FabSwingers.com forum: Why are men in such low demand

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Question something I’ve noticed “the female part of the couple .. and that is why are men in such low demand on this site it’s almost as if everyone who wants to meet us on this site are just looking for a pussy and no ones bothered about getting any cock !! It’s really starting to annoy me now

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By *udeSpaLoverMan
over a year ago

Sheffield

erm...because most men are straight maybe? I assume you mean men as its mostly men on here!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

No I mean single women and couples asking to just meet women ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Strap ons

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Men are easy and they’re absolutely everywhere

Supply and demand

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There have been a couple of threads on this subject over the last few days, so you aren't alone in having this issue.

I've been told this isn't just a swinging site, so maybe the people who are contacting you aren't actually interested in swinging??

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By *LiamMan
over a year ago

Midlands

What makes your man special? You need to be to stand out in this tidal wave of single men

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By *udeSpaLoverMan
over a year ago

Sheffield

Yeah, if women are looking for men they can find them easily, they don't need the male half of the couple unless they specifically want a threesome, but those are called unicorns for a reason.

Unfortunately being the male part of a couple only puts you slightly ahead in the pecking order, it's not a golden ticket by any means.

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By *tue555Man
over a year ago

Passed Beyond Reach

"Question something I’ve noticed “the female part of the couple .. and that is why are men in such low demand on this site it’s almost as if everyone who wants to meet us on this site are just looking for a pussy and no ones bothered about getting any cock !! It’s really starting to annoy me now "

Most couples on the site are looking for females for the males own gratification and to fulfil a fantasy are not interested in the male half of the couple, they are an inconvenience - what they want is the male to stay in the bar (metaphor) - just the way it is - many talk so much shite about it - but in essence that is it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe it's a cultural thing...

Correct me if I am wrong... Men do most of the chasing and women not.

So the effect is it appears men are not in demand.

I personally think its the vestige of chivalry.

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Nicely put just point the finger at every single man

but ever thought why probably because they were married to an unhinged woman

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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago

Shangri-la

If a woman or a couple wants to meet a man on here there is a pretty much endless supply of single men to choose from. Women, on the other hand, are a minority group on Fab, & are in much higher demand

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston

You’ve only been on the site 2 weeks

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria

Think you find couples with good looking guys are very much in demand.

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By *airymagicWoman
over a year ago

goblin city

The hardest part of meet a couple is finding both parties attractive

I've struggled both ways, easiest way for me is find the man attractive and become friends with the female then its like girly fun with a decent cock

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lucky women & couples really, if they’re wasn’t a never ending supply of us dedicated guys none of us would be here. Utmost respect to all the dudes on here that just do what we always do the human race is greatful.

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

They aren't in low demand.

Plenty of single women and some couples seek them.

I noticed a lot of couples look for just a woman though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Couples having problems with single guys now???

Ok then

Onwards and upwards for you, with other couples then!

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By *udeSpaLoverMan
over a year ago

Sheffield

You also get the idea by browsing the 'meets' listings. About two thirds are only looking for women or couples, and very few are exclusively after single men, perhaps because they don't need to advertise for that. But when they're looking for either a woman or couple, as someone said before - chances are they are really just after the woman and the guy is an inconvenience, but sometimes a necessary one.

Just think guys in couples need to appreciate they're only marginally in more demand than single guys and only for their connection to a willing woman. They have a golden ticket for club nights though, so don't complain at your lot!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Isn't your profile looking for the exact thing you're complaining about?

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

Maybe they are dubious because of the must meet Mr on his own before meeting you as a couple if outside of clubs…

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By * and R cple4Couple
over a year ago

swansea

"Maybe they are dubious because of the must meet Mr on his own before meeting you as a couple if outside of clubs… "

Agree with this if we wanted a single man then we would add it to our filters.For us we have to have a 4 way connection which is not easy to get so meeting 1 half of the couple just wouldn’t work..

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By *aturegentdurhamMan
over a year ago

Stanley

That many to choose from so it is a numbers game there are more men than women on here.

So for every woman there is about 10 men.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll have a man, if they're going?

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By *anshee99Woman
over a year ago

all over

I'm here waving furiously

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By *udeSpaLoverMan
over a year ago

Sheffield

I also think these ones where it says stuff like "Mr controls who we meet, who we speak to, when, blah blah blah" just sounds really over the top and over-protective. I don't mean a sub/dom situation, just these ones where the bloke feels like he has to be in charge and the little lady can't think for herself or have an opinion. Those profiles make me wretch.

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

"Maybe they are dubious because of the must meet Mr on his own before meeting you as a couple if outside of clubs…

Agree with this if we wanted a single man then we would add it to our filters.For us we have to have a 4 way connection which is not easy to get so meeting 1 half of the couple just wouldn’t work.."

Sorry OP but I have to agree with the above.

When meeting as a couple with my husband, we want to meet both of them, to ensure that there's 4 way attraction.

I think that what you're wanting, will be seen as a red flag by many.

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

Oh, and men aren't in low demand.

It's simply that they massively outnumber everyone else.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've just had a gander at your profile

It reads like a single bloke who is pretending to be a couple

The pics with the male in look like standard single blokes pics

The ones with the woman in look almost studio produced

The wording is very male centred

If it wasn't for the couples veri saying they had met both of you, the red flags would be out en masse

As it is, I've just put 2 or 3 to one side

Yours Sincerely

Columbo

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

I do agree many couples do want a fem, as a straight woman it can be a tad frustrating, when trying to arrange meets on my couple profile.

However as others have said, I think alot of women wouldn't want to necessarily meet your partner alone first,so that might be why you're struggling op.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've just had a gander at your profile

It reads like a single bloke who is pretending to be a couple

The pics with the male in look like standard single blokes pics

The ones with the woman in look almost studio produced

The wording is very male centred

If it wasn't for the couples veri saying they had met both of you, the red flags would be out en masse

As it is, I've just put 2 or 3 to one side

Yours Sincerely

Columbo"

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) Columbo and his flashers mac welcome!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Simple, it's not low demand, it's over supply.

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By *eclanHMan
over a year ago

Liphook

For single women, it’s probably because there’s just so many men offering their services.

For couples, I guess it’s because most men are not bi or curious, and maybe women are more generous in accommodating their partners. I.e. maybe women are more generous, even if they’re not bi themselves, to grant men’s fantasy--of being with more than one woman--than men are granting women their fantasy. Or maybe this fantasy is just more prevalent in men in general?

But I’m with you. As a bi guy, I’d welcome more women and couples open to a man

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love how people say there's too many men.... It can still be difficult to get a man as so many dick about!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its an absolute sausage fest on here i know that much

Its like going into a bar in benidorm and there being one decent woman there that 50 lads are fighting over

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By *heNYCSausageMan
over a year ago

Everton

"I've just had a gander at your profile

It reads like a single bloke who is pretending to be a couple

The pics with the male in look like standard single blokes pics

The ones with the woman in look almost studio produced

The wording is very male centred

If it wasn't for the couples veri saying they had met both of you, the red flags would be out en masse

As it is, I've just put 2 or 3 to one side

Yours Sincerely

Columbo"

I have to agree with Columbo. No pictures of you and her as a couple. And clicking on your green arrows shows a clear example of who you are. All your posts seem to be the male half of the couple pretending to be a female. I’d love to be proven wrong though.

Best of luck on here. I hope you find what you’re looking for.

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By *aunchy RaccoonsCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

Probably something to do with this site be completely over run with single guys.

Get where you are coming from though as we've got close to a few meets with couples only for them to say they only want the female to involved. They can bugger off!

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By *BW TV JadaTV/TS
over a year ago

North West

Men are ten a penny on the site. Everybody gets messages from men, whoever they are so the supply is by far greater than the demand.

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

This is the bloke of the ‘couple’ again isn’t it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I was a single man such as yourself on here op and even considered describing myself as low demand item, I would resign immediately. You are not stock.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Supply and demand. Horny guys are a dime a dozen, maybe even less lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No I mean single women and couples asking to just meet women .. "

Because women aren't afraid to say they're bisexual. Therefore, bringing another woman into the mix makes for even more fun. And it's well known that an MFF is a fantasy for lots of guys. If more men were bi or admitted they were bi, they'd be in more demand too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

mate its up to u how you run your profile and set up your meets but when i was here before in a couples account the bit about meeting mr on his own first if you want to meet mrs as well in a later meet would have meant we avoided you sounds like a honey trap to meet the guy have sex then the meet with mrs would never happen haha

could be wrong but think thats why u are having no luck

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By *uckslut and MCouple
over a year ago

Poole

Your not looking for single guys, but your profile says, if you meet outside a club. Your rule is the couple/ single fem to meet your fella alone first.

I'm confussed, one rule for one, but not the other? So your fella can have the female of the other couple. Then you exspect a 4some. Is it not just another way for you , looking only for the pussy part?

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