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"i dont think your doing that badly to be honest. your verifications are a very long list so it looks to me like your getting plenty of pleasure. but as your asking. what is it you want?" lol | |||
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"i dont think your doing that badly to be honest. your verifications are a very long list so it looks to me like your getting plenty of pleasure. but as your asking. what is it you want?" My veris are great and most of em social...but I'm getting frustrated at the amount of profiles on here who give no thought to what they write....yes I've had good meets...just lately the messages are doing my head in... My profile is very clear what I'm looking for...and for those that don't read it...its called respect...lol | |||
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"All I asked was if you'd come round and put up some shelving. I dln't see the need to get arsey, I'd happily come round and do your ironing in return." Lol didn't mean to sound shitty but just waded through about 40 messages from couples and single guys with almost instructions of what they want me to do....no mention of what they would give in return....even had a whole scenario typed out by a couple who didn't once mention me getting anything....even ended with me getting dressed without cumming and leaving them both satisfied on the bed....ffs .... | |||
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"All I asked was if you'd come round and put up some shelving. I dln't see the need to get arsey, I'd happily come round and do your ironing in return. Lol didn't mean to sound shitty but just waded through about 40 messages from couples and single guys with almost instructions of what they want me to do....no mention of what they would give in return....even had a whole scenario typed out by a couple who didn't once mention me getting anything....even ended with me getting dressed without cumming and leaving them both satisfied on the bed....ffs ...." Lol, you can't blame them for trying. I get a lot of men wanting me to watch them on cam. 1. I don't do cam and 2. I have better things to do than watch someone wanking. | |||
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"All I asked was if you'd come round and put up some shelving. I dln't see the need to get arsey, I'd happily come round and do your ironing in return. Lol didn't mean to sound shitty but just waded through about 40 messages from couples and single guys with almost instructions of what they want me to do....no mention of what they would give in return....even had a whole scenario typed out by a couple who didn't once mention me getting anything....even ended with me getting dressed without cumming and leaving them both satisfied on the bed....ffs ...." Well I am sure there are 1000s of men on this site that would love to be in your situation. They would love to be getting messages for people asking for there help. Why do you not be proactive and message men or couples with what you would like | |||
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"Just thought it took the biscuit...having one of those days...I'm sure all my messages from now on will be from polite honest genuine and respectful people....haha" There should be an emergency filter for 'those days' | |||
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"All I asked was if you'd come round and put up some shelving. I dln't see the need to get arsey, I'd happily come round and do your ironing in return. Lol didn't mean to sound shitty but just waded through about 40 messages from couples and single guys with almost instructions of what they want me to do....no mention of what they would give in return....even had a whole scenario typed out by a couple who didn't once mention me getting anything....even ended with me getting dressed without cumming and leaving them both satisfied on the bed....ffs .... Well I am sure there are 1000s of men on this site that would love to be in your situation. They would love to be getting messages for people asking for there help. Why do you not be proactive and message men or couples with what you would like " I do message people and have some luck as u can see....but that's all about my personality lol I'm really a nice lady lol | |||
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"All I asked was if you'd come round and put up some shelving. I dln't see the need to get arsey, I'd happily come round and do your ironing in return. Lol didn't mean to sound shitty but just waded through about 40 messages from couples and single guys with almost instructions of what they want me to do....no mention of what they would give in return....even had a whole scenario typed out by a couple who didn't once mention me getting anything....even ended with me getting dressed without cumming and leaving them both satisfied on the bed....ffs .... Well I am sure there are 1000s of men on this site that would love to be in your situation. They would love to be getting messages for people asking for there help. Why do you not be proactive and message men or couples with what you would like I do message people and have some luck as u can see....but that's all about my personality lol I'm really a nice lady lol " Well I suppose it makes a change from reading posts from blokes saying about them not getting replies to messages, not get any mets or wondering what they have done wrong in life.. | |||
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"All I asked was if you'd come round and put up some shelving. I dln't see the need to get arsey, I'd happily come round and do your ironing in return. Lol didn't mean to sound shitty but just waded through about 40 messages from couples and single guys with almost instructions of what they want me to do....no mention of what they would give in return....even had a whole scenario typed out by a couple who didn't once mention me getting anything....even ended with me getting dressed without cumming and leaving them both satisfied on the bed....ffs .... Well I am sure there are 1000s of men on this site that would love to be in your situation. They would love to be getting messages for people asking for there help. Why do you not be proactive and message men or couples with what you would like I do message people and have some luck as u can see....but that's all about my personality lol I'm really a nice lady lol Well I suppose it makes a change from reading posts from blokes saying about them not getting replies to messages, not get any mets or wondering what they have done wrong in life.. " I'm not complaining about the amount of messages I get...as a single bi fem I get more than enough...just a day where all the crap ones were together....I feel for single guys that don't get responses...I rreply to every message....just wish there was a "thanks but no thanks button"...save my typing it so often lol | |||
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"i dont think your doing that badly to be honest. your verifications are a very long list so it looks to me like your getting plenty of pleasure. but as your asking. what is it you want? My veris are great and most of em social...but I'm getting frustrated at the amount of profiles on here who give no thought to what they write....yes I've had good meets...just lately the messages are doing my head in... My profile is very clear what I'm looking for...and for those that don't read it...its called respect...lol " Actually, IMHO its not clear what you want other than 'fun, cum and a bit of spanking'. You brush aside everything else with the generic "Im up for pretty much anything else" turn-of-phrase. A inbox full of offers to "spank your ass and cover you in man-jam" seems to be pretty much what your profile ordered. Just my two cents. | |||
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"any chance of sucking my cock..oops..Hi I meant" Lol... | |||
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"i dont think your doing that badly to be honest. your verifications are a very long list so it looks to me like your getting plenty of pleasure. but as your asking. what is it you want? My veris are great and most of em social...but I'm getting frustrated at the amount of profiles on here who give no thought to what they write....yes I've had good meets...just lately the messages are doing my head in... My profile is very clear what I'm looking for...and for those that don't read it...its called respect...lol Actually, IMHO its not clear what you want other than 'fun, cum and a bit of spanking'. You brush aside everything else with the generic "Im up for pretty much anything else" turn-of-phrase. A inbox full of offers to "spank your ass and cover you in man-jam" seems to be pretty much what your profile ordered. Just my two cents. " Thanks for ur 2 cents.....can see the wording on my profile could be misinterpreted.....however if u read it I'm honest...unlike some on here...I'm not into logging on my profile a list of do's n dont's...that's what messages are for....respectful messages are always appreciated though...I shouldn't have to put that in writing.... | |||
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"A friend of mine commented the other night that the quality of meets has changed. He is part of an active couple on here so it's not just me as a single female who is disappointed/fed up. " Ditto. I tend to stick to clubs these days, or meet men I have met before and know well enough they won't just fuck n go. | |||
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"All I asked was if you'd come round and put up some shelving. I dln't see the need to get arsey, I'd happily come round and do your ironing in return. Lol didn't mean to sound shitty but just waded through about 40 messages from couples and single guys with almost instructions of what they want me to do....no mention of what they would give in return....even had a whole scenario typed out by a couple who didn't once mention me getting anything....even ended with me getting dressed without cumming and leaving them both satisfied on the bed....ffs .... Well I am sure there are 1000s of men on this site that would love to be in your situation. They would love to be getting messages for people asking for there help. Why do you not be proactive and message men or couples with what you would like " Help?! Service is what they want. A free escort service. You think a bloke would be happy to turn up, service ladies and couples then dress, leaving them satisfied, and leave without having cum? Yeah, right... | |||
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"wow to be honest babe i would greatfully meet up and just pleasure you.I would do anything you wanted and liked ,seriously sexy xxxxx" Thankyou x | |||
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"I agree diamonds hun...like I said met some belters and have some excellent friends as an outcome...was just one of those days I suppose.... " We all get those lol, think we should have a flag next to our username when we are having one lool | |||
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"wow to be honest babe i would greatfully meet up and just pleasure you.I would do anything you wanted and liked ,seriously sexy xxxxx Thankyou x" welcome babe or at least you would be lol xxx | |||
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"All I asked was if you'd come round and put up some shelving. I dln't see the need to get arsey, I'd happily come round and do your ironing in return. Lol didn't mean to sound shitty but just waded through about 40 messages from couples and single guys with almost instructions of what they want me to do....no mention of what they would give in return....even had a whole scenario typed out by a couple who didn't once mention me getting anything....even ended with me getting dressed without cumming and leaving them both satisfied on the bed....ffs .... Well I am sure there are 1000s of men on this site that would love to be in your situation. They would love to be getting messages for people asking for there help. Why do you not be proactive and message men or couples with what you would like Help?! Service is what they want. A free escort service. You think a bloke would be happy to turn up, service ladies and couples then dress, leaving them satisfied, and leave without having cum? Yeah, right..." Um - you'd be suprised actually!! I've done this a few times myself - and it hasn't impacted on my enjoyment of the meet at all!! Of course I've often gone back at a later date to finish what ive started..... | |||
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"I agree diamonds hun...like I said met some belters and have some excellent friends as an outcome...was just one of those days I suppose.... We all get those lol, think we should have a flag next to our username when we are having one lool" Again I agree....bright red....for danger lol | |||
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"wow to be honest babe i would greatfully meet up and just pleasure you.I would do anything you wanted and liked ,seriously sexy xxxxx Thankyou xwelcome babe or at least you would be lol xxx" | |||
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"A friend of mine commented the other night that the quality of meets has changed. He is part of an active couple on here so it's not just me as a single female who is disappointed/fed up. Ditto. I tend to stick to clubs these days, or meet men I have met before and know well enough they won't just fuck n go." i think most men are looking for same thing and thats for stability in thier relationships - sexual or not - and whilst there are some that will "fuck n go" please bare a thought for the genuine guys n couples who do thier best | |||
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"Everyone has good meets and bad meets, its all part of the game. If your having a string of bad meets, its so easy to blame anyone else and not your own selection process / criteria. ...and at the end of the day, nothing about the people on this site, their performance or how factually correct they represent themselves comes with a cast iron guarantee. Just because someone had a great verification from one person simply doesn't guarantee it with anyone else. " It wasn't about my meets just the messages from first contacts... | |||
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"i dont think your doing that badly to be honest. your verifications are a very long list so it looks to me like your getting plenty of pleasure. but as your asking. what is it you want? My veris are great and most of em social...but I'm getting frustrated at the amount of profiles on here who give no thought to what they write....yes I've had good meets...just lately the messages are doing my head in... My profile is very clear what I'm looking for...and for those that don't read it...its called respect...lol " I know exactly how you feel. My profile is very specific on requirements, but I get all sorts of freaks messaging me! Treat me like a piece of meat well I'm not having it anymore | |||
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"All I asked was if you'd come round and put up some shelving. I dln't see the need to get arsey, I'd happily come round and do your ironing in return. Lol didn't mean to sound shitty but just waded through about 40 messages from couples and single guys with almost instructions of what they want me to do....no mention of what they would give in return....even had a whole scenario typed out by a couple who didn't once mention me getting anything....even ended with me getting dressed without cumming and leaving them both satisfied on the bed....ffs .... Well I am sure there are 1000s of men on this site that would love to be in your situation. They would love to be getting messages for people asking for there help. Why do you not be proactive and message men or couples with what you would like Help?! Service is what they want. A free escort service. You think a bloke would be happy to turn up, service ladies and couples then dress, leaving them satisfied, and leave without having cum? Yeah, right... Um - you'd be suprised actually!! I've done this a few times myself - and it hasn't impacted on my enjoyment of the meet at all!! Of course I've often gone back at a later date to finish what ive started..... " I'll rephrase. Do you think a bloke would be happy to get lots of messages expecting that of him? Or would he feel like an interactive, performing dildo? | |||
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"With all the messages asking for me to do things to people....never any consideration to what I might like or what would be done in return....I'm a single fem not here for just your pleasure but funnily enough....my own pleasure too.... Anyone else get sick of this type of message? What's the worst you have received.?" Ahem... at the risk of being pinned to a wall and thrashed with a large branch of a tree..... may one suggest that, as your profile wording does go on somewhat about what YOU are looking for, the poor guys sending you messages are just trying to get a word in edgewise ... ? Should I be a single guy reading it, I would be full of trepidation trying to write a message that would get me noticed...... Just my impression.... for what it's worth.... I shall now put my tin helmet on and take cover... | |||
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"With all the messages asking for me to do things to people....never any consideration to what I might like or what would be done in return....I'm a single fem not here for just your pleasure but funnily enough....my own pleasure too.... Anyone else get sick of this type of message? What's the worst you have received.?" Because Im a Domme men are always saying what would you like to do to me REALLY Ps ME OFF Most of the time i get nothing from my subs hence cant be bothered with having any fun on here any more I like chatting to my friends on here and the chat going on Us Single Ladies dont really get much consideration. I would love my needs to be met but it aint gonna happen | |||
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"i dont think your doing that badly to be honest. your verifications are a very long list so it looks to me like your getting plenty of pleasure. but as your asking. what is it you want? My veris are great and most of em social...but I'm getting frustrated at the amount of profiles on here who give no thought to what they write....yes I've had good meets...just lately the messages are doing my head in... My profile is very clear what I'm looking for...and for those that don't read it...its called respect...lol I know exactly how you feel. My profile is very specific on requirements, but I get all sorts of freaks messaging me! Treat me like a piece of meat well I'm not having it anymore " Oi I have a pulse and I'm female so I fit ya profile. Whatcha moaning about? All I asked | |||
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"i dont think your doing that badly to be honest. your verifications are a very long list so it looks to me like your getting plenty of pleasure. but as your asking. what is it you want? My veris are great and most of em social...but I'm getting frustrated at the amount of profiles on here who give no thought to what they write....yes I've had good meets...just lately the messages are doing my head in... My profile is very clear what I'm looking for...and for those that don't read it...its called respect...lol I know exactly how you feel. My profile is very specific on requirements, but I get all sorts of freaks messaging me! Treat me like a piece of meat well I'm not having it anymore " Oi I have a pulse and I'm female so I fit ya profile. Whatcha moaning about? All I asked was would you put on a sexy uniform and gyrate a bit for me and 50 or so of my closest friends whilst we grope, whistle and catcall. Freak indeed! | |||
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"All I asked was if you'd come round and put up some shelving. I dln't see the need to get arsey, I'd happily come round and do your ironing in return. Lol didn't mean to sound shitty but just waded through about 40 messages from couples and single guys with almost instructions of what they want me to do....no mention of what they would give in return....even had a whole scenario typed out by a couple who didn't once mention me getting anything....even ended with me getting dressed without cumming and leaving them both satisfied on the bed....ffs .... Well I am sure there are 1000s of men on this site that would love to be in your situation. They would love to be getting messages for people asking for there help. Why do you not be proactive and message men or couples with what you would like " Spot on my message inbox is full of cobwebs ! | |||
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"With all the messages asking for me to do things to people....never any consideration to what I might like or what would be done in return....I'm a single fem not here for just your pleasure but funnily enough....my own pleasure too.... Anyone else get sick of this type of message? What's the worst you have received.? Because Im a Domme men are always saying what would you like to do to me" Well of course they are! It's the fundamental basis of the sub-dom relationship. The Dom is the outwardly dominant one, but the Sub always has the retaliation simmering away just under the surface - and when it comes to the written form of the relationship, the Sub's retaliatory side comes to the surface. If you are a Dom, then what you write should be all about what the sub will do - "YOU will do.... etc etc" and not "I want..." etc The only answer to "YOU will do..." from a Sub should be 'Yes Mistress', but "I want..." opens the door to all sorts of crap you may not be expecting.... | |||
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"i dont think your doing that badly to be honest. your verifications are a very long list so it looks to me like your getting plenty of pleasure. but as your asking. what is it you want? My veris are great and most of em social...but I'm getting frustrated at the amount of profiles on here who give no thought to what they write....yes I've had good meets...just lately the messages are doing my head in... My profile is very clear what I'm looking for...and for those that don't read it...its called respect...lol I know exactly how you feel. My profile is very specific on requirements, but I get all sorts of freaks messaging me! Treat me like a piece of meat well I'm not having it anymore Oi I have a pulse and I'm female so I fit ya profile. Whatcha moaning about? All I asked " You have conveniently left out the flesh coloured swimming hat and body stocking you wanted me to wear | |||
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"All I asked was if you'd come round and put up some shelving. I dln't see the need to get arsey, I'd happily come round and do your ironing in return. Lol didn't mean to sound shitty but just waded through about 40 messages from couples and single guys with almost instructions of what they want me to do....no mention of what they would give in return....even had a whole scenario typed out by a couple who didn't once mention me getting anything....even ended with me getting dressed without cumming and leaving them both satisfied on the bed....ffs ...." Be flattered as sooner or later when we all get old and wrinkly the messages will dwindle away | |||
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"i dont think your doing that badly to be honest. your verifications are a very long list so it looks to me like your getting plenty of pleasure. but as your asking. what is it you want? My veris are great and most of em social...but I'm getting frustrated at the amount of profiles on here who give no thought to what they write....yes I've had good meets...just lately the messages are doing my head in... My profile is very clear what I'm looking for...and for those that don't read it...its called respect...lol I know exactly how you feel. My profile is very specific on requirements, but I get all sorts of freaks messaging me! Treat me like a piece of meat well I'm not having it anymore Oi I have a pulse and I'm female so I fit ya profile. Whatcha moaning about? All I asked You have conveniently left out the flesh coloured swimming hat and body stocking you wanted me to wear" I didn't think them relevant details. | |||
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"Everyone has good meets and bad meets, its all part of the game. If your having a string of bad meets, its so easy to blame anyone else and not your own selection process / criteria. ...and at the end of the day, nothing about the people on this site, their performance or how factually correct they represent themselves comes with a cast iron guarantee. Just because someone had a great verification from one person simply doesn't guarantee it with anyone else. It wasn't about my meets just the messages from first contacts..." I know, my comment wasn't specfically in relation to your original post. Apologies if you through it was. | |||
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" I didn't think them relevant details. " See there is something going wrong here. Obi gets requested to go round peoples house to take pics of them. I get requested to dress up like a human dildo | |||
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" I didn't think them relevant details. See there is something going wrong here. Obi gets requested to go round peoples house to take pics of them. I get requested to dress up like a human dildo " How about you dress as a dildo AND take pictures? | |||
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"Everyone has good meets and bad meets, its all part of the game. If your having a string of bad meets, its so easy to blame anyone else and not your own selection process / criteria. ...and at the end of the day, nothing about the people on this site, their performance or how factually correct they represent themselves comes with a cast iron guarantee. Just because someone had a great verification from one person simply doesn't guarantee it with anyone else. It wasn't about my meets just the messages from first contacts... I know, my comment wasn't specfically in relation to your original post. Apologies if you through it was. " None necessary... | |||
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" I didn't think them relevant details. See there is something going wrong here. Obi gets requested to go round peoples house to take pics of them. I get requested to dress up like a human dildo How about you dress as a dildo AND take pictures?" Grrrr | |||
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"If a bloke had written this sort of post, just imagine the sort of backlash he would of got. Like the poster before me, I see you have a very very long verfication list so, not sure why you are worrying about the odd one or 2 bad ones ?" | |||
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"I HEAR Ya SISTA! LOUD AND CLEAR " Me too! It's odd how even though I have a specific request on my profile it gets conveniently forgotten when they get a taste of my oral skills... And I get a lot of "what would you think if I..." messages which are usually a cut and paste job and suggest the writer hasn't even looked to see if I enjoy the activities mentioned. And don't get me started on the "I will be your Mr Grey and I will..." messages! | |||
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