote of confidence

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By *uietly_KinkyMan
over a year ago

High Wycombe

I don't really have crushes. There are some women I absolutely fancy the socks off, but I don't know them well enough (or at all, really) and wouldn't think they'd be interested in meeting me if I did.

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

I think I'd crush most people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a couple and they both know.

One I've met the other we're looking for different things but still enjoy his pics

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Distance and availability plus they probably aren’t into me

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By *uietly_KinkyMan
over a year ago

High Wycombe


"Because they just don't see me in that way in the slightest and why ruin our very platonic friendship?

Have you tried? You won't know until you try. X"

Some of us value friendships too much to risk them for a fuck.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don't really have crushes. There are some women I absolutely fancy the socks off, but I don't know them well enough (or at all, really) and wouldn't think they'd be interested in meeting me if I did."

That sounds like a crush to me.

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By *gent CoulsonMan
over a year ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines


"Because they just don't see me in that way in the slightest and why ruin our very platonic friendship? "
this

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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago

somewhere, someplace

I have a few, some know they are, some I've met, some I don't know if it would be reciprocated so I stay silent for now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well my crush just told me I get to many messages!!!! Oh but I still crush on her big time xxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I have a few, some know they are, some I've met, some I don't know if it would be reciprocated so I stay silent for now "

I totally understand that. Glad you've been able to meet a few though. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a few. Some I’m not in their age range, others haven’t even opened my message

One I chat to frequently but we’re far apart

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By *r.SJMan
over a year ago

Wellingborough

Yep... and lucky enough to have one on my friends list now as well

Any others I'd wait and hope, not wanting to bombard or detract from the opportunity whilst they're there, to perve over their pics

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I drove past one of my crushes in the street the other day, messaged her to tell her, she told me I should have stopped. Soooooo bummed I didn't. She's stunning.

Now I have a broken leg and can't drive. Ahahaha

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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"Because they just don't see me in that way in the slightest and why ruin our very platonic friendship?

Have you tried? You won't know until you try. X"

I haven't tried but you just know sometimes don't you? It's one of those things, I can feel it in my fingers, I can feel it in my toes.

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By *jorkishMan
over a year ago

Seaforth

Met my crush several times

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

I have and we've chatted. Don't know if anything will come of it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

meeting her

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I have and we've chatted. Don't know if anything will come of it!"

Never say never right. You got this.

And with lips like those anyone would be lucky to meet you.

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

Mine left fab but we still in touch x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes my crush is on hotlist. Only messaged as part of forum game since she is hundreds of miles away.

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"I have and we've chatted. Don't know if anything will come of it!"

Fingers crossed for you.

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By *ookie46Woman
over a year ago

Deepest darkest Peru

I haven’t got a fab crush but out of the two on my hotlist one I’ve met and the other one knows

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By *uietly_KinkyMan
over a year ago

High Wycombe


"I don't really have crushes. There are some women I absolutely fancy the socks off, but I don't know them well enough (or at all, really) and wouldn't think they'd be interested in meeting me if I did.

That sounds like a crush to me. "

I think a crush needs some level of personal connection, otherwise there's nothing to distinguish it from fancying a woman in a wank mag.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a crush on this profile - cock-hungry

She is dominant and I think I am everything she asks for. But unfortunately she has set an age limit of 31 on her profile while I am 33

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Should a crush stay a crush?

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

?

I'm currently sat at his dining table, pretending to work whilst looking longingly out of the windows at the beautiful sunshine.

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By *ed VoluptaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral.

One I chat to off here, but different country so that ain't happening...

The other? I'll just lust from afar as I'm pretty sure I'm not his type

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By *urulovesnylonMan
over a year ago

Harrow

Most of the beautiful ladies on my hotlist

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"One I chat to off here, but different country so that ain't happening...

The other? I'll just lust from afar as I'm pretty sure I'm not his type "

i thought that about mine but out of the blue she mailed me and asked why i hadnt her.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"I'm currently sat at his dining table, pretending to work whilst looking longingly out of the windows at the beautiful sunshine. "

still???

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By *iBBWLondonWoman
over a year ago

London


"I drove past one of my crushes in the street the other day, messaged her to tell her, she told me I should have stopped. Soooooo bummed I didn't. She's stunning.

Now I have a broken leg and can't drive. Ahahaha"

Message her for a home visit, man!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I drove past one of my crushes in the street the other day, messaged her to tell her, she told me I should have stopped. Soooooo bummed I didn't. She's stunning.

Now I have a broken leg and can't drive. Ahahaha

Message her for a home visit, man!"

I have just gone to message her and she's not bloody on here anymore. Typical

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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"I'm currently sat at his dining table, pretending to work whilst looking longingly out of the windows at the beautiful sunshine. "

Grim, why do you have to spoil such a nice thread with the oversharing?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Should a crush stay a crush?"

I met my crush and it was perfect, so much so that I wouldn't want to meet again. I don't want to ruin that memory.

Happy birthday btw

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

Is a crush when they don’t know? If so don’t think I have any. I already pester them

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By *ed VoluptaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral.


"One I chat to off here, but different country so that ain't happening...

The other? I'll just lust from afar as I'm pretty sure I'm not his type

i thought that about mine but out of the blue she mailed me and asked why i hadnt her.

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Aw, that's cute Ranger x

This guy is - I hate to use the phrase - totally out of my league. And he has a beautiful partner already. So I'll continue to lust from afar.....

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"Is a crush when they don’t know? If so don’t think I have any. I already pester them "

You're not a pest..........

Oh.

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

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"I'm currently sat at his dining table, pretending to work whilst looking longingly out of the windows at the beautiful sunshine.

Grim, why do you have to spoil such a nice thread with the oversharing? "

you know you love my oversharing really Meli

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

No i tend to not crush on the unattainable. Its too frustrating. So if i think they are attainable then yes i will message them.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"Is a crush when they don’t know? If so don’t think I have any. I already pester them

You're not a pest..........

Oh. "

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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago

somewhere, someplace


"I drove past one of my crushes in the street the other day, messaged her to tell her, she told me I should have stopped. Soooooo bummed I didn't. She's stunning.

Now I have a broken leg and can't drive. Ahahaha

Message her for a home visit, man!

I have just gone to message her and she's not bloody on here anymore. Typical"

Oh that's a shame

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By *iBBWLondonWoman
over a year ago

London


"I drove past one of my crushes in the street the other day, messaged her to tell her, she told me I should have stopped. Soooooo bummed I didn't. She's stunning.

Now I have a broken leg and can't drive. Ahahaha

Message her for a home visit, man!

I have just gone to message her and she's not bloody on here anymore. Typical"

Noooooooo! Aw sweetie x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I drove past one of my crushes in the street the other day, messaged her to tell her, she told me I should have stopped. Soooooo bummed I didn't. She's stunning.

Now I have a broken leg and can't drive. Ahahaha

Message her for a home visit, man!

I have just gone to message her and she's not bloody on here anymore. Typical

Oh that's a shame"

I know right. Ahaha. It's all good.

Just have to find myself someone to get to know over the next 8 weeks until I can drive again. X

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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago

somewhere, someplace

One day I'll pluck up the courage and tell the ones that don't know

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I drove past one of my crushes in the street the other day, messaged her to tell her, she told me I should have stopped. Soooooo bummed I didn't. She's stunning.

Now I have a broken leg and can't drive. Ahahaha

Message her for a home visit, man!

I have just gone to message her and she's not bloody on here anymore. Typical

Noooooooo! Aw sweetie x"

It's all good. Shit happens. I'll keep an eye out just incase she comes back.

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By *issAphroditeWoman
over a year ago

Norwich

Define "crush". There are a few I enjoy perving on from a distance but I wouldn't dream of messaging them.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"One day I'll pluck up the courage and tell the ones that don't know"

You've got this. You're gorgeous. Absolutely no doubt they will be proud to be your crush. X

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By *tue555Man
over a year ago

Passed Beyond Reach

The only crush I'm going to be subjected to, is between the jaws of a metal compacter

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By *ed VoluptaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral.


"Is a crush when they don’t know? If so don’t think I have any. I already pester them "

I normally do, too, Nora!

And I've even met a couple. And I'm often thrilled & amazed that they like me back.

But this one? Nah. It belongs in unrequited territory

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Define "crush". There are a few I enjoy perving on from a distance but I wouldn't dream of messaging them. "

I suppose it's someone you would like to get to know. Someones face you could see yourself day on. X

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By *acksLamentMan
over a year ago

Wales

Three of my fab crushes are on this thread as we speak

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By *obwhateverMan
over a year ago

Stirling/ London/ Yorkshire

I’ve messaged my hotlist, which isn’t hugely long. Had one reply ??

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

How about on this thread, has anyone tickled your fancy, is so drop a message.

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire


"I'm currently sat at his dining table, pretending to work whilst looking longingly out of the windows at the beautiful sunshine. "

Enjoy whilst you can

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"One day I'll pluck up the courage and tell the ones that don't know"

I’m alright with saying you’re definitely one of my bigger crushes

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

I don’t have a crush - if someone catches my eye I message them! Either it works or it doesn’t! Nothing ventured, nothing gained …

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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"But this one? Nah. It belongs in unrequited territory "

Keep it that way, his ego is insufferable enough already.

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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago

somewhere, someplace


"One day I'll pluck up the courage and tell the ones that don't know

You've got this. You're gorgeous. Absolutely no doubt they will be proud to be your crush. X"

Ahhh shhh you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've seen a few ladies on here I'd love to chat to and hopefully meet, but most don't want to meet a smoker amongst other criteria I don't live up to lol. One lovely lady in particular I did actually message, but it was a polite no

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By *ed VoluptaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral.


"But this one? Nah. It belongs in unrequited territory

Keep it that way, his ego is insufferable enough already. "

Haha! Meli. I intend to

x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes they are and yes we've met, albeit about 9-10 years ago

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"Is a crush when they don’t know? If so don’t think I have any. I already pester them

I normally do, too, Nora!

And I've even met a couple. And I'm often thrilled & amazed that they like me back.

But this one? Nah. It belongs in unrequited territory "

You’re extremely likeable Red! How can anyone not like you back?! X

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"One day I'll pluck up the courage and tell the ones that don't know

You've got this. You're gorgeous. Absolutely no doubt they will be proud to be your crush. X

Ahhh shhh you "

I will not. It's the truth. X

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By *ed VoluptaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral.


"Is a crush when they don’t know? If so don’t think I have any. I already pester them

I normally do, too, Nora!

And I've even met a couple. And I'm often thrilled & amazed that they like me back.

But this one? Nah. It belongs in unrequited territory

You’re extremely likeable Red! How can anyone not like you back?! X "

Aw, cheers Nora

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My Fab crushes are all on my friends list

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By *rMojoRisinMan
over a year ago

Sheffield


"My Fab crushes are all on my friends list "

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By *tue555Man
over a year ago

Passed Beyond Reach

All my crushes are on my firing squad

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My Fab crushes are all on my friends list

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Check your friends requests

As I said, all my crushes are on or potentially on my friends list

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By *rMojoRisinMan
over a year ago

Sheffield


"My Fab crushes are all on my friends list

Check your friends requests

As I said, all my crushes are on or potentially on my friends list "

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham


"Because they just don't see me in that way in the slightest and why ruin our very platonic friendship? "

I came to this understanding probably too late in life but I definitely value a good female friendship more than a sexual only relationship , especially if risks fucking up the friendship

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Because they just don't see me in that way in the slightest and why ruin our very platonic friendship?

I came to this understanding probably too late in life but I definitely value a good female friendship more than a sexual only relationship , especially if risks fucking up the friendship "

Oh I completely agree with you.

My best friend is a woman. Nothing has ever happened between us and nothing ever will. She's just an amazing person who I would like in my life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't have any Fab crushes these days!

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By *yronMan
over a year ago

grangemouth

Rachel x. Very hot and I get tongue tied working out what to say.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

dont have any.

never had any luck with them when i did

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By *ayMyName2018Man
over a year ago

Where the Wild Things Are

On my hotlist and my friends list.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is your fab crush on your hotlist and what's stopping you from dropping them a little message? "

Yes but he's straight.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On my friends list and hot list they know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A few, but I'm outside of some of their age ranges

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By *ittycenMan
over a year ago

south west

First crush left fab and is terrible for staying in contact, second one is miles away, has a bloke and I’m not her type anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A few, but I'm outside of some of their age ranges "

But I should add that a few have surprisingly messaged me first which I am very grateful for as they are lovely!

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire


"Is your fab crush on your hotlist and what's stopping you from dropping them a little message? "

Nothing, I just like looking at their pictures and reading their profile. If they’re going to the same club night as myself, then I’ll probably chance striking up a conversation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would never dream of messaging them, they are and will remain hotlist fantasies

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By *EAT..85Woman
over a year ago

Nottingham

I have 2. One knows and she wandered off in message land and the other, I guess one day I might message him. Pretty sure he's not fussed though.

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon


"On my hotlist and my friends list. "

Dammit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My fab crush is on my hotlist, on my friends list and quite often on me , so I’m pretty sure he knows

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By *liceinWonderland38Woman
over a year ago

Coventry

I have a gentleman and a couple on mine, I have met with the man and not the couple, maybe I’ll message them

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I have 2. One knows and she wandered off in message land and the other, I guess one day I might message him. Pretty sure he's not fussed though. "

Awwww, you never know they might be interested, you are a very attractive woman. X

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I have a gentleman and a couple on mine, I have met with the man and not the couple, maybe I’ll message them "

You get it girl. They would be lucky to have you. X

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By *uitednbooted2Man
over a year ago

Berkshire

Kinkylips. But I won’t message her as I know she isn’t interested

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Kinkylips. But I won’t message her as I know she isn’t interested "

Whayyyy, you're on mine man. Love your videos.

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By *ougie321Man
over a year ago

Milford Haven

Like a kid in a sweetshop hard to decide and keep changing my mind.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I haven't been here long, but I did message one man from my hotlist. Still talking.

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By *ixedDevilMan
over a year ago

Bootyville

Im out of her age range

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"I haven't been here long, but I did message one man from my hotlist. Still talking. "

But that was a week ago

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Oops.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope, only because I don't use the hotlist for that!

Although, thinking about it, I don't yet have a fab crush ... Better get on doing some perving !!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I haven't been here long, but I did message one man from my hotlist. Still talking. "

Lucky bastards think Ive only ever been messaged first once. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I haven't been here long, but I did message one man from my hotlist. Still talking.

But that was a week ago

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Oops. "

Believe you messaged me Chunky

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I haven't been here long, but I did message one man from my hotlist. Still talking.

Lucky bastards think Ive only ever been messaged first once. X"

You are a leetle young for me sorry!

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"I haven't been here long, but I did message one man from my hotlist. Still talking.

But that was a week ago

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Oops.

Believe you messaged me Chunky "

I'll get me coat.

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

It’s good when a crush becomes a friend

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I haven't been here long, but I did message one man from my hotlist. Still talking.

Lucky bastards think Ive only ever been messaged first once. X

You are a leetle young for me sorry! "

Ahhh that's okay, everyone had their type and age range. You do you boo.

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

A few on my list...met a couple of them x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A few on my list...met a couple of them x"

My biggest crush

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m pretty forward on the messaging so all my crushes are on my friends list & I have either met them or chat to them.. they all know.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I first noticed my fab crush on my old profile and instantly added her to my hot list.

To be honest I was abit too hesitant to contact her at first as I guess I didn't want to shatter the illusion as I was so sexually attracted to how she looked.

I finally thought fuck it nothing ventured nothing gained and I'm not bothered about rejection.

I contacted her and we got chatting and got on instantly so kept chatting.She wasn't looking to meet anyone at that time as it was just timing and she's married so just wanted friends I guess.

I left after a few months and as soon as I rejioned she contacted me.

We get on really well.We meet a lot and don't stop laughing.So it's not just hotlist anymore it's close friends list . The sex laughs and the times we have are amazing.

So I'm glad I just went for it and contacted at the start her as we wouldn't have the times we have now if I didn't just overcome the barrier of what if she says no and all that.

Just tell them.Just be yourself.Just be a friend if that's all that's wanted.Just contact them and don't care if you are rejected as you've lost nothing and tried.So just gooooo for itttttttt

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds


"A few on my list...met a couple of them x

My biggest crush "

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By *l MateMan
over a year ago

Sheffield Centre


"I first noticed my fab crush on my old profile and instantly added her to my hot list.

To be honest I was abit too hesitant to contact her at first as I guess I didn't want to shatter the illusion as I was so sexually attracted to how she looked.

I finally thought fuck it nothing ventured nothing gained and I'm not bothered about rejection.

I contacted her and we got chatting and got on instantly so kept chatting.She wasn't looking to meet anyone at that time as it was just timing and she's married so just wanted friends I guess.

I left after a few months and as soon as I rejioned she contacted me.

We get on really well.We meet a lot and don't stop laughing.So it's not just hotlist anymore it's close friends list . The sex laughs and the times we have are amazing.

So I'm glad I just went for it and contacted at the start her as we wouldn't have the times we have now if I didn't just overcome the barrier of what if she says no and all that.

Just tell them.Just be yourself.Just be a friend if that's all that's wanted.Just contact them and don't care if you are rejected as you've lost nothing and tried.So just gooooo for itttttttt "

That's really good advice.

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By *oldyoudown41Man
over a year ago

caledonian

Done and done

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By *urora1912Woman
over a year ago

Norfolk East anglia

My hot list is those I plan to meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I first noticed my fab crush on my old profile and instantly added her to my hot list.

To be honest I was abit too hesitant to contact her at first as I guess I didn't want to shatter the illusion as I was so sexually attracted to how she looked.

I finally thought fuck it nothing ventured nothing gained and I'm not bothered about rejection.

I contacted her and we got chatting and got on instantly so kept chatting.She wasn't looking to meet anyone at that time as it was just timing and she's married so just wanted friends I guess.

I left after a few months and as soon as I rejioned she contacted me.

We get on really well.We meet a lot and don't stop laughing.So it's not just hotlist anymore it's close friends list . The sex laughs and the times we have are amazing.

So I'm glad I just went for it and contacted at the start her as we wouldn't have the times we have now if I didn't just overcome the barrier of what if she says no and all that.

Just tell them.Just be yourself.Just be a friend if that's all that's wanted.Just contact them and don't care if you are rejected as you've lost nothing and tried.So just gooooo for itttttttt

That's really good advice."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had a few fab crushes

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By *B69Woman
over a year ago

Wiltshire

I have a few crushes on my list and they know we will meet when the time is right

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes and met him last night woohooo xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a few crushes haven’t met any, but speak and it’s nice and friendly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is your fab crush on your hotlist and what's stopping you from dropping them a little message? "

The add on should be a thread to tell your fab crush if they come in the thread

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By *r easy1981Man
over a year ago

leeds

I am I little shitty bum lol

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

No as I do t use the hotlist.

Nothing, if I fancy someone I don’t hide it

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By *rMrsBrightsideCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle

I mainly use the hotlist for people I like the look of and want to keep an eye on. I wouldn’t approach them first.

Kx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I haven't been here long, but I did message one man from my hotlist. Still talking.

But that was a week ago

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Oops.

Believe you messaged me Chunky

I'll get me coat. "

Was a super helpful message!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sparkle 1974

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

She's in my hotlist

In my friends list

In my pictures

In my contacts

But not in my she can have half of my pork pie list as that's taking things way to far

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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago

somewhere, someplace

And one thing I will say is sometimes life does take you by surprise and your crush thinks the same about and lets you know and great things can happen

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By *ittycenMan
over a year ago

south west


"And one thing I will say is sometimes life does take you by surprise and your crush thinks the same about and lets you know and great things can happen "

All true - the crush I met was someone I had been keeping an eye on for ages, in sense of “I wish she would, but she won’t, so why risk the rejection, just keep as a pleasant fantasy” until one day I just thought what the hell and sent her a message. Several messages resulted in an invite to a social - even while on the way I was thinking that it was a waste of time and there was no way this was going anywhere.

Then, during the conversation, I started to think she might actually fancy me and is not just being polite! This was confirmed in a toe curlingly good snog one the car park!! Unfortunately, covid and life got in the way and it was another 14 months or so before our lives intertwined again with an invite to her place, and I got to spend a delicious day with, on top, under, behind and next to an absolute goddess! Now our lives are

Going different directions again but, my GOD! I hope I see her again!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And one thing I will say is sometimes life does take you by surprise and your crush thinks the same about and lets you know and great things can happen "

That’s what happened to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And one thing I will say is sometimes life does take you by surprise and your crush thinks the same about and lets you know and great things can happen

That’s what happened to me "

What if your crush is already crushing haha

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon


"And one thing I will say is sometimes life does take you by surprise and your crush thinks the same about and lets you know and great things can happen "

That's so very true. Happened here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And one thing I will say is sometimes life does take you by surprise and your crush thinks the same about and lets you know and great things can happen

That’s what happened to me

What if your crush is already crushing haha"

My crush is currently cooking me dinner

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And one thing I will say is sometimes life does take you by surprise and your crush thinks the same about and lets you know and great things can happen

That’s what happened to me

What if your crush is already crushing haha

My crush is currently cooking me dinner "

Let me rephrase it

What’s if my crush is already crushing on someone hahahhaha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My biggest fab crush probably knows. I have mentioned it in the forum before but I'm pretty certain it isn't reciprocal. And that's fine. It doesn't actually make any difference. I can admire from afar and if something ever happens then it's a bonus

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By *inkyInkedBiWoman
over a year ago

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Some know but mainly I keep quiet

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By *tephanjMan
over a year ago

Kettering

I'm too old for mine by a long way. So she will have to stay a crush

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And one thing I will say is sometimes life does take you by surprise and your crush thinks the same about and lets you know and great things can happen

That’s what happened to me

What if your crush is already crushing haha

My crush is currently cooking me dinner "
you win fab

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"Some know but mainly I keep quiet "

You don't have to be shy with me.

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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago

somewhere, someplace


"And one thing I will say is sometimes life does take you by surprise and your crush thinks the same about and lets you know and great things can happen

That’s what happened to me

What if your crush is already crushing haha"

Then who knows fate may intervene one day x

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

Most of mine know and have been messaged, some were happy, some not so much

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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By *orraine999Woman
over a year ago

Somewhere


"And one thing I will say is sometimes life does take you by surprise and your crush thinks the same about and lets you know and great things can happen

That’s what happened to me

What if your crush is already crushing haha

My crush is currently cooking me dinner "

You’re a lucky lady……

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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago

somewhere, someplace


"Most of mine know and have been messaged, some were happy, some not so much "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is your fab crush on your hotlist and what's stopping you from dropping them a little message? "

He is and I already did

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No not on my hot list and wouldn't tell him as I might get blocked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There’s two at least in this thread already!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

cant be arsed to message anyone haha bollox to it haha

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By *rMrs322Couple
over a year ago

Sandy


"I have a gentleman and a couple on mine, I have met with the man and not the couple, maybe I’ll message them "

You are on our hotlist _liceinwonderland38

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are a few of my crushes on thos very thread... I think most of them know though xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All mine I'm friends with on here.

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By *rMrs322Couple
over a year ago

Sandy


"I have a few, some know they are, some I've met, some I don't know if it would be reciprocated so I stay silent for now "

Maybe fate will intervene for those you have yet to tell Tindergirl

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By *erfectman122Man
over a year ago

from somewhere nice

A gentleman never tells but there is one in my hot list

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By *eah BabyCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire, Windermere ,Cumbria

On our hot list

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