FabSwingers.com forum: Why are people so fixated on pictures on here?

By *agicstick69 OP Man
over a year ago

London

One thing I’ve learnt over the years on fab, is that there’re so many fakes, time waster and men Masquerading as women. We all know pictures can be faked or not even the person. As soon as I ask for a video call instead I get tumble or... Let me run you through some of the excuses.

1. My 5 year old is up. ( bearing in mind it’s 3am)

2. Oh I don’t give out my number, yet you’re posting full frontals and blocking people left right and centre. (You can also block people on your mobile) come on people let’s have a bit of the decorum and respect. Not everyone one you encounter is a simpleton.

Anyway have a great Sunday

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

And relax

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"And relax"

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By *agicstick69 OP Man
over a year ago

London

I’m confused. Did I come across angry. Lol. That’s the thing with messaging and text they can be misconstrued. Me get upset over fab. Behave.

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

"I’m confused. Did I come across angry. Lol. That’s the thing with messaging and text they can be misconstrued. Me get upset over fab. Behave. "

You behave

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

"And relax

Oi cheeky xx

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By *agicstick69 OP Man
over a year ago

London

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like Bellaseas pictures

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By *agicstick69 OP Man
over a year ago

London

Me?… never. I just say it how it is. I’m to old for all of that. Why don’t you find people trying to take you for a simpleton disrespectful when they don’t even know you?

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

"Me?… never. I just say it how it is. I’m to old for all of that. Why don’t you find people trying to take you for a simpleton disrespectful when they don’t even know you?"

Whats happened

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By *agicstick69 OP Man
over a year ago

London

What I first posted

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

"What I first posted

Dont come rolling your eyes at me maybe they didnt fancy you

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By *agicstick69 OP Man
over a year ago

London

Peace, I’m out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"One thing I’ve learnt over the years on fab, is that there’re so many fakes, time waster and men Masquerading as women. We all know pictures can be faked or not even the person. As soon as I ask for a video call instead I get tumble or... Let me run you through some of the excuses.

1. My 5 year old is up. ( bearing in mind it’s 3am)

Anyway have a great Sunday

To be fair, they could be terrible parents.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I received some sage advice when I was a young whipper snapper. Never look at the mantle piece when you’re poking the fire. I think it’s still valid.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Peace, I’m out "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

1. My 5 year old is up. ( bearing in mind it’s 3am)

Anyway have a great Sunday

I do not do video calls ..

I do NOT have to give an excuse why I don't do them.

I do not WANT to do them....full stop ..

I do NOT give out my phone number...

I do NOT want to...I don't care if I can block later.

It does not mean I have no decorum or respect.

Maybe you should respect other people's choices a bit more.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

^ life and soul of the party eh

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

1. My 5 year old is up. ( bearing in mind it’s 3am)

Anyway have a great Sunday

Rather than moaning about it look at it from the point of view that if they are not prepared to meet your request for a video chat then that most likely indicates that they were not a genuine profile.

Lots of people don't like to give out their mobile number so why not use something like kik where you can video call without giving out your number they might be more receptive to your request.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because pics are eye candy... Of course we want pics OP...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's certainly possible to block a number after having given out a yours. Unfortunately, it blocks only that number.

It doesn't stop any harassment from subsequent new pay as you go numbers someone may choose to use thereafter unless the victim changes their number with all the hassle that entails.

You can block a number. You can't block a person.

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

1. My 5 year old is up. ( bearing in mind it’s 3am)

Anyway have a great Sunday

None of my pics/vids are fake just how I am at that moment no filters (dont know how to apply them lol) but nope dont give number out anymore only kik x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's certainly possible to block a number after having given out a yours. Unfortunately, it blocks only that number.

It doesn't stop any harassment from subsequent new pay as you go numbers someone may choose to use thereafter unless the victim changes their number with all the hassle that entails.

You can block a number. You can't block a person."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's certainly possible to block a number after having given out a yours. Unfortunately, it blocks only that number.

It doesn't stop any harassment from subsequent new pay as you go numbers someone may choose to use thereafter unless the victim changes their number with all the hassle that entails.

You can block a number. You can't block a person."

So true!!

If you have decided to go with the blank silhouette instead of a public photo then you have to accept that 90+% of your target audience are not even going to open / read your messages.

Then to expect pre meet video calls that requires the use of people's personal mobile number is going to put a huge amount of people off.

Considering on fab that single men out number single women and couples hundreds to one these days, you really aren't coming at fab in a way that maximizes your chances.

Good luck on your fab journey

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Even Tesco have to advertise their wares.

If your shop window is empty passers-by have no idea if you are a butcher or a candlestick maker.

There is a direct link between the effort you put in and the quantity and quality of return.

In 4 years here I've never spoken to any woman who is comfortable with a video call or giving their number to random interneters but that doesn't make them fake or me a simpleton.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

nah i dont video call virtual strangers unless im on the verge of meeting just as a final confirmation thing but i dont do it early or at 5am haha sod that

i dont blame them at all mate

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By *agicstick69 OP Man
over a year ago

London

People on here are actually hilarious . You’re actually supporting all the fakes, picture collectors and liars every single one of them. sit down and ask yourself if you have not experienced nonsense on this site. So let me clear a few things up. When I log in I will put a picture up when I log off I take all my pictures down referencing all the picture collectors and people steal other peoples pictures and post them up that’s one.

Second of all when I say video call or phone call I do not mean anything sexual its just to prove that we are both who we say we are what is the point of sending endless messages back and forth if the person is fake. Next.

You’re not comfortable giving out your number for the fear that the person may not be balanced! Lol, yet you’ll message each other and send out full frontals. What’s worse, your x-rated pictures stuck in the matrix that is the internet or giving someone a quick phone call? oh before I forget. Hasn’t anyone heard you can actually withhold your number. Lol. Guys. Women ain’t comfortable talking or video calling just to say hello

full of actors on here bunch of Patrick Swayze‘s I tell you. Oh if you’re reading this and think I sound angry. Far from it. Actually disappointed. Anyway

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

I eint do video or voice chats simply becsuse they make me anxious. I rarely speak to family and friends on the phone, I'm not bring forced into doing one with a random fuck.

I accept that for some this means they won't meet me and to be honest, that's their loss

If you don't want to send pics when asked that's your choice but don't get pissy when people choose to not meet you because of it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you think someone is fake, you should probably just move on rather than getting the hump that they won't jump through your hoops to prove otherwise

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By *agicstick69 OP Man
over a year ago

London

I’m not getting the hump. Just asked a question. Again that’s the thing with texting and messaging it can be misconstrued. And yes I do move on. Just asked a question. Have a great day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hate video calls!!! With a passion I only do them with friends who are distant and we want to catch up x

But I feel so much fucking pressure to look and presentable even when I’m literally at home doing nothing, with my hair in a bun, looking like miss avarage. And I don’t mind that at home cos I’m in my own comfort…

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"People on here are actually hilarious . You’re actually supporting all the fakes, picture collectors and liars every single one of them. sit down and ask yourself if you have not experienced nonsense on this site. So let me clear a few things up. When I log in I will put a picture up when I log off I take all my pictures down referencing all the picture collectors and people steal other peoples pictures and post them up that’s one.

full of actors on here bunch of Patrick Swayze‘s I tell you. Oh if you’re reading this and think I sound angry. Far from it. Actually disappointed. Anyway "

Someone give the man a mars bar

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By *herry OnatopWoman
over a year ago

Just over there

I wouldn't be comfortable or have the time video calling new potential meets unless we were at a stage of finalising a physical meet! By then we would have been chatting for a while anyway!

The amount of requests for a video call to 'prove' their identity I get is crazy! And I imagine the majority would be sitting there with their dicks in hand ready to wank!

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

full of actors on here bunch of Patrick Swayze‘s I tell you. Oh if you’re reading this and think I sound angry. Far from it. Actually disappointed. Anyway "

I don't think you sound angry. Judgmental perhaps, entitled maybe.

I spoke to (and stupidly met) a very manipulative guy like this off another site not long ago. I didn't give in to his demands for a call though. Even though he said my anxieties were bullshit (yet his had to be acknowledged so we had to meet in a car park, not the pub we originally agreed to). I didn't call him out for refusing to send pics and claiming the free saying website tried to charge him for uploading pics.

Should have trusted my instincts.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

full of actors on here bunch of Patrick Swayze‘s I tell you. Oh if you’re reading this and think I sound angry. Far from it. Actually disappointed. Anyway "

I think you sound angry opp. There are so many single men on fab im sure they wont be worried about it. They will find anougher .

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By *agicstick69 OP Man
over a year ago

London

Lol. I think all the fakes, time waster, picture Collectors and not forgetting men masquerading as women are getting a complex.

Getting pisses. Behave.

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By *herry OnatopWoman
over a year ago

Just over there

"Lol. I think all the fakes, time waster, picture Collectors and not forgetting men masquerading as women are getting a complex.

Getting pisses. Behave. "

Which ones of the above have you spotted as fakes op? If this thread is where you're referring to above?

I'd like to know

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By *agicstick69 OP Man
over a year ago

London

For real. But I would never ask that. It’s just simple to say hello. Plus you can use the cam room on here no?

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

"Lol. I think all the fakes, time waster, picture Collectors and not forgetting men masquerading as women are getting a complex.

Getting pisses. Behave. "

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

"Lol. I think all the fakes, time waster, picture Collectors and not forgetting men masquerading as women are getting a complex.

Getting pisses. Behave. "

Because your not wanting the answers you want

It's easy to meet have your face pic up and how many times you gonna tell us your not angry

You sound it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I hate video calls!!! With a passion I only do them with friends who are distant and we want to catch up x

Mrs Nuru exactly the same. Wouldn’t wanna speak to strangers when sat home in her PJs with no make up on

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By *agicstick69 OP Man
over a year ago

London

Misconstrued. If anything sarcasm with a hint of mockery comes to mind

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Lol. I think all the fakes, time waster, picture Collectors and not forgetting men masquerading as women are getting a complex.

Getting pisses. Behave. "

No, genuine people are expressing why they genuinely do things the way they do, or why they don't do things the way you expect.

You're just not reading what you want to read.

Of course there are fakes and picture collectors but there are also genuine people with genuine reasons in why they won't Jump through hoops.

Sometimes it's because fingers have already been burned.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"For real. But I would never ask that. It’s just simple to say hello. Plus you can use the cam room on here no?"

fab is full of people that dont meet our needs mate some wont meet cheaters some wont do hotels some insist on socials first some can only meet during school hours some wont send face pics some wont do video calls so bin off those that dont fit what u want and stick with those that do looks like your gym fit so there will be plenty out there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We usually trust a photo verified profile with a selection of verifications. That’s how we usually chose to trust if a profile is genuine. Not sure a video call is also needed ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Even Tesco have to advertise their wares.

If your shop window is empty passers-by have no idea if you are a butcher or a candlestick maker.

There is a direct link between the effort you put in and the quantity and quality of return.

In 4 years here I've never spoken to any woman who is comfortable with a video call or giving their number to random interneters but that doesn't make them fake or me a simpleton. "

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By *agicstick69 OP Man
over a year ago

London

So. I’ve just checked everyone that is saying they don’t cam or video call. Think you need to take it off the (what you’re into) your profile. And your cam verifications. You’ll get people confused

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

"So. I’ve just checked everyone that is saying they don’t cam or video call. Think you need to take it off the (what you’re into) your profile. And your cam verifications. You’ll get people confused "

Behave

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By *agicstick69 OP Man
over a year ago

London

I prefer a twix if truth be known. Have one now save the other for later.

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

There’s no way we’d go on a video call at 3 in the morning - even if we knew them!

Use FAB in a way that it works for you instead of calling out what’s wrong with it.

Profiles are your shop window. A chance to show what’s appealing about you and why you stand out. Using it and the forums to have a go at people isn’t using FAB in the best way.

This is a site to enjoy and have fun.

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By *herry OnatopWoman
over a year ago

Just over there

Why? How?

I enjoy the cam rooms now and then, I enjoy video calls with people I know. I don't use cams to prove identity on initial contact! I exchange face photos

If I don't find you attractive and vice versa then end of. What's confusing?

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

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By *agicstick69 OP Man
over a year ago

London

But they’re online at 3 morning sending fully frontal and saying Their five-year-old is up on a school night. Think someone needs to call social services

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP focus on the positives not negatives. Threads like this I think can be detrimental to ones chances of attracting interested parties. I get FAB can be frustrating but it can also be fun if played a different way

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

"But they’re online at 3 morning sending fully frontal and saying Their five-year-old is up on a school night. Think someone needs to call social services"

There you go, judging again lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be straight, your response here is screaming 'red flags' to me.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

"But they’re online at 3 morning sending fully frontal and saying Their five-year-old is up on a school night. Think someone needs to call social services"

There you go, judging again lol

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By *agicstick69 OP Man
over a year ago

London

If that’s how you feel

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By *agicstick69 OP Man
over a year ago

London

No calling it out

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By *esparate danMan
over a year ago

glasgow

You do sound pretty thirsty dude

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By *etite_delightWoman
over a year ago

BunnyLand

I don’t do video calls but if someone brings up excuses instead of being upfront, it only means either fake or messing with your time. I wouldn’t dwell on it and smoothly move on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

haha good thread this I think the op is either deliberately winding people up to get a rise or wanted a cam wank in the early hours and got rejected haha which is it????

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By *agicstick69 OP Man
over a year ago

London

If someone ask me for a face picture. I’ll will reply back with my phone number and ask them kindly to call me off a private number. If you’re not good with that… you can always jog on. I will never force the issue. All parties have to be comfortable.

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By *agicstick69 OP Man
over a year ago

London

Nahhhhh. I just asked a question. I’ll give you my number you call me off a private number. What’s wrong with that. If something doesn’t add it doesn’t add.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I done cam before a few times (tho do I enjoy it? Not particularly), but if u randomly ask me at 2am to do a video call… like forget it

U guys don’t know how easy u got it when u can be rough as arseholes Untrimmed the lot, and none bats an eyelid

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

"No calling it out "

You need to use the REPLY + QUOTE option or people don’t know who you are replying to.

Sounds a bit like there’s a bee stuck in your bonnet and you are using the forums as a place to air your negative griefs.

Why not come back when you can be less tetchy!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

1. My 5 year old is up. ( bearing in mind it’s 3am)

Anyway have a great Sunday

Lots of people don't like to give out their mobile number so why not use something like kik where you can video call without giving out your number they might be more receptive to your request."

All Hail The KIK App.

Other app of this ilk are available

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By *agicstick69 OP Man
over a year ago

London

One thing with me. I will never beg for sex. It’s not cool. Besides Women don’t like Beggars. I’m a very handsome black educated man with a body straight out of a 300 movie. I’m the truth

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nahhhhh. I just asked a question. I’ll give you my number you call me off a private number. What’s wrong with that. If something doesn’t add it doesn’t add. "

Just because someone doesn't want to call does not mean they are fake. Maybe they just don't want to call....

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

"One thing with me. I will never beg for sex. It’s not cool. Besides Women don’t like Beggars. I’m a very handsome black educated man with a body straight out of a 300 movie. I’m the truth

And modest

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By *agicstick69 OP Man
over a year ago

London

"No calling it out

You need to use the REPLY + QUOTE option or people don’t know who you are replying to.

Sounds a bit like there’s a bee stuck in your bonnet and you are using the forums as a place to air your negative griefs.

Not at all. Just asked a question

Why not come back when you can be less tetchy! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A little tip....... Click 'reply and quote' so people know whatb you're replying to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We used to chat away in the video room. We were comfortable with that level of intimacy. Sometimes we would fuck or 69 or whatever caught our fancy.

We never gave out our phone number until we were physically meeting people. We never wanted to video chat with people either. We would get lots of offers but we wanted to be in control and you don't have that on a video call with someone

AND guess what will wake a 5 year old up at 3 am ... people talking at 3 am.

We had out youngest torment us because we were "watching telly" in our bedroom . We couldn't do it in the living room because the older kids would hear.

I feel your pain OP. But sometimes people only want to interact at a certain distance

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By *agicstick69 OP Man
over a year ago

London

"One thing with me. I will never beg for sex. It’s not cool. Besides Women don’t like Beggars. I’m a very handsome black educated man with a body straight out of a 300 movie. I’m the truth

And modest "

I know what I have to offer

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By *agicstick69 OP Man
over a year ago

London

"A little tip....... Click 'reply and quote' so people know whatb you're replying to."

Note to self

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"One thing with me. I will never beg for sex. It’s not cool. Besides Women don’t like Beggars. I’m a very handsome black educated man with a body straight out of a 300 movie. I’m the truth

And modest "

girllllll hahah x

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

"One thing with me. I will never beg for sex. It’s not cool. Besides Women don’t like Beggars. I’m a very handsome black educated man with a body straight out of a 300 movie. I’m the truth

And modest

I know what I have to offer "

Ok better go to Hollywood then

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By *agicstick69 OP Man
over a year ago

London

"We used to chat away in the video room. We were comfortable with that level of intimacy. Sometimes we would fuck or 69 or whatever caught our fancy.

AND guess what will wake a 5 year old up at 3 am ... people talking at 3 am.

We had out youngest torment us because we were "watching telly" in our bedroom . We couldn't do it in the living room because the older kids would hear.

I feel your pain OP. But sometimes people only want to interact at a certain distance "

I’ll give you mine you call me on private. What’s the issue?

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

"One thing with me. I will never beg for sex. It’s not cool. Besides Women don’t like Beggars. I’m a very handsome black educated man with a body straight out of a 300 movie. I’m the truth

And modest

girllllll hahah x"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"One thing with me. I will never beg for sex. It’s not cool. Besides Women don’t like Beggars. I’m a very handsome black educated man with a body straight out of a 300 movie. I’m the truth

And modest

I know what I have to offer

Ok better go to Hollywood then"

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By *agicstick69 OP Man
over a year ago

London

"One thing with me. I will never beg for sex. It’s not cool. Besides Women don’t like Beggars. I’m a very handsome black educated man with a body straight out of a 300 movie. I’m the truth

And modest

I know what I have to offer

Ok better go to Hollywood then"

I’m in the Netflix sandman series coming out soon xxx

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

"One thing with me. I will never beg for sex. It’s not cool. Besides Women don’t like Beggars. I’m a very handsome black educated man with a body straight out of a 300 movie. I’m the truth

And modest

I know what I have to offer

Ok better go to Hollywood then

I’m in the Netflix sandman series coming out soon xxx"

Il be watching xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

5 year olds can be up at 3 am, though. So that's a weird example. Kids are a bloody nightmare. Glad I don't have any. Lol

People don't have to do anything they don't want to. We can do whatever we want to.

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

I'm not gonna give you ear ache

OP all the best hope you find what your looking for x have you tried putting a meet in the looking to meet section x

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By *agicstick69 OP Man
over a year ago

London

"One thing with me. I will never beg for sex. It’s not cool. Besides Women don’t like Beggars. I’m a very handsome black educated man with a body straight out of a 300 movie. I’m the truth

And modest

I know what I have to offer

Ok better go to Hollywood then

I’m in the Netflix sandman series coming out soon xxx

Il be watching xx"

You won’t Recognise me due to the make-up and costume. Met one of my heroes Stephen Fry he’s in the series to

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston

"One thing with me. I will never beg for sex. It’s not cool. Besides Women don’t like Beggars. I’m a very handsome black educated man with a body straight out of a 300 movie. I’m the truth

You might be the truth but you aren’t every woman’s thing you might want to consider that. There are lots of things women don’t like

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By *agicstick69 OP Man
over a year ago

London

"I'm not gonna give you ear ache

OP all the best hope you find what your looking for x have you tried putting a meet in the looking to meet section x"

Sometimes

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

"I'm not gonna give you ear ache

OP all the best hope you find what your looking for x have you tried putting a meet in the looking to meet section x

Sometimes "

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

"One thing with me. I will never beg for sex. It’s not cool. Besides Women don’t like Beggars. I’m a very handsome black educated man with a body straight out of a 300 movie. I’m the truth

And modest

I know what I have to offer

Ok better go to Hollywood then

I’m in the Netflix sandman series coming out soon xxx

Il be watching xx

You won’t Recognise me due to the make-up and costume. Met one of my heroes Stephen Fry he’s in the series to"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"One thing with me. I will never beg for sex. It’s not cool. Besides Women don’t like Beggars. I’m a very handsome black educated man with a body straight out of a 300 movie. I’m the truth

And modest

I know what I have to offer

Ok better go to Hollywood then

I’m in the Netflix sandman series coming out soon xxx

Il be watching xx

You won’t Recognise me due to the make-up and costume. Met one of my heroes Stephen Fry he’s in the series to"

Did he agree to video call you ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"One thing with me. I will never beg for sex. It’s not cool. Besides Women don’t like Beggars. I’m a very handsome black educated man with a body straight out of a 300 movie. I’m the truth

You might be the truth but you aren’t every woman’s thing you might want to consider that. There are lots of things women don’t like

Like a slight tinge of arrogance to name one?

Did she go too far?

Morning all, how you doing?

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By *agicstick69 OP Man
over a year ago

London

"One thing with me. I will never beg for sex. It’s not cool. Besides Women don’t like Beggars. I’m a very handsome black educated man with a body straight out of a 300 movie. I’m the truth

You might be the truth but you aren’t every woman’s thing you might want to consider that. There are lots of things women don’t like

I’ll prefer an Aston Martin over a Porsche but I’ll still pay homage to the Porsche. I know I’m not ever woman’s cup of tea, but I’m still handsome

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t do video calls. I absolutely hate them, and I’ve never had to do one on here, except the odd female friend.

I never give out my number. You can block a phone number, that doesn’t stop them getting a new phone, they still have your number.

I don’t have to justify why I won’t do these things, and if someone can’t respect that, they aren’t for me anyway.

I will never understand why people complain about women enjoying taking and posting pictures on here.

I post most days, because I enjoy it, why would you complain about people posting naked pictures!?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you don't like someone's response to a request, oh I don't know, oh here's an idea BLOCK THEM

By the way THAT's sarcasm, not like your tantrums so far. It sound like a hissy fit because you spent twenty mins of your life messaging someone.

If you think someone is fake, wether or not they are, they don't care if you think that. So it's just your energy your wasting.

Oh and I wouldn't give out my phone number either. Especially to someone whose forum posts show they don't handle rejection well.

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By *agicstick69 OP Man
over a year ago

London

"I don’t do video calls. I absolutely hate them, and I’ve never had to do one on here, except the odd female friend.

I never give out my number. You can block a phone number, that doesn’t stop them getting a new phone, they still have your number.

I don’t have to justify why I won’t do these things, and if someone can’t respect that, they aren’t for me anyway.

I will never understand why people complain about women enjoying taking and posting pictures on here.

I post most days, because I enjoy it, why would you complain about people posting naked pictures!?!

I’ll give you my number you call me on private. What’s the issue

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

You can usually tell when some one is wasting time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We used to chat away in the video room. We were comfortable with that level of intimacy. Sometimes we would fuck or 69 or whatever caught our fancy.

AND guess what will wake a 5 year old up at 3 am ... people talking at 3 am.

We had out youngest torment us because we were "watching telly" in our bedroom . We couldn't do it in the living room because the older kids would hear.

I feel your pain OP. But sometimes people only want to interact at a certain distance

I’ll give you mine you call me on private. What’s the issue?"

It can be about control. On here there is distance. If I don't want to answer a question I can just close my phone and go to sleep. I'm in control.

On a video call we share control. You see me at my most vulnerable, in my bedroom, a place of safety, and if it's women you are chatting to ... without makeup making them feel extra vulnerable.

Looking into someones eyes while talking to them is intimate. Some people don't want that. What if they don't want to see you wank, what if they are quite happy just chatting because their 5 Yr old is in the next room and he's has a tooth ache and this is the one thing you have enjoyed all week and you don't want him waking up.

There are a million reasons why someone wouldn't want to video chat with you. It doesn't make them all fake or dudes or even timewasters. It just makes them normal people who want to do things to the level they want.

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By *agicstick69 OP Man
over a year ago

London

"If you don't like someone's response to a request, oh I don't know, oh here's an idea BLOCK THEM

By the way THAT's sarcasm, not like your tantrums so far. It sound like a hissy fit because you spent twenty mins of your life messaging someone.

If you think someone is fake, wether or not they are, they don't care if you think that. So it's just your energy your wasting.

Oh and I wouldn't give out my phone number either. Especially to someone whose forum posts show they don't handle rejection well."

Lol. I’ll give you my number you call me on a private what’s the excuse. Again I just asked a question

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don’t do video calls. I absolutely hate them, and I’ve never had to do one on here, except the odd female friend.

I never give out my number. You can block a phone number, that doesn’t stop them getting a new phone, they still have your number.

I don’t have to justify why I won’t do these things, and if someone can’t respect that, they aren’t for me anyway.

I will never understand why people complain about women enjoying taking and posting pictures on here.

I post most days, because I enjoy it, why would you complain about people posting naked pictures!?!

I’ll give you my number you call me on private. What’s the issue "

she dont like em she said that up there so thats like you saying you dont like cock up your arse and me saying ill just lube you up and stick it up there anyway whats the issue haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We used to chat away in the video room. We were comfortable with that level of intimacy. Sometimes we would fuck or 69 or whatever caught our fancy.

AND guess what will wake a 5 year old up at 3 am ... people talking at 3 am.

We had out youngest torment us because we were "watching telly" in our bedroom . We couldn't do it in the living room because the older kids would hear.

I feel your pain OP. But sometimes people only want to interact at a certain distance

I’ll give you mine you call me on private. What’s the issue?

It can be about control. On here there is distance. If I don't want to answer a question I can just close my phone and go to sleep. I'm in control.

On a video call we share control. You see me at my most vulnerable, in my bedroom, a place of safety, and if it's women you are chatting to ... without makeup making them feel extra vulnerable.

What if they having shaved their fanny and they were going to but that fucking tooth ache is driving them nuts and they just needed a bit of a distraction from the grinding humiliation of life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don’t do video calls. I absolutely hate them, and I’ve never had to do one on here, except the odd female friend.

I never give out my number. You can block a phone number, that doesn’t stop them getting a new phone, they still have your number.

I don’t have to justify why I won’t do these things, and if someone can’t respect that, they aren’t for me anyway.

I will never understand why people complain about women enjoying taking and posting pictures on here.

I post most days, because I enjoy it, why would you complain about people posting naked pictures!?!

I’ll give you my number you call me on private. What’s the issue "

Why would you need to, there’s a perfectly good messaging system that works on here, whilst you establish if you have a connection.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP, your green arrow informs me that you have been struggling with this same issue and posting the same lines for a couple of years now. Maybe you need to consider that the constant in all this is YOU. So maybe it’s your approach that’s the issue here and not others. It’s clearly something that you have found often throughout your fab experience. What we would do in this circumstance is learn from people’s responses to perhaps tailor how we use fab and what we expect from it ?

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By *agicstick69 OP Man
over a year ago

London

"We used to chat away in the video room. We were comfortable with that level of intimacy. Sometimes we would fuck or 69 or whatever caught our fancy.

AND guess what will wake a 5 year old up at 3 am ... people talking at 3 am.

We had out youngest torment us because we were "watching telly" in our bedroom . We couldn't do it in the living room because the older kids would hear.

I feel your pain OP. But sometimes people only want to interact at a certain distance

I’ll give you mine you call me on private. What’s the issue?

It can be about control. On here there is distance. If I don't want to answer a question I can just close my phone and go to sleep. I'm in control.

On a video call we share control. You see me at my most vulnerable, in my bedroom, a place of safety, and if it's women you are chatting to ... without makeup making them feel extra vulnerable.

"
me giving you my number and calling me on a private number the control is with you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't like video calls. I will not even entertain the idea of video chat with someone I barely know.

But anyway, it's really not that difficult to suss out if someone is fake. And if you expect a private number and video chat in the very early stages of talking then you're being completely unreasonable.

If you can't respect her choice then forget about her and find someone else who enjoys video chats and personal number swaps. You say you're not angry but you do sound upset OP.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t give out my number as my address can be found easily with a bit of searching.

I also probably wouldn’t video call at 3am because I probably look like shit at that time

But, I do video call (cleanly) at a preplanned time as I’ve had a few socials where they looked nothing like their pics. It’s not just women who use filters and/or use deceiving angles. It’s also the reason I have a pretty much nude pic on my (friends only) pics, showing my body as it is (imperfections and all) because I’d hate someone to expect something different when we met.

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By *agicstick69 OP Man
over a year ago

London

"OP, your green arrow informs me that you have been struggling with this same issue and posting the same lines for a couple of years now. Maybe you need to consider that the constant in all this is YOU. So maybe it’s your approach that’s the issue here and not others. It’s clearly something that you have found often throughout your fab experience. What we would do in this circumstance is learn from people’s responses to perhaps tailor how we use fab and what we expect from it ? "
cool cool

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

Oh and I wouldn't give out my phone number either. Especially to someone whose forum posts show they don't handle rejection well."

I have been known to give out my number to someone I've gotten to know.

I've had precisely 1 video call in the entire time I've been on here and it's with someone I'd chatted to for over a year. It's not something I choose to do as a rule.

If that makes me a fake and a time waster in the opinion of butt-hurt guys everywhere I find I can bear that burden very easily.

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By *agicstick69 OP Man
over a year ago

London

"I don't like video calls. I will not even entertain the idea of video chat with someone I barely know.

If you can't respect her choice then forget about her and find someone else who enjoys video chats and personal number swaps. You say you're not angry but you do sound upset OP.

Lol ok thanks for the advice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Someone needs to get laid

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't like video calls. I will not even entertain the idea of video chat with someone I barely know.

If you can't respect her choice then forget about her and find someone else who enjoys video chats and personal number swaps. You say you're not angry but you do sound upset OP.

Lol ok thanks for the advice "

You're welcome. You'll be much happier and have more success in the long run if you follow it.

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By *agicstick69 OP Man
over a year ago

London

Oh and I wouldn't give out my phone number either. Especially to someone whose forum posts show they don't handle rejection well.

I have been known to give out my number to someone I've gotten to know.

I've had precisely 1 video call in the entire time I've been on here and it's with someone I'd chatted to for over a year. It's not something I choose to do as a rule.

If that makes me a fake and a time waster in the opinion of butt-hurt guys everywhere I find I can bear that burden very easily."
says you’ve cam twice

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By *agicstick69 OP Man
over a year ago

London

"I don't like video calls. I will not even entertain the idea of video chat with someone I barely know.

If you can't respect her choice then forget about her and find someone else who enjoys video chats and personal number swaps. You say you're not angry but you do sound upset OP.

Lol ok thanks for the advice

You're welcome. You'll be much happier and have more success in the long run if you follow it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Someone needs to get laid

Everyone needs to get laid lol

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By *onb21Woman
over a year ago

Cardiff

So a video call is like a date, or a social meet if you like.

This means in most cases I can't have it at the drop of a hat, especially if it's the first time I am seeing that person. I want to do myself up and look my best, like I would for a date.

With video calling, there is the added complication that most of us are not professional camera people and we don't know how to hold or position our device to show us at the best angle. We don't know what background or light is best. None of this are considerations when we go on a date but for video they are and they are anxiety inducing.

With regards to mobile number sharing, this is an issue of privacy because if I give you my number I will soon appear as a suggested friend on your social media. What if I don't want you to have that level of detail of my person?

The way around it are apps like Telegram which give greater anonymity but you'd still have to treat a request to video call like a request to meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We used to chat away in the video room. We were comfortable with that level of intimacy. Sometimes we would fuck or 69 or whatever caught our fancy.

AND guess what will wake a 5 year old up at 3 am ... people talking at 3 am.

We had out youngest torment us because we were "watching telly" in our bedroom . We couldn't do it in the living room because the older kids would hear.

I feel your pain OP. But sometimes people only want to interact at a certain distance

I’ll give you mine you call me on private. What’s the issue?

It can be about control. On here there is distance. If I don't want to answer a question I can just close my phone and go to sleep. I'm in control.

On a video call we share control. You see me at my most vulnerable, in my bedroom, a place of safety, and if it's women you are chatting to ... without makeup making them feel extra vulnerable.

me giving you my number and calling me on a private number the control is with you "
exactly. Until we call then you have control too. I have to behave in a certain way. I have to smile when I'm tired and look haggard and my hairy fanny isn't actually wet, it's just mildly stimulated but now I need to perform.

We have played with people who wouldn't video chat with us if we asked them to.

This is something you should accept. Not everyone will want to do something just because you want to do it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm free for a video chat if anyone is bored?

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By *agicstick69 OP Man
over a year ago

London

"Someone needs to get laid

"
that would be nice. But there’s no rush

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you don't like someone's response to a request, oh I don't know, oh here's an idea BLOCK THEM

By the way THAT's sarcasm, not like your tantrums so far. It sound like a hissy fit because you spent twenty mins of your life messaging someone.

If you think someone is fake, wether or not they are, they don't care if you think that. So it's just your energy your wasting.

Oh and I wouldn't give out my phone number either. Especially to someone whose forum posts show they don't handle rejection well.

Lol. I’ll give you my number you call me on a private what’s the excuse. Again I just asked a question "

They don't have to have a reason to not do something they don't want to and certainly don't owe an explanation to you.

You asked a question, got dozens of answers but are still going on because they don't agree with you.

If I agree with you and say how terrible it is and how the whole world is against you getting laid will you just sign out and stop using FAB?

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By *agicstick69 OP Man
over a year ago

London

"I'm free for a video chat if anyone is bored?

Lol. I like this guy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh and I wouldn't give out my phone number either. Especially to someone whose forum posts show they don't handle rejection well.

I have been known to give out my number to someone I've gotten to know.

I've had precisely 1 video call in the entire time I've been on here and it's with someone I'd chatted to for over a year. It's not something I choose to do as a rule.

If that makes me a fake and a time waster in the opinion of butt-hurt guys everywhere I find I can bear that burden very easily. says you’ve cam twice "

And? I’ve cammed too, when I choose to, and I don’t have to show my face doing that.

Women have the choice to do these things.

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By *agicstick69 OP Man
over a year ago

London

"If you don't like someone's response to a request, oh I don't know, oh here's an idea BLOCK THEM

By the way THAT's sarcasm, not like your tantrums so far. It sound like a hissy fit because you spent twenty mins of your life messaging someone.

If you think someone is fake, wether or not they are, they don't care if you think that. So it's just your energy your wasting.

Oh and I wouldn't give out my phone number either. Especially to someone whose forum posts show they don't handle rejection well.

Lol. I’ll give you my number you call me on a private what’s the excuse. Again I just asked a question

They don't have to have a reason to not do something they don't want to and certainly don't owe an explanation to you.

You asked a question, got dozens of answers but are still going on because they don't agree with you.

If I agree with you and say how terrible it is and how the whole world is against you getting laid will you just sign out and stop using FAB?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm free for a video chat if anyone is bored?

Calm ur tits sunshine x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I won't video chat with my mammy. She's pushy on it too.

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By *agicstick69 OP Man
over a year ago

London

Oh and I wouldn't give out my phone number either. Especially to someone whose forum posts show they don't handle rejection well.

I have been known to give out my number to someone I've gotten to know.

I've had precisely 1 video call in the entire time I've been on here and it's with someone I'd chatted to for over a year. It's not something I choose to do as a rule.

If that makes me a fake and a time waster in the opinion of butt-hurt guys everywhere I find I can bear that burden very easily. says you’ve cam twice

And? I’ve cammed too, when I choose to, and I don’t have to show my face doing that.

Women have the choice to do these things. "
as always

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By *adeiteWoman
over a year ago

Poole, but up in lincs for a bit

Well this thread is a car crash from start to finish

OP sounds very entitled

Women don't owe you anything

Maybe move on from those who don't wish to bend over backwards for you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm free for a video chat if anyone is bored?

Calm ur tits sunshine x

You love me so shhhhhhhhhhh