FabSwingers.com forum: bdsm interest

By *amesnsues OP Couple
over a year ago

East Anglia

We are looking for ideas, good sites to explore and even good teachers on fab.

We have been together 20 years and have always had a interesting sex life.

We have researched and looked into various ways of love making, tantric etc.

We have always been able to play through role play and games.

James has played dom and i his sub many times, i have been tied, gagged, blindfolded, spanked, nipples pulled/ bitten etc, used ice, wax and house hold objects for various play.

We now want someone who actually knows what they are talking about, someone with actual knowledge of bdsm games, technics as we are running dry of fresh ideas.

Had a few responses through the profile but they wasnt any help if im honest, a few suggested its all down to knowing what the sub likes and using your imagination, well thats the point, our imagination is all out of ideas. xxx

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By *yphoon1Man
over a year ago

interesting question as im wondering where next with our bdsm sessions. will be interested to know if u find anyone to help

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By *riskynriskyCouple
over a year ago

Essex.

Right for some ideas try kink.com. They have a load of sites dedicated to different types of bondage... A bondage site that came to notice when the spy chap was found dead in a bag is called boundanna. This site has a lot of self bondage ideas that can be addapted to include others. Utopiastories.com is a fiction site for bdsm, again for ideas. There is a book by Chanta Rose that gives rope bondage insructions. There is another booked with a title something like Send me the thorns keep the roses... Also a few instructional vids on youtube..... So a friend told me

Hope this helps.... FnRx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You could try a scene where you're in the bar of a hotel and he has arranged for five men to be there (you don't know who they are and they are sitting apart from each other) and they have been given instructions to look you over without making it obvious and if they fancy you they must text your husband to tell him they want to fuck you. You both go back to your room (he makes some excuse about feeling horny etc) and he ties you down to the bed. The guys follow up ten minutes later (he text them back with your room no.) and they take turns on you. Obviously, there's more to it than that but that's the basic outline for being used as a sex slave by a group of men. Enjoy.

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By *now-bbw-bunnyCouple
over a year ago

southend-on-sea

Try a club with a bdsm night ?

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By *eavenNhellCouple
over a year ago

carrbrook stalybridge

You could always join informedconsent or fetlife go to thier events page find your nearest munch toddle along and meet real people who practice bdsm for real .you will find that most folk at munches are happy to give advice demmos etc its a great way to get started on the scene .

Good luck & have fun .

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By *amesnsues OP Couple
over a year ago

East Anglia

Thanks guys, food for thought mmmm.... will look each and everyone of them up, liking the bar/ hotel game

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

fet life.com is probably a site you'd want to check out

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