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Why some people only want to meet “now”

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By *ingdang OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

Manchester

I was chatting to people and sometimes I get asked “are you free now”? After I replied no, they stop chatting and do not what to arrange a meet in the future.

Why is this happening? For sure if you like someone, you would want to find a time to meet them?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They want to spunk up and they want it now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some view meets as like a posh wank

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By *ecadent_DevonMan
over a year ago

Okehampton

Some people are here to get their rocks off. Some are here for friendship. Some are here for a combination of those things. Some are here for lovers, some for fuckers, some for chatters, some for admiration, some for felicitation.

You see some do and some don’t, some will and some won’t, some may be and others may not and it’s up to you (and them) where to cast your lot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Multiple reasons

1 they have a wife wife’s out it’s they only free time

2 they want they hole and that’s all you are to them a shag they not interested in anything other than diping you they and then if your not up for it on to the next

3 they selfish and don’t realise people have a life or it takes us time to get ready and look glamorous

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By *eatrice BadinageWoman
over a year ago

In a Sparkly Dress

Because they fancy a quick fuck now is all...

People are on here for many many different reasons

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

I do get those messages. One guy has been messaging me for 18 months, every time he gets horny he sees that I'm local and wants to meet right then. When I say I'm never free for immediate meets he wanders off until the next time he's looking for a convenient hole.

It's not for me but I guess it takes all sorts.

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By *onb21Woman
over a year ago

Cardiff

I've been wondering this, too.

On the other hand, someone who is that unfussed about who they're meeting that they don't want to know more about me first, is probably never going to be attractive to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some view meets as like a posh wank "

That made me giggle LOL

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By *aturegentdurhamMan
over a year ago

Stanley

I have had messages at early hours of morning or just as i am going to work " are you free now".

When i say A. i am not meeting and B. i am going to work even if i was meeting i can't meet if going to work.

Some are ok but some get stroppy saying why am i on the site if i can't or won't meet at any time.

That is when the block button comes in handy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was chatting to people and sometimes I get asked “are you free now”? After I replied no, they stop chatting and do not what to arrange a meet in the future.

Why is this happening? For sure if you like someone, you would want to find a time to meet them?"

I've done the "meet now" thing before because I was free and could accommodate at that time. I've had people on here "chatting" for ages and when it was meet time they made excuses or disappeared. I like quick nsa meets. If we click then we start a fb situation going. No great mystery.

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By *ecadent_DevonMan
over a year ago

Okehampton

What is so wrong with “meet now”. Someone feels horny, they message some else that is horny. The horn will be resolved.

It’s a little bit better than “can you be horny next Tuesday between 7pm-9pm. Cheers”

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Happens a lot with me, the people asking seem to take it as rejection I think. Usually locals that ask me and when you tell them you can’t and even tell them you’d like to meet another time, I’ve either had abuse, called a time waster or blocked…

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find this happens if I log in late at night or past midnight.

Then I feel they are high or d*unk so it's not right to take it further

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because Viagra has a time limit

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham


"They want to spunk up and they want it now"

so true

They are on the final stroke and so will probably cum even before they can meet now , and then not bother turning up!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What is so wrong with “meet now”. Someone feels horny, they message some else that is horny. The horn will be resolved.

It’s a little bit better than “can you be horny next Tuesday between 7pm-9pm. Cheers” "

Nothing wrong with them if that’s what people are looking for but the site has a flag Implmeted for that you can even search for people who want to meet now if I am not flying the meet now flag assume I am not free

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

It's because that is what they want from fab. Everyone has their own reasons for being here . Just because it doesn't make sense to you or is what you are looking for doesn't make it wrong for them .

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

I want a meet in about an hour

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By *nliveneTV/TS
over a year ago

Selby

I want to meet now!!!!

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By *iving Bi a TryMan
over a year ago

Alicante, Spain. (Sometimes in Wales)

Horses for courses!

Gbat

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By *issAphroditeWoman
over a year ago

Norwich

I pit no spontaneous meets on my profile but still get lots of meet now messages.

I think all the reasons why have been covered but essentially, people use the site in different ways and not all are considerate enough to read profiles before messaging, to see if you're likely to be compatible.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most common reason I suspect is cos they've only just got some time away from wife.

There's no need to be offended if you get these messages in the same way they shouldn't be offended by a no, a no reply or a delete without reading.

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend


"Most common reason I suspect is cos they've only just got some time away from wife.

There's no need to be offended if you get these messages in the same way they shouldn't be offended by a no, a no reply or a delete without reading."

Timing is everythi

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

King's Crustacean


"I was chatting to people and sometimes I get asked “are you free now”? After I replied no, they stop chatting and do not what to arrange a meet in the future.

Why is this happening? For sure if you like someone, you would want to find a time to meet them?"

People log on for a shag, when their balls are bursting, if you aren't available then someone else is and when their balls are empty , they won't remember asking you.

People have varying needs. I hope you find what you want but I also hope they find what they want.

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend


"I want a meet in about an hour "

Hmmm ...so that hour's up now...how about during the next ninety minutes?

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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago

somewhere, someplace


"Because Viagra has a time limit "

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

King's Crustacean

If I responded to a 'meet NOW' message they'd get an older woman with no make up on ... scruffy out of bed hair... unbrushed teeth and unwashed body after an hours work out and in tatty t shirt and tracky bottoms no footwear.

Who sits around dressed up and waiting for a 'shag now' message?

Maybe I should do dishes in heels.

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

They just want a quick shag,

Especially when they send messages at 11pm and expect an invite over.

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By *andsome HandMan
over a year ago

roundabout

Because that's their jam

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By *ecadent_DevonMan
over a year ago

Okehampton


"If I responded to a 'meet NOW' message they'd get an older woman with no make up on ... scruffy out of bed hair... unbrushed teeth and unwashed body after an hours work out and in tatty t shirt and tracky bottoms no footwear.

Who sits around dressed up and waiting for a 'shag now' message?"

I do Granny. I do.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

King's Crustacean


"If I responded to a 'meet NOW' message they'd get an older woman with no make up on ... scruffy out of bed hair... unbrushed teeth and unwashed body after an hours work out and in tatty t shirt and tracky bottoms no footwear.

Who sits around dressed up and waiting for a 'shag now' message?

I do Granny. I do. "

Okay........ giz a shag.

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire


"If I responded to a 'meet NOW' message they'd get an older woman with no make up on ... scruffy out of bed hair... unbrushed teeth and unwashed body after an hours work out and in tatty t shirt and tracky bottoms no footwear.

Who sits around dressed up and waiting for a 'shag now' message?

Maybe I should do dishes in heels."

Similar to this

I currently have a beard, hairy legs and chest I look nothing like my pictures.

Also I work weird hours so I finish at 2am so I may browse the forums at that time before I go to sleep.

But I’m almost guaranteed to get at least two messages asking if I’m meeting, at 2am honestly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They want to spunk up and they want it now"

Pretty much this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If I responded to a 'meet NOW' message they'd get an older woman with no make up on ... scruffy out of bed hair... unbrushed teeth and unwashed body after an hours work out and in tatty t shirt and tracky bottoms no footwear.

Who sits around dressed up and waiting for a 'shag now' message?

Maybe I should do dishes in heels."

WORDDD.

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By *issVanillaWoman
over a year ago

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"I find this happens if I log in late at night or past midnight.

Then I feel they are high or d*unk so it's not right to take it further"

This..who meets at 3am?! I'm usually half asleep & just woke up for a wee/drink!

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By *ecadent_DevonMan
over a year ago

Okehampton


"If I responded to a 'meet NOW' message they'd get an older woman with no make up on ... scruffy out of bed hair... unbrushed teeth and unwashed body after an hours work out and in tatty t shirt and tracky bottoms no footwear.

Who sits around dressed up and waiting for a 'shag now' message?

I do Granny. I do.

Okay........ giz a shag."

Why? What are you going to do with a sea bird?

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