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If you could know your future, would you want to find out?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

No one knows what the future holds for any of us.

Some people believe in fate.

Some believe that our future is already mapped out.

Some believe that we have control of our own destinies.

If you could find out your future, would you want to find out? Or are you enjoying the journey too much to care?

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By *eatrice BadinageWoman
over a year ago

In a Sparkly Dress

My future is not predetermined by one path, so no.

I like the freedom to drop everything and take a life curve ball and go on a different path, this year is college for me and a new career

I like unpredictability it's more fun

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"My future is not predetermined by one path, so no.

I like the freedom to drop everything and take a life curve ball and go on a different path, this year is college for me and a new career

I like unpredictability it's more fun "

Enjoy this year and the journey you had started

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

Wales

No, because I would then worry.

I’d prefer to just live my life as best I can, as happily as I can in ignorance, rather than feeling I should be doing this, that or the other to make the most out of my life.

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By *EAT..85Woman
over a year ago

Nottingham

Heck no, then you'd be working to a list and waiting for things to happen.

On the other hand, a close friend of mine has two friends currently slowly dieing of cancer, one with a young family. I wonder what their answers would be.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No . I dont !

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"No, because I would then worry.

I’d prefer to just live my life as best I can, as happily as I can in ignorance, rather than feeling I should be doing this, that or the other to make the most out of my life.

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It would you worry less knowing that regardless of what you did your future would still be as it is?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Heck no, then you'd be working to a list and waiting for things to happen.

On the other hand, a close friend of mine has two friends currently slowly dieing of cancer, one with a young family. I wonder what their answers would be. "

That would be interesting to know too.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Heck no, then you'd be working to a list and waiting for things to happen.

On the other hand, a close friend of mine has two friends currently slowly dieing of cancer, one with a young family. I wonder what their answers would be. "

The poor things .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"No."

What if you had already met you future, wouldn’t you want to know?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ooo what if you could change it, by having knowledge... Ooo like the butterfly effect... Although what you really want is to know that THIS version us the best and the rest are even worse

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Ooo what if you could change it, by having knowledge... Ooo like the butterfly effect... Although what you really want is to know that THIS version us the best and the rest are even worse

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It is a dilemma.

You work really hard, be the best person you can be, etc but then your future is a shitty one though no fault of your own. Would you make the effort now?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ooo what if you could change it, by having knowledge... Ooo like the butterfly effect... Although what you really want is to know that THIS version us the best and the rest are even worse

It is a dilemma.

You work really hard, be the best person you can be, etc but then your future is a shitty one though no fault of your own. Would you make the effort now? "

But what if you knew the alternative path meant you didn't have your kid, or you had something awful happen etc etc... Oh man this is too brain intensive for the morning

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Ooo what if you could change it, by having knowledge... Ooo like the butterfly effect... Although what you really want is to know that THIS version us the best and the rest are even worse

It is a dilemma.

You work really hard, be the best person you can be, etc but then your future is a shitty one though no fault of your own. Would you make the effort now?

But what if you knew the alternative path meant you didn't have your kid, or you had something awful happen etc etc... Oh man this is too brain intensive for the morning "

I didn’t sleep much last night

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

No I don't want to know my future. The good stuff comes as a lovely surprise and the bad stuff is best not worried about until it happens imo

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"No I don't want to know my future. The good stuff comes as a lovely surprise and the bad stuff is best not worried about until it happens imo"

This is so true

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By *andsome HandMan
over a year ago

roundabout

No, it'd take all the mystery of life away. You'd spend your time either trying to change a future you don't want or trying to make sure you get what you saw

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would t want to know my whole future but would certainly want to know about any major illnesses so they could be nipped in the bud before things get out of hand

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

How long will my car last before I have to get another one

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"How long will my car last before I have to get another one "

That's easy to predict, my crystal ball tells me - It will last until ten minutes before you really, really need to get somewhere. It will also be pouring with rain, you will have no cost or umbrella and your shoes will have a hole in them.

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By * Sophie xTV/TS
over a year ago

Derby

At what age will I die so that I can cash everything in and go do all the crazy shit I've ever thought of and blow every last penny before I pop my clogs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a no from me, I prefer to take life as it comes

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"How long will my car last before I have to get another one "

If you are wanting to know this I would suggest you already have doubts so change it soon

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"At what age will I die so that I can cash everything in and go do all the crazy shit I've ever thought of and blow every last penny before I pop my clogs

"

This is a great way of looking at it

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

No

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By *assing Fancies xCouple
over a year ago

Sherwood Forest

Will my vagina actually fall off is I play with it to much?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Will my vagina actually fall off is I play with it to much? "

you may need a hand or two to hold it in place

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

I like adventure

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston


"I like adventure "

Haha then you have me that would love to know, I hate surprises

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT


"I like adventure

Haha then you have me that would love to know, I hate surprises "

Xxx

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

Definitely not.

I think if you saw something you didn’t like, you’d live your life constantly trying to change it instead of just living and dealing with things as they arise.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If we could see our future it then wouldn't be our future anymore as we'd make different decisions that would change future events.

It is very likely that DNA profiling will give us much more knowledge about future health outcomes and I would like to know these, as it may be possible to affect them in a positive way with lifestyle changes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If we all had access to knowledge about our future, then we could all simply change paths. So, in essence, it's not knowing a future per se, but a possible timeline

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