FabSwingers.com forum: Falling for someone

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Has this happened to anyone from fab, falling for someone on fab ?

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By *ilent...BobMan
over a year ago

Shushhhhhhyourmouthville

Oh yessss! (Churchill voice)

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Oh yessss! (Churchill voice)

Did it work out ?

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

Lots of people. There are quite a few couples who met here. Some now married.

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By *ilent...BobMan
over a year ago

Shushhhhhhyourmouthville

"Oh yessss! (Churchill voice)

Did it work out ?"

Yeah, I guess, for a few years. She was lovely, still is

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By *arl17Man
over a year ago

Central Portugal

"Has this happened to anyone from fab, falling for someone on fab ?"

A relationship is a relationship whether on here or elsewhere... it’s still the same if u are both connected

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i met mu husband on a very similar site...we fell in love married had 10 amazing years ...he passed away last year...he told me to find someone else with his blessing

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By *his_Kitty_ScratchesWoman
over a year ago

WSM

It’s not done me any favours yet… still here hoping though

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Has this happened to anyone from fab, falling for someone on fab ?

A relationship is a relationship whether on here or elsewhere... it’s still the same if u are both connected "

I get that but not if they are part of a couple on this

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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago

London

Met one of my favourite people on here.

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston

Hell yes

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By *arl17Man
over a year ago

Central Portugal

"Has this happened to anyone from fab, falling for someone on fab ?

A relationship is a relationship whether on here or elsewhere... it’s still the same if u are both connected

I get that but not if they are part of a couple on this "

To be a couple u need to meet first I think

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By *isstonguetasticjoWoman
over a year ago

widnes

I cant win sometines

I start chatting to some people

Seem to be gettin on i feel

Bit of banter

As u do

Bresk the ice

Then the question what are u lookin for pops up

Well if u arrange to meet someone n u get on

Then a few more meets then u feel summit developing together then if uvwant to take it fuerher then wats stopping tmypu both becoming a couple

But then if i said if a reletionship developed to someone

They just flip n turn round n say

THIS IS A SEX SITE NOT A DATING SITE GO N TRY POF N TINDER.

so wat does that prove

One rule for one one rule for another then they block me

But as u say there are a lot on here who have met no as you say expect the unexpected n relationships blossom n weddings develop and then kids arrive

But then i just get thst shit off some people .

Fine then if they block me

Their loss

N good luck to those on here for your future ings

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By *arl17Man
over a year ago

Central Portugal

"I cant win sometines

I start chatting to some people

Seem to be gettin on i feel

Bit of banter

As u do

Bresk the ice

Then the question what are u lookin for pops up

Well if u arrange to meet someone n u get on

Then a few more meets then u feel summit developing together then if uvwant to take it fuerher then wats stopping tmypu both becoming a couple

But then if i said if a reletionship developed to someone

They just flip n turn round n say

THIS IS A SEX SITE NOT A DATING SITE GO N TRY POF N TINDER.

so wat does that prove

One rule for one one rule for another then they block me

But as u say there are a lot on here who have met no as you say expect the unexpected n relationships blossom n weddings develop and then kids arrive

But then i just get thst shit off some people .

Fine then if they block me

Their loss

N good luck to those on here for your future ings

Those fellas ain’t true to themselves if they say that... total insecurity x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah, around twelve years ago.

Thought she was a gift from heaven.

Turned out to be a lying and manipulative person.

Broke me emotionally at the time but time's a great healer and I'm well rid...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes. My boyfriend and I met on here 5 years ago, our intention was to just meet up but when we did we fell for each other.

NBVN x

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

Yes, I have. But I got over it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes. My boyfriend and I met on here 5 years ago, our intention was to just meet up but when we did we fell for each other.

NBVN x"

Awww I love your two’s story xx

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By *irty Fun GuyMan
over a year ago

Kidderminster

Yes my wife has a bf she met from here

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

My ex and I met on here. We were together 2 years so it does/can happen x

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

Yep

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Glad I'm not the only person it has happened to then

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By *ancer36Woman
over a year ago

Stirling

This question often perplexes me, fab doesn’t make you devoid of making connections with people purely because it is essentially a sex site…sex is a connection in itself.

We’re all human, it is possible to fall for someone regardless of where you meet, in fact I don’t think the meeting place has anything to do with it, you are drawn to people and sometimes you just find that click xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you’re the kind of people on here who will exchange a few messages and meet within hours I guess you’ll never potentially fall for someone… if you take your time chatting and getting to know a person of course a connection can build from that… and from that relationships can blossom and potentially flourish xx

Being on here has no bearing to how people will feel about one another. And it’s usually when you’re not looking that you can be blindsided by love or falling for someone.

It happened to me and I don’t regret it that it didn’t become more.because what we had even fir a short time was fantastic and fun and meant something to us both. She is now one of my closest friends and we share our problems and our lives freely and we care for each other.

Would I do it all again… yes I would

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By *ilent...BobMan
over a year ago

Shushhhhhhyourmouthville

"If you’re the kind of people on here who will exchange a few messages and meet within hours I guess you’ll never potentially fall for someone… if you take your time chatting and getting to know a person of course a connection can build from that… and from that relationships can blossom and potentially flourish xx

Being on here has no bearing to how people will feel about one another. And it’s usually when you’re not looking that you can be blindsided by love or falling for someone.

Would I do it all again… yes I would

Why couldn't that "kind" of person fall for someone?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being on here has no bearing to how people will feel about one another. And it’s usually when you’re not looking that you can be blindsided by love or falling for someone.

Would I do it all again… yes I would

Why couldn't that "kind" of person fall for someone?

After a few messages arranging sex… because you haven’t connected you’ve fucked. That’s not falling for someone that’s just horny lust.

Which is great but it’s not really falling for someone is it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would love to fall for someone & them me..

Just a hopeless romantic

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By *oldiertronixMan
over a year ago

Walsall

I've tried not to fall in love with someone knowing that if I did I'd be crushed. Ended up falling for her, had 5 years of calling each other soulmates and had great times but recently pulled away (she is still married and now her kids are teens she said she has to move her focus back to them) Destroyed/Destroying me. Doesnt phone, texts are "friendly" but distant. I get upset, frustrated, confusing and she uses that against me. Back on here to try and move on, take my mind off it. Sorry... it's not as if I can tell anyone about it other than here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, nope, never.

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By *ilent...BobMan
over a year ago

Shushhhhhhyourmouthville

Being on here has no bearing to how people will feel about one another. And it’s usually when you’re not looking that you can be blindsided by love or falling for someone.

Would I do it all again… yes I would

Why couldn't that "kind" of person fall for someone?

After a few messages arranging sex… because you haven’t connected you’ve fucked. That’s not falling for someone that’s just horny lust.

Which is great but it’s not really falling for someone is it? "

It could surely be a start, like the few plus one'th message?

Don't those kind of people love like other kinds of people?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes. My boyfriend and I met on here 5 years ago, our intention was to just meet up but when we did we fell for each other.

NBVN x

Awww I love your two’s story xx"

Thanks Tom... he is a keeper for sure

NBVN x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being on here has no bearing to how people will feel about one another. And it’s usually when you’re not looking that you can be blindsided by love or falling for someone.

Would I do it all again… yes I would

Why couldn't that "kind" of person fall for someone?

After a few messages arranging sex… because you haven’t connected you’ve fucked. That’s not falling for someone that’s just horny lust.

Which is great but it’s not really falling for someone is it?

It could surely be a start, like the few plus one'th message?

Don't those kind of people love like other kinds of people?"

Maybe maybe they don’t care either way… I’m jyst saying at the point t if meeting if there’s no connection beforehand then how can you fall for that person… it’s done over time not a handful of messages

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I’ve seen a few couples that have started a relationship from fab. Makes sense really as they have common interests and it’s easy to understand certain lifestyles when you are a part of that lifestyle.

I meet a couple in Cupid’s once, they met in an old porn cinema many moons ago. Got married and their wedding reception was at a swingers club, think everyone had a great time by what she was describing, they are still together, well last time I seen them before COVID, been married for at least 10 years, and seemed very happy.

You can certainly meet the love of your life on here.

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By *ilent...BobMan
over a year ago

Shushhhhhhyourmouthville

Being on here has no bearing to how people will feel about one another. And it’s usually when you’re not looking that you can be blindsided by love or falling for someone.

Would I do it all again… yes I would

Why couldn't that "kind" of person fall for someone?

After a few messages arranging sex… because you haven’t connected you’ve fucked. That’s not falling for someone that’s just horny lust.

Which is great but it’s not really falling for someone is it?

It could surely be a start, like the few plus one'th message?

Don't those kind of people love like other kinds of people?

Like in messages, yes. Are text and face to face discussions that different?

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By *ecky and justCouple
over a year ago

Godalming

It happens.

We couldn’t be happier.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As others have said lots of couples have met here. I suppose if you chat and meet someone regularly you are bound to build some sort of a connection.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've tried not to fall in love with someone knowing that if I did I'd be crushed. Ended up falling for her, had 5 years of calling each other soulmates and had great times but recently pulled away (she is still married and now her kids are teens she said she has to move her focus back to them) Destroyed/Destroying me. Doesnt phone, texts are "friendly" but distant. I get upset, frustrated, confusing and she uses that against me. Back on here to try and move on, take my mind off it. Sorry... it's not as if I can tell anyone about it other than here. "

This would be my difficulty, the secrecy, falling for someone but you cant share the joy, broken hearted but you cant share the pain. Thats really tough

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By *urora1912Woman
over a year ago

Norfolk East anglia

Me and my fwb fell for each other but at the time we were nothing married to other people. Didn't plan to fall for each other

I ended things and walked away heartbroken and now he won't speak to me

Never again will I fall for someone in that situation

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By *itzi999Woman
over a year ago

Slough

"Has this happened to anyone from fab, falling for someone on fab ?"

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Yes, met my partner here almost 6 years ago.

We weren't actively looking for more, but it just happened.

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By *ilverjagMan
over a year ago

swansea

There's always someone you meet who has that certain something that nobody else has, and if you have a meeting of minds, Fab is probably the place where you are most likely to meet that special person.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Me and my fwb fell for each other but at the time we were nothing married to other people. Didn't plan to fall for each other

I ended things and walked away heartbroken and now he won't speak to me

Never again will I fall for someone in that situation "

Yeah think I'm down that road the now

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