FabSwingers.com forum: Are we all a little bit broken?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

As a newish (5 weeks actually using it) fab user I’ve come to realise there’s a lot of people from all different walks of life, and generally, genuinely nice peops.

Although is there an underlying reason why we’re all so horny? Something broke or some emotional needs need fulfilling that we’re channeling through into sex?

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

I'm not on here just because I'm horny. There are loads of reasons why people are.

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By *ionaScarletTV/TS
over a year ago

Dundee

you say broken... I say non-conformist. Something most people will claim to be - but few actually are

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am not 'so horny'.

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

"As a newish (5 weeks actually using it) fab user I’ve come to realise there’s a lot of people from all different walks of life, and generally, genuinely nice peops.

Although is there an underlying reason why we’re all so horny? Something broke or some emotional needs need fulfilling that we’re channeling through into sex? "

I’m not here just for sex or even go to clubs with the intention of meeting for sex. It’s a chance to dress up and socialise in a non judgmental place. Where else can you walk around in your lingerie and get admiring looks rather than shocked ones.

Everyone is here for their own reasons not all of them are because of sex.

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By *utdooryoneMan
over a year ago

Over there

I am hoping for some fun and some great sex, possibly more kinky than your average Friday down the pub or girlfriend your mum wants you to date might be interested in.

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By *uietly_KinkyMan
over a year ago

High Wycombe

I wish I was "a little bit" broken.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Broken? I’m proper fucked

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

I probably come on here more when I’m not horny - social Interaction is good

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By *S2004Man
over a year ago

Bromsgrove

I would argue I am the least broken I have ever been. I have the best partner In The world, brilliant (and happy) kids. A job I don’t hate. I just enjoy swinging and like minded people

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

Mine must b well broken! All I seem to think of is sex!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I,m not broken, I am on here looking for sex because I don't have a partner xx

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By *ustamanMan
over a year ago

weymouth

"As a newish (5 weeks actually using it) fab user I’ve come to realise there’s a lot of people from all different walks of life, and generally, genuinely nice peops.

Although is there an underlying reason why we’re all so horny? Something broke or some emotional needs need fulfilling that we’re channeling through into sex? "

Deep

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Having been here 6+ mths the last thing I am expecting here is sex.

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By *arry247Couple
over a year ago

Wakefield

"As a newish (5 weeks actually using it) fab user I’ve come to realise there’s a lot of people from all different walks of life, and generally, genuinely nice peops.

Although is there an underlying reason why we’re all so horny? Something broke or some emotional needs need fulfilling that we’re channeling through into sex? "

No we just enjoy sex

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston

"Having been here 6+ mths the last thing I am expecting here is sex."

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

I’m not broken, I didn’t come here just for sex I joined for the experienced and the people I met along the way, the club atmosphere, meeting people on a regular basis who you can be yourself with

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

I rarely feel horny.

Wanting sex doesn't equate to being broken.

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By *hat BlokeMan
over a year ago

Harrogate

Broken is the wrong word I think. Adventurous….exploring….open. All are far better words

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

Think there are lots of reasons why people are on here. We came to Fab for the chance to live out some fantasies but so many other things have kept us here not just the sex.

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By *issAphroditeWoman
over a year ago

Norwich

I think that's a bit of a trope used by more traditionally conformist people: "Oh so your sex life isn't good enough so you thought you'd try swinging", "Your man can't please you so you invited a new man into the bedroom", "Really you just need love but you seek sexual attention as a makeshift alternative".

For some people maybe bit not most people I know, not those who are truly sex positive and into "tje scene".

There are certainly tje socially inept, cheats and shaggers but they're not really swingers and will try every avenue possible to meet their needs with little regard for whether it's appropriate or not

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By *uliette500Woman
over a year ago

Hull

If I am totally honest I first came on here nearly 3 years ago because I was emotionally broken due to the shit that can happen in life.

I needed a release that I couldn't find without disapproval of family and friends and I found it here.

It still remains a secret from my normal day to day life but Fab helped me to fix myself.

All is good.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

My eyes are a little bit broken from too much rolling but the rest of me is all good ta

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By *uddy laneMan
over a year ago

dudley

I do not have friends or faceache so my options are limited.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think those people who settle for the humdrum existence of the accepted norm are the broken ones; people here have broken free of those constraints.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Am trying to get my mojo back !

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By *an4funMan
over a year ago

london

I'd say everyone is, at the very least, a bit "broken". Not just those on this site but anyone who has ever walked this earth. We start our lives as a blank canvas and innocent then life gradually eats away at us.

No such thing as normal.

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

I'm not broken, or here because I want sex all the time. If my sex drive was that high, my husband would still be more than enough.

I'm here, as a single and with my husband, for something a little extra every so often.

Most of us are nonconformist rather than broken. We don't fit what is expected by "polite society".

OP your post suggests that you don't understand swinging, or that people will be on Fab for a variety of reasons.

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By *rMrsBrightsideCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle

I think the rest of society likes to think that in order for us to be doing this we must be a bit broken. In truth, we are really normal and have had very non dramatic lives.

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

"As a newish (5 weeks actually using it) fab user I’ve come to realise there’s a lot of people from all different walks of life, and generally, genuinely nice peops.

Although is there an underlying reason why we’re all so horny? Something broke or some emotional needs need fulfilling that we’re channeling through into sex? "

Surely the ones who are broken are those who deny themselves the joys of a more varied sex life?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Quite insightful after just 5 weeks it usually takes much longer and a bit of drama to work out.

Although as someone said above, we are all affected by life, not particulary broken just well lived in maybe.

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By *jorkishMan
over a year ago

Seaforth

There may be broken people on here, but there's broken people everywhere. What is normal to one person isn't necessarily normal to another. Lots of reasons why we are on here, lots of reasons why people read and also partake in these forums. I only started reading them during lockdown, rarely partake though and didn't at first. They can be enjoyable, informative, interesting and infuriating.

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By *immyinreadingMan
over a year ago

henley on thames

"As a newish (5 weeks actually using it) fab user I’ve come to realise there’s a lot of people from all different walks of life, and generally, genuinely nice peops.

Although is there an underlying reason why we’re all so horny? Something broke or some emotional needs need fulfilling that we’re channeling through into sex? "

Is there something wrong with being horny? Isn’t it the most natural thing in the world?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"As a newish (5 weeks actually using it) fab user I’ve come to realise there’s a lot of people from all different walks of life, and generally, genuinely nice peops.

Although is there an underlying reason why we’re all so horny? Something broke or some emotional needs need fulfilling that we’re channeling through into sex? "

There are people dealing with trauma everywhere and in every part of society.

The inhabitants of fab forums are just a particularly open lot when it comes to talking about their trauma.

I know people here who have no trauma and would grind away on a lamp post if they thought it would get them over the edge to an orgasm.

I feel like fab is a fairly representative slice of most of society (excepting the richest and poorest parts)

The sad part of that is that there is so much trauma in society in general that it is represented here too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"As a newish (5 weeks actually using it) fab user I’ve come to realise there’s a lot of people from all different walks of life, and generally, genuinely nice peops.

Although is there an underlying reason why we’re all so horny? Something broke or some emotional needs need fulfilling that we’re channeling through into sex? "

I am neither broken or have emotional needs that need fulfilling OP. I’m definitely not ‘so horny’.

My reasons for being on fab are personal and actually align with many other peoples.

I would suggest that if you are describing yourself or anyone thinking that’s them need to seek help from another place entirely. And I say it with the greatest of care.

Swinging isn’t for the faint of heart and if you are coming into the lifestyle fragile it will only make matters worse.

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

Nope. I’m not broken, I just have tastes that don’t follow the ‘norm’. I rarely meet, but come back for the general chit chat and some beautiful friendships.

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

No I don't think so. I think the forum allows people to talk about their trauma anonymously, so they may be more open about it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nah I’m not broken.. I like adventure & exploration and not into following conventional societal rules about relationships & sex.

I joined at the beginning of lockdown and since being here have made some truly amazing friends… it’s a great community to be part of and it’s certainly not just about sex & being horny all the time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I feel I’m intelligent enough and honest enough to make an adult decision about what type of person/activity is of interest and think this is actually a very respectful place to find such a person/activities

Being honest about our sexual interests doesn’t have to be the result of trauma etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely , always felt broken somehow… *calling therapist for the 51930th time*

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