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What do you guys think of hidden profiles??

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By *ustfortheforums OP   Woman
over a year ago

no

What are your opinions about hidden profiles

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ignore

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thinking that they must just be here to start 464 threads a day.

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By *onb21Woman
over a year ago

Cardiff

To me they mean that person wants to be left alone.

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Fine, maybe just want a bit of peace.

If they messaged me, I'd ignore though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think they are working for Sydney University and working on a Channel 4 documentary about swingers and they are also 100% fake swingers who probably also work for the CIA on a Friday afternoon part time with the odd Sunday depending on how busy they are but please believe me your tits and dicks are not safe on here

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

Taking a break, so leave them be

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By *igmaMan
over a year ago

Yorkshire

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Their right to do so. I just move on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If the avatars blank too, I’m guessing they don’t wish to engage with anyone, sure I wonder what they’re doing here and what mysterious things that lie behind their profile, but it doesn’t make me feel slightly ill at ease.

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By *ustfortheforums OP   Woman
over a year ago

no


"Fine, maybe just want a bit of peace.

If they messaged me, I'd ignore though. "

Fair enough I understand that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ignore, they have their reason to do so

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By *ustfortheforums OP   Woman
over a year ago

no


"I think they are working for Sydney University and working on a Channel 4 documentary about swingers and they are also 100% fake swingers who probably also work for the CIA on a Friday afternoon part time with the odd Sunday depending on how busy they are but please believe me your tits and dicks are not safe on here"

Hahaha and I think you may of blown my cover. (Joking joking)

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By *ubal1Man
over a year ago

Newry Down

Somewhat inconsistent and fallacious; why join a public forum and then remain hidden.

I just ignore them, as I also do to blockers.

There are lots of other interesting, mature and adventurous singles and couples with whom to play.

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By *arlomaleMan
over a year ago

darlington

It’s their choice like me I’m hidden as I’ve no intentions of meeting I’m just here for a peep on the forums and the hot pics

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By *ensuallover1000Man
over a year ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

Likely CIA operatives. Probably out to get me….

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By *ustfortheforums OP   Woman
over a year ago

no


"Thinking that they must just be here to start 464 threads a day."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's fine. Some people just don't want to return to be greeted with 900 dick pics with the title "hey". (Never sent a single one so I'm excluded from those)!

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By *ustfortheforums OP   Woman
over a year ago

no


"Somewhat inconsistent and fallacious; why join a public forum and then remain hidden.

I just ignore them, as I also do to blockers.

There are lots of other interesting, mature and adventurous singles and couples with whom to play.

"

True

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By *ustfortheforums OP   Woman
over a year ago

no


"It's fine. Some people just don't want to return to be greeted with 900 dick pics with the title "hey". (Never sent a single one so I'm excluded from those)!"

Are you sure???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They have their reasons, so as long as they don't wink or message me, I can't see any problem.

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By *tue555Man
over a year ago

Passed Beyond Reach

Personally I think people with hidden profiles are fake totally fake

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By *ustfortheforums OP   Woman
over a year ago

no


"Personally I think people with hidden profiles are fake totally fake "

Understandable

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd ignore them if they messaged wanting to meet. I don't like not being able to see their profile.

If I came across one though, I would assume they want to be left alone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Personally I think people with hidden profiles are fake totally fake "

I've hidden mine before, just to give myself a break from new messages

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's fine. Some people just don't want to return to be greeted with 900 dick pics with the title "hey". (Never sent a single one so I'm excluded from those)!

Are you sure??? "

I'm 100% sure!

What's the reason your profile is hidden? You're starting a lot of threads with a lot of questions yet we know nothing of the person asking.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends if they are active in forums I’m quite intrigued, if it’s random I don’t interact

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That they work for Sydney University

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By *ustfortheforums OP   Woman
over a year ago

no


"It's fine. Some people just don't want to return to be greeted with 900 dick pics with the title "hey". (Never sent a single one so I'm excluded from those)!

Are you sure???

I'm 100% sure!

What's the reason your profile is hidden? You're starting a lot of threads with a lot of questions yet we know nothing of the person asking. "

Well it’s mainly because I wanted a fresh start on a new profile so this one is hidden for life,

I only use it for the forums,

Ps the mods said I could

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

Normally means my son is visiting. I don't know if he's on here or not and I don't wanna show up on who's near if he is on the site.

I don't even attempt to second guess people's reasons, as they're valid to them at that time

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe


"What are your opinions about hidden profiles "

I just assume that they're not wanting to meet.

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By *JB1954Man
over a year ago

Reading

If they have messaged. Go to check and find hidden. I wonder why bothered messaging me. A bit one sided.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Normally means my son is visiting. I don't know if he's on here or not and I don't wanna show up on who's near if he is on the site.

I don't even attempt to second guess people's reasons, as they're valid to them at that time

"

That's a pretty valid reason! Has me wondering if there's any reason you think he'd be here.

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By *ustfortheforums OP   Woman
over a year ago

no


"Normally means my son is visiting. I don't know if he's on here or not and I don't wanna show up on who's near if he is on the site.

I don't even attempt to second guess people's reasons, as they're valid to them at that time

That's a pretty valid reason! Has me wondering if there's any reason you think he'd be here. "

Because he’s young and wants fun like everyone else :p

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


"Normally means my son is visiting. I don't know if he's on here or not and I don't wanna show up on who's near if he is on the site.

I don't even attempt to second guess people's reasons, as they're valid to them at that time

That's a pretty valid reason! Has me wondering if there's any reason you think he'd be here. "

He's a 20 year old male. What more reason would he need?

Do I think he's here? Nah. But ya just never know, there's been an abundance of "youngsters" join whether it's to get laid or simple curiosity. Word of mouth, random search and up fab pops, generally interested in the lifestyle?... so many reasons someone may join and not all of them obvious.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think anything of it.

Mine is hidden because I am not meeting and only here for the forums.

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By *eah BabyCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire, Windermere ,Cumbria

We have hidden our profile in the past when taking a break, have no view on others doing so other than those that message from a hidden profile that we haven’t chatted to before, that’s odd, why send a message when we can’t see who they are

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

I think it is a bit odd to try and interact with someone on a one to one basis from a hidden profile, but it doesn't make a difference to me.

I hide mine when I'm having a crappy time. Or when I'm annoyed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My wank fodder of choice

Gives the imagination a full work out

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

Personally I think that they’re second ‘decoy’ profiles used as a way to get around blocks and filters

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don’t think anything of it , lots of different reasons for hiding your profile . We do find it strange though if someone tries to talk to us with a hidden profile , we never engage in that situation

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By *voryforebonyMan
over a year ago

boogie town


"What are your opinions about hidden profiles "

Couldn't comment... They are hidden!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I literally have no opinion on them. I wouldn't interact with someone I didn't know that had a hidden profile. There's no point and plenty of profiles not hidden.

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

If it was someone I knew who was just taking a break from being visible then ofcourse I would chat to them, I wouldn’t interact with a hidden profile otherwise

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

Ignore can't see any information or photos so not going to interact with a hidden profile.

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By *ustfortheforums OP   Woman
over a year ago

no

Thanks guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks guys "

You’re welcome.

Look forward to your next thread in a few minutes.

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By *DW1983Man
over a year ago

Aberdeen, Leeds, Sheffield

Makes little difference to me, if they want to hide or interact that's up to them. Does seem a bit disingenious to hide a profile but have the location set to messagemetofindout though.

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle


"Thanks guys

You’re welcome.

Look forward to your next thread in a few minutes. "

Already in it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks guys

You’re welcome.

Look forward to your next thread in a few minutes.

Already in it "

I can’t keep up!

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By *rMojoRisinMan
over a year ago

Sheffield


"Thanks guys

You’re welcome.

Look forward to your next thread in a few minutes.

Already in it "

Can you drop a flare or something, to show me the way, I can’t keep up. It’s my age you know.

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle


"Thanks guys

You’re welcome.

Look forward to your next thread in a few minutes.

Already in it

Can you drop a flare or something, to show me the way, I can’t keep up. It’s my age you know. "

It’s thatta way

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By *inAndTonic21Couple
over a year ago

Merseyside

Ignored here too

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

I don’t really have any thoughts. I hide mine loads. If I’m busy, reading messages, don’t want any messages, away for a while, can’t be arsed chatting. All sorts of reasons

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By *ustfortheforums OP   Woman
over a year ago

no


"Thanks guys

You’re welcome.

Look forward to your next thread in a few minutes. "

I’m bored leave me alone

Joking joking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it’s a Welsh thing

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By *rMojoRisinMan
over a year ago

Sheffield

My opinion on hidden profiles is long and complex, like a fine wine, a Malbec say. Fruity, funny, deep and glossy. It’s like drinking the nectar of the gods while my tastebuds are transported to the outer reaches of nirvana.

Does that help?

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By *ecadent_DevonMan
over a year ago

Okehampton

If I hide my profile I don’t interact with people on the site. Either through the forums or messaging. Whilst there are a thousand reasons to hide a profile the main reason is to not interact.

Therefore I do not interact with hidden profiles. Except of course this thread because exception always proves the rule.

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