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Was thinking of trying a club (will be my first time on my own), but I've not decided where yet.
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"So, it's a bank holiday weekend coming up and I've failed to make any plans
Was thinking of trying a club (will be my first time on my own), but I've not decided where yet.
Let's hear what you are up to, and see if you have any good suggestions? "Hi op!
Well - unless a hottie offers to whisk me off on a date - on Friday I’ll go to either Cupid’s or Club Play - my 2 favourite clubs - on Saturday I’m working at Cupid’s (which is knackering but a lot of fun) - and on Sunday I’m off to see the Dream Boys in Liverpool with a couple of fab fem friends. Lots to look forward to! | |||
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"Off to a club, just trying to decide if I get a hotel or not. If not, it’ll be the first time I’ll drive somewhere dressed up "Hope it goes well my lovely.  | |||
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"We'll be in Skegness all weekend, camping and performing at the medieval event." Medieval event? That sounds fun. | |||
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"Off to a club, just trying to decide if I get a hotel or not. If not, it’ll be the first time I’ll drive somewhere dressed up
Hope it goes well my lovely. "Thanks
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"So, it's a bank holiday weekend coming up and I've failed to make any plans
Was thinking of trying a club (will be my first time on my own), but I've not decided where yet.
Let's hear what you are up to, and see if you have any good suggestions?
Hi op!
Well - unless a hottie offers to whisk me off on a date - on Friday I’ll go to either Cupid’s or Club Play - my 2 favourite clubs - on Saturday I’m working at Cupid’s (which is knackering but a lot of fun) - and on Sunday I’m off to see the Dream Boys in Liverpool with a couple of fab fem friends. Lots to look forward to! "Busy weekend for you then. I've never been to Cupids, but I really liked Club Play. | |||
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"We are off to visit my sub for a few days to introduce her to the concept and fun of pervertables!" I just had to look that up.
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"We'll be in Skegness all weekend, camping and performing at the medieval event. Medieval event? That sounds fun. " It certainly should be, we'll be camping on the "village green" at a farming & Victorian life museum, worth our medieval tents, weapons armour etc. | |||
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"We'll be in Skegness all weekend, camping and performing at the medieval event. Medieval event? That sounds fun. It certainly should be, we'll be camping on the "village green" at a farming & Victorian life museum, worth our medieval tents, weapons armour etc." Excellent. Sounds like you have a lot of medieval equipment. That's pretty cool. | |||
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"I'm off on Friday, too. Currently no plans. Let's join up OP & have a riot "Friday is the one day I'm not off. I have a family birthday. | |||
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"Getting my hair done then heading to my friends holiday home in St. Andrews for the weekend, spa treatments, cocktails and a day at the beach xx"Ooh, that sounds blissful. I’m well jell! | |||
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"Getting my hair done then heading to my friends holiday home in St. Andrews for the weekend, spa treatments, cocktails and a day at the beach xx"Wow! That sounds amazing. Can I come? | |||
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"So, it's a bank holiday weekend coming up and I've failed to make any plans
Was thinking of trying a club (will be my first time on my own), but I've not decided where yet.
Let's hear what you are up to, and see if you have any good suggestions?
Hi op!
Well - unless a hottie offers to whisk me off on a date - on Friday I’ll go to either Cupid’s or Club Play - my 2 favourite clubs - on Saturday I’m working at Cupid’s (which is knackering but a lot of fun) - and on Sunday I’m off to see the Dream Boys in Liverpool with a couple of fab fem friends. Lots to look forward to!
Busy weekend for you then.
I've never been to Cupids, but I really liked Club Play. "To be fair they’re my two favourite clubs - so I feel lucky to be working in one of them!
We’re very lucky with clubs in the NW though - we’ve masses of choice. | |||
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"I'm going to have a fab time with a lovely fab friend couple of mine , they going to take for first time to a place i never been before, we three are looking forwards to have a great time "Going somewhere for the first time is always fun. Hope you have a great time | |||
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"So, it's a bank holiday weekend coming up and I've failed to make any plans
Was thinking of trying a club (will be my first time on my own), but I've not decided where yet.
Let's hear what you are up to, and see if you have any good suggestions?
Hi op!
Well - unless a hottie offers to whisk me off on a date - on Friday I’ll go to either Cupid’s or Club Play - my 2 favourite clubs - on Saturday I’m working at Cupid’s (which is knackering but a lot of fun) - and on Sunday I’m off to see the Dream Boys in Liverpool with a couple of fab fem friends. Lots to look forward to!
Busy weekend for you then.
I've never been to Cupids, but I really liked Club Play.
To be fair they’re my two favourite clubs - so I feel lucky to be working in one of them!
We’re very lucky with clubs in the NW though - we’ve masses of choice. "You bloody do! Must be a really horny lot up there!
We need more down this way... how hard are they to set up I wonder? | |||
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"Off to a club, just trying to decide if I get a hotel or not. If not, it’ll be the first time I’ll drive somewhere dressed up "Drive dressed up anyway. It's tremendously liberating, being yourself out in the big world. I recommend wearing flat shoes for the driving if you've not had practice driving in heels, then popping your heels on as you get out of the car. If you do get a hotel room, try arriving and checking in en femme (though daytime clothes perhaps, not your club wear ). Before you know it you will be comfortable being Steph out and about anywhere.
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"So, it's a bank holiday weekend coming up and I've failed to make any plans
Was thinking of trying a club (will be my first time on my own), but I've not decided where yet.
Let's hear what you are up to, and see if you have any good suggestions? "Same, not made plans so probably to late now to do anything other than sorting my sock draw lol. | |||
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"We are off to visit my sub for a few days to introduce her to the concept and fun of pervertables!" What's s pervetable? | |||
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"We are off to visit my sub for a few days to introduce her to the concept and fun of pervertables! What's s pervetable? " I had to look it up. Common household objects that are used in a sexual way. Like a hairbrush for spanking, or clothes pegs for nipple clamps, etc. | |||
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"Stag weekend, 
It will be messy " off anyway fun? | |||
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"So, it's a bank holiday weekend coming up and I've failed to make any plans
Was thinking of trying a club (will be my first time on my own), but I've not decided where yet.
Let's hear what you are up to, and see if you have any good suggestions?
Hi op!
Well - unless a hottie offers to whisk me off on a date - on Friday I’ll go to either Cupid’s or Club Play - my 2 favourite clubs - on Saturday I’m working at Cupid’s (which is knackering but a lot of fun) - and on Sunday I’m off to see the Dream Boys in Liverpool with a couple of fab fem friends. Lots to look forward to!
Busy weekend for you then.
I've never been to Cupids, but I really liked Club Play.
To be fair they’re my two favourite clubs - so I feel lucky to be working in one of them!
We’re very lucky with clubs in the NW though - we’ve masses of choice.
You bloody do! Must be a really horny lot up there!
We need more down this way... how hard are they to set up I wonder? "We must be! When I first joined the swinging scene and looked at the number of clubs we have here compared to anywhere else I just grinned. I’m bang in the middle of the NW too - a few minutes from the M6. I call it ‘dirty bastard central’! Within a 50 min drive I can get to over a dozen swinging clubs/venues. Heaven! 
As for setting one up - wouldn’t like to say. | |||
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"It's my birthday weekend so there's a few plans including a long overdue catch up with an old friend. " Aww I love reunions… mine usually end up messy | |||
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"It's my birthday weekend so there's a few plans including a long overdue catch up with an old friend. " Ooh happy birthday you xx | |||
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"We're going to a driving range, depending on weather either a beach trip or cliff walk, and some nice meals out. Possibly a beach concert too. " That sounds amazing x I’ve a stag do to attend.. I’m envisioning Monday will be a quiet affair with lots of naps | |||
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"It's my birthday weekend so there's a few plans including a long overdue catch up with an old friend. Aww I love reunions… mine usually end up messy " Oh yeah happy birthday xx | |||
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"Victorious festival " Is that the one at Portsmouth… went a few years ago with my ex… it was her birthday and she loves seasick Steve so I managed to get her on stage and he sang her a love song… invited us back stage afterwards fir a drink. He’s the coolest guy I’ve ever met. And genuinely nice. | |||
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"Stag weekend,
It will be messy
off anyway fun? "They’re all from kiddieminster way and they wanted to do Nottingham. So fir me it’s a normal weekend. But we’re doing paint balling, clay shooting and hooters. So nit to bad | |||
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"It's my birthday weekend so there's a few plans including a long overdue catch up with an old friend. Aww I love reunions… mine usually end up messy " Me too. Our last one was planned as a messy one, we ended up curled up on the sofa with a takeaway at 9pm  too old for anything too messy nowadays and we talk too much to be stuck in a club | |||
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"It's my birthday weekend so there's a few plans including a long overdue catch up with an old friend. Ooh happy birthday you xx" You're a bit early but thanks Grumps | |||
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"It's my birthday weekend so there's a few plans including a long overdue catch up with an old friend. Aww I love reunions… mine usually end up messy Oh yeah happy birthday xx "Haha! Thank you  | |||
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"Off to a club, just trying to decide if I get a hotel or not. If not, it’ll be the first time I’ll drive somewhere dressed up
Drive dressed up anyway. It's tremendously liberating, being yourself out in the big world. I recommend wearing flat shoes for the driving if you've not had practice driving in heels, then popping your heels on as you get out of the car. If you do get a hotel room, try arriving and checking in en femme (though daytime clothes perhaps, not your club wear ). Before you know it you will be comfortable being Steph out and about anywhere.
Polly xx"I’ll probably drive there and back now, it’s a shame as there’s a free bar after paying to get in 
Agree with not driving in heels, so I’ll wear a girly top, jeans and trainers for driving there. Club play has lockers and a changing area so I’ll nip up there to get changed into something a bit more ‘clubby’ .
I’ll probably have a walk up the prom or certainly make the most of my dressing this weekend. | |||
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"Away for the week in Skegness with family, bank holiday Monday I'll be working so not much room to make plans " Have a great time in the ship inn xx | |||
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"It's my birthday weekend so there's a few plans including a long overdue catch up with an old friend. Aww I love reunions… mine usually end up messy Oh yeah happy birthday xx
It’s shame it’s not in front of that real fire!
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"It's my birthday weekend so there's a few plans including a long overdue catch up with an old friend. " Happy Birthday for this weekend! Enjoy your catch up | |||
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"Victorious festival " I'd never heard of that. Great lineup though! | |||
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"Away for the week in Skegness with family, bank holiday Monday I'll be working so not much room to make plans Have a great time in the ship inn xx " | |||
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"Stag weekend,
It will be messy
off anyway fun?
They’re all from kiddieminster way and they wanted to do Nottingham. So fir me it’s a normal weekend. But we’re doing paint balling, clay shooting and hooters. So nit to bad "I did an entire morning of paintballing for a stag, then clubbing through the night. I couldn't move the next day I was so stiff! I was much less fit back then. | |||
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"Stag weekend,
It will be messy
off anyway fun?
They’re all from kiddieminster way and they wanted to do Nottingham. So fir me it’s a normal weekend. But we’re doing paint balling, clay shooting and hooters. So nit to bad
I did an entire morning of paintballing for a stag, then clubbing through the night. I couldn't move the next day I was so stiff!
I was much less fit back then. "I think we are hitting rescue rooms and rock city.. so I dare say I’ll suffer | |||
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"We're going to a driving range, depending on weather either a beach trip or cliff walk, and some nice meals out. Possibly a beach concert too. That sounds amazing x I’ve a stag do to attend.. I’m envisioning Monday will be a quiet affair with lots of naps "I'd love to be invited to a stag do, they look so much more fun than hen do's | |||
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"Victorious festival I'd never heard of that. Great lineup though! " Yeah it’s good. Richard Ashcroft was playing but pulled out due to covid measures he’s a massive anti vaxxer. Madness will be good | |||
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"We're going to a driving range, depending on weather either a beach trip or cliff walk, and some nice meals out. Possibly a beach concert too. That sounds amazing x I’ve a stag do to attend.. I’m envisioning Monday will be a quiet affair with lots of naps
I'd love to be invited to a stag do, they look so much more fun than hen do's "I can’t imagine you’d be turned away xx | |||
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"Stag weekend,
It will be messy
off anyway fun?
They’re all from kiddieminster way and they wanted to do Nottingham. So fir me it’s a normal weekend. But we’re doing paint balling, clay shooting and hooters. So nit to bad
I did an entire morning of paintballing for a stag, then clubbing through the night. I couldn't move the next day I was so stiff!
I was much less fit back then.
I think we are hitting rescue rooms and rock city.. so I dare say I’ll suffer "I love RockCity! | |||
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"Trying two new clubs with new friends and I cant wait. Going to catch up with some not so new friends too "That should be fun. Don't know how you manage it so often to be honest!
Let me know what the clubs are like. | |||
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"Trying two new clubs with new friends and I cant wait. Going to catch up with some not so new friends too
That should be fun. Don't know how you manage it so often to be honest!
Let me know what the clubs are like. "Cause i don't have kids for one and I hate being indoors. | |||
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"Stag weekend,
It will be messy
off anyway fun?
They’re all from kiddieminster way and they wanted to do Nottingham. So fir me it’s a normal weekend. But we’re doing paint balling, clay shooting and hooters. So nit to bad
I did an entire morning of paintballing for a stag, then clubbing through the night. I couldn't move the next day I was so stiff!
I was much less fit back then.
I think we are hitting rescue rooms and rock city.. so I dare say I’ll suffer
I love RockCity! "I’ve seen some amazing bands there in my time. Nirvana, foo fighters, Halestorm, Motörhead | |||
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"Off to a club, just trying to decide if I get a hotel or not. If not, it’ll be the first time I’ll drive somewhere dressed up
Drive dressed up anyway. It's tremendously liberating, being yourself out in the big world. I recommend wearing flat shoes for the driving if you've not had practice driving in heels, then popping your heels on as you get out of the car. If you do get a hotel room, try arriving and checking in en femme (though daytime clothes perhaps, not your club wear ). Before you know it you will be comfortable being Steph out and about anywhere.
Polly xx
I’ll probably drive there and back now, it’s a shame as there’s a free bar after paying to get in
Agree with not driving in heels, so I’ll wear a girly top, jeans and trainers for driving there. Club play has lockers and a changing area so I’ll nip up there to get changed into something a bit more ‘clubby’ .
I’ll probably have a walk up the prom or certainly make the most of my dressing this weekend. "Yes, do have a good time. I don't know how experienced you are at being out and about as Steph, so it would be silly of me to start writing loads of stuff here that you probably already know full well. But if you are a bit new to it and would like any friendly tips about things like personal safety, feel free to message me. Same goes for any other trans girls who might be reading this. Hugs, Polly xxx | |||
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"Trying two new clubs with new friends and I cant wait. Going to catch up with some not so new friends too
That should be fun. Don't know how you manage it so often to be honest!
Let me know what the clubs are like.
Cause i don't have kids for one and I hate being indoors."I hate being in too. Not sure I can do anything about the kids yet though | |||
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"Off to a club, just trying to decide if I get a hotel or not. If not, it’ll be the first time I’ll drive somewhere dressed up
Drive dressed up anyway. It's tremendously liberating, being yourself out in the big world. I recommend wearing flat shoes for the driving if you've not had practice driving in heels, then popping your heels on as you get out of the car. If you do get a hotel room, try arriving and checking in en femme (though daytime clothes perhaps, not your club wear ). Before you know it you will be comfortable being Steph out and about anywhere.
Polly xx
I’ll probably drive there and back now, it’s a shame as there’s a free bar after paying to get in
Agree with not driving in heels, so I’ll wear a girly top, jeans and trainers for driving there. Club play has lockers and a changing area so I’ll nip up there to get changed into something a bit more ‘clubby’ .
I’ll probably have a walk up the prom or certainly make the most of my dressing this weekend.
Yes, do have a good time. I don't know how experienced you are at being out and about as Steph, so it would be silly of me to start writing loads of stuff here that you probably already know full well. But if you are a bit new to it and would like any friendly tips about things like personal safety, feel free to message me. Same goes for any other trans girls who might be reading this. Hugs, Polly xxx"Thanks Polly, it’ll be the first time driving but not the first time out and about. Last time I was dressed, walking in the daylight was in London last year on a shopping trip. So I’m really looking forward to going out again, so I’ll make the most of it. I’m also regular at Sparkle and other events. I appreciate the help though | |||
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"I’d love to be whisked away for a weekend of naughtiness and nice food
Ain’t gonna happen! "Why not? You never know, there is still time, | |||
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"I’m going to Snowdonia on Friday. Free on Saturday if anyone else is. " I've never been there. I really should one day though. Enjoy! | |||
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"Camper calling, Friday to Monday.... Been a while.. But looking forward to tents, live music and lots of dancing. " I love a festivals,but I've not been to one in years. Enjoy the music. | |||
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"Heading to the south west again. Hope the weather is kind! "Fingers crossed xx | |||
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"Away for the week in Skegness with family, bank holiday Monday I'll be working so not much room to make plans " Hope you'll bring the family to see our show before you go home - it's a great place for a family outing. | |||
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"Heading to the south west again. Hope the weather is kind!
Fingers crossed xx"Thankyou. Hope the traffic is kind too! | |||
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"Waiting to see if meet confirmed for Friday , Saturday night. Messages read , no reply. Still have time though. If not see if get lucky on Fab. "No message back yet. I will wait. ?? | |||
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"MRI scan Monday " I hope it's good news DC (as in not bad is good) xx | |||
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"MRI scan Monday "Best wishes. | |||
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"MRI scan Monday "Oh, DC! hope the results show nothing to worry about x | |||
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"MRI scan Monday
Oh, DC! hope the results show nothing to worry about x" | |||
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"Waiting to see if meet confirmed for Friday , Saturday night. Messages read , no reply. Still have time though. If not see if get lucky on Fab.
No message back yet. I will wait. ??"Did you hear back in the end? | |||
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I guess lots have to, to keep things going and enable others to enjoy the break.
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