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What do people define as kinky

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By *attooist n Tattooee OP   Couple
over a year ago

Near Manchester

Some People seem to consider themselves as kinky, they promote the title for their own gains through sexual gratification…..but as a title it can mean so many different things in my opinion, is kinky the same as taboo, I’m sure it is to some…… so we’d love to hear what everyone considers kinky or taboo…

It’ll be interesting to see the answers…

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To me I guess I consider it meaning someone who has interests that are less commonplace and more niche

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s going to vary significantly based on who you ask! I don’t think a single definition would exist, only a generalisation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I guess to a lot of people kinky is anything they would do they don't think their parents would do and anything else is perverted.

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By *eardybobMan
over a year ago

the Goldilocks Zone

Interesting question...

I believe that the principal difference between the two is that something that is taboo has been explicitly prohibited (by the church... by law... by social convension) whereas things deemed kinky just have an unusual or very niche appeal.

I'd list examples, but I like not being banned by the admins for forbidden words - you'll have to use your imagination...

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

One person’s kinky is another’s vanilla.

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By *attooist n Tattooee OP   Couple
over a year ago

Near Manchester

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Something I haven't done yet

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By *ersey GirlCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

Something that's not commonly done. For me dressing up as an adult baby would be kinky as it's something I rarely see on profiles

R

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"One person’s kinky is another’s vanilla.

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I was just about to say the same

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By *attooist n Tattooee OP   Couple
over a year ago

Near Manchester

But the question was what you consider as kinky, not what you think might be considered kinky….,

Personally I think needle and piercing play, electric shocking, water tattooing while having sex, Ice branding, restraining, ball gagging and blindfolding while strangers are invited to play with you are kinky…surely everyone has an example of their thoughts….just because I think these are kinky doesn’t mean I haven’t tried or still want to try them…,come on people let’s hear what you consider kinky…

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The term kinky or taboo gets thrown around a lot these days, and most things are just normal sex, we all have things that turn us on and others not. I like a bit of roleplay, and somtimes that can get a little kinky, especially with the right person or couple.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m self golden showering these days (well, pissing in my wetsuit), is that considered kinky?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m self golden showering these days (well, pissing in my wetsuit), is that considered kinky?"

That's just central heating.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I quite like this definition I saw on a blog on YourTango:

'Embracing the parts of your sexuality that are a little against the grain, outside the standard expectations of romantic, intercourse based sex.'

But everyone's boundaries are different. Here is a benchmark you could use.... probably:

Erotic: Light touches with a feather.

Kinky: Using the pointy end of a feather to lightly scratch the skin (aka a writing quill).

Perverted. Using the whole chicken.

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By *rMrsBrightsideCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle

I think it depends on your mindset. To my non fab friends I would be considered kinky but on here I’m probably vanilla compared to some others.

Kx

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By *iss pleasuringWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere near


"I quite like this definition I saw on a blog on YourTango:

'Embracing the parts of your sexuality that are a little against the grain, outside the standard expectations of romantic, intercourse based sex.'

But everyone's boundaries are different. Here is a benchmark you could use.... probably:

Erotic: Light touches with a feather.

Kinky: Using the pointy end of a feather to lightly scratch the skin (aka a writing quill).

Perverted. Using the whole chicken. "

In line with ops questtdion

I wanna throw in another

Perverted or fetish

There's no definition of what is I suppose . We just agree to disagree on each

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By *andsome HandMan
over a year ago

roundabout


"Something I haven't done yet "

That's a short list (leash emoji)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Putting slices of cucumber in a peanut butter sandwich. That shit is kink af.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Happy Monday's

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By *ang bang bangity bangCouple
over a year ago

Sunderland

I'd say its all relevant to the person like so many things in life. There's no real absolutes of solid definable scales or limits.

If normal is missionary with the lights out for someone and suddenly they get a sneaky finger up the bum and it feels kinky to them then more power.

What's rich to some people is poor to another

What's unhealthy to one may be healthy to another

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"One person’s kinky is another’s vanilla.

"

Basically this

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By *adyJayneWoman
over a year ago

Burnleyish (She/They)


"I quite like this definition I saw on a blog on YourTango:

'Embracing the parts of your sexuality that are a little against the grain, outside the standard expectations of romantic, intercourse based sex.'

But everyone's boundaries are different. Here is a benchmark you could use.... probably:

Erotic: Light touches with a feather.

Kinky: Using the pointy end of a feather to lightly scratch the skin (aka a writing quill).

Perverted. Using the whole chicken.

In line with ops questtdion

I wanna throw in another

Perverted or fetish

There's no definition of what is I suppose . We just agree to disagree on each "

Technically a fetish is when something must be present (or occur) for sexual gratification to be achieved.

Many people on the BDSM scene reclaim pervert as a positive thing. I've called myself a pervert more times than I care to count.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To me I guess I consider it meaning someone who has interests that are less commonplace and more niche"

That’s my understanding.. I hate commonplace...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are always going to be different levels of kink OP.

A kink has to be something not so common but it’s the thing that really gets you going.

Something that is taboo I think is something that is more extreme that just a kink. Again opinions differ with different people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Marmite on pasta.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"Marmite on pasta."

I don’t usually do this but I’m totally kink shaming that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Marmite on pasta.

I don’t usually do this but I’m totally kink shaming that. "

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

King's Crustacean

Kinky is anything that you consider to be beyond the 'norm' or what's 'acceptable' by society as a sex act.... it's your perspective.

So ...... where one person doesn't think a full forty minute fucking by a circus clown act with a cactus in a public square in Salt Lake City is kinky another will think the Clown's red lipstick alone is a kink too far...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What’s water tattoo’ing?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What’s water tattoo’ing?"

Even google doesn’t know...

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By *andsome HandMan
over a year ago

roundabout


"Marmite on pasta."

Blocked

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By *ersey GirlCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow


"What’s water tattoo’ing?"

Just a guess but water jet that leaves a mark on the skin or really hot or cold water?

R

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