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How many really read your profile?

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By *ibi_curious OP   Couple
over a year ago

Shepperton

How many really read your profile? We have so many fabbers who only seem the heading and not the whole profile. And we have to explain what we are looking for. I'm sure as fabbers we are not the only ones who suffer this

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By *ausageNmashCouple
over a year ago

Andover

Not many

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

It happens to most people.

At least half of the messages I receive are from people who either haven't read it or assume that because I'm a man it's mostly for show and they can convince me otherwise.

It doesn't take long to see who actually read it.

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

I like looking at the pictures

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By *drian HardthrobMan
over a year ago

Worcester

I always read them. No point wasting my time messaging if I'm not what you're looking for

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always read the profile before messaging and include some of it in my message, perhaps I’m in the minority and weird lol

Rarely does a reply come back though

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By *adystephanieTV/TS
over a year ago

glos


"How many really read your profile? We have so many fabbers who only seem the heading and not the whole profile. And we have to explain what we are looking for. I'm sure as fabbers we are not the only ones who suffer this"

Pretty much like a newspaper they just read they Headlines and hope they score a hit, some can do dozens in a day..

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By *iBBWLondonWoman
over a year ago

London

I suspect none - they just see boobs. Actually, scratch that; I KNOW it’s none, as my profile has been hidden for the last week or so while I re-write it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most of the questions I'm asked is "does your husband know you're on here?" And it is literally the first sentence on my profile so I think a lot of people just skip to pics/location

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By *xfordshireCoupleMFCouple
over a year ago

Nr. Oxford

We get a lot of messages from guys and only a small amount do not read it. That percentage is higher with couples though, in fact I think more don’t than do.

Lily

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

Virtually none.

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

All of the ‘straight guys’ who message, have obviously not read my profile text.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Quite a few do I think as a lot come out with something I have wrote on there in the first message I get from them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hardly any.. Its clear on profile that I live in Spain. But the number of uk 'locals' who message wanting an instant meet is unbelievable

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By *erandhim.ch5Couple
over a year ago

Sealand, Flintshire, Wales

We would say about 2 out of every 10 messages read our profile.

Put a status up this morning asking as it's Sunday can single guys read profiles, first message received said I've read your profile and understand it, but unfortunately for him he hadn't haha.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All of 'em I think, it seems to keep them at a safe distance and not bother me.

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By *ang bang bangity bangCouple
over a year ago

Sunderland

We read everyone's that we look at.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How many really read your profile? We have so many fabbers who only seem the heading and not the whole profile. And we have to explain what we are looking for. I'm sure as fabbers we are not the only ones who suffer this"

Personally I like to read the profiles so I can include elements of it in a message if I send one. I find it shows that I have taken an interest in something or someone’s attributes that align with mine. It may lead to a conversation it may not but I think it’s just courtesy that if you’ve taken the time to write about yourself the person who takes an in interest what you’re about not just the typical “hey sexy” “wanna meet” “fancy a fuck”

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By *mma29Couple
over a year ago

wirral

Not many! I just copy and paste 'did you read our profile?' so many times a day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone reads mine.

It’s very interesting and holds the attention of the reader.

I’m a very attention holding profile owner.

My advice to you all is to be more Sam.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you really want to know hide a key word in in your profile randomly

Like hello I am bl bl bl I like that that the next thing bl hl bl bl bl if you message me or us please put banana as your subject line we are in to bl bl bl bl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I reckon plenty enough do but it still doesnt stop them asking questions that have been answered in the first sentence.

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By *KloganMan
over a year ago

Ramsbottom

I quite enjoy reading profiles if I’m honest.. profile first, status second and photos third..

Nice to make a cognitive decision on whether you’re a match, like a decision tree.. getting a flavour for interests and of course trying to respect those that are not meeting, not looking for single men etc..

Ultimately reduces the time taken on someone who has no interest in meeting and let’s you focus your time on building connections with those that might.

Besides, if the photos are great you can always show appreciation with a fab..

Appreciate I have no veris at the minute so feel free to ignore everything I’ve just said

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By *luttTV/TS
over a year ago

Duns


"If you really want to know hide a key word in in your profile randomly

Like hello I am bl bl bl I like that that the next thing bl hl bl bl bl if you message me or us please put banana as your subject line we are in to bl bl bl bl "

Mine’s not even remotely hidden, people still ignore it…

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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago

Shangri-la

Very few seem to read mine. They also frequently send copy & paste messages along the lines of "I really like your profile", which is always amusing.

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By *andsome HandMan
over a year ago

roundabout

I read profiles, they can be informative and occasionally funny.

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By *urls and DressesWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere near here

About 98% don't read profiles fully. Called one guy out once who argued with me that he had, he read the first few lines then messaged me with load of abuse. Explained that if he kept reading he’d understand, he told me he did read it all. Went on for several messages, I found it highly amusing, he found it highly upsetting!

What gets me is the people who write “I read your profile” and there’s NOTHING in their message to suggest that they actually have

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By *B69Woman
over a year ago

Wiltshire

I always read profiles, but if their too long I give up, not much to read on mine but most get the idea

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By *razzyhorseMan
over a year ago

cambridge

I try to read all the ones I visit. Safer that way than to make yourself look an idiot. Most are informative & the really good ones raise a few laughs.

Can't comment on the possibility of people reading mine... Who knows?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You should use the trick of adding a line in your profile at the end that says "If you have read this far and still interested, send us a message with subject 'sunshine'"

Easy to delete all the other messages without even reading them.

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By *attoo manMan
over a year ago

Rhyl

I do. But some are so long and boring.

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By *acksLamentMan
over a year ago

Wales


"You should use the trick of adding a line in your profile at the end that says "If you have read this far and still interested, send us a message with subject 'sunshine'"

Easy to delete all the other messages without even reading them."

Hey...how did you know my secret codeword!?

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

On a previous profile a couple messaged to say they liked my profile and asked to meet

I pointed out that I don't meet without a social and it said so in my profile.

They agreed and suggested a pub and they would buy me a pint.

I pointed out that it also said on my profile that I was a non drinker.

That was ok we would have coffee instead.

What about the plane ticket I asked?

Plane ticket?

Yes how else am I getting to the USA?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you really want to know hide a key word in in your profile randomly

Like hello I am bl bl bl I like that that the next thing bl hl bl bl bl if you message me or us please put banana as your subject line we are in to bl bl bl bl

Mine’s not even remotely hidden, people still ignore it…"

Yes I tryed hidden and none for it and found the exact same results they don’t bother lol

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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago

Doire Theas

I just look at the pictures

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By *lidMan
over a year ago

Cambridge

10 views

9 from blokes

1 from a friend (nosey cow) lol

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By *andsome HandMan
over a year ago

roundabout


"I just look at the pictures "

How Bronagh got out of her local book club

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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago

Doire Theas


"I just look at the pictures

How Bronagh got out of her local book club "

Oi Raymondo shush

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Maybe about 1 in 10

That's usually how many are decent messages I receive.

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By *heeseandWineCouple
over a year ago

Reading and Southampton


"How many really read your profile? We have so many fabbers who only seem the heading and not the whole profile. And we have to explain what we are looking for. I'm sure as fabbers we are not the only ones who suffer this"
We regularly get this, mainly from single guys

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