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Dick pics: public, friends only or not at all?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Should a male profile have a dick pic on it or is ok not to?

I currently don't as I like to keep some things to the imagination, but is it an expectation to have one on FAB?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Best sent in the first message OP.

Ladies love it

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By *offiaCoolWoman
over a year ago

Kidsgrove

One or two on your profile is fine.

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By *mily36CWoman
over a year ago

Bedford (or anywhere beginning with B..!?)


"Best sent in the first message OP.

Ladies love it

"

Behave! You'll get folk into trouble! ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Best sent in the first message OP.

Ladies love it

Behave! You'll get folk into trouble! ... "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find a collage of slightly different angles works best

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

As the self appointed Advocate-of-Anti-Cock-Pictures, I would like to state that cock pics are fine if they make the cockowner happy as part of his exhibitionism. Not being sarcastic here btw.

As such one or two in public view... by all means but let those be not the only ones as it might suggest there is nothing more to the person than a cock.

As for sending one, I am probably the odd one out but I really really do not want one in the first-to 10th message. And I would never ever ask for one.

Sex, good sex is about so much more than a visual representation of genitalia- for me - others may disagree.

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By *mily36CWoman
over a year ago

Bedford (or anywhere beginning with B..!?)


"As the self appointed Advocate-of-Anti-Cock-Pictures, I would like to state that cock pics are fine if they make the cockowner happy as part of his exhibitionism. Not being sarcastic here btw.

As such one or two in public view... by all means but let those be not the only ones as it might suggest there is nothing more to the person than a cock.

As for sending one, I am probably the odd one out but I really really do not want one in the first-to 10th message. And I would never ever ask for one.

Sex, good sex is about so much more than a visual representation of genitalia- for me - others may disagree. "

Seconding everything above

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Think I'll avoid the collage of every angle and agree that good sex is about connection rather than the genitals. Tho they play a key part

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Not having one probably won't affect your chances of meeting too badly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have only one and that's in my friends only folder.

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"I have only one and that's in my friends only folder. "

Cheeky glance at profile... you do not need one - your pictures are great!

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By *mily36CWoman
over a year ago

Bedford (or anywhere beginning with B..!?)


"I have only one and that's in my friends only folder.

Cheeky glance at profile... you do not need one - your pictures are great! "

Seconding again ...

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"I have only one and that's in my friends only folder.

Cheeky glance at profile... you do not need one - your pictures are great!

Seconding again ... "

We could always.... share...

Now I feel bad for saying that and objectifying such a great guy! Shame on me!

Is there a shame emoji?

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

There's more to me than a dick pic. It's only a small part of me

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By *andsome HandMan
over a year ago

roundabout

Dealer's choice OP. Whatever you're comfortable with though I'd advise against having one as your profile pic.

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By *mily36CWoman
over a year ago

Bedford (or anywhere beginning with B..!?)


"I have only one and that's in my friends only folder.

Cheeky glance at profile... you do not need one - your pictures are great!

Seconding again ...

We could always.... share...

Now I feel bad for saying that and objectifying such a great guy! Shame on me!

Is there a shame emoji? "

Careful the FMF mob will pick up on the sharing suggestion (whilst completely overlooking the objectification element!)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unless it's part of a forum thread ...

Generally keep dick pics as friends at most. As friends are ppl Im chatting to and may meet, then feels okay to shiw what's on offer ...

But most ppl don't need to see it. And if they want to, they can ask.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have only one and that's in my friends only folder. "

I only have one as well - but mine's between my legs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I see many posts derising the dick pics but the close up pussy pics are just as appealing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine are hidden away in friends only along with most of my pics, the rest are private, maybe that's a bit too extreme tho lol

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

It's your profile op, you don't have to have one on your profile, you can have them private or friends only.

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

Mine stays in private - 90% of the time.

I'm shy.

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"Mine stays in private - 90% of the time.

I'm shy. "

Has your nose grown longer recently?;-)

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By *aughtyandhandsomeMan
over a year ago

button moon

Non in public. All in friends or private. You need to leave some things to the imagination

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"Mine stays in private - 90% of the time.

I'm shy.

Has your nose grown longer recently?;-) "

Have you seen my cock?

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By *mily36CWoman
over a year ago

Bedford (or anywhere beginning with B..!?)


"Non in public. All in friends or private. You need to leave some things to the imagination "

Seconding ... (doing a lot of that today!)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally I can't stand pics of cock, vagina or bumholes. Especially bumholes to be fair.

But each to their own, everything is subjective. I agree with you OP leave a little to the imagination. Not everyone agrees. If they wanna wave it all about so be it.

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"Mine stays in private - 90% of the time.

I'm shy.

Has your nose grown longer recently?;-)

Have you seen my cock? "
As far as I know the tale ... it was Pinocchio's NOSE that grew when he claimed to be shy

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

As they're so standard here, it's fine to have one and it may just be the difference between your profile or another 1 getting the interest returned.

Many dislike the ultra close up and there are ways of retaining some allure, without baring all. Checking some of the forum guys, to spark your imagination is a good step.

People are going to be with your body, so helping them to build a picture of how it will be, in their minds eye, isn't a bad thing.

With several pics in a profile, people will click on those of interest and avoid those which they don't want to see.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All mine are friends only

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By *aughtyandhandsomeMan
over a year ago

button moon


"Non in public. All in friends or private. You need to leave some things to the imagination

Seconding ... (doing a lot of that today!) "

Nothing wrong with that

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"Mine stays in private - 90% of the time.

I'm shy.

Has your nose grown longer recently?;-)

Have you seen my cock? As far as I know the tale ... it was Pinocchio's NOSE that grew when he claimed to be shy "

Well. I must be the sequel.

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By *ecadent_DevonMan
over a year ago

Okehampton

I have mine out because nothing says “ere love fancy a go” better.

At the end of the day, it is a little “aggressive” I suppose but as long as you are not sending unsolicited dick pics I think it’s all okay. When someone deigns to look at your profile, that’s on them, if they don’t like it, then really it’s a case of “buyer beware” isn’t it? I mean it would be a little naive to think that when opening up the gallery of a man on a swinging website that you wouldn’t have the potential to see his waffle worrier.

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"I have mine out because nothing says “ere love fancy a go” better.

At the end of the day, it is a little “aggressive” I suppose but as long as you are not sending unsolicited dick pics I think it’s all okay. When someone deigns to look at your profile, that’s on them, if they don’t like it, then really it’s a case of “buyer beware” isn’t it? I mean it would be a little naive to think that when opening up the gallery of a man on a swinging website that you wouldn’t have the potential to see his waffle worrier. "

I just learnt a new term

Tbh I don't find cock pictures aggressive in nature - now more than I would find pussy shots vulnerable.

I just find even the best looking cock as a cockshot is not that great to look at. Maybe it is just me.

A guy's full body shot, however, even with an erect/ flaccid cock is a million times more attractive.

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

Just 1

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for all the feedback.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your profile fella - choose what makes you happy not a tiny proportion of the site that uses the forum.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on the dick.

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Less is more sometimes. I'd rather see the man than the dick

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