FabSwingers.com forum: Asking for money

By *ilvermale OP Man
over a year ago

Derry

Why do women on here start getting chatting to you on here get your number text you then things going good then ask for money so thay can keep chating to you,do thay think men simple makes me mad

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never had a request for money, sounds like fake accounts to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why are men giving out their number to anybody

Asking for trouble!

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

"Why do women on here start getting chatting to you on here get your number text you then things going good then ask for money so thay can keep chating to you,do thay think men simple makes me mad "

Why give your number out??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What the ladies said too

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By *ilvermale OP Man
over a year ago

Derry

Was getting on great here then moving it on we give each other are numbers

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

"Was getting on great here then moving it on we give each other are numbers "

Then block on your phone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yassy, can you lend me a fiver?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yassy, can you lend me a fiver?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yassy, can you lend me a fiver?"

What happened to the boob go-fund-me page??

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

They are trying to make an easy buck, and it isn't allowed on here.

People would soon complain if Admin allowed it and it became an escort site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why do women on here start getting chatting to you on here get your number text you then things going good then ask for money so thay can keep chating to you,do thay think men simple makes me mad "

How do you know they are women?

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By *toC Thats MeWoman
over a year ago

Sheffield

Would never give my mobile number out. Will either be a bloke or a scammer!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why do women on here start getting chatting to you on here get your number text you then things going good then ask for money so thay can keep chating to you,do thay think men simple makes me mad "

Because they're not Women looking to swing, they just use that guise.

They are scammers hoping to make easy money.

It's against the site rules, so report their profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There was a MF couple on this site that kept popping up on my updates as I guess they were logistically close to me. The F would always put on the status it was wine or drinks O'clock this was normally by lunchtime on a week day! Then she kept asking on there status for people to pay for there gold membership....

There profile didn't last long after that and they were soon removed lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why do women on here start getting chatting to you on here get your number text you then things going good then ask for money so thay can keep chating to you,do thay think men simple makes me mad

How do you know they are women? "

This is true. Yiu are right dave

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By *ools and the brainCouple
over a year ago

couple, us we him her.

"Why do women on here start getting chatting to you on here get your number text you then things going good then ask for money so thay can keep chating to you,do thay think men simple makes me mad "

Report this, block them block the number.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Probably not even women

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By *asycouple1971Couple
over a year ago

midlands

Probably not even human.

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford

I’ve been paid £100 for sex. Although as I’m only worth 10p a time it was a very busy evening

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By *ubmissiveman2uMan
over a year ago

Cheshire

Being a submissive male I get plagued by findommes, they give you their KIK then ask for money.

They get reported and blocked everytime.

Only yesteday i had 2 profile contact me obviously the samd person Woman or man who knows..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A fool and his money are easily parted.

Most men are weak and think they will get something out of it.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

"Why do women on here start getting chatting to you on here get your number text you then things going good then ask for money so thay can keep chating to you,do thay think men simple makes me mad "

Because some men are simple and will pay it. Should you be mad at the women for exploiting it or the men willing to do it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why do women on here start getting chatting to you on here get your number text you then things going good then ask for money so thay can keep chating to you,do thay think men simple makes me mad

Because some men are simple and will pay it. Should you be mad at the women for exploiting it or the men willing to do it? "

If the guys are willing to give up their money, they deserve it, teach em' a lesson!

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

Just block and move on.

And giving out your number so easily is not the best idea anyhow unless you have a phone just for fab.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve only ever been offered money.

I just report and block.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Being a submissive male I get plagued by findommes, they give you their KIK then ask for money.

They get reported and blocked everytime.

Only yesteday i had 2 profile contact me obviously the samd person Woman or man who knows.. "

As a fellow submissive, I completely agree with you. It looks like men like us are seen as easy targets and I see new profiles created by the same people with same text every week. I don't bother with any domme profile that's created within the last one month. Especially if someone wants to move the conversation immediately to kik, you can confirm they are scammers.

Bottomline, don't send money to anyone you haven't met.

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

"Yassy, can you lend me a fiver?"

Yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yassy, can you lend me a fiver?

Yes"

Joins queue for free fivers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yassy, can you lend me a fiver?

Yes

Joins queue for free fivers

Make room for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yassy, can you lend me a fiver?

Yes

Joins queue for free fivers

Make room for me"

Get behind me, queue jumper.

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

"Why do women on here start getting chatting to you on here get your number text you then things going good then ask for money so thay can keep chating to you,do thay think men simple makes me mad "

Yes.

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By * Sophie xTV/TS
over a year ago

Derby

Don't give your number out unless you're sure of the person you're giving it to.

If you think you can't be found in real life through someone having it then you're very much mistaken as they then have access to your WhatsApp and via a simple little program they have access to your phone and everything contained within.

If anyone is asking you for money then you should already know you're being set up, its not hard to realise that surely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Don't give your number out unless you're sure of the person you're giving it to.

If anyone is asking you for money then you should already know you're being set up, its not hard to realise that surely

Hard to realise when the supply that goes to brain is being redirected elsewhere

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

I have to assume that requests like this are not random.

I've seen lots of threads with people saying they've had conversations like this or being asked to buy gifts.

In 4 years here I've never once been asked or had it come up in conversation so there may be something specific in certain profiles that marks them as potential targets.

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By *ablo minibar123Woman
over a year ago

"Why do women on here start getting chatting to you on here get your number text you then things going good then ask for money so thay can keep chating to you,do thay think men simple makes me mad "

Well I have no doubt that some are actually simple enough to pay them, so that's why they do it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why do women on here start getting chatting to you on here get your number text you then things going good then ask for money so thay can keep chating to you,do thay think men simple makes me mad "

Give me £10 and I'll tell yer!

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

Just block and move on mate.

Try to be very careful who you give your number too.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

If you really want to move off here then use kik or telegram that way you don't have to give your phone number out.

Hopefully lesson learned.

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By *lirty-CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Bexley

"Was getting on great here then moving it on we give each other are numbers "

Conmen/women are experts in getting on well with people they want to scam.

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

There's always times for charity but if people aren't wise enough to realise they're being robbed then more fool them.

This is a swingers site so unless there's a kick in giving money to random strangers, people should be adult enough to know there are other ways to raise cash.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why do women on here start getting chatting to you on here get your number text you then things going good then ask for money so thay can keep chating to you,do thay think men simple makes me mad

Because some men are simple and will pay it. Should you be mad at the women for exploiting it or the men willing to do it? "
unless it's clear what the arrangement is, I blame the scammers.

Otherwise aren't we getting close to victim blaming ?

No one curses those who fall for cold calls when we get that unknown number come through ... What's different here ?

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