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Do you ever make excuses

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

For your partners behaviour?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"For your partners behaviour? "

to others that is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

no

i don't have one

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By *reat me rightWoman
over a year ago

Rotherham

I dont have a partner sadly but I wouldn't if I did. I'd hope that he was a grown man and responsible for his own actions and others would recognise that

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

When I had one, yes.

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

No. Never have. My ex husband was a proper character. He could hold his own and made no apologies for being him either.

I suppose it would depend on how they behaved.. like if it was a result of something others weren’t aware of.. I’m not sure if there would be a situation where I would..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

excuses no apologies yes haha not really just kiddin

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

When I had one, a reason possibly, but an excuse, never

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

No. He's responsible for his own behaviour and doesn't do anything that needs excusing in my opinion.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I always find it strange when people confront a person about their partner's behaviour.

"Your husband was rude to me"

What am I supposed to do about that?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I always find it strange when people confront a person about their partner's behaviour.

"Your husband was rude to me"

What am I supposed to do about that?"

Well, indeed

However, in this case, a friend decided to set up a fb messenger group chat to ask myself and another friend if her husband had 'upset us' after we'd blocked him

(Neither of us were aware the other had blocked him btw)

She then proceeded to make excuses / provide reasons for his behaviour which, as he is a 53 year old man, I thought was a little odd

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"I always find it strange when people confront a person about their partner's behaviour.

"Your husband was rude to me"

What am I supposed to do about that?

Well, indeed

However, in this case, a friend decided to set up a fb messenger group chat to ask myself and another friend if her husband had 'upset us' after we'd blocked him

(Neither of us were aware the other had blocked him btw)

She then proceeded to make excuses / provide reasons for his behaviour which, as he is a 53 year old man, I thought was a little odd "

Some couples have a relationship that is more like parent and child than two adults I've noticed. Our neighbours are like this and it bemused me

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Why did you block him?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only when he got so d*unk that he threw up all over their landing and then fell asleep in the bathroom

Otherwise, no but then I have a very low threshold for binning… probably why I am single!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Why did you block him? "

He was being toxic, spewing bile and generally trolly

I did consider telling him about the Forums, he'd be a great addition

Certainly keep you on your toes Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I probably have done in the past yes.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Why did you block him?

He was being toxic, spewing bile and generally trolly

I did consider telling him about the Forums, he'd be a great addition

Certainly keep you on your toes Mrs "

.

I find the dynamic of other people's relationships endlessly fascinating, bile spewing trolls less so.

Our neighbour gives her husband a list of things to do when she goes out. She can't understand why I don't do the same

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