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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

is there a sense of Schadenfreude watching men struggle on here ?

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

No...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i blame the matriarchy

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Yes

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Yes

Surprise, surprise.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

Depends if they're dicks or not.

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

Nicht Besonders

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

"Depends if they're dicks or not. "

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If he's struggling he hasnt been tied up tight enough

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

Most definitely.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I’m guessing there’s a lot of woman who don’t know what Schadenfreude means.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have no clue what that word means, i'll be honest!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m guessing there’s a lot of woman who don’t know what Schadenfreude means."

***Grabs popcorn***

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"I’m guessing there’s a lot of woman who don’t know what Schadenfreude means."

I do. And no not really lol.

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By *ormorantMan
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

"I’m guessing there’s a lot of woman who don’t know what Schadenfreude means."
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Think this ones about to take off…

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

pleasure derived by someone from another person's misfortune.

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By *riendlyStarMan
over a year ago

Portsmouth

"If he's struggling he hasnt been tied up tight enough

If you're tying where do I lay lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m guessing there’s a lot of woman who don’t know what Schadenfreude means."

To throw shade on Viennese psychiatrists.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

Nope.

Why would I be happy at someone else's misery if they've done nothing to make me want the karma bus to run them over, then reverse, then stall whilst they're under the wheels?

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

No and don’t understand why someone would

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

"Nope.

Why would I be happy at someone else's misery if they've done nothing to make me want the karma bus to run them over, then reverse, then stall whilst they're under the wheels? "

I've missed your explanations xxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"No and don’t understand why someone would "

Patriarchy, maybe.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope, It's awful that men can feel like 2nd rate citizens around here, a little care, concern and mindful that we're all people with feelings.

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

"No and don’t understand why someone would

Patriarchy, maybe."

Sad way to be

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"No and don’t understand why someone would

Patriarchy, maybe.

Sad way to be "

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

I think some of the attitudes towards men are ugly. So no.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

"Nope.

Why would I be happy at someone else's misery if they've done nothing to make me want the karma bus to run them over, then reverse, then stall whilst they're under the wheels?

I've missed your explanations xxx"

Been full on at work and generally just fried. I felt like I had nowt worthwhile to say and was getting a bit discombobulated running over the same old ground. It wasn't doing me any good.

Feeling a little fresher now xx

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

Nope

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Did I miss a notification saying today was the day for men to moan and complain about FAB & the ladies.

I've been on FAB 8 weeks, been to 4 City / Town socials, spa twice, a few social coffees to see if there is a connection. I'm nothing great to look at but I'm genuinely interested in the scene and the whole social aspect.

Stop moaning and complaining and get out there and meet people with no expectations for sex and you'll find you get invited to more things and play then follows.

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By *amie HantsWoman
over a year ago

Atlantis

Yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not at all.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Did I miss a notification saying today was the day for men to moan and complain about FAB & the ladies.

Stop moaning and complaining and get out there and meet people with no expectations for sex and you'll find you get invited to more things and play then follows."

Is this along way of saying you don’t know what Schadenfreude means ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe if someone is a massive bellend. But I'd feel the same way about a woman too if she had no luck. I'd think good, you deserve it you wanker. But I can't think of a time where it has popped into my head so it's not a very common thought.

I had to Google the fancy word.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Yes

Thank you

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By *amie HantsWoman
over a year ago

Atlantis

"Yes

Thank you

I also close the doors on the lift when I see people rushing to make it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I only ask the question as an observation at viewing some women’s status updates, so I thought I’d open the question up to The Lounge.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Yes

Thank you

I also close the doors on the lift when I see people rushing to make it. "

When I get out the lift I fart and close the doors.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Maybe if someone is a massive bellend. But I'd feel the same way about a woman too if she had no luck. I'd think good, you deserve it you wanker. But I can't think of a time where it has popped into my head so it's not a very common thought.

I had to Google the fancy word. "

Make sure you shoe horn the word in wherever you can.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Did I miss a notification saying today was the day for men to moan and complain about FAB & the ladies.

Stop moaning and complaining and get out there and meet people with no expectations for sex and you'll find you get invited to more things and play then follows.

Is this along way of saying you don’t know what Schadenfreude means ?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Depends if they're dicks or not. "

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By *amie HantsWoman
over a year ago

Atlantis

"Yes

Thank you

I also close the doors on the lift when I see people rushing to make it.

When I get out the lift I fart and close the doors.

That’s a good one. I’ll have to remember that.

When it’s my turn to make coffees at work everyone gets caffeinated even if they want decaf. They will learn that I don’t like making the tea round.

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

I think they have a sense of letzbeavinkyouonlidasgutvuns

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

"If he's struggling he hasnt been tied up tight enough

That's why you use a gag

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Did I miss a notification saying today was the day for men to moan and complain about FAB & the ladies.

Stop moaning and complaining and get out there and meet people with no expectations for sex and you'll find you get invited to more things and play then follows.

Is this along way of saying you don’t know what Schadenfreude means ?"

No, it's a simple way of saying life is what you make of it and if you think women get pleasure from watching men struggle on here you are obviously chatting to very different ladies than I am.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Yes

Thank you

I also close the doors on the lift when I see people rushing to make it.

When I get out the lift I fart and close the doors.

That’s a good one. I’ll have to remember that.

When it’s my turn to make coffees at work everyone gets caffeinated even if they want decaf. They will learn that I don’t like making the tea round. "

This is sage advice.

When it’s my turn to make the coffees I simply get in my car and drive home and come back into work the next day hoping some other sucker made them.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

"I only ask the question as an observation at viewing some women’s status updates, so I thought I’d open the question up to The Lounge. "

Try viewing the men's status updates instead. Otherwise your brain will become uneven and your head will be on a permanent wonk

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Did I miss a notification saying today was the day for men to moan and complain about FAB & the ladies.

Stop moaning and complaining and get out there and meet people with no expectations for sex and you'll find you get invited to more things and play then follows.

Is this along way of saying you don’t know what Schadenfreude means ?

No, it's a simple way of saying life is what you make of it and if you think women get pleasure from watching men struggle on here you are obviously chatting to very different ladies than I am."

I think you’re getting confused, it’s a general question, more based in women having to answer to the patriarchy for years and finally being in the box seats for once, it has nothing to do with the women i chat to.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I only ask the question as an observation at viewing some women’s status updates, so I thought I’d open the question up to The Lounge.

Try viewing the men's status updates instead. Otherwise your brain will become uneven and your head will be on a permanent wonk

No thanks, I have to listen to their shite at work,

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

"I only ask the question as an observation at viewing some women’s status updates, so I thought I’d open the question up to The Lounge.

Try viewing the men's status updates instead. Otherwise your brain will become uneven and your head will be on a permanent wonk

No thanks, I have to listen to their shite at work, "

We thus cannot be held responsible for any kilter-outages in your brain *nods sagely*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

From the view I have, very few women feel this way OP unless they feel there l they are being used, abused or treated like a lower class. Then they have every right as a human to let loose.

Often I see the same threads of ‘I’m not getting meets’ etc and more often than not, there are women genuinely trying to help the guys out.

On the whole I would say very few if any in the forum take pleasure from men’s misery

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm honest pity men don't do the same

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By *elilah999Woman
over a year ago

Malton

"is there a sense of Schadenfreude watching men struggle on here ? "

At times yes. Couples and females can be soo horrible at times,when it's uncalled for. But sometimes men don't help themselves. But I never paint all with the same brush

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't interact with struggling men so they aren't even on my radar. *shrugs*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm honest pity men don't do the same "

Trouble is women never believe men.

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

I had to google the word, for a start off. And, fuck no...not at all. I don't like to see anyone struggle!

Do you think many of us do?

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By *hilledout-coupleCouple
over a year ago

telford

I think the problem is there a lot of men compared to the amount of women and couples on here and the men get very defensive when there told no or not for us but that’s how it is , we would love to find a unicorn who like us both but sadly we’re still looking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I feel the struggle of men on this site is something that will never change, it's just a part of the game... it doesn't have to be struggle though.

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