FabSwingers.com forum: Do winks grab your attention?

By *riendlyFella OP Man
over a year ago

Hertfordshire

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

Some do. I've had some good meets off the back of a cheeky wink, but it's generally someone I've been aware and noticed in the forums first

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By *oingMan
over a year ago

Co. Antrim

Yep

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

London sometimes

Yes, winks are like swiping right. And it’s great when you get a match

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By *appytrailmanMan
over a year ago

Manchester

They certainly do for me...on the very rare occasion I get one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I see them I was always look who has winked. Then depending on who is it either ignore, wink back to see if they start the conversation, or send a message

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

Yes, I’ll look and if I think we would possibly meet in the future I would send a message thanking them for the wink.

I have met some people originally from a wink, it’s better than just ‘hi’ or ‘fancy a fuk’ messages I get.

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By *nliveneTV/TS
over a year ago

Selby

O never msg or wink , in other words i don't like to disturb people, but all my meetings have started by winks that i have received

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Bedford

I know some people are nervous to start a conversation so they are an easier way for a shy person to make the first move.

Or a bit of thread fun.

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

No...I forget to even check them.

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Bedford

"No...I forget to even check them."

Testing, testing, 1, 2, 3.....

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By *dquestCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough

They work for us.

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By *ed VoluptaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral.

I guess I'm doing this all wrong, as I never pay attention to winks!!

I've only done so now on the back of a wink thread...

Thank you boys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It would if I ever got one

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

Only since I posted on the wink thread

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

No. I never look.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like a wink… I sometimes forget to check xx but I do like to see them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope, I never look

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

London sometimes

It seems Winks are a great way for a woman to get a man’s attention. But not so good the other way around.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

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By *uliette500Woman
over a year ago

Hull

No I never pay any attention to them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like a cheeky wink

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They can do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m in for a wink it’s like a cheeky I like what I see

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By *riendlyFella OP Man
over a year ago

Hertfordshire

Thank you all. I do love a wink, but nothing has come from one… yet. Maybe I’m winking at the wrong people

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By *riendlyFella OP Man
over a year ago

Hertfordshire

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By *tue555Man
over a year ago

Another Time

Nope they are deleted - think winks are lazy

We had on our profile "Send a message rather than a wink" - Top line

Guess what?

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

"No...I forget to even check them.

Testing, testing, 1, 2, 3....."

I always check you out, Chunky

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By *rMojoRisinMan
over a year ago

nottingham

"I like a cheeky wink "

I’d love to watch you have a cheeky, oh, wink, sorry my mind was in the gutter!

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Bedford

"No...I forget to even check them.

Testing, testing, 1, 2, 3.....

I always check you out, Chunky

Smooth talker.

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

"No...I forget to even check them.

Testing, testing, 1, 2, 3.....

I always check you out, Chunky

Smooth talker.

I learnt from the master

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like winks.

If I'm interested then I'll wink back

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By *andsCouple
over a year ago

Edin

I’ve had a few great meets on the back of a wink x

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

I tend not to look at mine, although I have been known to send one on the odd occasion.

I do look now n then though and there's been times when a profile I've liked the look of winked me weeks or even months ago so I've just left it coz I've thought they'll have likely moved on by now or think I'm ignorant for not responding sooner

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We don't always look, but when we do, if a profile grabs our eye, we'll wink back and leave it to them to make the next move.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never think to check them

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By *rad670Man
over a year ago

South Lakes

It's a great way to see if someone is interested before spilling your heart out on a wasted lengthy message.

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By *elilah999Woman
over a year ago

Malton

Yep. But if the profile is crap then I'm out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes. Always have a look and a read before making any rash decisions

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Bedford

"I never think to check them

Damn.

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By *asual777Man
over a year ago

i travel all over

They’re proving a very useful ice breaker this week I must say

I might go on a massive winking session once or twice a week

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By *irmingham_Sissy_MaidTV/TS
over a year ago

sutton Coldfield

Occasionally depending on what’s on the profile. If there’s no info on the profile then I ignore it.

My annoyance is when someone wi am so I message them and they ignore or delete it. I mean wtf, all I generally say is hi, like to chat!

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Tonbridge

I wouldn't say the grab our attention, but we do look at them as we're interested in who has taken an interest in us. We have sent messages off the back of winks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah, I’ll always reply to a wink

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hardly ever look tbh.. Maybe I should from time to time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No.

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By *ockosaurusMan
over a year ago

Warwick

Yes.

If I get one, I'll have a quick look at their profile. It's a nice simple way of people saying they are interested without the need for writing that initial, slightly daunting first message.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I very rarely check or use them.

Having said that, I did meet my first meet via winking him.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i think they would work if woman wink at guys or couples but i would say if guys are of average size and shape and wink at woman or couples i think they would not work at all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, I never look at them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve never had one so I don’t know

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By *s Verity VeneryWoman
over a year ago

Bliss

Yes I use them all the time when I'm looking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like a wink just shows people are interested in me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’ve never had one so I don’t know

Fibber

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some do. I've had some good meets off the back of a cheeky wink, but it's generally someone I've been aware and noticed in the forums first

As above, they’re a good way of showing interest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s a quick indicator

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By *vriderMan
over a year ago

Chester

I wank all the time.

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By *vriderMan
over a year ago

Chester

Shit. Wink.... Oh.....

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

To be honest I forget to look at the winks these days.

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By *lldaybreakfastMan
over a year ago

leeds

Winks get your attention

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never look x

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By *ancer36Woman
over a year ago

Stirling

Rarely look at them x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing comes from wink

Nothing comes from a message

One takes 0.5 secs to do

The other takes 5 minutes to type out a well thought message

Tried both...I know what I'd rather persist with and spend my time on other things

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tend to thank the person who sends it, I know that's not always possible, however sometimes it works in your favour.

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

I hardly look at my winks. Keep forgetting it's there

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By *mily36CWoman
over a year ago

Bedford (or anywhere beginning with B..!?)

It's a no to winks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes they do, because they are so rare.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never been winked at

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well they have worked the do for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I remember to look !

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

Occasionally they can

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By *ookie46Woman
over a year ago

Deepest darkest Peru

They have done in the past

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By *igmaMan
over a year ago

Yorkshire

Sometimes I wink back

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By *ont you just loveCouple
over a year ago

Banbury

We wink guys that look interesting then they can either wink back or message, otherwise they can't contact us because we have single guys blocked.

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By *eaponOfAssDestructionMan
over a year ago

Leeds

I always wink back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, had some good meets from a wink x

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By *ovingeachotherCouple
over a year ago

Devizes

Yes they certainly do for us x

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No...I forget to even check them."
snap and end up mass deleting them

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm trialing winking over messaging to see if it makes any difference

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By *his_Kitty_ScratchesWoman
over a year ago

WSM

I rarely check my winks, I assume it’s just appreciation for my pics/profile, which is nice! if they wanted to chat/meet then they would send a message. I prefer confident men that aren’t shy to say hi than someone who uses a wink to gain attention

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes if people send me a wink I’ll have a look at their page and if I like them I’ll either wink back or message

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