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"The hypocritical people. The judgemental people. The people who spread lies. And the fact we still don't have a drool emoji." I have to agree | |||
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"The lack of thinky threads. " The thinky thread posters have disappeared Meli (apart from you) | |||
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"The lack of thinky threads. What do you mean??" The sort of threads that are a bit more than "you have the hottest body, no you do , faf?". The ones where you get a myriad of opinions and views, they can go off in a tangent but you learn about how others see the world. I find them fascinating.
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"The lack of thinky threads. The thinky thread posters have disappeared Meli (apart from you) " Love Meli's threads but a little unfair on others who often do that type of thread? | |||
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"The lack of thinky threads. The thinky thread posters have disappeared Meli (apart from you) Love Meli's threads but a little unfair on others who often do that type of thread? " Meli knows what I mean, she’s been here a while and will remember those who used to post debate threads | |||
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"The uninclusive threads where people are falling over themselves to fawn over particular people whilst other people are completely ignored even when they're commenting. And they become the *insert forum members name* show. "Yes this x | |||
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"The lack of thinky threads. The thinky thread posters have disappeared Meli (apart from you) Love Meli's threads but a little unfair on others who often do that type of thread? Meli knows what I mean, she’s been here a while and will remember those who used to post debate threads" I know what and who you mean  | |||
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"That you get sucked off and an hour or two go by without realising "That's one of the best things, no ? | |||
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"Men moaning Apart from this note Zilch" *** Nowt | |||
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"That you get sucked in and an hour or two go by without realising "Isn’t that like every app or website | |||
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"The very first comment on a thread that reply and quotes the OPs epic opening monologue with a ‘This ’
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"Sometimes the secret service threads or say something nice about someone or PM a question threads. While it can be a nice pick-me-up, I feel sorry for those who take part and don't anything in return only for a few people to get all the comments. I imagine it's quite disheartening." I think some people say they are in just for attention on those threads. I never get fabs or winks through any of those threads except from friends and if I ask a question on the ask in private ones the only replies I get are from friends. I did an experiment a couple of months ago and winked and fabbed every woman and couple in a thread. I didn't get a single wink or fab in return. | |||
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"Sometimes the secret service threads or say something nice about someone or PM a question threads. While it can be a nice pick-me-up, I feel sorry for those who take part and don't anything in return only for a few people to get all the comments. I imagine it's quite disheartening. I think some people say they are in just for attention on those threads. I never get fabs or winks through any of those threads except from friends and if I ask a question on the ask in private ones the only replies I get are from friends. " Yep, I definitely agree with this. Take the secret service thread - a lot of people say they are in but it's obvious not many actually send messages in. The pm threads are another example that get filled by people saying in but wait for others to message and don't message. I think it could definitely be disheartening so I try and message/send in posts for people other than that core group mentioned above. I think Nora must hate me by now. | |||
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"Sometimes the secret service threads or say something nice about someone or PM a question threads. While it can be a nice pick-me-up, I feel sorry for those who take part and don't anything in return only for a few people to get all the comments. I imagine it's quite disheartening. I think some people say they are in just for attention on those threads. I never get fabs or winks through any of those threads except from friends and if I ask a question on the ask in private ones the only replies I get are from friends. I did an experiment a couple of months ago and winked and fabbed every woman and couple in a thread. I didn't get a single wink or fab in return. " I agree with this, I tried to make more inclusive ones. But I still got messages of upset and I didn't want to cause that. I won't be making them anymore | |||
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"The uninclusive threads where people are falling over themselves to fawn over particular people whilst other people are completely ignored even when they're commenting. And they become the *insert forum members name* show. "This. And you get the same people banging on about how inclusive they are | |||
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"Sometimes the secret service threads or say something nice about someone or PM a question threads. While it can be a nice pick-me-up, I feel sorry for those who take part and don't anything in return only for a few people to get all the comments. I imagine it's quite disheartening." Yep, this as well. | |||
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"Sometimes the secret service threads or say something nice about someone or PM a question threads. While it can be a nice pick-me-up, I feel sorry for those who take part and don't anything in return only for a few people to get all the comments. I imagine it's quite disheartening. I think some people say they are in just for attention on those threads. I never get fabs or winks through any of those threads except from friends and if I ask a question on the ask in private ones the only replies I get are from friends. Yep, I definitely agree with this. Take the secret service thread - a lot of people say they are in but it's obvious not many actually send messages in. The pm threads are another example that get filled by people saying in but wait for others to message and don't message. I think it could definitely be disheartening so I try and message/send in posts for people other than that core group mentioned above. I think Nora must hate me by now. "That's really nice of you, I try to do the same when I decide to take part. I guess my point is more for those who do send messages and might not get anything back. I get that no-one is owed anything before anyone starts but it doesn't negate the overall feeling you can have. | |||
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"Sometimes the secret service threads or say something nice about someone or PM a question threads. While it can be a nice pick-me-up, I feel sorry for those who take part and don't anything in return only for a few people to get all the comments. I imagine it's quite disheartening. I think some people say they are in just for attention on those threads. I never get fabs or winks through any of those threads except from friends and if I ask a question on the ask in private ones the only replies I get are from friends. Yep, I definitely agree with this. Take the secret service thread - a lot of people say they are in but it's obvious not many actually send messages in. The pm threads are another example that get filled by people saying in but wait for others to message and don't message. I think it could definitely be disheartening so I try and message/send in posts for people other than that core group mentioned above. I think Nora must hate me by now. ". Yes I do have to limber up my thumbs when I see you’re in! Haha. You’re right though, a lot say I’m in and don’t send anything. | |||
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"Sometimes the secret service threads or say something nice about someone or PM a question threads. While it can be a nice pick-me-up, I feel sorry for those who take part and don't anything in return only for a few people to get all the comments. I imagine it's quite disheartening. I think some people say they are in just for attention on those threads. I never get fabs or winks through any of those threads except from friends and if I ask a question on the ask in private ones the only replies I get are from friends. Yep, I definitely agree with this. Take the secret service thread - a lot of people say they are in but it's obvious not many actually send messages in. The pm threads are another example that get filled by people saying in but wait for others to message and don't message. I think it could definitely be disheartening so I try and message/send in posts for people other than that core group mentioned above. I think Nora must hate me by now. "Oh yes. It’s obvious isn’t it.. and defeats the point of these threads where there’s opportunity to include and enjoy. | |||
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"Sometimes the secret service threads or say something nice about someone or PM a question threads. While it can be a nice pick-me-up, I feel sorry for those who take part and don't anything in return only for a few people to get all the comments. I imagine it's quite disheartening. I think some people say they are in just for attention on those threads. I never get fabs or winks through any of those threads except from friends and if I ask a question on the ask in private ones the only replies I get are from friends. Yep, I definitely agree with this. Take the secret service thread - a lot of people say they are in but it's obvious not many actually send messages in. The pm threads are another example that get filled by people saying in but wait for others to message and don't message. I think it could definitely be disheartening so I try and message/send in posts for people other than that core group mentioned above. I think Nora must hate me by now.
That's really nice of you, I try to do the same when I decide to take part. I guess my point is more for those who do send messages and might not get anything back. I get that no-one is owed anything before anyone starts but it doesn't negate the overall feeling you can have."But I guess people are only going to send them to the ones they like. Depends how sensitive people are I suppose. I see that thread as a fun uplifting thread otherwise I wouldn’t do it. I’ve had plenty of times where I’ve joined when others have done it and got nothing, I just enjoy reading them x | |||
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"Sometimes the secret service threads or say something nice about someone or PM a question threads. While it can be a nice pick-me-up, I feel sorry for those who take part and don't anything in return only for a few people to get all the comments. I imagine it's quite disheartening. I think some people say they are in just for attention on those threads. I never get fabs or winks through any of those threads except from friends and if I ask a question on the ask in private ones the only replies I get are from friends. Yep, I definitely agree with this. Take the secret service thread - a lot of people say they are in but it's obvious not many actually send messages in. The pm threads are another example that get filled by people saying in but wait for others to message and don't message. I think it could definitely be disheartening so I try and message/send in posts for people other than that core group mentioned above. I think Nora must hate me by now.
That's really nice of you, I try to do the same when I decide to take part. I guess my point is more for those who do send messages and might not get anything back. I get that no-one is owed anything before anyone starts but it doesn't negate the overall feeling you can have.
But I guess people are only going to send them to the ones they like. Depends how sensitive people are I suppose. I see that thread as a fun uplifting thread otherwise I wouldn’t do it. I’ve had plenty of times where I’ve joined when others have done it and got nothing, I just enjoy reading them x"I join in. But then find. That cannot message , wink etc . As I am out of everyones age range. . | |||
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"When someone has the inability to understand that another person's view or opinion may be different than their own." Exactly this | |||
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"Fun is purely subjective - one person's fun is anothers hell. Secret service is - some people have difficulty making the first move people say their in thinking they will be included but may not have the confidence to make the first contact. People are two wrapped up with them selves and their personal agendas and often do not see. It is the same in chat people sit their all the time and don't say anything I always used to try and draw then in. Make the changes else this is just another moaning thread that goes nowhere Closing the hermetically sealed door on my secret lair so long world I have evil to do Think!!!!! "Make the changes how? The secret service for example. Should I be making them up for People who don’t get any? For one I wouldn’t have the time whilst doing it as it’s pretty constant. Maybe I see things on here a lot more lightly than others but it’s just fun! If people know they’re going to be upset by not getting any messages then maybe shouldn’t join. It’s not compulsory. This kinda makes me not want to do it if it’s upsetting people but on the other hand so many people love it and are often asking when the next one is. How do you suggest changes are made on it? | |||
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"Sometimes the secret service threads or say something nice about someone or PM a question threads. While it can be a nice pick-me-up, I feel sorry for those who take part and don't anything in return only for a few people to get all the comments. I imagine it's quite disheartening. I think some people say they are in just for attention on those threads. I never get fabs or winks through any of those threads except from friends and if I ask a question on the ask in private ones the only replies I get are from friends. Yep, I definitely agree with this. Take the secret service thread - a lot of people say they are in but it's obvious not many actually send messages in. The pm threads are another example that get filled by people saying in but wait for others to message and don't message. I think it could definitely be disheartening so I try and message/send in posts for people other than that core group mentioned above. I think Nora must hate me by now.
That's really nice of you, I try to do the same when I decide to take part. I guess my point is more for those who do send messages and might not get anything back. I get that no-one is owed anything before anyone starts but it doesn't negate the overall feeling you can have.
But I guess people are only going to send them to the ones they like. Depends how sensitive people are I suppose. I see that thread as a fun uplifting thread otherwise I wouldn’t do it. I’ve had plenty of times where I’ve joined when others have done it and got nothing, I just enjoy reading them x"Yeah it can definitely be fun for people involved and like you said, it's meant to be uplifting. I've learned it's best to go into them with no expectations and not expect others to lift you up. | |||
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"Sometimes the secret service threads or say something nice about someone or PM a question threads. While it can be a nice pick-me-up, I feel sorry for those who take part and don't anything in return only for a few people to get all the comments. I imagine it's quite disheartening. I think some people say they are in just for attention on those threads. I never get fabs or winks through any of those threads except from friends and if I ask a question on the ask in private ones the only replies I get are from friends. Yep, I definitely agree with this. Take the secret service thread - a lot of people say they are in but it's obvious not many actually send messages in. The pm threads are another example that get filled by people saying in but wait for others to message and don't message. I think it could definitely be disheartening so I try and message/send in posts for people other than that core group mentioned above. I think Nora must hate me by now.
That's really nice of you, I try to do the same when I decide to take part. I guess my point is more for those who do send messages and might not get anything back. I get that no-one is owed anything before anyone starts but it doesn't negate the overall feeling you can have.
But I guess people are only going to send them to the ones they like. Depends how sensitive people are I suppose. I see that thread as a fun uplifting thread otherwise I wouldn’t do it. I’ve had plenty of times where I’ve joined when others have done it and got nothing, I just enjoy reading them x
Yeah it can definitely be fun for people involved and like you said, it's meant to be uplifting. I've learned it's best to go into them with no expectations and not expect others to lift you up."Ok | |||
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"Sometimes the secret service threads or say something nice about someone or PM a question threads. While it can be a nice pick-me-up, I feel sorry for those who take part and don't anything in return only for a few people to get all the comments. I imagine it's quite disheartening. I think some people say they are in just for attention on those threads. I never get fabs or winks through any of those threads except from friends and if I ask a question on the ask in private ones the only replies I get are from friends. Yep, I definitely agree with this. Take the secret service thread - a lot of people say they are in but it's obvious not many actually send messages in. The pm threads are another example that get filled by people saying in but wait for others to message and don't message. I think it could definitely be disheartening so I try and message/send in posts for people other than that core group mentioned above. I think Nora must hate me by now.
That's really nice of you, I try to do the same when I decide to take part. I guess my point is more for those who do send messages and might not get anything back. I get that no-one is owed anything before anyone starts but it doesn't negate the overall feeling you can have.
But I guess people are only going to send them to the ones they like. Depends how sensitive people are I suppose. I see that thread as a fun uplifting thread otherwise I wouldn’t do it. I’ve had plenty of times where I’ve joined when others have done it and got nothing, I just enjoy reading them x
Yeah it can definitely be fun for people involved and like you said, it's meant to be uplifting. I've learned it's best to go into them with no expectations and not expect others to lift you up."And THAT is exactly the right attitude to have. Go into it wanting to send messages. Anything received is purely a nice compliment and a bonus then. | |||
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"Fun is purely subjective - one person's fun is anothers hell. Secret service is - some people have difficulty making the first move people say their in thinking they will be included but may not have the confidence to make the first contact. People are two wrapped up with them selves and their personal agendas and often do not see. It is the same in chat people sit their all the time and don't say anything I always used to try and draw then in. Make the changes else this is just another moaning thread that goes nowhere Closing the hermetically sealed door on my secret lair so long world I have evil to do Think!!!!! "Exactly, that is my take on it. 'Be the change you want to see' be proactive instead of sitting and waiting for it to happen I try and include, will reply to threads if they don't have many responses and will try to be inclusive on the threads I create. They are for everyone not just the few... And I always try and defend the underdog when the bandwagon rolls out, the pack mentality is never nice to see and we can all do a little bit to make the forums a little more friendly | |||
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"Sometimes the secret service threads or say something nice about someone or PM a question threads. While it can be a nice pick-me-up, I feel sorry for those who take part and don't anything in return only for a few people to get all the comments. I imagine it's quite disheartening. I think some people say they are in just for attention on those threads. I never get fabs or winks through any of those threads except from friends and if I ask a question on the ask in private ones the only replies I get are from friends. Yep, I definitely agree with this. Take the secret service thread - a lot of people say they are in but it's obvious not many actually send messages in. The pm threads are another example that get filled by people saying in but wait for others to message and don't message. I think it could definitely be disheartening so I try and message/send in posts for people other than that core group mentioned above. I think Nora must hate me by now.
That's really nice of you, I try to do the same when I decide to take part. I guess my point is more for those who do send messages and might not get anything back. I get that no-one is owed anything before anyone starts but it doesn't negate the overall feeling you can have.
But I guess people are only going to send them to the ones they like. Depends how sensitive people are I suppose. I see that thread as a fun uplifting thread otherwise I wouldn’t do it. I’ve had plenty of times where I’ve joined when others have done it and got nothing, I just enjoy reading them x
Yeah it can definitely be fun for people involved and like you said, it's meant to be uplifting. I've learned it's best to go into them with no expectations and not expect others to lift you up.
And THAT is exactly the right attitude to have. Go into it wanting to send messages. Anything received is purely a nice compliment and a bonus then."Well that’s how I’ve always seen it | |||
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"Fun is purely subjective - one person's fun is anothers hell. Secret service is - some people have difficulty making the first move people say their in thinking they will be included but may not have the confidence to make the first contact. People are two wrapped up with them selves and their personal agendas and often do not see. It is the same in chat people sit their all the time and don't say anything I always used to try and draw then in. Make the changes else this is just another moaning thread that goes nowhere Closing the hermetically sealed door on my secret lair so long world I have evil to do Think!!!!!
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People who don’t get any? For one I wouldn’t have the time whilst doing it as it’s pretty constant. Maybe I see things on here a lot more lightly than others but it’s just fun! If people know they’re going to be upset by not getting any messages then maybe shouldn’t join. It’s not compulsory. This kinda makes me not want to do it if it’s upsetting people but on the other hand so many people love it and are often asking when the next one is. How do you suggest changes are made on it?"I agree with you Nora. I avoid certain games if I'm not feeling particularly secure in myself. You're just setting yourself up for dissapointment if you'll be upset if you don't get responses. If you're feeling a little needy or will be upset by getting no interaction then there's other games that involve everyone . | |||
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"The concept that there is a clique/popularity contest pains me, this isn’t high school, we are all grown adults with life’s and issues and what not we come here to escape, flirt and have fun…at least I do. I don’t think of myself as better than anyone nor do I strive to be something I’m not, lamppost pissing is brought up all to often when it could just be that someone has a closer bond/friendship/connection with someone and they tend to respond to each others posts, for the most part the forums consist of the same people, some of them have met and built a relationship with others. I think people try to de compartmentalise fab in that it can only be for sexual relations but it’s somewhere we all spend a lot of our time and have made genuine friendships just as we would in real life. Sometimes I think people need to chill out, so what if your skipped over in a fuck/Chuck/pint or whatever forum does that really define you? It happens to everyone at some point. To call someone an attention seeker on a site where we advertise our half naked bodies and in some cases intimate photos/videos is beyond me the site encourages sexual liberty and if you embrace that more power to you! The forum is real like real life crammed into 175 opinions - you choose whether you take notice of this or not, if it effects your negatively don’t partake - do your own thing, there room for all of us x" I only tend to use the term attention seeker if it is obvious that the person has no interest in interacting or engaging in the spirit of a particular thread. When that is also linked to status update conversations between two or more forumites it becomes more obvious that they are saying one thing in the forums and mocking it elsewhere. | |||
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"Fun is purely subjective - one person's fun is anothers hell. Secret service is - some people have difficulty making the first move people say their in thinking they will be included but may not have the confidence to make the first contact. People are two wrapped up with them selves and their personal agendas and often do not see. It is the same in chat people sit their all the time and don't say anything I always used to try and draw then in. Make the changes else this is just another moaning thread that goes nowhere Closing the hermetically sealed door on my secret lair so long world I have evil to do Think!!!!!
Make the changes how? The secret service for example. Should I be making them up for
People who don’t get any? For one I wouldn’t have the time whilst doing it as it’s pretty constant. Maybe I see things on here a lot more lightly than others but it’s just fun! If people know they’re going to be upset by not getting any messages then maybe shouldn’t join. It’s not compulsory. This kinda makes me not want to do it if it’s upsetting people but on the other hand so many people love it and are often asking when the next one is. How do you suggest changes are made on it?
I agree with you Nora. I avoid certain games if I'm not feeling particularly secure in myself. You're just setting yourself up for dissapointment if you'll be upset if you don't get responses. If you're feeling a little needy or will be upset by getting no interaction then there's other games that involve everyone . "I never do the what do you think of the person threads. I never do face pic Friday. There’s loads I don’t do for different reasons. None of them are compulsory. We all find different things fun x | |||
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"The concept that there is a clique/popularity contest pains me, this isn’t high school, we are all grown adults with life’s and issues and what not we come here to escape, flirt and have fun…at least I do. I don’t think of myself as better than anyone nor do I strive to be something I’m not, lamppost pissing is brought up all to often when it could just be that someone has a closer bond/friendship/connection with someone and they tend to respond to each others posts, for the most part the forums consist of the same people, some of them have met and built a relationship with others. I think people try to de compartmentalise fab in that it can only be for sexual relations but it’s somewhere we all spend a lot of our time and have made genuine friendships just as we would in real life. Sometimes I think people need to chill out, so what if your skipped over in a fuck/Chuck/pint or whatever forum does that really define you? It happens to everyone at some point. To call someone an attention seeker on a site where we advertise our half naked bodies and in some cases intimate photos/videos is beyond me the site encourages sexual liberty and if you embrace that more power to you! The forum is real like real life crammed into 175 opinions - you choose whether you take notice of this or not, if it effects your negatively don’t partake - do your own thing, there room for all of us x I only tend to use the term attention seeker if it is obvious that the person has no interest in interacting or engaging in the spirit of a particular thread. When that is also linked to status update conversations between two or more forumites it becomes more obvious that they are saying one thing in the forums and mocking it elsewhere. " Honestly I totally get where you are coming from, it’s like they disappear as soon as the thread gets going or they want that validation. But one thing I just want to add is that when it’s your first time on the forums you kinda forget that you either posted something or replied to a comment | |||
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"The concept that there is a clique/popularity contest pains me, this isn’t high school, we are all grown adults with life’s and issues and what not we come here to escape, flirt and have fun…at least I do. I don’t think of myself as better than anyone nor do I strive to be something I’m not, lamppost pissing is brought up all to often when it could just be that someone has a closer bond/friendship/connection with someone and they tend to respond to each others posts, for the most part the forums consist of the same people, some of them have met and built a relationship with others. I think people try to de compartmentalise fab in that it can only be for sexual relations but it’s somewhere we all spend a lot of our time and have made genuine friendships just as we would in real life. Sometimes I think people need to chill out, so what if your skipped over in a fuck/Chuck/pint or whatever forum does that really define you? It happens to everyone at some point. To call someone an attention seeker on a site where we advertise our half naked bodies and in some cases intimate photos/videos is beyond me the site encourages sexual liberty and if you embrace that more power to you! The forum is real like real life crammed into 175 opinions - you choose whether you take notice of this or not, if it effects your negatively don’t partake - do your own thing, there room for all of us x I only tend to use the term attention seeker if it is obvious that the person has no interest in interacting or engaging in the spirit of a particular thread. When that is also linked to status update conversations between two or more forumites it becomes more obvious that they are saying one thing in the forums and mocking it elsewhere. Honestly I totally get where you are coming from, it’s like they disappear as soon as the thread gets going or they want that validation. But one thing I just want to add is that when it’s your first time on the forums you kinda forget that you either posted something or replied to a comment " Being a forummer is so complicated. This thread has me looking at threads in so many different ways ! | |||
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Rudeness, bashing other users because they don't agree rather than just trying to make a point turned into an argument. profile help advice we are all adults and should have some ideas how to make an expression"I can add to the “profile help” I feel like people already judge when someone writes something that is kinda true and when they want to improve their profile and ask for suggestions I feel like they get shat on because they are not up to the forums standards. Sorry if that doesn’t make any sense | |||
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I can add to the “profile help” I feel like people already judge when someone writes something that is kinda true and when they want to improve their profile and ask for suggestions I feel like they get shat on because they are not up to the forums standards. Sorry if that doesn’t make any sense "Agreed. I think the only thing really that I dislike is when it feels like a group within the thread are all having a go at one person, even if in theory they have a point. Maybe it is my general dislike of conflict that makes me want to defend whoever seem to be in trouble. | |||
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"Fun is purely subjective - one person's fun is anothers hell. Secret service is - some people have difficulty making the first move people say their in thinking they will be included but may not have the confidence to make the first contact. People are two wrapped up with them selves and their personal agendas and often do not see. It is the same in chat people sit their all the time and don't say anything I always used to try and draw then in. Make the changes else this is just another moaning thread that goes nowhere Closing the hermetically sealed door on my secret lair so long world I have evil to do Think!!!!!
Make the changes how? The secret service for example. Should I be making them up for
People who don’t get any? For one I wouldn’t have the time whilst doing it as it’s pretty constant. Maybe I see things on here a lot more lightly than others but it’s just fun! If people know they’re going to be upset by not getting any messages then maybe shouldn’t join. It’s not compulsory. This kinda makes me not want to do it if it’s upsetting people but on the other hand so many people love it and are often asking when the next one is. How do you suggest changes are made on it?"Make changes to the forum think I could really make a difference here and not just keep moaning about it, think - change the way people see it - make it better - how many times do we see the same threads started over and over again, it is the same people fawning over the same people. You will always get the moaners it's the nature of forums but people love to engage. People on this thread who have said what they dislike - make it better. There are those that will resist change because they like it how it is. Cliques, cheerleaders and jocks, high school mentality - change it !!!!!! If there things you don't like change them Overwise this is just another pointless thread moaning about the moaners. Gone | |||
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I can add to the “profile help” I feel like people already judge when someone writes something that is kinda true and when they want to improve their profile and ask for suggestions I feel like they get shat on because they are not up to the forums standards. Sorry if that doesn’t make any sense "Do you mean yourself?I remember your profile help thread and everyone was really helpful on it. | |||
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"Fun is purely subjective - one person's fun is anothers hell. Secret service is - some people have difficulty making the first move people say their in thinking they will be included but may not have the confidence to make the first contact. People are two wrapped up with them selves and their personal agendas and often do not see. It is the same in chat people sit their all the time and don't say anything I always used to try and draw then in. Make the changes else this is just another moaning thread that goes nowhere Closing the hermetically sealed door on my secret lair so long world I have evil to do Think!!!!!
Make the changes how? The secret service for example. Should I be making them up for
People who don’t get any? For one I wouldn’t have the time whilst doing it as it’s pretty constant. Maybe I see things on here a lot more lightly than others but it’s just fun! If people know they’re going to be upset by not getting any messages then maybe shouldn’t join. It’s not compulsory. This kinda makes me not want to do it if it’s upsetting people but on the other hand so many people love it and are often asking when the next one is. How do you suggest changes are made on it?
Make changes to the forum think I could really make a difference here and not just keep moaning about it, think - change the way people see it - make it better - how many times do we see the same threads started over and over again, it is the same people fawning over the same people. You will always get the moaners it's the nature of forums but people love to engage. People on this thread who have said what they dislike - make it better. There are those that will resist change because they like it how it is. Cliques, cheerleaders and jocks, high school mentality - change it !!!!!!
If there things you don't like change them
Overwise this is just another pointless thread moaning about the moaners.
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"Fun is purely subjective - one person's fun is anothers hell. Secret service is - some people have difficulty making the first move people say their in thinking they will be included but may not have the confidence to make the first contact. People are two wrapped up with them selves and their personal agendas and often do not see. It is the same in chat people sit their all the time and don't say anything I always used to try and draw then in. Make the changes else this is just another moaning thread that goes nowhere Closing the hermetically sealed door on my secret lair so long world I have evil to do Think!!!!!
Make the changes how? The secret service for example. Should I be making them up for
People who don’t get any? For one I wouldn’t have the time whilst doing it as it’s pretty constant. Maybe I see things on here a lot more lightly than others but it’s just fun! If people know they’re going to be upset by not getting any messages then maybe shouldn’t join. It’s not compulsory. This kinda makes me not want to do it if it’s upsetting people but on the other hand so many people love it and are often asking when the next one is. How do you suggest changes are made on it?
Make changes to the forum think I could really make a difference here and not just keep moaning about it, think - change the way people see it - make it better - how many times do we see the same threads started over and over again, it is the same people fawning over the same people. You will always get the moaners it's the nature of forums but people love to engage. People on this thread who have said what they dislike - make it better. There are those that will resist change because they like it how it is. Cliques, cheerleaders and jocks, high school mentality - change it !!!!!!
If there things you don't like change them
Overwise this is just another pointless thread moaning about the moaners.
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Rudeness, bashing other users because they don't agree rather than just trying to make a point turned into an argument. profile help advice we are all adults and should have some ideas how to make an expression
I can add to the “profile help” I feel like people already judge when someone writes something that is kinda true and when they want to improve their profile and ask for suggestions I feel like they get shat on because they are not up to the forums standards. Sorry if that doesn’t make any sense
Agreed.
I think the only thing really that I dislike is when it feels like a group within the thread are all having a go at one person, even if in theory they have a point.
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"I love the forums… it’s an escape from life. And meeting like minded People from within the forums as been really good fun. I’ve made friends with guys on here as well as ladies, we won’t all get along at times abd we won’t always fancy each other that’s life. I don’t think there’s a clique mentality I did before joining but since joining I can just see it’s friendships forged over time. I’m was lucky enough, confident enough to jump into the big watering hole that is fab. I made myself kniw by being friendly, maybe funny and enjoying chatting in a broad range of subjects including the games. If anything lately I’ve seen a new guy whos embraced the forums with aplomb… he has started weekly forum Challenges that’s bought people together from all over the forums. Dickasso as shown there’s no clique or popularity contest. You get out of fab what you put in. I’m not popular or fit or stunning. But I embrace it with fun " Amen to that!!!  x | |||
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I can add to the “profile help” I feel like people already judge when someone writes something that is kinda true and when they want to improve their profile and ask for suggestions I feel like they get shat on because they are not up to the forums standards. Sorry if that doesn’t make any sense
Agreed.
I think the only thing really that I dislike is when it feels like a group within the thread are all having a go at one person, even if in theory they have a point.
Maybe it is my general dislike of conflict that makes me want to defend whoever seem to be in trouble.
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"I just take the forums how I take anyone that I meet. The 'attention seekers' may have finally got to a point in life where they feel confident in their own skin. The 'moaning men' may be lonely and come here to find some form of company, the opinionated people may have spent a lifetime with people that didn't allow them to have a voice. Or it could be none of those things. Its important to remember that this site to many is an escape. "I like that x | |||
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"What are some pet peeves you dislike about the forums??" The blokes that comment on pretty much every single post about swingers clubs saying they are shit and "don't bother, lads" just because nobody wanted to fuck them when they went to the club
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"Fun is purely subjective - one person's fun is anothers hell. Secret service is - some people have difficulty making the first move people say their in thinking they will be included but may not have the confidence to make the first contact. People are two wrapped up with them selves and their personal agendas and often do not see. It is the same in chat people sit their all the time and don't say anything I always used to try and draw then in. Make the changes else this is just another moaning thread that goes nowhere Closing the hermetically sealed door on my secret lair so long world I have evil to do Think!!!!!
Make the changes how? The secret service for example. Should I be making them up for
People who don’t get any? For one I wouldn’t have the time whilst doing it as it’s pretty constant. Maybe I see things on here a lot more lightly than others but it’s just fun! If people know they’re going to be upset by not getting any messages then maybe shouldn’t join. It’s not compulsory. This kinda makes me not want to do it if it’s upsetting people but on the other hand so many people love it and are often asking when the next one is. How do you suggest changes are made on it?
Make changes to the forum think I could really make a difference here and not just keep moaning about it, think - change the way people see it - make it better - how many times do we see the same threads started over and over again, it is the same people fawning over the same people. You will always get the moaners it's the nature of forums but people love to engage. People on this thread who have said what they dislike - make it better. There are those that will resist change because they like it how it is. Cliques, cheerleaders and jocks, high school mentality - change it !!!!!!
If there things you don't like change them
Overwise this is just another pointless thread moaning about the moaners.
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"I just take the forums how I take anyone that I meet. The 'attention seekers' may have finally got to a point in life where they feel confident in their own skin. The 'moaning men' may be lonely and come here to find some form of company, the opinionated people may have spent a lifetime with people that didn't allow them to have a voice. Or it could be none of those things. Its important to remember that this site to many is an escape. "Exactly this, so well put and pretty much my point from earlier - everyone has a place here Great attitude xx | |||
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"I love the forums… it’s an escape from life. And meeting like minded People from within the forums as been really good fun. I’ve made friends with guys on here as well as ladies, we won’t all get along at times abd we won’t always fancy each other that’s life. I don’t think there’s a clique mentality I did before joining but since joining I can just see it’s friendships forged over time. I’m was lucky enough, confident enough to jump into the big watering hole that is fab. I made myself kniw by being friendly, maybe funny and enjoying chatting in a broad range of subjects including the games. If anything lately I’ve seen a new guy whos embraced the forums with aplomb… he has started weekly forum Challenges that’s bought people together from all over the forums. Dickasso as shown there’s no clique or popularity contest. You get out of fab what you put in. I’m not popular or fit or stunning. But I embrace it with fun " really well said | |||
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"I love the forums… it’s an escape from life. And meeting like minded People from within the forums as been really good fun. I’ve made friends with guys on here as well as ladies, we won’t all get along at times abd we won’t always fancy each other that’s life. I don’t think there’s a clique mentality I did before joining but since joining I can just see it’s friendships forged over time. I’m was lucky enough, confident enough to jump into the big watering hole that is fab. I made myself kniw by being friendly, maybe funny and enjoying chatting in a broad range of subjects including the games. If anything lately I’ve seen a new guy whos embraced the forums with aplomb… he has started weekly forum Challenges that’s bought people together from all over the forums. Dickasso as shown there’s no clique or popularity contest. You get out of fab what you put in. I’m not popular or fit or stunning. But I embrace it with fun WHo are you embracing tonight? Can I join the queue? "Lol my nearly 3 year old daughter who’s got chicken pox… she’s getting daddy hugs tonight xx Sorry ladies | |||
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"I love the forums… it’s an escape from life. And meeting like minded People from within the forums as been really good fun. I’ve made friends with guys on here as well as ladies, we won’t all get along at times abd we won’t always fancy each other that’s life. I don’t think there’s a clique mentality I did before joining but since joining I can just see it’s friendships forged over time. I’m was lucky enough, confident enough to jump into the big watering hole that is fab. I made myself kniw by being friendly, maybe funny and enjoying chatting in a broad range of subjects including the games. If anything lately I’ve seen a new guy whos embraced the forums with aplomb… he has started weekly forum Challenges that’s bought people together from all over the forums. Dickasso as shown there’s no clique or popularity contest. You get out of fab what you put in. I’m not popular or fit or stunning. But I embrace it with fun WHo are you embracing tonight? Can I join the queue?
Lol my nearly 3 year old daughter who’s got chicken pox… she’s getting daddy hugs tonight xx
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"I love the forums… it’s an escape from life. And meeting like minded People from within the forums as been really good fun. I’ve made friends with guys on here as well as ladies, we won’t all get along at times abd we won’t always fancy each other that’s life. I don’t think there’s a clique mentality I did before joining but since joining I can just see it’s friendships forged over time. I’m was lucky enough, confident enough to jump into the big watering hole that is fab. I made myself kniw by being friendly, maybe funny and enjoying chatting in a broad range of subjects including the games. If anything lately I’ve seen a new guy whos embraced the forums with aplomb… he has started weekly forum Challenges that’s bought people together from all over the forums. Dickasso as shown there’s no clique or popularity contest. You get out of fab what you put in. I’m not popular or fit or stunning. But I embrace it with fun WHo are you embracing tonight? Can I join the queue?
Lol my nearly 3 year old daughter who’s got chicken pox… she’s getting daddy hugs tonight xx
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"I love the forums… it’s an escape from life. And meeting like minded People from within the forums as been really good fun. I’ve made friends with guys on here as well as ladies, we won’t all get along at times abd we won’t always fancy each other that’s life. I don’t think there’s a clique mentality I did before joining but since joining I can just see it’s friendships forged over time. I’m was lucky enough, confident enough to jump into the big watering hole that is fab. I made myself kniw by being friendly, maybe funny and enjoying chatting in a broad range of subjects including the games. If anything lately I’ve seen a new guy whos embraced the forums with aplomb… he has started weekly forum Challenges that’s bought people together from all over the forums. Dickasso as shown there’s no clique or popularity contest. You get out of fab what you put in. I’m not popular or fit or stunning. But I embrace it with fun WHo are you embracing tonight? Can I join the queue?
Lol my nearly 3 year old daughter who’s got chicken pox… she’s getting daddy hugs tonight xx
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"I love the forums… it’s an escape from life. And meeting like minded People from within the forums as been really good fun. I’ve made friends with guys on here as well as ladies, we won’t all get along at times abd we won’t always fancy each other that’s life. I don’t think there’s a clique mentality I did before joining but since joining I can just see it’s friendships forged over time. I’m was lucky enough, confident enough to jump into the big watering hole that is fab. I made myself kniw by being friendly, maybe funny and enjoying chatting in a broad range of subjects including the games. If anything lately I’ve seen a new guy whos embraced the forums with aplomb… he has started weekly forum Challenges that’s bought people together from all over the forums. Dickasso as shown there’s no clique or popularity contest. You get out of fab what you put in. I’m not popular or fit or stunning. But I embrace it with fun WHo are you embracing tonight? Can I join the queue?
Lol my nearly 3 year old daughter who’s got chicken pox… she’s getting daddy hugs tonight xx
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"Sometimes the secret service threads or say something nice about someone or PM a question threads. While it can be a nice pick-me-up, I feel sorry for those who take part and don't anything in return only for a few people to get all the comments. I imagine it's quite disheartening. I think some people say they are in just for attention on those threads. I never get fabs or winks through any of those threads except from friends and if I ask a question on the ask in private ones the only replies I get are from friends. I did an experiment a couple of months ago and winked and fabbed every woman and couple in a thread. I didn't get a single wink or fab in return. " Not everyone looks at winks though | |||
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"I love the forums… it’s an escape from life. And meeting like minded People from within the forums as been really good fun. I’ve made friends with guys on here as well as ladies, we won’t all get along at times abd we won’t always fancy each other that’s life. I don’t think there’s a clique mentality I did before joining but since joining I can just see it’s friendships forged over time. I’m was lucky enough, confident enough to jump into the big watering hole that is fab. I made myself kniw by being friendly, maybe funny and enjoying chatting in a broad range of subjects including the games. If anything lately I’ve seen a new guy whos embraced the forums with aplomb… he has started weekly forum Challenges that’s bought people together from all over the forums. Dickasso as shown there’s no clique or popularity contest. You get out of fab what you put in. I’m not popular or fit or stunning. But I embrace it with fun WHo are you embracing tonight? Can I join the queue?
Lol my nearly 3 year old daughter who’s got chicken pox… she’s getting daddy hugs tonight xx
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"I love the forums… it’s an escape from life. And meeting like minded People from within the forums as been really good fun. I’ve made friends with guys on here as well as ladies, we won’t all get along at times abd we won’t always fancy each other that’s life. I don’t think there’s a clique mentality I did before joining but since joining I can just see it’s friendships forged over time. I’m was lucky enough, confident enough to jump into the big watering hole that is fab. I made myself kniw by being friendly, maybe funny and enjoying chatting in a broad range of subjects including the games. If anything lately I’ve seen a new guy whos embraced the forums with aplomb… he has started weekly forum Challenges that’s bought people together from all over the forums. Dickasso as shown there’s no clique or popularity contest. You get out of fab what you put in. I’m not popular or fit or stunning. But I embrace it with fun WHo are you embracing tonight? Can I join the queue?
Lol my nearly 3 year old daughter who’s got chicken pox… she’s getting daddy hugs tonight xx
Sorry ladies
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"Sometimes the secret service threads or say something nice about someone or PM a question threads. While it can be a nice pick-me-up, I feel sorry for those who take part and don't anything in return only for a few people to get all the comments. I imagine it's quite disheartening. I think some people say they are in just for attention on those threads. I never get fabs or winks through any of those threads except from friends and if I ask a question on the ask in private ones the only replies I get are from friends. I did an experiment a couple of months ago and winked and fabbed every woman and couple in a thread. I didn't get a single wink or fab in return. Not everyone looks at winks though " I never do. Never! Unless it’s the wink game thing and even then I forget. | |||
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"Sometimes the secret service threads or say something nice about someone or PM a question threads. While it can be a nice pick-me-up, I feel sorry for those who take part and don't anything in return only for a few people to get all the comments. I imagine it's quite disheartening. I think some people say they are in just for attention on those threads. I never get fabs or winks through any of those threads except from friends and if I ask a question on the ask in private ones the only replies I get are from friends. I did an experiment a couple of months ago and winked and fabbed every woman and couple in a thread. I didn't get a single wink or fab in return. Not everyone looks at winks though " I wink you every 30 days | |||
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"I love the forums… it’s an escape from life. And meeting like minded People from within the forums as been really good fun. I’ve made friends with guys on here as well as ladies, we won’t all get along at times abd we won’t always fancy each other that’s life. I don’t think there’s a clique mentality I did before joining but since joining I can just see it’s friendships forged over time. I’m was lucky enough, confident enough to jump into the big watering hole that is fab. I made myself kniw by being friendly, maybe funny and enjoying chatting in a broad range of subjects including the games. If anything lately I’ve seen a new guy whos embraced the forums with aplomb… he has started weekly forum Challenges that’s bought people together from all over the forums. Dickasso as shown there’s no clique or popularity contest. You get out of fab what you put in. I’m not popular or fit or stunning. But I embrace it with fun WHo are you embracing tonight? Can I join the queue?
Lol my nearly 3 year old daughter who’s got chicken pox… she’s getting daddy hugs tonight xx
Sorry ladies
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"Sometimes the secret service threads or say something nice about someone or PM a question threads. While it can be a nice pick-me-up, I feel sorry for those who take part and don't anything in return only for a few people to get all the comments. I imagine it's quite disheartening. I think some people say they are in just for attention on those threads. I never get fabs or winks through any of those threads except from friends and if I ask a question on the ask in private ones the only replies I get are from friends. I did an experiment a couple of months ago and winked and fabbed every woman and couple in a thread. I didn't get a single wink or fab in return. Not everyone looks at winks though " It was a winkathon thread. That was the point of it. I winked all the women and couples who said they were in. | |||
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"I love the forums… it’s an escape from life. And meeting like minded People from within the forums as been really good fun. I’ve made friends with guys on here as well as ladies, we won’t all get along at times abd we won’t always fancy each other that’s life. I don’t think there’s a clique mentality I did before joining but since joining I can just see it’s friendships forged over time. I’m was lucky enough, confident enough to jump into the big watering hole that is fab. I made myself kniw by being friendly, maybe funny and enjoying chatting in a broad range of subjects including the games. If anything lately I’ve seen a new guy whos embraced the forums with aplomb… he has started weekly forum Challenges that’s bought people together from all over the forums. Dickasso as shown there’s no clique or popularity contest. You get out of fab what you put in. I’m not popular or fit or stunning. But I embrace it with fun really well said "Thank you xx | |||
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"I love the forums… it’s an escape from life. And meeting like minded People from within the forums as been really good fun. I’ve made friends with guys on here as well as ladies, we won’t all get along at times abd we won’t always fancy each other that’s life. I don’t think there’s a clique mentality I did before joining but since joining I can just see it’s friendships forged over time. I’m was lucky enough, confident enough to jump into the big watering hole that is fab. I made myself kniw by being friendly, maybe funny and enjoying chatting in a broad range of subjects including the games. If anything lately I’ve seen a new guy whos embraced the forums with aplomb… he has started weekly forum Challenges that’s bought people together from all over the forums. Dickasso as shown there’s no clique or popularity contest. You get out of fab what you put in. I’m not popular or fit or stunning. But I embrace it with fun WHo are you embracing tonight? Can I join the queue?
Lol my nearly 3 year old daughter who’s got chicken pox… she’s getting daddy hugs tonight xx
Sorry ladies
Aw big hugs to the little lady Tom x
Aww thank you xx she’s a pirate princess captain this week.
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"I love the forums… it’s an escape from life. And meeting like minded People from within the forums as been really good fun. I’ve made friends with guys on here as well as ladies, we won’t all get along at times abd we won’t always fancy each other that’s life. I don’t think there’s a clique mentality I did before joining but since joining I can just see it’s friendships forged over time. I’m was lucky enough, confident enough to jump into the big watering hole that is fab. I made myself kniw by being friendly, maybe funny and enjoying chatting in a broad range of subjects including the games. If anything lately I’ve seen a new guy whos embraced the forums with aplomb… he has started weekly forum Challenges that’s bought people together from all over the forums. Dickasso as shown there’s no clique or popularity contest. You get out of fab what you put in. I’m not popular or fit or stunning. But I embrace it with fun WHo are you embracing tonight? Can I join the queue?
Lol my nearly 3 year old daughter who’s got chicken pox… she’s getting daddy hugs tonight xx
Sorry ladies Get well soon mini Tomina.
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"Sometimes the secret service threads or say something nice about someone or PM a question threads. While it can be a nice pick-me-up, I feel sorry for those who take part and don't anything in return only for a few people to get all the comments. I imagine it's quite disheartening. I think some people say they are in just for attention on those threads. I never get fabs or winks through any of those threads except from friends and if I ask a question on the ask in private ones the only replies I get are from friends. I did an experiment a couple of months ago and winked and fabbed every woman and couple in a thread. I didn't get a single wink or fab in return. Not everyone looks at winks though It was a winkathon thread. That was the point of it. I winked all the women and couples who said they were in. " I wink /fab everybody when I join in | |||
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"I love the forums… it’s an escape from life. And meeting like minded People from within the forums as been really good fun. I’ve made friends with guys on here as well as ladies, we won’t all get along at times abd we won’t always fancy each other that’s life. I don’t think there’s a clique mentality I did before joining but since joining I can just see it’s friendships forged over time. I’m was lucky enough, confident enough to jump into the big watering hole that is fab. I made myself kniw by being friendly, maybe funny and enjoying chatting in a broad range of subjects including the games. If anything lately I’ve seen a new guy whos embraced the forums with aplomb… he has started weekly forum Challenges that’s bought people together from all over the forums. Dickasso as shown there’s no clique or popularity contest. You get out of fab what you put in. I’m not popular or fit or stunning. But I embrace it with fun WHo are you embracing tonight? Can I join the queue?
Lol my nearly 3 year old daughter who’s got chicken pox… she’s getting daddy hugs tonight xx
Sorry ladies Get well soon mini Tomina.
Aww thank you, shes ok now tucked up now and sleeping.
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"I love the forums… it’s an escape from life. And meeting like minded People from within the forums as been really good fun. I’ve made friends with guys on here as well as ladies, we won’t all get along at times abd we won’t always fancy each other that’s life. I don’t think there’s a clique mentality I did before joining but since joining I can just see it’s friendships forged over time. I’m was lucky enough, confident enough to jump into the big watering hole that is fab. I made myself kniw by being friendly, maybe funny and enjoying chatting in a broad range of subjects including the games. If anything lately I’ve seen a new guy whos embraced the forums with aplomb… he has started weekly forum Challenges that’s bought people together from all over the forums. Dickasso as shown there’s no clique or popularity contest. You get out of fab what you put in. I’m not popular or fit or stunning. But I embrace it with fun WHo are you embracing tonight? Can I join the queue?
Lol my nearly 3 year old daughter who’s got chicken pox… she’s getting daddy hugs tonight xx
Sorry ladies Get well soon mini Tomina.
Aww thank you, shes ok now tucked up now and sleeping.
I hope your little one feels better soon and there aren’t too many itchy spots
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"I love the forums… it’s an escape from life. And meeting like minded People from within the forums as been really good fun. I’ve made friends with guys on here as well as ladies, we won’t all get along at times abd we won’t always fancy each other that’s life. I don’t think there’s a clique mentality I did before joining but since joining I can just see it’s friendships forged over time. I’m was lucky enough, confident enough to jump into the big watering hole that is fab. I made myself kniw by being friendly, maybe funny and enjoying chatting in a broad range of subjects including the games. If anything lately I’ve seen a new guy whos embraced the forums with aplomb… he has started weekly forum Challenges that’s bought people together from all over the forums. Dickasso as shown there’s no clique or popularity contest. You get out of fab what you put in. I’m not popular or fit or stunning. But I embrace it with fun WHo are you embracing tonight? Can I join the queue?
Lol my nearly 3 year old daughter who’s got chicken pox… she’s getting daddy hugs tonight xx
Sorry ladies Get well soon mini Tomina.
Aww thank you, shes ok now tucked up now and sleeping.
I hope your little one feels better soon and there aren’t too many itchy spots
Thank you I’ve been recommended by a friend of a bath in soaked oats
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"Sometimes the secret service threads or say something nice about someone or PM a question threads. While it can be a nice pick-me-up, I feel sorry for those who take part and don't anything in return only for a few people to get all the comments. I imagine it's quite disheartening. I think some people say they are in just for attention on those threads. I never get fabs or winks through any of those threads except from friends and if I ask a question on the ask in private ones the only replies I get are from friends. I did an experiment a couple of months ago and winked and fabbed every woman and couple in a thread. I didn't get a single wink or fab in return. Not everyone looks at winks though I wink you every 30 days "Yeah but that's in person | |||
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"Sometimes the secret service threads or say something nice about someone or PM a question threads. While it can be a nice pick-me-up, I feel sorry for those who take part and don't anything in return only for a few people to get all the comments. I imagine it's quite disheartening. I think some people say they are in just for attention on those threads. I never get fabs or winks through any of those threads except from friends and if I ask a question on the ask in private ones the only replies I get are from friends. I did an experiment a couple of months ago and winked and fabbed every woman and couple in a thread. I didn't get a single wink or fab in return. Not everyone looks at winks though I wink you every 30 days
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"Spelllling and grammer" You have to consider that not everyone has the same ability with spelling and grammar. Everyone does their best, you just have to scroll past those and not be tempted to correct them | |||
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"How few people can converse - I cannot understand how the basic art of conversation seems lost on people. It’s like pulling teeth!
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"The uninclusive threads where people are falling over themselves to fawn over particular people whilst other people are completely ignored even when they're commenting. And they become the *insert forum members name* show. "This haha. It's so cringe worthy and sad. I thought nobody would say it. Good on you hun | |||
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