Join us FREE, we're FREE to use
Web's largest swingers site since 2006.
Already registered?
Login here
Join us FREE, we're FREE to use
Web's largest swingers site since 2006.
Already registered?
Login here
 | Back to forum list |
| Back to The Lounge |
| Jump to newest |  |
| |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"Having a label doesn’t change how you feel? Just be happy" It might change how people classify them as potential play partners. | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"Having a label doesn’t change how you feel? Just be happy It might change how people classify them as potential play partners." . Yip, but they wouldn’t be good partners then | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"Having a label doesn’t change how you feel? Just be happy" No definitely I totally get and we are. We want to know as we have seen a event at a club we would like to attend (hotwife night). Now would I (mr) get funny looks if I joined in. And does the man of a hotwife couple join in or just get satisfied by watching? | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"Having a label doesn’t change how you feel? Just be happy No definitely I totally get and we are. We want to know as we have seen a event at a club we would like to attend (hotwife night). Now would I (mr) get funny looks if I joined in. And does the man of a hotwife couple join in or just get satisfied by watching?" Surely that depends on how things are? Swinging doesn’t make anything easier. People either click or they don’t | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"Having a label doesn’t change how you feel? Just be happy It might change how people classify them as potential play partners.. Yip, but they wouldn’t be good partners then" I don’t understand your remark about good partners, I’m afraid. If I’m looking for a Hotwife where the husband watches only as opposed to one who joins in as a Stag/Vixen partner, I might pass them by depending on how they have classified themselves. I don’t know what the classifications are but if I were simply having a quick perusal, it may make a difference. | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"Having a label doesn’t change how you feel? Just be happy It might change how people classify them as potential play partners.. Yip, but they wouldn’t be good partners then I don’t understand your remark about good partners, I’m afraid. If I’m looking for a Hotwife where the husband watches only as opposed to one who joins in as a Stag/Vixen partner, I might pass them by depending on how they have classified themselves. I don’t know what the classifications are but if I were simply having a quick perusal, it may make a difference." Apologies just giving my opinion | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"Having a label doesn’t change how you feel? Just be happy It might change how people classify them as potential play partners.. Yip, but they wouldn’t be good partners then I don’t understand your remark about good partners, I’m afraid. If I’m looking for a Hotwife where the husband watches only as opposed to one who joins in as a Stag/Vixen partner, I might pass them by depending on how they have classified themselves. I don’t know what the classifications are but if I were simply having a quick perusal, it may make a difference." Would you say we are more stag and vixen as I like to join in? | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"Having a label doesn’t change how you feel? Just be happy It might change how people classify them as potential play partners.. Yip, but they wouldn’t be good partners then I don’t understand your remark about good partners, I’m afraid. If I’m looking for a Hotwife where the husband watches only as opposed to one who joins in as a Stag/Vixen partner, I might pass them by depending on how they have classified themselves. I don’t know what the classifications are but if I were simply having a quick perusal, it may make a difference. Would you say we are more stag and vixen as I like to join in?" I’m afraid I’m even more clueless than you about it, sorry. My opinion was in the reason why you’d want to be specific about how you classify yourself. | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"Having a label doesn’t change how you feel? Just be happy It might change how people classify them as potential play partners.. Yip, but they wouldn’t be good partners then I don’t understand your remark about good partners, I’m afraid. If I’m looking for a Hotwife where the husband watches only as opposed to one who joins in as a Stag/Vixen partner, I might pass them by depending on how they have classified themselves. I don’t know what the classifications are but if I were simply having a quick perusal, it may make a difference. Apologies just giving my opinion " No need to apologise. It’s simply a discussion about classification. I wasn’t sure what you meant by not being ‘good partners’. | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"Having a label doesn’t change how you feel? Just be happy It might change how people classify them as potential play partners.. Yip, but they wouldn’t be good partners then I don’t understand your remark about good partners, I’m afraid. If I’m looking for a Hotwife where the husband watches only as opposed to one who joins in as a Stag/Vixen partner, I might pass them by depending on how they have classified themselves. I don’t know what the classifications are but if I were simply having a quick perusal, it may make a difference. Would you say we are more stag and vixen as I like to join in? I’m afraid I’m even more clueless than you about it, sorry. My opinion was in the reason why you’d want to be specific about how you classify yourself." It’s about that club event and made us think lol | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"Having a label doesn’t change how you feel? Just be happy It might change how people classify them as potential play partners.. Yip, but they wouldn’t be good partners then I don’t understand your remark about good partners, I’m afraid. If I’m looking for a Hotwife where the husband watches only as opposed to one who joins in as a Stag/Vixen partner, I might pass them by depending on how they have classified themselves. I don’t know what the classifications are but if I were simply having a quick perusal, it may make a difference. Apologies just giving my opinion No need to apologise. It’s simply a discussion about classification. I wasn’t sure what you meant by not being ‘good partners’." . That was to nip drama in the bud. I don’t know anyone on here, but have a tendency to voice my opinion. Not to say my opinion is right | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"Having a label doesn’t change how you feel? Just be happy It might change how people classify them as potential play partners.. Yip, but they wouldn’t be good partners then I don’t understand your remark about good partners, I’m afraid. If I’m looking for a Hotwife where the husband watches only as opposed to one who joins in as a Stag/Vixen partner, I might pass them by depending on how they have classified themselves. I don’t know what the classifications are but if I were simply having a quick perusal, it may make a difference. Would you say we are more stag and vixen as I like to join in? I’m afraid I’m even more clueless than you about it, sorry. My opinion was in the reason why you’d want to be specific about how you classify yourself. It’s about that club event and made us think lol" I understand that and why you’d want to classify yourself more accurately. Unfortunately, I am of no help there.  | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"That was to nip drama in the bud. I don’t know anyone on here, but have a tendency to voice my opinion. Not to say my opinion is right" Nothing wrong with that. It’s an opinion and that’s what discussion is. | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"That was to nip drama in the bud. I don’t know anyone on here, but have a tendency to voice my opinion. Not to say my opinion is right Nothing wrong with that. It’s an opinion and that’s what discussion is." Compromise is just as important, especially if people don’t like our opinion | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"I don’t think labels are that important as long as you both enjoy?" I think the label has some effect. I don’t know what the difference is between the examples given in the OP but say if a couple labelled themselves as Soft Swing and I were looking for a full swop, I would pass that profile by because they wouldn’t be interested in what I’m looking for. | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"Ok let’s change the question Does the man of a hotwife cpl join in or just watch? Come on some help lol" . He joins in usually if I’m with someone’s wife but not with me | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"I always join in Unless she’s having a solo car meet!" And what would you be known as hotwife or stag vixen? | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"That was to nip drama in the bud. I don’t know anyone on here, but have a tendency to voice my opinion. Not to say my opinion is right Nothing wrong with that. It’s an opinion and that’s what discussion is. Compromise is just as important, especially if people don’t like our opinion " You compromised before there was even a discussion. If your opinion raises questions on what you mean by it, surely you ought to explain rather than simply saying it’s an opinion and you don’t need to understand it. | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"That was to nip drama in the bud. I don’t know anyone on here, but have a tendency to voice my opinion. Not to say my opinion is right Nothing wrong with that. It’s an opinion and that’s what discussion is. Compromise is just as important, especially if people don’t like our opinion You compromised before there was even a discussion. If your opinion raises questions on what you mean by it, surely you ought to explain rather than simply saying it’s an opinion and you don’t need to understand it." Lol exactly my point it’s not compromising so much as saying okay dokey. | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"We are probably the people that hate putting labels on something the most. But as I have explained it matters at this moment " I think you’d get help with this from experienced people during the day. At this time of night, we’re simply amateur lurkers. | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"That was to nip drama in the bud. I don’t know anyone on here, but have a tendency to voice my opinion. Not to say my opinion is right Nothing wrong with that. It’s an opinion and that’s what discussion is. Compromise is just as important, especially if people don’t like our opinion You compromised before there was even a discussion. If your opinion raises questions on what you mean by it, surely you ought to explain rather than simply saying it’s an opinion and you don’t need to understand it. Lol exactly my point it’s not compromising so much as saying okay dokey. " Then, in my opinion, that’s as good as not expressing one. | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"We are probably the people that hate putting labels on something the most. But as I have explained it matters at this moment I think you’d get help with this from experienced people during the day. At this time of night, we’re simply amateur lurkers. "I wouldn’t say that. I have had better conversations this time of night. Might be as I’m tired lol | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"That was to nip drama in the bud. I don’t know anyone on here, but have a tendency to voice my opinion. Not to say my opinion is right Nothing wrong with that. It’s an opinion and that’s what discussion is. Compromise is just as important, especially if people don’t like our opinion You compromised before there was even a discussion. If your opinion raises questions on what you mean by it, surely you ought to explain rather than simply saying it’s an opinion and you don’t need to understand it. Lol exactly my point it’s not compromising so much as saying okay dokey. Then, in my opinion, that’s as good as not expressing one." I express my opinion then if it’s not to peoples liking I hypothetically say okay doke as it’s not important | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"We are probably the people that hate putting labels on something the most. But as I have explained it matters at this moment I think you’d get help with this from experienced people during the day. At this time of night, we’re simply amateur lurkers.
I wouldn’t say that. I have had better conversations this time of night. Might be as I’m tired lol "I think the interaction is more direct at this time of night because it’s a little fast and can be overwhelming during the day. Like a pub during peak hour. | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"That was to nip drama in the bud. I don’t know anyone on here, but have a tendency to voice my opinion. Not to say my opinion is right Nothing wrong with that. It’s an opinion and that’s what discussion is. Compromise is just as important, especially if people don’t like our opinion You compromised before there was even a discussion. If your opinion raises questions on what you mean by it, surely you ought to explain rather than simply saying it’s an opinion and you don’t need to understand it. Lol exactly my point it’s not compromising so much as saying okay dokey. Then, in my opinion, that’s as good as not expressing one. I express my opinion then if it’s not to peoples liking I hypothetically say okay doke as it’s not important " It’s not about whether it’s to anyone’s liking. It’s simply asking what you meant because it was rather ambiguous and vague. It was asking for an explanation. There was no mention of what the opinion was on your opinion. | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"That was to nip drama in the bud. I don’t know anyone on here, but have a tendency to voice my opinion. Not to say my opinion is right Nothing wrong with that. It’s an opinion and that’s what discussion is. Compromise is just as important, especially if people don’t like our opinion You compromised before there was even a discussion. If your opinion raises questions on what you mean by it, surely you ought to explain rather than simply saying it’s an opinion and you don’t need to understand it. Lol exactly my point it’s not compromising so much as saying okay dokey. Then, in my opinion, that’s as good as not expressing one. I express my opinion then if it’s not to peoples liking I hypothetically say okay doke as it’s not important It’s not about whether it’s to anyone’s liking. It’s simply asking what you meant because it was rather ambiguous and vague. It was asking for an explanation. There was no mention of what the opinion was on your opinion." I can’t remember now, the fun has been taken out of my opinion  | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"Guessing there is no definite answer then " Yip, that’s my findings also | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"Having a label doesn’t change how you feel? Just be happy It might change how people classify them as potential play partners.. Yip, but they wouldn’t be good partners then I don’t understand your remark about good partners, I’m afraid. If I’m looking for a Hotwife where the husband watches only as opposed to one who joins in as a Stag/Vixen partner, I might pass them by depending on how they have classified themselves. I don’t know what the classifications are but if I were simply having a quick perusal, it may make a difference." Your after a hot wife / cuck. Or hotwife / Alpha cuck. The first, the cuck is either not there or present and wants some type of humiltaion joins at the request of hotwife or just watches. Second, Alpha cuck is present, dosnt join, no humiltion. It's really down to the couple, you need to talk each couple. What one couple dose, another maynot. We're a stag and Vixen. I will not play alone, he watches and joins no humiliation. | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
"Hiya, yes you would be classed as stag and vixen, but if you decide to go out but not be involved if that’s something you do the you would be hot wife, different sides of the same coin xxx " I think I have finally got answers lol So if I join in we are stag and vixen? | |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| |||
| Reply privately | Reply in forum | Reply +quote |
| Post new Message to Thread |
| back to top |  |
