FabSwingers.com forum: Impossible to get a meet

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So I’ve been on this site for 5 months, but photo-verified and even paid, but still finding it really difficult to get a meet of any sort?

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

Patience

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is very, very hard for single guys on here.

Maybe think about what you are offering and why someone should pick you over the thousands of other single men on here?

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

"Patience "

Take That ?

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

"Patience

Take That ?

Cheeky x

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

"Patience

Take That ?

Cheeky x"

I hate Take That as well

Good luck Op, it’s hard on here .. even worse if you’re constantly got a hard on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So I’ve been on this site for 5 months, but photo-verified and even paid, but still finding it really difficult to get a meet of any sort? "

This is a barbaric tale of woe and I feel your very real pain but wish you the best of luck in your quest.

Tony

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The pain is real brother. I've found jesus and taken a vow of celibacy because of this site. I've renewed membership solely to try and convert people from their wicked ways and to follow a path of righteousness

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

"The pain is real brother. I've found jesus and taken a vow of celibacy because of this site. I've renewed membership solely to try and convert people from their wicked ways and to follow a path of righteousness "

So cover your ass

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So I’ve been on this site for 5 months, but photo-verified and even paid, but still finding it really difficult to get a meet of any sort? "

Can you imagine how hard it is for someone like me then? I struggle to even get someone to reply to my messages let alone meet. I’ve just seen how good you look and if you’re struggling then there’s no hope for the rest of us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So cover your ass"

Ah bugger

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By *heHungStudentMan
over a year ago

Kettering

You gotta remember mate that for every few hundred guys on this site theres a single women or couple lookimg for a single guy, to get meets you need to stand out either through your personality or looks aa thickle as it sounds

No offence but your profile is pretty bland with only 1 picture on public and a very generic bio. Id say try adding some more pics or more about you kn your bio to stand out and increase your chances

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By *ames-77Man
over a year ago

milton keynes

"It is very, very hard for single guys on here.

Maybe think about what you are offering and why someone should pick you over the thousands of other single men on here?"

Pull the weapon out haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I started finding more luck after I started going to events, which I understand is not an applicable stance given that we've been in a panny.

But now stuff is opening up again, that should be less and less a problem... hopefully

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By *ames-77Man
over a year ago

milton keynes

"It is very, very hard for single guys on here.

Maybe think about what you are offering and why someone should pick you over the thousands of other single men on here?"

Is it ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Too many men on here really. The ratio of men to women must be about 10 billion to 42.

Socials first are definitely more appealing.

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By *ames-77Man
over a year ago

milton keynes

"Too many men on here really. The ratio of men to women must be about 10 billion to 42.

Socials first are definitely more appealing. "

What makes you think that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm an average guy and had some great meets. I think it is about what you put in. Do you write individual messages to girls/couples or generic/ copy and paste. Do you drive? I see you can't accom so can you get to them easy. It also depends what kind of meets you want. If you want quickies, you need to be free and willing to go last minute, usually late but if you want long meets you need to build a rappor. You havento work out what you want and tailor your approach. Good luck, it is very hard but can certainly be worth it!

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By *ames-77Man
over a year ago

milton keynes

"Too many men on here really. The ratio of men to women must be about 10 billion to 42.

Socials first are definitely more appealing. "

Really don't mean to sound like a prick but you need to change your profile mate, or your attitude.. immediately saying you can't provide a woman with what she wants and she should order a sex toy isn't the best approach try harder man

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By *elilah999Woman
over a year ago

Malton

"So I’ve been on this site for 5 months, but photo-verified and even paid, but still finding it really difficult to get a meet of any sort? "

Get to a club. Socialise in the forums and have the patience of a Saint

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By *ames-77Man
over a year ago

milton keynes

"So I’ve been on this site for 5 months, but photo-verified and even paid, but still finding it really difficult to get a meet of any sort?

Get to a club. Socialise in the forums and have the patience of a Saint

Poor buggar

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By *ranklin SaintMan
over a year ago

nottingham

I know your pain very well

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By *ranklin SaintMan
over a year ago

nottingham

Thanks for the advice x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Too many men on here really. The ratio of men to women must be about 10 billion to 42.

Socials first are definitely more appealing.

You know he’s joking? His profile is funny

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By *ames-77Man
over a year ago

milton keynes

"Too many men on here really. The ratio of men to women must be about 10 billion to 42.

Socials first are definitely more appealing.

You know he’s joking? His profile is funny

What's the funny part on his profile then I must be missing something ?????

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By *apxxxWoman
over a year ago

North Shropshire not Wales!!!ffs & Manchester

Bingo!..looks like you've just had your first meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your new verification from someone located over 100 miles from you screams fake. 2 hours ago you start this thread saying you can't get a meet, now you have a verification which included a lot of travel and a social. That is not going to help make you look genuine. If it did somehow happen I apologise but very much doubt it!

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By *ingdangTV/TS
over a year ago

manchester

You have no good face and body picture, no verification, what do you expect?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Bingo!..looks like you've just had your first meet

From forum post to meet - a fab success story. You really couldn't make that up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Bingo!..looks like you've just had your first meet

From forum post to meet - a fab success story. You really couldn't make that up

I think that's exactly what's happened.....lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Bingo!..looks like you've just had your first meet

From forum post to meet - a fab success story. You really couldn't make that up

I think that's exactly what's happened.....lol"

Heathen! We must not doubt the power of the forum post and the results they bring!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm hardly a stud but have had a great time on fab. Build friendships and go from there, its very rare for a fuck and go. You'll be fine friend, enjoy.

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By *elilah999Woman
over a year ago

Malton

"So I’ve been on this site for 5 months, but photo-verified and even paid, but still finding it really difficult to get a meet of any sort?

Get to a club. Socialise in the forums and have the patience of a Saint

Poor buggar"

He's new. He's going to have to suffer before he truly finds his feet. Fab is unforgiving

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By *arren the doggerMan
over a year ago

willenhall

Your a bloke mate ......very rare to get a meet but try the clubs. Far better chance in my opinion.

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

"So I’ve been on this site for 5 months, but photo-verified and even paid, but still finding it really difficult to get a meet of any sort? "

Ever thought that it could be your approach remember this is a swingers site nothing owed regardless whether you've decided to upgrade as these features are for extra bonuses within the site nothing connected to guaranteed getting a meet just so whilst you have upgraded use the cams you never know where it could lead.

Good luck pal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Too many men on here really. The ratio of men to women must be about 10 billion to 42.

Socials first are definitely more appealing.

He's funny

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By *irty Fun GuyMan
over a year ago

Kidderminster

Most guys don’t help themselves. We have a couples profile and are very happy meeting guys and wife meets alone too

We have chatted swapped pics etc then when offering to meet out come the excuses

This was yesterday …. Oh I forgot I have a bt engineer coming so wife said what about tomorrow ….. oh I’ve got to baby sit

When in get real the guys start running most are here to have a wank and that’s it

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By *atty CoramWoman
over a year ago

Wimbledon

"Too many men on here really. The ratio of men to women must be about 10 billion to 42.

Socials first are definitely more appealing.

You know he’s joking? His profile is funny

What's the funny part on his profile then I must be missing something ?????"

I think you've missed the wit.

It's ironic that someone with a mediocre profile is attempting to give advice to someone with a far superior profile but hey maybe that's just me.

Carry on.

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By *moothdickMan
over a year ago

stoke

It ain’t ur fault mate, fucking site is full of fakes and weirdos ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is becoming such a daily topic ! Patience is key? X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Also maybe put more pics? As I think u should try have girls notice u more and with 1 public u can’t really tell much x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Seems like he's broken his fab cherry.. Recent verif. Patience paid off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Too many men on here really. The ratio of men to women must be about 10 billion to 42.

Socials first are definitely more appealing.

You know he’s joking? His profile is funny

What's the funny part on his profile then I must be missing something ?????

I think you've missed the wit.

It's ironic that someone with a mediocre profile is attempting to give advice to someone with a far superior profile but hey maybe that's just me.

Carry on."

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By *erfectman122Man
over a year ago

from somewhere nice

Rome wasn’t built in a day op takes time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Seems like he's broken his fab cherry.. Recent verif. Patience paid off

Well well x the big hurdle has been surmounted haha

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

"So I’ve been on this site for 5 months, but photo-verified and even paid, but still finding it really difficult to get a meet of any sort? "

Op little bit of advice. unless you make an expression,something that another would find interesting,just like what you'd expect it's not going to help you.so browse the site.other profiles and see what they are doing and your not you need to make your bio interesting to read,which fits around you as a person whether generally/sexually and even a little humour doesn't go a miss,this is like an application for someone to review your handy work.for a trial run then hopefully leading to further enjoyment.

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By *annaBeStrongMan
over a year ago

wokingham

"So I’ve been on this site for 5 months, but photo-verified and even paid, but still finding it really difficult to get a meet of any sort? "

Use fabs to find social events plus clubs

Use the standard swiping apps for meets. Single guys do 10x better on the apps than on here

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By *ecadent_DevonMan
over a year ago

Okehampton

The common advice you will receive is “patience” however this is entirely the wrong advice. Patience is a good trait to have, but not here. I think it’s because people equate patience with expectation and again this is wrong.

The best way to treat fab is with focus. When you first arrive on fab you are presented with a smorgasbord of people, and like a dog that runs into a field full of fowl, you chase everything and catch nothing, you do this by have a generic profile, generic photos and generic desires. Essentially you think you are “all things to everyone” but in reality you are “all things to no one”.

By tailoring your profile to specifics, and focussing on trying to meet those who have specified the same things or traits you are much more likely to succeed, than scatter shotting randoms in the hope of something clicking.

So by focussing on what you desire and managing your expectations I would argue you are more likely to be successful than by just being patient.

Swap your photos around, upload a status once in a while (no, not a “woe is me” one), keep things fresh and new, put effort in. Although there are some instances in this life of patient people being successful, by a large it is the focussed people, who put effort in and are realistic about what they may achieve who are the most successful.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Seems like he's broken his fab cherry.. Recent verif. Patience paid off

Well well x the big hurdle has been surmounted haha "

I'm dubious about this lol

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By *eavertrackerMan
over a year ago

Bridgwater

I love reading through threads like this, I'm too bloody nosey

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Give it a month and you will be at the same stage as me.

I dont care if i ever get a meet now.

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By *oldyoudown41Man
over a year ago

caledonian

Definitely attend a club and don’t stress my friend, it’s difficult to meet at the best of times and even some ladies on this thread I’ve tried to meet and they weren’t interested, but I move on and you are on the back of the worst economic crash so it’s going to be tough..

Honestly it will happen

All the best (OP)

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

Strange? I paid my £5er and had my cock sucked literally hours later

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Strange? I paid my £5er and had my cock sucked literally hours later

And you're still welcome.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Strange? I paid my £5er and had my cock sucked literally hours later

Too funny

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

"Strange? I paid my £5er and had my cock sucked literally hours later

And you're still welcome."

But it wasn’t to a happy ending

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Strange? I paid my £5er and had my cock sucked literally hours later

And you're still welcome.

But it wasn’t to a happy ending

I just lick the tip for silver members

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Patience

Take That ?

Pipped to the post!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Strange? I paid my £5er and had my cock sucked literally hours later

And you're still welcome."

Wait, he told you that you were the first too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Too many men on here really. The ratio of men to women must be about 10 billion to 42.

Socials first are definitely more appealing.

You know he’s joking? His profile is funny

What's the funny part on his profile then I must be missing something ?????

I think you've missed the wit.

It's ironic that someone with a mediocre profile is attempting to give advice to someone with a far superior profile but hey maybe that's just me.

Carry on."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Strange? I paid my £5er and had my cock sucked literally hours later

And you're still welcome.

Wait, he told you that you were the first too

Damnit I was duped!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Strange? I paid my £5er and had my cock sucked literally hours later

And you're still welcome.

Wait, he told you that you were the first too

Damnit I was duped!"

Me too

Crushed, absolutely crushed

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

"Strange? I paid my £5er and had my cock sucked literally hours later

And you're still welcome.

Wait, he told you that you were the first too

Damnit I was duped!

Me too

Crushed, absolutely crushed

I’ll pay a £10er next time and you can both do it together

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Supply and demand is the law of the land!

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

"Strange? I paid my £5er and had my cock sucked literally hours later

And you're still welcome.

Wait, he told you that you were the first too

Damnit I was duped!

Me too

Crushed, absolutely crushed

I’ll pay a £10er next time and you can both do it together

What about me you rat???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go to club nights and social events.

They are the best way to meet couples and ladies that get 300 messages a day and just don't have the time to read them.

True story. Years ago I had a lady just blank delete my message on fab. A couple of months later I met her in a club and we hit it off.

You never give cold callers the time of day at your front door so why should it be any different here?

Talk to people, be genuine and you will start to see success.

Also put some effort into your profile. Add some more pictures and fill out the about you section a bit.

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

"Strange? I paid my £5er and had my cock sucked literally hours later

And you're still welcome.

Wait, he told you that you were the first too

Damnit I was duped!

Me too

Crushed, absolutely crushed

I’ll pay a £10er next time and you can both do it together

What about me you rat???"

Your dumped

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

"Strange? I paid my £5er and had my cock sucked literally hours later

And you're still welcome.

Wait, he told you that you were the first too

Damnit I was duped!

Me too

Crushed, absolutely crushed

I’ll pay a £10er next time and you can both do it together

What about me you rat???"

You can rim me

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

"Strange? I paid my £5er and had my cock sucked literally hours later

And you're still welcome.

Wait, he told you that you were the first too

Damnit I was duped!

Me too

Crushed, absolutely crushed

I’ll pay a £10er next time and you can both do it together

What about me you rat???

You can rim me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So I’ve been on this site for 5 months, but photo-verified and even paid, but still finding it really difficult to get a meet of any sort? "

I've been on and off here for years, not had a meet in probably 3 years, mostly me and no doubt Covid-19 related but it was never that easy prior, as others have said, patience is key oh and sign to the partner site Fabguys.

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

"Strange? I paid my £5er and had my cock sucked literally hours later

And you're still welcome.

Wait, he told you that you were the first too

Damnit I was duped!

Me too

Crushed, absolutely crushed

I’ll pay a £10er next time and you can both do it together

What about me you rat???

You can rim me

So I'm just a gob to like an ass

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

"Strange? I paid my £5er and had my cock sucked literally hours later

And you're still welcome.

Wait, he told you that you were the first too

Damnit I was duped!

Me too

Crushed, absolutely crushed

I’ll pay a £10er next time and you can both do it together

What about me you rat???

You can rim me

So I'm just a gob to like an ass"

Lick

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Once upon a time when I was on here years and years and years ago I was messaging people getting replies back people wanted to see me people wanted to go to socialise with me and then when I rejoin back last month I found it difficult myself but it is all about patience it's all about waiting as a man you always got to remember that there are more men on here than women sometimes you just gotta sell yourself a little bit better. I can wait around to people and say I've got a 1 inch penis come and talk to me that way they will talk to me

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By *ed VoluptaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral.

But OP, you HAVE a verification from a meet....

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By *ugsly95Man
over a year ago

Ashbourne

It’s very hard for all atm, but you just need to keep your profile updated and and understand that not everyone here is up for meets, it’s more like a dating site these days

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By *andsome_Chef88Man
over a year ago

London

"But OP, you HAVE a verification from a meet...."

Think it was just after he made this thread

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By *uddy laneMan
over a year ago

dudley

Hanging on in quiet desperation is the English way. OP

Venting it on here will not get you a shag or meet any faster.

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

"Hanging on in quiet desperation is the English way. OP

Venting it on here will not get you a shag or meet any faster.

He has a verification

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By *ischer400777Man
over a year ago

stanley county durham

I don’t find it difficult

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By *ugsly95Man
over a year ago

Ashbourne

"I don’t find it difficult "

Well good for you, but some of us do

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

"Strange? I paid my £5er and had my cock sucked literally hours later

And you're still welcome.

Wait, he told you that you were the first too

Damnit I was duped!

Me too

Crushed, absolutely crushed

I’ll pay a £10er next time and you can both do it together

What about me you rat???

You can rim me

So I'm just a gob to like an ass

Lick"

Yes, you’re like an ass

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By *ominant 71Man
over a year ago

Dalton le Dale

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By *ed VoluptaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral.

"But OP, you HAVE a verification from a meet....

Think it was just after he made this thread "

Great. That'll encourage every whinger to carry on complaining

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By *ominant 71Man
over a year ago

Dalton le Dale

Amen brother

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

"Strange? I paid my £5er and had my cock sucked literally hours later

And you're still welcome.

Wait, he told you that you were the first too

Damnit I was duped!

Me too

Crushed, absolutely crushed

I’ll pay a £10er next time and you can both do it together

What about me you rat???

You can rim me

So I'm just a gob to like an ass

Lick

Yes, you’re like an ass

Have the other 2

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You're mistake was getting photo verified. Women love the idea it may not be a man they are meeting but something else. You've spoiled that uncertainty.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Glad to see he has had progress , patience and putting yourself out there goes a long way.

The people you’re interested in have their inbox flooded daily. Plus they may already have a few people that tickle their fancy and not want to take on any more.

I currently get around 2-3 new messages weekly and still come across same day cancellations and ghost accounts

It’s the magic of FAB

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By *ugsly95Man
over a year ago

Ashbourne

"You're mistake was getting photo verified. Women love the idea it may not be a man they are meeting but something else. You've spoiled that uncertainty. "

I’m not sure this is true lol

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By *andsome HandMan
over a year ago

roundabout

"Patience

Take That ?

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By *andsome HandMan
over a year ago

roundabout

"You're mistake was getting photo verified. Women love the idea it may not be a man they are meeting but something else. You've spoiled that uncertainty.

I’m not sure this is true lol "

Hovis wouldn't steer you wrong, he's the best of a good batch

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By *ischer400777Man
over a year ago

stanley county durham

Unless you are as women like to say a exceptional male you have to have something going for you whether that is your face body or cock if you have none of these 3 things you will struggle on here outside fab you may have a great personality to make up for it but on here it is all about looks .

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By *ed VoluptaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral.

"Unless you are as women like to say a exceptional male you have to have something going for you whether that is your face body or cock if you have none of these 3 things you will struggle on here outside fab you may have a great personality to make up for it but on here it is all about looks . "

Not the case at all! You have to follow up up with being a decent human being.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It isn't all about looks. If that were so I'd have met with the first five adonis-types who messaged. Feel free to perpetuate the stereotype that all women want is a big cock and nice abs - if that makes you feel better

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By *annaBeStrongMan
over a year ago

wokingham

I’d say just because you don’t follow the stereotype doesn’t mean it’s not somewhat true.

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By *ischer400777Man
over a year ago

stanley county durham

I did not say that was set in stone of course personality and being a nice person is important but it still most of the time comes down to looks

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By *ischer400777Man
over a year ago

stanley county durham

Take thickasfuck a lot of women will meet up with him on first impressions because of his great body and being a nice person

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By *ischer400777Man
over a year ago

stanley county durham

Thiccasfuck

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By *annaBeStrongMan
over a year ago

wokingham

"Take thickasfuck a lot of women will meet up with him on first impressions because of his great body and being a nice person "

Firstly, you’ve obviously new to the forums if you think I’m a nice person

Secondly, my body is absolutely average compared to lots of lads on here. I’m also 5’9

Thirdly, I’ve got an average sized cock

I do great on swiping apps where the balance is a little more even. But I’ve given up meeting on here

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By *lassy_but_sassyWoman
over a year ago

Birmingham

"So I’ve been on this site for 5 months, but photo-verified and even paid, but still finding it really difficult to get a meet of any sort? "

I would have considered meeting you, but unfortunately you have the same name as my son, and as I'm a name moaner I'm afraid that's one name I definitely WON'T want to moan out in bed!

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By *ed VoluptaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral.

"Take thickasfuck a lot of women will meet up with him on first impressions because of his great body and being a nice person "

But a lot of women won't (no offence to Thickasfuck, just making a point).

Yes, looks attract on a site like this, but as well as looks being subjective, women do not want the same thing. Perpetuating the notion that if you don't think of yourself as being attractive, you stand no chance is unhelpful to the OP and demeaning to a lot of women.

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over a year ago

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By *annaBeStrongMan
over a year ago

wokingham

"Take thickasfuck a lot of women will meet up with him on first impressions because of his great body and being a nice person

But a lot of women won't (no offence to Thickasfuck, just making a point).

I think your half right and half wrong

And I don’t think it’s demeaning to women to sexual preferences either. It’s not the 50s anymore. Woman can admit they like certain things.

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By *ischer400777Man
over a year ago

stanley county durham

It is not demeaning at all it is the survival of the fittest on here a lot of women will put on status must be gymfut tall dark and handsome exceptional male am I as a male offended by that of course not I hope the lady or couple find what they are looking for and good luck to the man they find , I do well on here so far because of one thing and I am happy with that it is a buyers market . Gymfit I meant

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By *ed VoluptaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral.

"Take thickasfuck a lot of women will meet up with him on first impressions because of his great body and being a nice person

But a lot of women won't (no offence to Thickasfuck, just making a point).

I think your half right and half wrong

And I don’t think it’s demeaning to women to sexual preferences either. It’s not the 50s anymore. Woman can admit they like certain things. "

I mean it's demeaning to assume that we are all after handsome Adonises. Some are, some aren't. And your version of handsome may not be mine. I'll go for a good sense of humour over a serious model type any day. But then, another day, I'll want eye candy.

My point being, don't assume what we want.

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By *ischer400777Man
over a year ago

stanley county durham

Why are so many people so scared to accept that looks will always come first on fab that is how it should be if you meet up and decide to have a social and you click that is a bonus

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By *ed VoluptaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral.

"It is not demeaning at all it is the survival of the fittest on here a lot of women will put on status must be gymfut tall dark and handsome exceptional male am I as a male offended by that of course not I hope the lady or couple find what they are looking for and good luck to the man they find , I do well on here so far because of one thing and I am happy with that it is a buyers market . Gymfit I meant "

"A lot of women" does not equal all women. Just as guys like different shapes & sizes of women, so do we.

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

If your profile and pics are intriguing and you send out engaging messages then you increase your chances of a reply.

If you’ve got one pic and one sentence in your profile then your chance of getting a reply are going to decrease.

I was a single guy on here and I'm certainly not the best looking guy but I took it upon myself to present myself in the best way I could.

Your profile is your shop window, your chance to show what you are about…it’s a free advert.

If you don’t use the tools available to make you more appealing and then moan about not getting any attention then you’ve only got yourself to blame.

It’s no one else’s fault other than your own. Regardless of how many men there are on this site, if you have a decent profile and pics, people will find you.

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By *ed VoluptaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral.

"Why are so many people so scared to accept that looks will always come first on fab that is how it should be if you meet up and decide to have a social and you click that is a bonus "

Not scared to admit it. It's just not true in all cases, no matter what you say.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Without using the word mansplaining ....

OP, put more weight on what women say than men. Everyone kids themsleves to some extent about what we say we like versus what we really like... But you will get closer to the truth about what "the customer" wants by listening to the customer than the marketing team.

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By *avrick180Man
over a year ago

Pontypool

"So I’ve been on this site for 5 months, but photo-verified and even paid, but still finding it really difficult to get a meet of any sort? "
only 5 months wait till you get to 5 years and still not a meet then complain op

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By *annaBeStrongMan
over a year ago

wokingham

"Take thickasfuck a lot of women will meet up with him on first impressions because of his great body and being a nice person

But a lot of women won't (no offence to Thickasfuck, just making a point).

I think your half right and half wrong

And I don’t think it’s demeaning to women to sexual preferences either. It’s not the 50s anymore. Woman can admit they like certain things.

My point being, don't assume what we want."

I think it’s everyone’s right to assume what they want, when they want, and we’re only talking from experience

I see plenty of statuses daily looking for big cock on a good body. It’s an instant meet if you meet that criteria. So we can’t deny that those things factor in, and having them puts you at a massive advantage when it comes to getting meets.

That’s why I suggest using swiping apps for most single guys because the women on there aren’t not nearly as focus on cock size and body type. And the ratio of men to women is much better. And women tend to make more effort on those apps than on here.

I always suggest guys use them for meets, and use fabs for clubs/socials

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By *ed VoluptaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral.

"If your profile and pics are intriguing and you send out engaging messages then you increase your chances of a reply.

If you’ve got one pic and one sentence in your profile then your chance of getting a reply are going to decrease.

I was a single guy on here and I'm certainly not the best looking guy but I took it upon myself to present myself in the best way I could.

Your profile is your shop window, your chance to show what you are about…it’s a free advert.

If you don’t use the tools available to make you more appealing and then moan about not getting any attention then you’ve only got yourself to blame.

It’s no one else’s fault other than your own. Regardless of how many men there are on this site, if you have a decent profile and pics, people will find you.

Exactly. Your pics are amazing K.

But you also come across as a thoroughly decent chap on the forum, too. Goes a long way with us women, that does. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP, instead of saying if interested mail me, use the profile to set out your stall.

What are you like, interests, etc.

Then mingle, in chat or on forum, and folk will look up your profile to find out more about the fun/interesting guy in chat/forum and you may get some mails which may lead to socials and so on.

Or try the clubs route, but that can be intimidating if you don't know anyone there...

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By *annaBeStrongMan
over a year ago

wokingham

"Without using the word mansplaining ....

That’s only true when turning customer in question isn’t heavily swayed in what they say by society pressures

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Looks matter, of course, it's the first thing we see. But attitude and personality matter so much too. I've said no to many a "hot" guy because I didn't like his personality.

I've also gotten to know people's personalities on the forums and there are people here I would meet who aren't my typical "type", simply because they seem so lovely and funny.

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By *xhibitionistbenMan
over a year ago

Ware / Kings Cross

Paying a subscription doesn’t suddenly give you the right to meet lots of gorgeous women.

I have been in your position of struggling to get a message back let alone a meet. My best advice is to go to a club or a social if you can. Great way to meet lots of people. As long as you’re polite, friendly and not just trying to get your Willy wet, you’ll have a good time, probably have some fun and you’ll get some verifications, which show you’re a good guy.

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By *ischer400777Man
over a year ago

stanley county durham

I am not saying all most of the time if i was in a line up of exceptional makes fully dressed and 20 lady’s had to pick there favourite no one would choose me that is a fact I am not a exceptional male

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Talk about magic! You post a thread saying about no meets and voilà, youve had one!!

Im goin to post a thread about being bought a black Audi R8 with leopard print interior and winning the lottery!

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

Anyway. Anyone FAF?

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By *ischer400777Man
over a year ago

stanley county durham

You are right kitty but if you looking for a quick hook up that day then it will be all about looks and of course being respectfull in a message but still looks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Without using the word mansplaining ....

That’s only true when turning customer in question isn’t heavily swayed in what they say by society pressures

What woman tell other people they want, vs what actually gets their heart racing, are 2 very different things. And there’s tonnes of studies and social experiments out there that show it without a doubt "
agreed. Although is there less societal pressure on fab given it is more open? Society frowns on women getting their toys out for camera, or actively seeking sex. It frowns on swinging and ENM. Dunno. Maybe teh best bet is to find men who are successful but aren't handsome gym bros with 12" dicks and see what they do. There are plenty of them here. Go search womens versus to see what does get them meeting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Looks matter, of course, it's the first thing we see. But attitude and personality matter so much too. I've said no to many a "hot" guy because I didn't like his personality.

I've also gotten to know people's personalities on the forums and there are people here I would meet who aren't my typical "type", simply because they seem so lovely and funny.

"
*invests in some joke books*

(To read at the gym

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A lot of women" does not equal all women. Just as guys like different shapes & sizes of women, so do we.

I'm a bit mystified that despite women here telling guys that looks aren't everything - you keep on with it. Some men prefer gymfit women- I will not be their cup of tea. So?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Without using the word mansplaining ....

That’s only true when turning customer in question isn’t heavily swayed in what they say by society pressures

Right so now women don't know what they actually find attractive now? Uh-huh.

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By *annaBeStrongMan
over a year ago

wokingham

"Without using the word mansplaining ....

That’s only true when turning customer in question isn’t heavily swayed in what they say by society pressures

Right so now women don't know what they actually find attractive now? Uh-huh.

Not quite what I said but ok

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Without using the word mansplaining ....

That’s only true when turning customer in question isn’t heavily swayed in what they say by society pressures

Right so now women don't know what they actually find attractive now? Uh-huh.

Not quite what I said but ok "

No not quite but close. I dislike being told as a woman that I really do prefer looks over anything else. I have very often spoken to someone for days without knowing what they look like. On this site. On others. I know I am not the only one. Because we are not all here for a quick fuck with the nearest, best looking bloke. Which is equally valid to what I and others seek.

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By *annaBeStrongMan
over a year ago

wokingham

"Without using the word mansplaining ....

That’s only true when turning customer in question isn’t heavily swayed in what they say by society pressures

Right so now women don't know what they actually find attractive now? Uh-huh.

Not quite what I said but ok

I dont think it was even close

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By *andKBCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth

Tbf we are struggling at the moment. Could be the post covid world

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Take thickasfuck a lot of women will meet up with him on first impressions because of his great body and being a nice person

Firstly, you’ve obviously new to the forums if you think I’m a nice person

Secondly, my body is absolutely average compared to lots of lads on here. I’m also 5’9

Thirdly, I’ve got an average sized cock

I do great on swiping apps where the balance is a little more even. But I’ve given up meeting on here "

Firstly, he’s a nice guy deep down

Secondly, he knows really he’s got it

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By *aunchy RaccoonsCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

There are thousands of guys on here so you'll need to put way more effort into your profile if you are going to try and stand out.

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By *annaBeStrongMan
over a year ago

wokingham

"Take thickasfuck a lot of women will meet up with him on first impressions because of his great body and being a nice person

Firstly, you’ve obviously new to the forums if you think I’m a nice person

Secondly, my body is absolutely average compared to lots of lads on here. I’m also 5’9

Thirdly, I’ve got an average sized cock

I do great on swiping apps where the balance is a little more even. But I’ve given up meeting on here

Firstly, he’s a nice guy deep down

Secondly, he knows really he’s got it

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

Looks are critical - I'm not going to have sex with someone don't find appealing. This much is absolutely true.

Yes, some women find a 6 pack and a 12" cock to be very attractive, and will post same day meets because that's the most important criteria to them and it's something that is very easy to verify by looking at a photo.

Anyone who has ever read a "They're out of my league" type thread will see that there are some phenomenally attractive women who won't even message a ripped guy because they assume he won't be interested.

I'm looking to establish a connection with my bedfellows. I'm looking for someone I find attractive but what *I* find attractive may be quite different to the expectation of the male ideal.

I'm never going to advertise a "meet now" because what I'm looking for is less easy to define; it takes conversation and interaction to draw it out.

Bearing that in mind it makes sense that the meets section will be skewed towards the gym fit, big cocked men.

Doesn't mean it's the only thing that will get you into a woman's knickers on here though. There are a very wide variety of tastes on here, happily.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Without using the word mansplaining ....

That’s only true when turning customer in question isn’t heavily swayed in what they say by society pressures

Right so now women don't know what they actually find attractive now? Uh-huh.

Not quite what I said but ok

I dont think it was even close "

Agree to disagree.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m sure people have already told you patience is key, it isn’t, being handsome is key, then having a hot body, everything else is secondary. Everything else goes out the window when a bloke is hot, shallow - sure, fickle - definitely, but this is the reality. I mean some women say I just want a guy that can make them laugh, they don’t, they want a hot guy first, if he can make them laugh it’s a bonus. You’ve only got to see where the fawning goes on and with who, to see what really matters.

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over a year ago

"Looks are critical - I'm not going to have sex with someone don't find appealing. This much is absolutely true.

I'm looking to establish a connection with my bedfellows. I'm looking for someone I find attractive but what *I* find attractive may be quite different to the expectation of the male ideal.

I'm never going to advertise a "meet now" because what I'm looking for is less easy to define; it takes conversation and interaction to draw it out.

Bearing that in mind it makes sense that the meets section will be skewed towards the gym fit, big cocked men.

Doesn't mean it's the only thing that will get you into a woman's knickers on here though. There are a very wide variety of tastes on here, happily."

To be fair, bang on.

Ive had my fair share of “studs” who I thought. Fuck me I’m really punching here.

When probably some of them thought the same when meeting me. (Tho I don’t see it that way)

Btw I rarely or never approach to be fair as I get too anxious.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Looks are critical - I'm not going to have sex with someone don't find appealing. This much is absolutely true.

I'm looking to establish a connection with my bedfellows. I'm looking for someone I find attractive but what *I* find attractive may be quite different to the expectation of the male ideal.

I'm never going to advertise a "meet now" because what I'm looking for is less easy to define; it takes conversation and interaction to draw it out.

Bearing that in mind it makes sense that the meets section will be skewed towards the gym fit, big cocked men.

Doesn't mean it's the only thing that will get you into a woman's knickers on here though. There are a very wide variety of tastes on here, happily."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Looks are critical - I'm not going to have sex with someone don't find appealing. This much is absolutely true.

I'm looking to establish a connection with my bedfellows. I'm looking for someone I find attractive but what *I* find attractive may be quite different to the expectation of the male ideal.

I'm never going to advertise a "meet now" because what I'm looking for is less easy to define; it takes conversation and interaction to draw it out.

Bearing that in mind it makes sense that the meets section will be skewed towards the gym fit, big cocked men.

Doesn't mean it's the only thing that will get you into a woman's knickers on here though. There are a very wide variety of tastes on here, happily.

To be fair, bang on.

Ive had my fair share of “studs” who I thought. Fuck me I’m really punching here.

When probably some of them thought the same when meeting me. (Tho I don’t see it that way)

Btw I rarely or never approach to be fair as I get too anxious. "

* im really punching here. And how I never thought they’d be interested in me

Little correction added haha

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By *aurus1987Man
over a year ago

York

Yup, same boat, I'm nice as pie, and very honest about myself, yet still, no meets, and getting deleted for showing my face

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So I’ve been on this site for 5 months, but photo-verified and even paid, but still finding it really difficult to get a meet of any sort? "

I know how you feel, same here

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By *ambofkMan
over a year ago

Hamilton

"So I’ve been on this site for 5 months, but photo-verified and even paid, but still finding it really difficult to get a meet of any sort? "

Aww mate 5 months and still nothing… some of us have been here a lot longer honestly I just enjoy chatting and the social side of swinging if you get lucky enough to get a meet then that’s just a bonus honestly focus more on making friends and eventually your time will come

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

"Looks are critical - I'm not going to have sex with someone don't find appealing. This much is absolutely true.

I'm looking to establish a connection with my bedfellows. I'm looking for someone I find attractive but what *I* find attractive may be quite different to the expectation of the male ideal.

I'm never going to advertise a "meet now" because what I'm looking for is less easy to define; it takes conversation and interaction to draw it out.

Bearing that in mind it makes sense that the meets section will be skewed towards the gym fit, big cocked men.

Doesn't mean it's the only thing that will get you into a woman's knickers on here though. There are a very wide variety of tastes on here, happily.

To be fair, bang on.

Ive had my fair share of “studs” who I thought. Fuck me I’m really punching here.

When probably some of them thought the same when meeting me. (Tho I don’t see it that way)

Btw I rarely or never approach to be fair as I get too anxious.

* im really punching here. And how I never thought they’d be interested in me

Little correction added haha "

And you're bloody gorgeous, so what hope the rest of us?

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By *hakeurlegsMan
over a year ago

everywhere. and nowhere baby

Get knocked down 7 times get up 8

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

"So I’ve been on this site for 5 months, but photo-verified and even paid, but still finding it really difficult to get a meet of any sort? "

Your profile is your shop window to the world….

Hand on heart knowing there are loads of other people out there, would you answer your own profile?

What makes it stand out for a.n.other?

Does it scream wow I just have to meet this person?

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By *annaBeStrongMan
over a year ago

wokingham

"I’m sure people have already told you patience is key, it isn’t, being handsome is key, then having a hot body, everything else is secondary. Everything else goes out the window when a bloke is hot, shallow - sure, fickle - definitely, but this is the reality. I mean some women say I just want a guy that can make them laugh, they don’t, they want a hot guy first, if he can make them laugh it’s a bonus. You’ve only got to see where the fawning goes on and with who, to see what really matters. "

If we compared getting meets on here as a single guy to a race, being “conventionally” hot is like having a head start.

It’s a 100m race for everyone.

Big cock? Take a 5m head start

Good body? Take another 5m

Model like face? Here’s another 5m

Does it mean you’ll beat everyone? No.

Is it one hell of an advantage? Obviously

Advice like “be patient” and “read their profile and send thoughtful messages” are good advice.

But when your on the starting line and there’s a bunch of guys 10 or 15 or even 30 meters ahead of you. It can feel a little pointless

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria

"So I’ve been on this site for 5 months, but photo-verified and even paid, but still finding it really difficult to get a meet of any sort? "

Looking in the club's part of the forum find a party you like the look off go the best way to meet like-minded people.

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over a year ago

"Looks are critical - I'm not going to have sex with someone don't find appealing. This much is absolutely true.

I'm looking to establish a connection with my bedfellows. I'm looking for someone I find attractive but what *I* find attractive may be quite different to the expectation of the male ideal.

I'm never going to advertise a "meet now" because what I'm looking for is less easy to define; it takes conversation and interaction to draw it out.

Bearing that in mind it makes sense that the meets section will be skewed towards the gym fit, big cocked men.

Doesn't mean it's the only thing that will get you into a woman's knickers on here though. There are a very wide variety of tastes on here, happily.

To be fair, bang on.

Ive had my fair share of “studs” who I thought. Fuck me I’m really punching here.

When probably some of them thought the same when meeting me. (Tho I don’t see it that way)

Btw I rarely or never approach to be fair as I get too anxious.

* im really punching here. And how I never thought they’d be interested in me

Little correction added haha

And you're bloody gorgeous, so what hope the rest of us?

Says you!! Gorg!!!!!

Ps: ill always be treated as grade B material

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By *jorkishMan
over a year ago

Seaforth

"Looks are critical - I'm not going to have sex with someone don't find appealing. This much is absolutely true.

I'm looking to establish a connection with my bedfellows. I'm looking for someone I find attractive but what *I* find attractive may be quite different to the expectation of the male ideal.

I'm never going to advertise a "meet now" because what I'm looking for is less easy to define; it takes conversation and interaction to draw it out.

Bearing that in mind it makes sense that the meets section will be skewed towards the gym fit, big cocked men.

Doesn't mean it's the only thing that will get you into a woman's knickers on here though. There are a very wide variety of tastes on here, happily.

To be fair, bang on.

Ive had my fair share of “studs” who I thought. Fuck me I’m really punching here.

When probably some of them thought the same when meeting me. (Tho I don’t see it that way)

Btw I rarely or never approach to be fair as I get too anxious.

* im really punching here. And how I never thought they’d be interested in me

Little correction added haha

And you're bloody gorgeous, so what hope the rest of us?

Says you!! Gorg!!!!!

Ps: ill always be treated as grade B material

Why would you be treated like grade b material?

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By *lirty-CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Bexley

Not the case at all! You have to follow up up with being a decent human being."

So true. We're not all looking for 'hung superstuds'. Decent guys here who put the effort in to their profiles and messages can and do get results. We know because we've met a few.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Looks are critical - I'm not going to have sex with someone don't find appealing. This much is absolutely true.

I'm looking to establish a connection with my bedfellows. I'm looking for someone I find attractive but what *I* find attractive may be quite different to the expectation of the male ideal.

I'm never going to advertise a "meet now" because what I'm looking for is less easy to define; it takes conversation and interaction to draw it out.

Bearing that in mind it makes sense that the meets section will be skewed towards the gym fit, big cocked men.

Doesn't mean it's the only thing that will get you into a woman's knickers on here though. There are a very wide variety of tastes on here, happily.

To be fair, bang on.

Ive had my fair share of “studs” who I thought. Fuck me I’m really punching here.

When probably some of them thought the same when meeting me. (Tho I don’t see it that way)

Btw I rarely or never approach to be fair as I get too anxious.

* im really punching here. And how I never thought they’d be interested in me

Little correction added haha

And you're bloody gorgeous, so what hope the rest of us?

Says you!! Gorg!!!!!

Ps: ill always be treated as grade B material

Why would you be treated like grade b material? "

Because transgender women usually are treated like grade B or C or whatever compared to biological women (sadly)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can’t be arsed to read the whole thread but you’ve got a verified in person meeting? And she’s written some stuff

Guess it moved pretty quick after your initial post

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